Bigdragonlittlepuff
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Scorpio Ex
You still love her? So she knows...
And btw respect readers eyes by making these walls of text easier to read...for future. Thanks
And btw respect readers eyes by making these walls of text easier to read...for future. Thanks
You need to turn away and walk away. Even if you still have feelings for her.
Aries and Scorpio women in a relationship can either bring out the best or the worst in each other. I've experienced both (I'm an Aries woman).
Switch jobs if you have to.
But please, please let it go and cut her off completely.
Aries and Scorpio women in a relationship can either bring out the best or the worst in each other. I've experienced both (I'm an Aries woman).
Switch jobs if you have to.
But please, please let it go and cut her off completely.
She, or both of you either had narcissistic traits, or you had heavy plutonic relationship, or even both. Two things.
It's very difficult to identify which one is the case. You can check the past relationship of both of you if any abusive relationship in the past is a signature of particular pattern a narcissist has. If none of this, you had probably heavy plutonic relationship, same story however
If you break the relationship you might never get over the issues of yours and your partner on hers. You had to do this and going through because the advantage how you come out at the end is huge. Even if doesn't looks like. Both of yours ego need to break down to pieces in order to be able to transform and realise you are out of comfort zone and neither of you can't control anything. It's not love, it's about obsession,needs
OP, what is your moon sign and house?
I am an Aries with a moon in Libra
Posted by Ram416
OP, what is your moon sign and house?
The relationship has BEEN over... I'm asking why she is doing this. She has came in non stop.. today, twice. Once alone. Once with her girlfriend.
Posted by Sheever
She, or both of you either had narcissistic traits, or you had heavy plutonic relationship, or even both. Two things.
It's very difficult to identify which one is the case. You can check the past relationship of both of you if any abusive relationship in the past is a signature of particular pattern a narcissist has. If none of this, you had probably heavy plutonic relationship, same story however
If you break the relationship you might never get over the issues of yours and your partner on hers. You had to do this and going through because the advantage how you come out at the end is huge. Even if doesn't looks like. Both of yours ego need to break down to pieces in order to be able to transform and realise you are out of comfort zone and neither of you can't control anything. It's not love, it's about obsession,needs
I'm done, I just want to know why she is doing this and how I can make it stop.. it has not
Posted by Ram416
You need to turn away and walk away. Even if you still have feelings for her.
Aries and Scorpio women in a relationship can either bring out the best or the worst in each other. I've experienced both (I'm an Aries woman).
Switch jobs if you have to.
But please, please let it go and cut her off completely.
I have feelings still, of course I do. But I do not want to be with her. I want her to leave me alone. She will n ot stop coming in.. today with her girlfriend as well.. twice. At what end? It's been almost a year!
Posted by XxloYou can't control what she does. It doesn't really matter why she's coming in. You should take rams advice. Let it go.
I'm done, I just want to know why she is doing this and how I can make it stop.. it has notPosted by Ram416
You need to turn away and walk away. Even if you still have feelings for her.
Aries and Scorpio women in a relationship can either bring out the best or the worst in each other. I've experienced both (I'm an Aries woman).
Switch jobs if you have to.
But please, please let it go and cut her off completely.click to expand
Posted by XxloHoovering. See the videos.
I'm done, I just want to know why she is doing this and how I can make it stop.. it has notPosted by Ram416
You need to turn away and walk away. Even if you still have feelings for her.
Aries and Scorpio women in a relationship can either bring out the best or the worst in each other. I've experienced both (I'm an Aries woman).
Switch jobs if you have to.
But please, please let it go and cut her off completely.click to expand
My relationship had similar effects like yours from my partner side earlier on... controlling, manipulation, etc so I know what you been in. Very tough situation, but again you change for a better at the end if you able to see your own faults, and modify your thinking and ego as not taking responsibility for something you haven't done or you aren't. Also, not just focus on what the other does wrong but if you driven by your need and get offended not having something regardless if it's not given by purpose or by control over you. Anyway, she taking a piss on you now seems, basically keep doing the hurt. Things remain intense.. love or hate no matter, you can't break it. Problem is if you can't remove yourself from the situation completely you get the same abuse emotionally and it means it's still ongoing, nothing closed. Even if you think you did. The fact that to you make this question here shows your interest what's going on and it's not even matters why. You just do. Expectations is a bitch....
Well, according to her she isn't doing anything. Just being a paying customer...And doesn't understand why it's a problem. I understand that part but Wawa is next door, you've come in every day since you seen me and now you're bringing people with you? I'm not sure they would pay me any mind because I cannot prove she is causing trouble.. only discomfort.
Posted by SuninLibra
Can't you get a restraining order?
Posted by XxloThat's how it works. No proof, and you re the crazy at the end. If you make into a conflict over her hoovering, you ll be the abuser. If you take it to your heart you can have serious mental side effects so cut yourself out from the situation completely, if you can't change job you have no choice but gain the strength to how to ignore people completely whom toxic for you.
Well, according to her she isn't doing anything. Just being a paying customer...And doesn't understand why it's a problem. I understand that part but Wawa is next door, you've come in every day since you seen me and now you're bringing people with you? I'm not sure they would pay me any mind because I cannot prove she is causing trouble.. only discomfort.Posted by SuninLibra
Can't you get a restraining order?click to expand
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Mind games STILL. yuck..the worst. Ignore til she goes away for good.
She’s messing with u on purpose.. very spiteful .. do the best u can to ignore her even though I know it has to be hard with her at your job practically in your face.. she will probably keep doing it for a certain amount of time too.. self control is key .. good luck Aries lady
Ugh Aries and Scorpio together
Quincunx hell
👎
Quincunx hell
👎
Posted by MyStarsShineIt depends of their maturity, if they not focus on taking everything personally and to keep it offensive way constantly, there is a lot of teaching lesson for one another, just as individually also as a couple.
Ugh Aries and Scorpio together
Quincunx hell
👎
Posted by SheeverYes I agreePosted by MyStarsShineIt depends of their maturity, if they not focus on taking everything personally and to keep it offensive way constantly, there is a lot of teaching lesson for one another, just as individually also as a couple.
Ugh Aries and Scorpio together
Quincunx hell
👎
click to expand
The one I was with was somewhat immature, although in general Aries men do seem to take a long time to grow up
Posted by MyStarsShineNot sure,Posted by SheeverYes I agreePosted by MyStarsShineIt depends of their maturity, if they not focus on taking everything personally and to keep it offensive way constantly, there is a lot of teaching lesson for one another, just as individually also as a couple.
Ugh Aries and Scorpio together
Quincunx hell
👎
The one I was with was somewhat immature, although in general Aries men do seem to take a long time to grow upclick to expand
Not trying to generalise here but can't put another way:
You guys have a problem how to get a message of yours through, diplomatic skill etc. Also prone to manipulation, jealousy and controlling, mind games. These are come by purpose which is much more moral issues, also lack of respect of others boundaries. So no surprise If someone try to control and manipulate a fire sign will rebell or slash out. Especially because aries can see through bullshit and can't understand how stupid someone can be to even try to pull it off. True story 🙂
Not saying the scorpio wasn't right or maybe is, but it's mostly about intelligent communication and respect, which makes the situation manageable not turning to a blood pool
Respect differences and differences of opinions
Understanding
Posted by SheeverYes I see that.....the shadow side of ScorpioPosted by MyStarsShineNot sure,Posted by SheeverYes I agreePosted by MyStarsShineIt depends of their maturity, if they not focus on taking everything personally and to keep it offensive way constantly, there is a lot of teaching lesson for one another, just as individually also as a couple.
Ugh Aries and Scorpio together
Quincunx hell
👎
The one I was with was somewhat immature, although in general Aries men do seem to take a long time to grow up
Not trying to generalise here but can't put another way:
You guys have a problem how to get a message of yours through, diplomatic skill etc. Also prone to manipulation, jealousy and controlling, mind games. These are come by purpose which is much more moral issues, also lack of respect of others boundaries. So no surprise If someone try to control and manipulate a fire sign will rebell or slash out. Especially because aries can see through bullshit and can't understand how stupid someone can be to even try to pull it off. True story 🙂
Not saying the scorpio wasn't right or maybe is, but it's mostly about intelligent communication and respect, which makes the situation manageable not turning to a blood poolclick to expand
It seems Aries men can bring that out in us though, so best to stay away from each other
The Inconjunct is about not getting each other and who wants to be in a relationship with that energy
Scorpio, for all their faults does seem aware of their shortcomings, not so sure Aries do that ?
Either way......not a good match
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SheeverYes I see that.....the shadow side of ScorpioPosted by MyStarsShineNot sure,Posted by SheeverYes I agreePosted by MyStarsShineIt depends of their maturity, if they not focus on taking everything personally and to keep it offensive way constantly, there is a lot of teaching lesson for one another, just as individually also as a couple.
Ugh Aries and Scorpio together
Quincunx hell
👎
The one I was with was somewhat immature, although in general Aries men do seem to take a long time to grow up
Not trying to generalise here but can't put another way:
You guys have a problem how to get a message of yours through, diplomatic skill etc. Also prone to manipulation, jealousy and controlling, mind games. These are come by purpose which is much more moral issues, also lack of respect of others boundaries. So no surprise If someone try to control and manipulate a fire sign will rebell or slash out. Especially because aries can see through bullshit and can't understand how stupid someone can be to even try to pull it off. True story 🙂
Not saying the scorpio wasn't right or maybe is, but it's mostly about intelligent communication and respect, which makes the situation manageable not turning to a blood pool
It seems Aries men can bring that out in us though, so best to stay away from each other
The Inconjunct is about not getting each other and who wants to be in a relationship with that energy
Scorpio, for all their faults does seem aware of their shortcomings, not so sure Aries do that ?
Either way......not a good matchclick to expand
The beautiful thing in there is if they bond is strong enough, not to give up. That's when interesting things happen with both. They can recognise each other strengths and learn from it, develop mutual respect and acceptance of different approaches in areas in life.
Posted by SheeverAww that is sweet.....are you with a stinger ? 🙂Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SheeverYes I see that.....the shadow side of ScorpioPosted by MyStarsShineNot sure,Posted by SheeverYes I agreePosted by MyStarsShineIt depends of their maturity, if they not focus on taking everything personally and to keep it offensive way constantly, there is a lot of teaching lesson for one another, just as individually also as a couple.
Ugh Aries and Scorpio together
Quincunx hell
👎
The one I was with was somewhat immature, although in general Aries men do seem to take a long time to grow up
Not trying to generalise here but can't put another way:
You guys have a problem how to get a message of yours through, diplomatic skill etc. Also prone to manipulation, jealousy and controlling, mind games. These are come by purpose which is much more moral issues, also lack of respect of others boundaries. So no surprise If someone try to control and manipulate a fire sign will rebell or slash out. Especially because aries can see through bullshit and can't understand how stupid someone can be to even try to pull it off. True story 🙂
Not saying the scorpio wasn't right or maybe is, but it's mostly about intelligent communication and respect, which makes the situation manageable not turning to a blood pool
It seems Aries men can bring that out in us though, so best to stay away from each other
The Inconjunct is about not getting each other and who wants to be in a relationship with that energy
Scorpio, for all their faults does seem aware of their shortcomings, not so sure Aries do that ?
Either way......not a good match
The beautiful thing in there is if they bond is strong enough, not to give up. That's when interesting things happen with both. They can recognise each other strengths and learn from it, develop mutual respect and acceptance of different approaches in areas in life.
click to expand
Aries with pisces involvement can take down the scorpio mentally, especially when the scorpio would move in the background to gain strength or looking for quiet, the aries will not give a breath of air and will continously attack to point out the nonsense for the scorpio and treat with its own dose of medicine.
The problem is when the couples ego greater than remembering whom are thry for each other and the defense of the ego higher priority than protecting the relationship.
The problem is when the couples ego greater than remembering whom are thry for each other and the defense of the ego higher priority than protecting the relationship.
Posted by MyStarsShineShe have capricorn sun, scorpio moon in 8th housePosted by SheeverAww that is sweet.....are you with a stinger ? 🙂Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SheeverYes I see that.....the shadow side of ScorpioPosted by MyStarsShineNot sure,Posted by SheeverYes I agreePosted by MyStarsShineIt depends of their maturity, if they not focus on taking everything personally and to keep it offensive way constantly, there is a lot of teaching lesson for one another, just as individually also as a couple.
Ugh Aries and Scorpio together
Quincunx hell
👎
The one I was with was somewhat immature, although in general Aries men do seem to take a long time to grow up
Not trying to generalise here but can't put another way:
You guys have a problem how to get a message of yours through, diplomatic skill etc. Also prone to manipulation, jealousy and controlling, mind games. These are come by purpose which is much more moral issues, also lack of respect of others boundaries. So no surprise If someone try to control and manipulate a fire sign will rebell or slash out. Especially because aries can see through bullshit and can't understand how stupid someone can be to even try to pull it off. True story 🙂
Not saying the scorpio wasn't right or maybe is, but it's mostly about intelligent communication and respect, which makes the situation manageable not turning to a blood pool
It seems Aries men can bring that out in us though, so best to stay away from each other
The Inconjunct is about not getting each other and who wants to be in a relationship with that energy
Scorpio, for all their faults does seem aware of their shortcomings, not so sure Aries do that ?
Either way......not a good match
The beautiful thing in there is if they bond is strong enough, not to give up. That's when interesting things happen with both. They can recognise each other strengths and learn from it, develop mutual respect and acceptance of different approaches in areas in life.
click to expand
She does, but I no longer look at it like that. Understanding the chemical processes in behaviour helps not to drain in ego battles. Especially when you put the action behind your words, not much surface to catch really. Scorpio no matter how strong need also sone can put them in their place, even you do it the most harmless way as possible.
She taught me more just by being together in one year time, than everyone else before her. Of course if you willing to work things out.
I took many things to my heart because of my protective nature. However it draines you yo be sharp on bullshit especially you try to shut it
out from your life. So you just become selective between behaviour, and not playing their game. Scorpio is actually quite easy to disarm, you just need to be real and back up your shit. If you can't, well you suck definitely, but the point is to anything they come up with nicely can be turned back with reverse psychology like a child to notice before they point a finger with confidence, look first within how they pull it off or did at all.
You got few sting then always anyway🙂 never need to ask for, they are just like that. Other subjects, changing topic quickly as they realise it didn't work, but you know they plan B its not even worth to discuss, so an- I love you too- respond on their sting does the job 🙂
Posted by Xxlo
I am an Aries and my ex is a scorpio.. there is a very long story behind our relationship so I'll be brief. Our relationship was very toxic, alot of pushing, pulling, breaking and making up. We are both women. On her part there was alot of victim playing, manipulation and narcissism. On my end there was verbal abuse, erratic and impulsive behavior.. not only because I had a drinking problem but just because my nature is hot headed. I did alot of messed up things to her.. but not unwarranted. Her abuse was mental (alot of mind games, gas lighting and projecting). Leaving me stranded or upset and coming back whenever she was ready on her terms. When we finally ended things (with a bang of course) things got really bad, but of course she ran back to her family and pulled the victim card. She could/can do no wrong. I know that I was very wrong throught the relationship, I should not have allowed someone to control my emotions or sanity like that and reacted the way I did. I am very sorry. She has made it clear that she hates me. Whats funny is she never once showed me that she truly loved me. The entire relationship was a power struggle. I was very young, she is about 6 years older. She got her way in the end. Won the war, that is for certain. I left bruises on her the last night we were together and she went and got a protective order after I told her if she didn't bring me my brand new phone back I would start selling things out of the house. Since then, we have said very little. I apologized, wished her the best and turned my life around. I am sober now, rebuilt my life and moved on. It has been about ten months since the final fight. I have to live with what happened.. the guilt. She on the other hand, will never fess up to anything on her part. It's a big treetr*nk you parade as always. Her b estfriend watches my Instagram story religiously, so I know that she has to know some things about my new life. Two nights ago on Christmas I turned around in line at my job (which I just got promoted at) and standing in line trying her damnest to not make eye contact with me. I see her and walk away.. even go out back to smoke. Soon enough she comes roaring through the parking lot out the entrance. Last night she came in again. I sent someone else to ring her up. I removed myself from the situation. As you can imagine, the encounters brought up alot of old emotions and grief I have only tried to move away from. I logged into my old Facebook to message her because she has me blocked on my new one. I told her I didn't understand why she was coming in there, if she needed to reach me to message me through facebook, and not come in my job. I kindly asked her not to and wished her the best. She then responds that she didn't want me to message her, if she had something to say she would have said it in there. She comes in there all the time (lie) and she's just a paying customer. That if I have such an important position at my job I need to focus on that and not where she spends her money. Asked me not to message her again and sent some other emojis and smart was comments. Just all together nasty. I get my job is a public place but there's a wawa next door and she came in two nights in a row. I messaged her once more saying please stay out of my job, that I don't come in here. J was very nice. She then responds see you tomorrow with more happy emojis and blocked me again. I just want to move on with my life. She had a new car how bad could her life be? Why has she waited so long to start being petty.. why is she still stewing.. What can I do to make it stop. I still love her, all though I can't be with her. We both burnt bridges. She has up until a year to press charges on me for the bruises and I'm on probation. I am scared. I want to ban her from the store but I don't want her to retaliate and mess up my life even more. Advice—
I don't go in her job.. I was not rude. I have not bothered her. I heard she has moved on .. more messy relationships. She always seemed calculated but her head is on her shoulders. I don't understand why she is doing this to me still.. why can't I just move on. It's been almost a year! How sorry can I be—?!!!
If you hate someone or are so "scared" of them.. You don't come in to their job TWICE!!! Back to back. I wish she would call down. It hurts.. knowing she never really gave a butter. All that "understanding" she did about my issues.. She knew I had them.. even enabled me. I'm not that person anymore. I don't get it
What's funny is this post .... You know I can always spot who is actually playing the victim .... It's usually the one blaming the other.... You don't get it... Because you are blaming ..... So who is really playing the victim here ... And you reached out after you were blocked ... How is she playing the victim .... Define victim please .... Folks and their stories .... Here is some advice own your mistakes in the situation ... Learn from them and move on... If it was toxic why are you reaching out.... Let me guess you need closure... 😏 .... Which I do believe is a form of obsessiveness on your part .... There are 3 sides to every story.... I ain't buying what you selling at all....
Posted by SheeverSo she's a Capricorn, not a ScorpioPosted by MyStarsShineShe have capricorn sun, scorpio moon in 8th housePosted by SheeverAww that is sweet.....are you with a stinger ? 🙂Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SheeverYes I see that.....the shadow side of ScorpioPosted by MyStarsShineNot sure,Posted by SheeverYes I agreePosted by MyStarsShineIt depends of their maturity, if they not focus on taking everything personally and to keep it offensive way constantly, there is a lot of teaching lesson for one another, just as individually also as a couple.
Ugh Aries and Scorpio together
Quincunx hell
👎
The one I was with was somewhat immature, although in general Aries men do seem to take a long time to grow up
Not trying to generalise here but can't put another way:
You guys have a problem how to get a message of yours through, diplomatic skill etc. Also prone to manipulation, jealousy and controlling, mind games. These are come by purpose which is much more moral issues, also lack of respect of others boundaries. So no surprise If someone try to control and manipulate a fire sign will rebell or slash out. Especially because aries can see through bullshit and can't understand how stupid someone can be to even try to pull it off. True story 🙂
Not saying the scorpio wasn't right or maybe is, but it's mostly about intelligent communication and respect, which makes the situation manageable not turning to a blood pool
It seems Aries men can bring that out in us though, so best to stay away from each other
The Inconjunct is about not getting each other and who wants to be in a relationship with that energy
Scorpio, for all their faults does seem aware of their shortcomings, not so sure Aries do that ?
Either way......not a good match
The beautiful thing in there is if they bond is strong enough, not to give up. That's when interesting things happen with both. They can recognise each other strengths and learn from it, develop mutual respect and acceptance of different approaches in areas in life.
She does, but I no longer look at it like that. Understanding the chemical processes in behaviour helps not to drain in ego battles. Especially when you put the action behind your words, not much surface to catch really. Scorpio no matter how strong need also sone can put them in their place, even you do it the most harmless way as possible.
She taught me more just by being together in one year time, than everyone else before her. Of course if you willing to work things out.
I took many things to my heart because of my protective nature. However it draines you yo be sharp on bullshit especially you try to shut out of your life. So you just become selective between behaviour, and not playing their game. Scorpio is actually quite easy to disarm, you just need to be real and back up your shit. If you can't, well you suck definitely, but the point is to anything they come up with nicely can be turned back with reverse psychology like a child to notice before they point a finger with confidence, look first within how they pull it off or did at all.
You got few sting then always anyway🙂 never need to ask for, they are just like that. Other subjects, changing topic quickly as they realise it didn't work, but you know they plan B its not even worth to discuss, so an- I love you too- respond on their sting does the job 🙂click to expand
I am not easily disarmed at all, neither is our Scorpio son, aged 19......quite the opposite lol
They also love the silent treatment to ensure how much they wanted,also you to make sure you know you fucked up something... it's usually annoying for the aries in the beggining as they like everything goes clean and honest. Later on, take no attention, however scorpio can keep that for ages no problem. They very silly in the sense to realise communication lead to resolution, so all the time they spend on silent treatment is a complete waste from their life.
Aries realise the total nonsense keep on going, and after while just confront the scorpio in order to finish the fashion show or just to help the situation by giving the scorpio the chance to looking for sting. A bit harsh treatment works well especially pointing out the childish behaviour also make the scorpio aware of that, they try the emotional blackmail card and we clearly aware of the nasty intentions towards their loved ones. An advice to going out, usually perfect for them to pull out from their nonsense and have some fun in life not just suffer around in their own boiling soup.
Aries realise the total nonsense keep on going, and after while just confront the scorpio in order to finish the fashion show or just to help the situation by giving the scorpio the chance to looking for sting. A bit harsh treatment works well especially pointing out the childish behaviour also make the scorpio aware of that, they try the emotional blackmail card and we clearly aware of the nasty intentions towards their loved ones. An advice to going out, usually perfect for them to pull out from their nonsense and have some fun in life not just suffer around in their own boiling soup.
Posted by MyStarsShineScorpio sun is easier combo in my opinion. They dynamic is different. Anyway, I am sure you re not bored especially speaking of teenager with same placement, wish all the patience 🙂Posted by SheeverSo she's a Capricorn, not a ScorpioPosted by MyStarsShineShe have capricorn sun, scorpio moon in 8th housePosted by SheeverAww that is sweet.....are you with a stinger ? 🙂Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SheeverYes I see that.....the shadow side of ScorpioPosted by MyStarsShineNot sure,Posted by SheeverYes I agreePosted by MyStarsShineIt depends of their maturity, if they not focus on taking everything personally and to keep it offensive way constantly, there is a lot of teaching lesson for one another, just as individually also as a couple.
Ugh Aries and Scorpio together
Quincunx hell
👎
The one I was with was somewhat immature, although in general Aries men do seem to take a long time to grow up
Not trying to generalise here but can't put another way:
You guys have a problem how to get a message of yours through, diplomatic skill etc. Also prone to manipulation, jealousy and controlling, mind games. These are come by purpose which is much more moral issues, also lack of respect of others boundaries. So no surprise If someone try to control and manipulate a fire sign will rebell or slash out. Especially because aries can see through bullshit and can't understand how stupid someone can be to even try to pull it off. True story 🙂
Not saying the scorpio wasn't right or maybe is, but it's mostly about intelligent communication and respect, which makes the situation manageable not turning to a blood pool
It seems Aries men can bring that out in us though, so best to stay away from each other
The Inconjunct is about not getting each other and who wants to be in a relationship with that energy
Scorpio, for all their faults does seem aware of their shortcomings, not so sure Aries do that ?
Either way......not a good match
The beautiful thing in there is if they bond is strong enough, not to give up. That's when interesting things happen with both. They can recognise each other strengths and learn from it, develop mutual respect and acceptance of different approaches in areas in life.
She does, but I no longer look at it like that. Understanding the chemical processes in behaviour helps not to drain in ego battles. Especially when you put the action behind your words, not much surface to catch really. Scorpio no matter how strong need also sone can put them in their place, even you do it the most harmless way as possible.
She taught me more just by being together in one year time, than everyone else before her. Of course if you willing to work things out.
I took many things to my heart because of my protective nature. However it draines you yo be sharp on bullshit especially you try to shut out of your life. So you just become selective between behaviour, and not playing their game. Scorpio is actually quite easy to disarm, you just need to be real and back up your shit. If you can't, well you suck definitely, but the point is to anything they come up with nicely can be turned back with reverse psychology like a child to notice before they point a finger with confidence, look first within how they pull it off or did at all.
You got few sting then always anyway🙂 never need to ask for, they are just like that. Other subjects, changing topic quickly as they realise it didn't work, but you know they plan B its not even worth to discuss, so an- I love you too- respond on their sting does the job 🙂
I am not easily disarmed at all, neither is our Scorpio son, aged 19......quite the opposite lolclick to expand
Posted by BottabingYes, especially when one can't realise their own obsession. It's difficult though. In the same time partner being toxic can not be discarded anyhow. I think the question always that, if it's worth or not to stay.Posted by Xxlo
I am an Aries and my ex is a scorpio.. there is a very long story behind our relationship so I'll be brief. Our relationship was very toxic, alot of pushing, pulling, breaking and making up. We are both women. On her part there was alot of victim playing, manipulation and narcissism. On my end there was verbal abuse, erratic and impulsive behavior.. not only because I had a drinking problem but just because my nature is hot headed. I did alot of messed up things to her.. but not unwarranted. Her abuse was mental (alot of mind games, gas lighting and projecting). Leaving me stranded or upset and coming back whenever she was ready on her terms. When we finally ended things (with a bang of course) things got really bad, but of course she ran back to her family and pulled the victim card. She could/can do no wrong. I know that I was very wrong throught the relationship, I should not have allowed someone to control my emotions or sanity like that and reacted the way I did. I am very sorry. She has made it clear that she hates me. Whats funny is she never once showed me that she truly loved me. The entire relationship was a power struggle. I was very young, she is about 6 years older. She got her way in the end. Won the war, that is for certain. I left bruises on her the last night we were together and she went and got a protective order after I told her if she didn't bring me my brand new phone back I would start selling things out of the house. Since then, we have said very little. I apologized, wished her the best and turned my life around. I am sober now, rebuilt my life and moved on. It has been about ten months since the final fight. I have to live with what happened.. the guilt. She on the other hand, will never fess up to anything on her part. It's a big treetr*nk you parade as always. Her b estfriend watches my Instagram story religiously, so I know that she has to know some things about my new life. Two nights ago on Christmas I turned around in line at my job (which I just got promoted at) and standing in line trying her damnest to not make eye contact with me. I see her and walk away.. even go out back to smoke. Soon enough she comes roaring through the parking lot out the entrance. Last night she came in again. I sent someone else to ring her up. I removed myself from the situation. As you can imagine, the encounters brought up alot of old emotions and grief I have only tried to move away from. I logged into my old Facebook to message her because she has me blocked on my new one. I told her I didn't understand why she was coming in there, if she needed to reach me to message me through facebook, and not come in my job. I kindly asked her not to and wished her the best. She then responds that she didn't want me to message her, if she had something to say she would have said it in there. She comes in there all the time (lie) and she's just a paying customer. That if I have such an important position at my job I need to focus on that and not where she spends her money. Asked me not to message her again and sent some other emojis and smart was comments. Just all together nasty. I get my job is a public place but there's a wawa next door and she came in two nights in a row. I messaged her once more saying please stay out of my job, that I don't come in here. J was very nice. She then responds see you tomorrow with more happy emojis and blocked me again. I just want to move on with my life. She had a new car how bad could her life be? Why has she waited so long to start being petty.. why is she still stewing.. What can I do to make it stop. I still love her, all though I can't be with her. We both burnt bridges. She has up until a year to press charges on me for the bruises and I'm on probation. I am scared. I want to ban her from the store but I don't want her to retaliate and mess up my life even more. Advice—
I don't go in her job.. I was not rude. I have not bothered her. I heard she has moved on .. more messy relationships. She always seemed calculated but her head is on her shoulders. I don't understand why she is doing this to me still.. why can't I just move on. It's been almost a year! How sorry can I be—?!!!
If you hate someone or are so "scared" of them.. You don't come in to their job TWICE!!! Back to back. I wish she would call down. It hurts.. knowing she never really gave a butter. All that "understanding" she did about my issues.. She knew I had them.. even enabled me. I'm not that person anymore. I don't get it
What's funny is this post .... You know I can always spot who is actually playing the victim .... It's usually the one blaming the other.... You don't get it... Because you are blaming ..... So who is really playing the victim here ... And you reached out after you were blocked ... How is she playing the victim .... Define victim please .... Folks and their stories .... Here is some advice own your mistakes in the situation ... Learn from them and move on... If it was toxic why are you reaching out.... Let me guess you need closure... 😏 .... Which I do believe is a form of obsessiveness on your part .... There are 3 sides to every story.... I ain't buying what you selling at all....
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If it's toxic that is your answer .. No one should be in anything toxic .... Toxicity will kill you if you stay in it long enough .... It will
funny is that I definitely pointed out that I had made the mistakes. But I also pointed out that I had tried to move on with my life, and she is causing problems. You don't need to buy what I'm selling, everyone who can see the situation clearly does. I know I messed up, but it's over with. I am pulling the victim card here because for once I need someone to understand my side.... because that's never been heard of with the way she plays. She does no wrong. Yet, she's still coming in.. her girlfriend mean mugging me and them laughing in my direction. Oh, no.. me and seven other people at my job.. no, we really just want to tell funny stories and make them interesting.Posted by BottabingPosted by Xxlo
I am an Aries and my ex is a scorpio.. there is a very long story behind our relationship so I'll be brief. Our relationship was very toxic, alot of pushing, pulling, breaking and making up. We are both women. On her part there was alot of victim playing, manipulation and narcissism. On my end there was verbal abuse, erratic and impulsive behavior.. not only because I had a drinking problem but just because my nature is hot headed. I did alot of messed up things to her.. but not unwarranted. Her abuse was mental (alot of mind games, gas lighting and projecting). Leaving me stranded or upset and coming back whenever she was ready on her terms. When we finally ended things (with a bang of course) things got really bad, but of course she ran back to her family and pulled the victim card. She could/can do no wrong. I know that I was very wrong throught the relationship, I should not have allowed someone to control my emotions or sanity like that and reacted the way I did. I am very sorry. She has made it clear that she hates me. Whats funny is she never once showed me that she truly loved me. The entire relationship was a power struggle. I was very young, she is about 6 years older. She got her way in the end. Won the war, that is for certain. I left bruises on her the last night we were together and she went and got a protective order after I told her if she didn't bring me my brand new phone back I would start selling things out of the house. Since then, we have said very little. I apologized, wished her the best and turned my life around. I am sober now, rebuilt my life and moved on. It has been about ten months since the final fight. I have to live with what happened.. the guilt. She on the other hand, will never fess up to anything on her part. It's a big treetr*nk you parade as always. Her b estfriend watches my Instagram story religiously, so I know that she has to know some things about my new life. Two nights ago on Christmas I turned around in line at my job (which I just got promoted at) and standing in line trying her damnest to not make eye contact with me. I see her and walk away.. even go out back to smoke. Soon enough she comes roaring through the parking lot out the entrance. Last night she came in again. I sent someone else to ring her up. I removed myself from the situation. As you can imagine, the encounters brought up alot of old emotions and grief I have only tried to move away from. I logged into my old Facebook to message her because she has me blocked on my new one. I told her I didn't understand why she was coming in there, if she needed to reach me to message me through facebook, and not come in my job. I kindly asked her not to and wished her the best. She then responds that she didn't want me to message her, if she had something to say she would have said it in there. She comes in there all the time (lie) and she's just a paying customer. That if I have such an important position at my job I need to focus on that and not where she spends her money. Asked me not to message her again and sent some other emojis and smart was comments. Just all together nasty. I get my job is a public place but there's a wawa next door and she came in two nights in a row. I messaged her once more saying please stay out of my job, that I don't come in here. J was very nice. She then responds see you tomorrow with more happy emojis and blocked me again. I just want to move on with my life. She had a new car how bad could her life be? Why has she waited so long to start being petty.. why is she still stewing.. What can I do to make it stop. I still love her, all though I can't be with her. We both burnt bridges. She has up until a year to press charges on me for the bruises and I'm on probation. I am scared. I want to ban her from the store but I don't want her to retaliate and mess up my life even more. Advice—
I don't go in her job.. I was not rude. I have not bothered her. I heard she has moved on .. more messy relationships. She always seemed calculated but her head is on her shoulders. I don't understand why she is doing this to me still.. why can't I just move on. It's been almost a year! How sorry can I be—?!!!
If you hate someone or are so "scared" of them.. You don't come in to their job TWICE!!! Back to back. I wish she would call down. It hurts.. knowing she never really gave a butter. All that "understanding" she did about my issues.. She knew I had them.. even enabled me. I'm not that person anymore. I don't get it
What's funny is this post .... You know I can always spot who is actually playing the victim .... It's usually the one blaming the other.... You don't get it... Because you are blaming ..... So who is really playing the victim here ... And you reached out after you were blocked ... How is she playing the victim .... Define victim please .... Folks and their stories .... Here is some advice own your mistakes in the situation ... Learn from them and move on... If it was toxic why are you reaching out.... Let me guess you need closure... 😏 .... Which I do believe is a form of obsessiveness on your part .... There are 3 sides to every story.... I ain't buying what you selling at all....
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wanted closure.. I said I have moved on with out it...maybe you should read. I am most definitely placing blame on her
.. It's been a year and she is still trying to run my life. Granted, sure I'm letting her effect me but that's not the point.. the point is why is she even trying. No, she's not just casually coming in there... twice some times three times a day with her girlfriend for the past 6 days.. even more after I asked it to stop. I mean obviously i feel guilty... sure.. if that makes me seem like i want a pity party.. but really what im saying is i wanna move on. I know i still have feelings.. obviously ones she isnt respecting.. there is no sides.. there is truth. I want it over with. Im just wondering how much its going to take before she finally stops .IPosted by BottabingPosted by Xxlo
I am an Aries and my ex is a scorpio.. there is a very long story behind our relationship so I'll be brief. Our relationship was very toxic, alot of pushing, pulling, breaking and making up. We are both women. On her part there was alot of victim playing, manipulation and narcissism. On my end there was verbal abuse, erratic and impulsive behavior.. not only because I had a drinking problem but just because my nature is hot headed. I did alot of messed up things to her.. but not unwarranted. Her abuse was mental (alot of mind games, gas lighting and projecting). Leaving me stranded or upset and coming back whenever she was ready on her terms. When we finally ended things (with a bang of course) things got really bad, but of course she ran back to her family and pulled the victim card. She could/can do no wrong. I know that I was very wrong throught the relationship, I should not have allowed someone to control my emotions or sanity like that and reacted the way I did. I am very sorry. She has made it clear that she hates me. Whats funny is she never once showed me that she truly loved me. The entire relationship was a power struggle. I was very young, she is about 6 years older. She got her way in the end. Won the war, that is for certain. I left bruises on her the last night we were together and she went and got a protective order after I told her if she didn't bring me my brand new phone back I would start selling things out of the house. Since then, we have said very little. I apologized, wished her the best and turned my life around. I am sober now, rebuilt my life and moved on. It has been about ten months since the final fight. I have to live with what happened.. the guilt. She on the other hand, will never fess up to anything on her part. It's a big treetr*nk you parade as always. Her b estfriend watches my Instagram story religiously, so I know that she has to know some things about my new life. Two nights ago on Christmas I turned around in line at my job (which I just got promoted at) and standing in line trying her damnest to not make eye contact with me. I see her and walk away.. even go out back to smoke. Soon enough she comes roaring through the parking lot out the entrance. Last night she came in again. I sent someone else to ring her up. I removed myself from the situation. As you can imagine, the encounters brought up alot of old emotions and grief I have only tried to move away from. I logged into my old Facebook to message her because she has me blocked on my new one. I told her I didn't understand why she was coming in there, if she needed to reach me to message me through facebook, and not come in my job. I kindly asked her not to and wished her the best. She then responds that she didn't want me to message her, if she had something to say she would have said it in there. She comes in there all the time (lie) and she's just a paying customer. That if I have such an important position at my job I need to focus on that and not where she spends her money. Asked me not to message her again and sent some other emojis and smart was comments. Just all together nasty. I get my job is a public place but there's a wawa next door and she came in two nights in a row. I messaged her once more saying please stay out of my job, that I don't come in here. J was very nice. She then responds see you tomorrow with more happy emojis and blocked me again. I just want to move on with my life. She had a new car how bad could her life be? Why has she waited so long to start being petty.. why is she still stewing.. What can I do to make it stop. I still love her, all though I can't be with her. We both burnt bridges. She has up until a year to press charges on me for the bruises and I'm on probation. I am scared. I want to ban her from the store but I don't want her to retaliate and mess up my life even more. Advice—
I don't go in her job.. I was not rude. I have not bothered her. I heard she has moved on .. more messy relationships. She always seemed calculated but her head is on her shoulders. I don't understand why she is doing this to me still.. why can't I just move on. It's been almost a year! How sorry can I be—?!!!
If you hate someone or are so "scared" of them.. You don't come in to their job TWICE!!! Back to back. I wish she would call down. It hurts.. knowing she never really gave a butter. All that "understanding" she did about my issues.. She knew I had them.. even enabled me. I'm not that person anymore. I don't get it
What's funny is this post .... You know I can always spot who is actually playing the victim .... It's usually the one blaming the other.... You don't get it... Because you are blaming ..... So who is really playing the victim here ... And you reached out after you were blocked ... How is she playing the victim .... Define victim please .... Folks and their stories .... Here is some advice own your mistakes in the situation ... Learn from them and move on... If it was toxic why are you reaching out.... Let me guess you need closure... 😏 .... Which I do believe is a form of obsessiveness on your part .... There are 3 sides to every story.... I ain't buying what you selling at all....
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