Scorpio Friend

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Bells93 on Thursday, April 17, 2014 and has 4 replies.

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@Bells93
12 YearsCapricorn

So, a couple nights ago I got into an argument with my best friend, a Scorpio woman. Recently she's been lashing out at me for no good reason, other than (in my opinion) she's unhappy with her own life and needs someone to take her anger out on. She's my best friend in the entire world, has always supported me, etc. Love her, would do anything for her, so I've been tolerating her rudeness towards me.

Back to the argument...she made a rude comment about a photo I had posted on Instagram. It hurt my feelings, so I told her to stop, and changed the subject. She continued to ridicule me, mock the picture, and to be extremely rude. The entire time I just kind of took it, defended myself but didn't give in to her because I could see she wanted to argue. I told her she was being rude and to stop, and she persisted for a bit before the conversation ending. The next day, I sent her a message saying that I wasn't holding any grudges, that I love her, and that sometimes I'm a bitch and she's a bitch and that's life. She ignored me. I called her out on ignoring me and she said "No problem". Now she's not talking to me. When she's in the wrong. I specifically told her she was hurting my feelings and she not only persisted but did not apologize. What to do?

Our relationship is very sister like - we fight hard but we love hard. Last time we argued it was my fault, I apologized the next day and everything was fine. I'm just wondering why she would behave in such a manner when she's in the wrong and knows she is, when it took me all of 12 hours to apologize to her when I was in the wrong...?

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@scorpgal76
12 Years

Sometimes we r stubborn lol

Leave her be for a day or two. She will probably reach out to you but if she doesn't then give it a shot.

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@Bells93
12 YearsCapricorn

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
do you want a friend or a minion? she'll apologise when she's ready.

Lol, we've been friends for a very long time and have an important relationship. We talk everyday. The fact that I'm upset because she hasn't apologized for being super hurtful towards me doesn't make me want her as my minion whatsoever.

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@Bells93
12 YearsCapricorn

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
caps and scorps can be ridiculous when they disagree because both *know* they are right 😛

just give her time. she'll come around and as you probably already know...she'll make it up to you too.

Thanks 🙂 I'm sure she will it just sucks for the time being.

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@QueenAnna
12 YearsPisces

!!!UGGGH I CAN'T STAND DRAMA QUEENS!!!! tell her to grow the hell up or you will no longer think of her as a sister. you know be more aggressive.