Scorpio husband...will he come back?

I am desperate for some insight. Let me give a little background since there is a lot of information. I will try to keep it short. lol Was at his job for 17 years and it closed down. He has a gambling problem and the last several months has been really unreliable and not coming home at all. When he got his severance check, he gave me a small portion and pocketed the rest. We have been together for 10 yrs and married 8.
He has completely rejected his family (we have 4 kids)and me....not spending time with any of us for past several months.
I kicked him out October 1st...tired of crying all the time and he didn't act like he wanted to be there. Would not talk to me. I tried to be understanding, give him his space but we got 4 kids and I work full time. He had moved his hobo friend in saying only for a few days...after a week, asked hobo friend to leave and hubby flew off the handle and said he(hubby) would just leave and sleep in the car...he never did.
Me and the kids miss him but I want him to be a part of our family and engage with us....not just a roommate.
I saw him once since then and he has moved his wedding ring to the other hand. What does that mean?
I suspended his phone service....I am paying all bills right now. Told him I didn't have the money for it right now...no response and that was a week ago.
My question is will he come back and try to work things out or will he just be like f@ck it...she kicked me out?
longer than i thought it would be ...sorry!
Thanks for any insights...I am a Capricorn by the way

First im sorry for what you are going through, but this is not an astrology forum type of question.
I mean no harm by what I am about to say but I this is more geared towards a therapist, maybe marriage counselors.

yes. We had a good relationship until recently and we always spent time together. I know his job loss was hard but...

Yes absolutely this is something much bigger than we can help you with here on an astrology forum. This is a serious situation.

Based on what u say, i dont see why u would want this guy back and why u would even care if he returns or not. Feelings? Im not in your shoes, but the most important thing right now is your kids and not him. He chose to separate himself from your lives and the best thing u can do is to be a great mother (strong woman) and provider to them since he is unable/unwilling to play his role as a husband/father. U did a right thing kicking him out bcoz he is being emotionally abusive to not only u but to also your kids by being a part-time uncaring presence. The question is, do u want your children to go throu all that? Imho an absent father is better than a mist/fog of a father, this shit is confusing to children. Blow him out of your life for good.

losing a job particularly after 17 years would be a blow to any man. he would feel immasculated by that for sure. combine that with addiction problems and you have one very fucked up scorpio. trust me, if you have kids you won't WANT him back right now. if he comes back you'll be enabling him to continue with this destructive behaviour and it WILL drag you and your kids down.

you need to be resolute on this. tell him you want the man you married back or he can jog on.

people have to plumb the very depths sometimes before they get the kick up the jacksy they need to make changes.

it's gonna be hard for him but the only way you can go forward is by implementing tough love for the sake of you and your children. HIS children.

Scorp or not, an arsehole is still an arsehole and u dont need to deal with that. U just cant excuse bullshit.

Posted by STUNG
I saw him once since then and he has moved his wedding ring to the other hand. What does that mean?

I have heard that symbolizes divorce.

Nemesis~nope no drinking. I hope he realizes what he is losing but he has also cut out of his life his best friend who he worked with and another friend also he worked with. I am still friends with them but he won't call or return calls to them.

Sunrays~ I didn't take away any harshness from what you said/asked.😉

Intrigued Scorp~ He has officially lost his job 9/30/12 but wasn't working the month previous...he knew that they would be closing down prob 6 months ago and we had talked about it quite a bit until it became "real" I guess.

I have been going to counseling. I have put up with a lot and he knows that but I am wondering if he doesn't feel like he can be with me, could a scorpio really walk away from his kids? He has talked to my teenager(stepdaughter who lives with me) yes, you read that right! But only if she calls him many times...talked to the other 2 for about 2 minutes...this has been over the past month.
watercup~
I want the man back who I married. The person he is now is not someone I know anymore. I guess the reason I kicked him out was mostly because of the kids (and the hobo I wanted gone)
Rigormortis~thank you...I have been questioning my decision for the past month...

Will a Scorpio come to that realization on their own or does it have to be beaten into them? What, if anything, makes them see the light? Hitting bottom?

oh yes. an orchestrated severing is never out of the question. it's usually the easiest option and sometimes we get to play victim too. perfect.

ha ha! I actually confronted him on that! I told him it feels like you are pushing me away so that I will leave you...got the typical answer....whatever. When I would ask him what he wants with me, "you want to leave", "you want to be single"??.....he would always say why would you even say that?

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
oh yes. an orchestrated severing is never out of the question. it's usually the easiest option and sometimes we get to play victim too. perfect.

^^^^+1

Totally what my Scorp ex does. See I don't understand that crap at all. How is that even attractive! Uh!

This is unbelievable! The man is being an uncaring douchebag and all u care about is his zodiac sun traits. Not to be disrespectful, but u really need counselling (intensively). Oh well, its your life

Love u back, sam. I dont know but it seems like scorps attract retarded ppl or maybe THEY make u retarded. Im sorry but all i read from her is selfishness, its all about what she wants (the man she married), never did she mention a real father for her kids. As a mother myself, a man like that doesnt need to be in my life or my kids' life. I dont care if he lost a job, a leg or his mind, but a behavior like that is unacceptable.

Sunray, to understand complex life issues on a dumb site? I dont think so. I never came here asking retarded questions about serious life issues. I separated from my husband without asking opinions or permission from dxpers. Get real here, gigantic difference. Wow, just wow

Why not ask her shrink that? She is not getting the seriousness of this whole situation if she is gonna seek light from an astro pov. Out of all other routes, she chose dxp. This just too ridiculous for me to even try make sense out of it.

Speculate his behavior? Here? Lmao. She is smart enough to go for counselling, but now needs speculations from none professionals? Please

Nem, i couldnt care less what ppl remember and dont remember. I still have sex regardless of my so called sexual problems. The thread u mentioned wasnt about 'my sex problems', it was about him calling me a slut and u guys wouldnt have known if i didnt devulge that info. If i thought i had sex problems or serious health issues regarding sex, i would go to a doctor and not make a thread about it.

Nem, i couldnt care less what ppl remember and dont remember. I still have sex regardless of my so called sexual problems. The thread u mentioned wasnt about 'my sex problems', it was about him calling me a slut and u guys wouldnt have known if i didnt devulge that info. If i thought i had sex problems or serious health issues regarding sex, i would go to a doctor and not make a thread about it.

Lol @ i was quick to close the thread down bcoz of responce. Im many things, nem but a coward is not one of them. I stand up for myself until the end, im not afraid of anybody. I closed that thread coz i felt like it not becoz someone scared/pissed me off. U people dont have enough impact in my emotional life to cause me to cower and close anything. Tnx for making me lol thou, i needed that

Sunray, im over that now, something more cooler is happening.

he thinks his life is a mess
so...
he leaves you with his burden
brings a stranger into your home
hints of a separation through infidelity[ring]

looking for a scapegoat

running out of luck!

he's not your friend leave him

easier said than done, i know, but he's using that, and taking you for granted.
that's he's mentality and to change that is a herculean task [no can do]
he's not going to make your life better from here on.

so surprise yourself and change that.
i wish you godspeed