Scorpio lesbian?

With a venus in Sag.

I want her but I don't know how to go about it. I got her number and we are supposed to kick it next weekend.

How do you know if they're into you? Or should I wait for in person contact to decide that? We haven't met since elementary school and I reached out to her on facebook, that's how this began.

I just don't wanna mess this up like I kept doing with men, smh lol

You haven't met up in person as adults? You wanna check out the vibe between you two and see what it feels like. Play it by ear, just be friendly, and then come back here with more detailed info. Have you ever been with a woman before?

What happened to the Leo guy with pneumonia? o.O

Posted by Montgomery

What happened to the Leo guy with pneumonia? o.O

He died

Sorry, had to be done. 😆

On a more serious note, take a look here for some insight into the Venus in Sag mind.

Hahahah I love that you remembered that. He turned out to "not be ready for a relationship", to me he very well just died lol

Thanks tiger cap!!

1st it's men and when that fails you are after lesbians ?

At least we both have something in common, I too am a lesbian stuck in a man's body.

Feels really great xD

be forward with the lesbian they will not take the bird in te backrow

Haha I'm not after her because of my failure with men, I have this crazy belief in dreams and well...I randomly dreamt of her for four days straight, that's what prompted me to contact her. I feel like it means something lol. I love the advice though! Be forward huh? I was scared I thought I was supposed to let her do the work? Are scorpion women put off by forwardness?

Posted by sunsetinibiza
Haha I'm not after her because of my failure with men, I have this crazy belief in dreams and well...I randomly dreamt of her for four days straight, that's what prompted me to contact her. I feel like it means something lol. I love the advice though! Be forward huh? I was scared I thought I was supposed to let her do the work? Are scorpion women put off by forwardness?

Are you even interested in girls? Don't go after her just because you had a few dreams about her, don't act stupid.

Dreams ?

This sounds exciting.

If it helps, you have my permission to cast me as the main actor in your dreams.

I've said before I have dated one girl. It did not have an opportunity to go sexual because she pretty much fucked me over. In my lifetime I have also only had one boyfriend, so I'm very much on the fence and attracted to both.

Haha silent ghost I don't control who's in my dreams, and in my Nottoway culture dreams are important it sounds crazy but in my life they have always been significant, it is just my own beliefs.

Dreams are always important.

I'm not disrespecting your beliefs.

Everyone has a belief system, it's what makes us into who we are today.

This is my opinion;

You are confused as your mind and body is awaken to many possibilities or feelings that's not fulfilled.

Once you have experienced it, you will know which path to take.

This is my advise;

Being with a woman is unnatural and it will eat on you.

Stick with a man 1st.

Make sure the formula 1/2 + 7 below applies.

Not a boy but a man.

After that you can go about playing games if you choose to.

First, you're excited by her lesbian dreams and want to be in them; now it's unnatural. Stop perving on the kid and then claiming her sexual desires are warped.

Perving ?

It's in your thoughts.

And since you can think along that lines, you must then be...

Anyway she's a young woman.

Deserves to be treated as such.

And I won't say this the 2nd time.

I'm not lesbian but I am a scorp w sag venus. Just keep it light & playful....go w the flow. Hang out & see what kind of vibe is there. Be flirty. Is there a hobby u have n common? I like bonding over similar interests.

Things are goin' good so far. She asked me to attend something with her last night but I had a show and couldn't make it, so we are still set to meet next weekend.

We are communicating nearly every day now. Even if it's short, she says something to me out of nowhere in the middle of the day lol.

And also she's the second scorpio I've dated who's horrible with texting. Like an hour between replies it's awful to this gemini with an Aries rising lol *impatient*

Thanks for all the replies!!

Well we hung out today and to me it went incredibly well. She's certainly all scorpio, she would stare deeply at me as I spoke and whenever we touched, she lingered on, as did I.

She brought something from a bakery to give to me it was really sweet lol.

Then when she hugged me to go, our faces were centimeters apart but I was so flustered I giggled before a kiss could happen, I felt it though, my face got so hot.

Then we pulled back and literally her hand trailed down my arm slowly fffffffff it gave me chills lol

Scorpions!!! You seductive beasts!

Lol so I assume I'm going in the right direction? She loved my animals too haha 🙂

Sounds like its going in the right direction 🙂

Posted by sunsetinibiza
Well we hung out today and to me it went incredibly well. She's certainly all scorpio, she would stare deeply at me as I spoke and whenever we touched, she lingered on, as did I.

She brought something from a bakery to give to me it was really sweet lol.

Then when she hugged me to go, our faces were centimeters apart but I was so flustered I giggled before a kiss could happen, I felt it though, my face got so hot.

Then we pulled back and literally her hand trailed down my arm slowly fffffffff it gave me chills lol

Scorpions!!! You seductive beasts!

Lol so I assume I'm going in the right direction? She loved my animals too haha 🙂

ooh i should try the finger trailing!! but then knowing my awkward self, my hands will probably get really sweaty and it would just feel gross for the other party 😢

anyway, good luck on your scorpio woman!

Yes sounds like u r on the right track. U may try some subtle touching as well. I like to be touched just don't be all grabby with it...If that makes sense lol.

I would like to think I am but I have not heard back from her since our date? I don't think that's a good thing~ and it went so well I'm confused? Lol

Maybe try contacting her? She could be waiting for you. I don't mind pursuing, but I like to be pursued as well. But then again, I have a lot of masculine energy....sometimes I have a hard time sitting back & waiting, but then other times I almost become stubborn about it refusing to initiate if I feel like they need to...it's quite a conundrum lol. What is the dynamic like btwn the two of you? Which of you is more aggressive?

Hahaha you guys are confusing but I can see how that works.

She's certainly more masculine, she dresses that way, she shoots guns, she plays sports, and she's quite emotionally harsh actually like she doesn't want anyone near her but I've seen a couple sides of her that show she's not all that bad lol.

I'm a rough tomboy so we kind of level out - but I have a softer feminine energy.

Okay I'll say something and see what happens lol

Aren't they? Such beautiful complex creatures 🙂 anyway she hit me back and is talking to me like normal so I should've just said something before haha what would I do without my dxp board of scorpions to help me haha

No worries 🙂 she may need u to do a lil more of the pursuing before she opens up/feels comfortable initiating.

Posted by SilentGhost
...I too am a lesbian stuck in a man's body.

I'm a man who has tried to get into a lesbian's body several times.
It worked once, so I don't think she was truly a lesbian
and upon realizing that it did not have the same appeal.

Posted by Whatu
Ima scorpy boy with venus in sag. she probably flirts with anyone she's attracted to as if they could be her soul mate, so try feel her out once you get in the same room and if it works then feel her up. If she gets a little cold don't react just keep cherpy, its a test to see if you can be her self around her emotional dominance.

Emotional dominance?

hmm

I thought that contrariness was just for kicks.

^^^lol some days r much harder than others....unless I'm feeln that stubborn streak I mentioned haha.

Btw OP how r things goin? Any progress?

Hey Impulsv how do u keep the masculine energy n check?

^^^do u find men r put off by it or no?

I tend towards being impatient as well, but I have learned over the past year or so in dealing with a certain friend that I actually have a great capacity for patience....if I want lol. I have been trying. 🙂

See I am right there with you on those points....what's so wrong with calling or saying you want to see them, etc? I realize it's nice if they do it too, that way you get an idea of their interest level but to me, I see nothing wrong w 50/50. A lot of things I've read & advice I've gotten from friends says I need to kinda sit back & let them do most of the initiating though. It's hard. It goes against my nature & that feels wrong to me.

^^^agree 1000000% !!!!

I like just being me. It's so much easier lol ;P I do follow my gut most of the time....sometimes I ask friends what they think just to see if I'm way off base, but I usually end up doing what I want regardless of what they say lol.

I have also been trying to be more open....share things, let them know if I'm not comfortable w smtg, or smtg bothers me etc. I find it really helps. I say it...it's done. I'm not angry anymore 🙂

Sounds like a great thread. U want to start it or u want me to?