What's up with Scorpios and Stalking ?

He's a Scorpio/Sag "If you believe in the cusp"

I'm Pisces/Aries "Sag Rising"

So last year I met this guy in one of my classes we became really close but nothing happened

Summer passed we didn't really talk or see each other granted we live like 5 hours away from each other

Came back in August
Not sure what happened in his head in the course of 3 months but he's gone off the deep end

At first I thought I was just paranoid or maybe it was just coincidences that he'd kept bumping into me or he'd just happen to be driving by me until he started following me home one day
Then it happened again and again.
If he's not in the car & he happens to see me he'll just stop and stare "very obnoxiously"

I've seen some people refer to it as when the Scorpio gazes and tries to look into your soul
Whatever, it's quite creepy

He's gotten more conservative with his stalking now like showing up at my job

Going to my favorite places on campus & old places we used to hangout at

I really have no idea what to do anymore so I've decided to do nothing

I gave him the perfect opportunity twice to save his self
Like when he made this really creepy Facebook profile with a wedding picture, 0 friends, added me the same day as it was made
At first I was going to humor him & add it just because I don't post crap on Facebook anyway but I decided to message him instead

Pretty much spelled out that I knew it was him without adding a name
& if he confessed I wouldn't judge and we can just forget any of this ever happened but instead I got blocked and the profile no longer exists so suspicion confirmed

He's been doing this for months
I'm convinced there's a reenactment of WWII going on in his head & making any sort of direct interaction with me is like crossing enemy lines

I really wish I could get him to return to normal. I don't understand his purpose but I'm refusing to participate.

Yep , many of them are total stalkers !! and if you call them out on it , they deny it or try and flip the script on you. No worries thou ,its all fun and games -enjoy it

lol at others' responses

I don't think it's your responsibility or something like that to turn back him to normal..
it's up to him...whether he acts less abnormal or not (that is, if the guy was ever normal..before..)

unless you really care about the guy & are ready to get involved in.. probably a quite messy and creepy psychotic future drama..

I don't know..this thread is created by you so there's a possibility that this might have been edited & altered..even without the author's being aware of it
it'd help the case, if the guy himself comes on this board and shares the story from his side...but then since it's not likely going to happen.. thus I am limited to express my opinion here purely based on what the op wrote

so..

if I were you, I would firstly continue to ignore the guy and if that does not stop him, then probably would take a further step..like police or similar to that
because it seems to me that you have done things you could've done here as a normal, sane person in the situation.. like giving him some chances to talk about his motives.. but the chances he did not take

Posted by Rabbit
All Scorpio men want to skin you alive and wear your face like a mask.

So we stalk you.

Meet Ed Gein

@xxixxi

Nope he probably was never normal he was always really possessive and jealous when we were friends just not to this extent.
he'd do little things like not letting other guys sit next to me

giving me the 3rd degree if I brought up another guys name

I honestly never suspected a thing nor did I think he had any feelings of any sort even when he introduced me to his friends and they already knew who I was nothing ever clicked

Stereotypical naive pisces ^_^

No, I don't want to call the cops on him. "My friends suggested it too"

This might make me sound crazy but I still care and have no desire to do so. I don't think he means any harm. I realize this could possibly be jeopardizing my own safety in a sense..!

I'm started to believe this is true lol
Not trying to stereotype Scorpios but when I told my friend about my situation and me not knowing what to do

She told me about her ex who is also a Scorpio. He put a baby moniter in her car & gps tracked her phone.

It was very reassuring that this is the norm for these guys..!

Posted by libragemmale
Yep , many of them are total stalkers !! and if you call them out on it , they deny it or try and flip the script on you. No worries thou ,its all fun and games -enjoy it

Honey, all the Scorpio Men on this board are stalkers. It takes one to know one.

Do yourself a favor and grow eyes at the back of your head from now on.

Cusper? Bust out his chart and lets have a looky

Perhaps he's a Sag 😛

The stalkers are no big deal. It's the ones waiting to snatch you up, store you in a box, and dictate your every move that are really squicky. They're also difficult to detect. Good luck and sweet dreams.

Apparently my ex, who is a Taurus, didn't get the memo that only Scorpios are stalkers. Oops.

Rabbit, who in the blue fuck didn't you send my ex the memo?! Holy bat shit but that was your one (1!!) responsibility! Men. They just don't do what you ask.

*why, not who

Posted by Rabbit
No it's not the norm.

I agree.

Lol@this. He's stalking you, but you like it. Be direct with him and tell him to back off.

@Rabbit

Nope, but someone's a little defensive over there.
Is it not true that Scorpios have jealous, possessive characteristics

Pretty sure plenty of other people have had similar experiences with friends.

**Scorpios** sorry I've had a few drinks

So how can I get a chart? "Newbie here"
He's born November 21st

Posted by Wynter
Cusper? Bust out his chart and lets have a looky

Perhaps he's a Sag 😛

www.cafeastrology.com

Free Astrology Reports - you'll see it below Popular

Birth chart.

Lol, if only life were that simple.
Yeah, used to be some feelings there
Right now... Ehh

But no I really don't everywhere I go there's someone watching me, talking about me. "Yes, many of his friends think we are together or something's going on" & we've just been laying low as a couple

It's how he's able to keep good track of me. I have classes with these people. See them when I'm out at the bars.
They're always at my job
Some of them are almost like neighbors to me.
They're like his seeing eye dogs

Except in their mind they're given him info because that's what good buds do but what he's actually using it for "isn't so good"

Posted by illstingu
Lol@this. He's stalking you, but you like it. Be direct with him and tell him to back off.

Haha sorry to disappoint you defiantly a Scorpio, maybe if I knew his time of birth he'd turn out more sag 😛

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Scorpio 29.09
Moon Cancer 6.20
Mercury Scorpio 16.40
Venus Scorpio 2.34 R
Mars Leo 23.27
Jupiter Scorpio 26.06
Saturn Pisces 5.48
Uranus Capricorn 23.27
Neptune Capricorn 21.16
Pluto Scorpio 28.03
Lilith Taurus 25.23
Asc node Scorpio 14.44

Oh, what a shock. Venus in Scorpio.

Posted by MaryJne
He's a Scorpio/Sag "If you believe in the cusp"

I'm Pisces/Aries "Sag Rising"

So last year I met this guy in one of my classes we became really close but nothing happened

Summer passed we didn't really talk or see each other granted we live like 5 hours away from each other

Came back in August
Not sure what happened in his head in the course of 3 months but he's gone off the deep end

At first I thought I was just paranoid or maybe it was just coincidences that he'd kept bumping into me or he'd just happen to be driving by me until he started following me home one day
Then it happened again and again.
If he's not in the car & he happens to see me he'll just stop and stare "very obnoxiously"

I've seen some people refer to it as when the Scorpio gazes and tries to look into your soul
Whatever, it's quite creepy

He's gotten more conservative with his stalking now like showing up at my job

Going to my favorite places on campus & old places we used to hangout at

I really have no idea what to do anymore so I've decided to do nothing

I gave him the perfect opportunity twice to save his self
Like when he made this really creepy Facebook profile with a wedding picture, 0 friends, added me the same day as it was made
At first I was going to humor him & add it just because I don't post crap on Facebook anyway but I decided to message him instead

Pretty much spelled out that I knew it was him without adding a name
& if he confessed I wouldn't judge and we can just forget any of this ever happened but instead I got blocked and the profile no longer exists so suspicion confirmed

He's been doing this for months
I'm convinced there's a reenactment of WWII going on in his head & making any sort of direct interaction with me is like crossing enemy lines

I really wish I could get him to return to normal. I don't understand his purpose but I'm refusing to participate.

WOW that is creepy. Have you even confronted him about this. It is bothering you so its best to be straight up about it.. if you see him in a sarcasticy jokey way you can bring it up. within that convo you can get serious and tell him to stop.

^^^What he said

Posted by Rabbit

Posted by MaryJne
@Rabbit

Nope, but someone's a little defensive over there.
Is it not true that Scorpios have jealous, possessive characteristics

Pretty sure plenty of other people have had similar experiences with friends.

Jealous and possessive characteristics is not the same as being a stalker. Not even close.

Stalking is a serious crime in most places and is a matter that should be dealt with by the authorities.

You coming on here accusing all Scorpio men of being stalkers is foolish, insulting, and makes light of people who have been victims of stalkers.

My gut tells me you don't know SHIT about what being stalked is like. Stalking victims, especially those who've been stalked online, don't make profiles on astrology sites with questionable security to bitch about being stalked.

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Personally, I think people attach too much significance to stalking and give way more time/attention to a stalker than they should.

My best friend was stalked by an ex, and it demoralized and drained her mentally to the point she experienced fainting spells. I never could understand why she didn't just put her ex in her place and involve the authorities.

It stopped when the ex dragged ME into their drama. She called me one time and I said clearly, "Don't call me again" and hung up the phone. Later she called me from a different number and told me she was coming to my house to rape me. I laughed at her, told her to "bring it," hung up, and sat up an extra hour waiting for her. Needless to say, she never showed.

Effective handling of stalkers involves making them understand you're bigger game than they want to jack with. It's only problematic if you're not.

Neither, pfft.. I never accused ALL Scorpios of being anything
I created a topic, people came in and shared their similar experiences.
And or agreed
You got angry at the jokes and personal assumptions being made about Scorpios

Yet you continue to come back to this page and put energy into posting

Sounds pretty damn personal to me
If you don't like what's being said or
The topic

There's a block button & a reporting tool.

"Help Yourself"

BR>
Effective handling of stalkers involves making them understand you're bigger game than they want to jack with. It's only problematic if you're not.

Posted by CreoleGeisha

Posted by Rabbit

Posted by MaryJne
@Rabbit

Nope, but someone's a little defensive over there.
Is it not true that Scorpios have jealous, possessive characteristics

Pretty sure plenty of other people have had similar experiences with friends.

Jealous and possessive characteristics is not the same as being a stalker. Not even close.

Stalking is a serious crime in most places and is a matter that should be dealt with by the authorities.

You coming on here accusing all Scorpio men of being stalkers is foolish, insulting, and makes light of people who have been victims of stalkers.

My gut tells me you don't know SHIT about what being stalked is like. Stalking victims, especially those who've been stalked online, don't make profiles on astrology sites with questionable security to bitch about being stalked.

Personally, I think people attach too much significance to stalking and give way more time/attention to a stalker than they should.

My best friend was stalked by an ex, and it demoralized and drained her mentally to the point she experienced fainting spells. I never could understand why she didn't just put her ex in her place and involve the authorities.

It stopped when the ex dragged ME into their drama. She called me one time and I said clearly, "Don't call me again" and hung up the phone. Later she called me from a different number and told me she was coming to my house to rape me. I laughed at her, told her to "bring it," hung up, and sat up an extra hour waiting for her. Needless to say, she never showed.

Effective handling of stalkers involves making them understand you're bigger game than they want to jack with. It's only problematic if you're not.

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Alrighty then...I owe Rabbit a thank you for combining two energies and saving space. 😉

as long as you do not trap in adultary, you are safe.
If you show him that you like him back, he would be your slave for life
Girls should conduct guys through right path, imagine what will happen if the guy become leader...FAIL

Posted by tiziani

Posted by CreoleGeisha
The stalkers are no big deal. It's the ones waiting to snatch you up, store you in a box, and dictate your every move that are really squicky. They're also difficult to detect. Good luck and sweet dreams.

/DEAD

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*finishes dabbing on lip gloss and looks at tiziani, wide-eyed*

Oh dear, was it something I said?

Posted by Rabbit

Posted by MaryJne
@Rabbit

Nope, but someone's a little defensive over there.
Is it not true that Scorpios have jealous, possessive characteristics

Pretty sure plenty of other people have had similar experiences with friends.

Jealous and possessive characteristics is not the same as being a stalker. Not even close.

Stalking is a serious crime in most places and is a matter that should be dealt with by the authorities.

You coming on here accusing all Scorpio men of being stalkers is foolish, insulting, and makes light of people who have been victims of stalkers.

My gut tells me you don't know SHIT about what being stalked is like. Stalking victims, especially those who've been stalked online, don't make profiles on astrology sites with questionable security to bitch about being stalked.

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THANK YOU!!!!

Stalking in itself isn't a crime, though. Animals stalk (for mates, territory, prey). Some people find the concept of a man or woman stalking them a real turn-on. There's all kinds of stuff about that in the Kama Sutra (I mean the actual scripture, not the picture books).

Stalking only becomes criminal when the target doesn't consent to the stalking.

Posted by Rabbit

Posted by MaryJne
@Rabbit

Nope, but someone's a little defensive over there.
Is it not true that Scorpios have jealous, possessive characteristics

Pretty sure plenty of other people have had similar experiences with friends.

Jealous and possessive characteristics is not the same as being a stalker. Not even close.

Stalking is a serious crime in most places and is a matter that should be dealt with by the authorities.

You coming on here accusing all Scorpio men of being stalkers is foolish, insulting, and makes light of people who have been victims of stalkers.

My gut tells me you don't know SHIT about what being stalked is like. Stalking victims, especially those who've been stalked online, don't make profiles on astrology sites with questionable security to bitch about being stalked.

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I'd like to point out the title of the thread says "Scoprios" as well as the above quoted section and a few others, but I suppose the implication is clear. *applause*, well written.

Angeleyes17:
already attempted and failed
If we talk now it's on his time, so we don't talk.

When he looks at me, I look the other way.
If he speaks, I just simply walk away

I could just be being stubborn but I think when you attempt to have a serious confrontation with someone
& they put you on a back-burner

Then they come back and just expect to be welcomed with open arms

If you comply with them
I feel like
You become that persons b****

Which is why I've been doing nothing
I've spent months going back and forth debating of a solution where there's no mess involved

I've developed no miraculous plans
Just a newfound drinking problem

While everyone's grinding my gears about not being horrified.

People handle things differently
Some people have panic attacks
Some people cry about it

I handle mine with liquor

Posted by Rabbit

Posted by MaryJne
@Rabbit

Nope, but someone's a little defensive over there.
Is it not true that Scorpios have jealous, possessive characteristics

Pretty sure plenty of other people have had similar experiences with friends.

Are you a troll or an imbecile?

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Rabbit, it makes no difference what you say, many, not all, of the people on this forum
believe the stereotypical astrological nonsense they read. IF the astrologer says Scorpio men
are this and that, well, it makes no difference what you or I or any other Scorpio say or do
to prove otherwise. We are already judged.
An ignorant whisper in their impressionable ears and they believe it.
Then they begin judging others based on what someone says about so and so, rather than on the
merits of the specific individual person in question.
I called it some time ago when I posted a thread I think I called "Astrological Discrimination".
It's not going to stop.

Posted by LetltB

No kidding.

Channel surfing and there she is!

Shivers, imho, it didn't start with that little girl, but parents, also.
IMHO, that family lives by the motto: "Do what that thou will, shall be the whole of the law."
The child's mother is a Leo, and her father is a Sag. Add a pot full of hillbilly and
this is what you get.

Again... shivers.

PS ^^^
Spare the rod and you spoil the child.

Posted by MrFirebird

Rabbit, it makes no difference what you say, many, not all, of the people on this forum
believe the stereotypical astrological nonsense they read. IF the astrologer says Scorpio men
are this and that, well, it makes no difference what you or I or any other Scorpio say or do
to prove otherwise. We are already judged.
An ignorant whisper in their impressionable ears and they believe it.
Then they begin judging others based on what someone says about so and so, rather than on the
merits of the specific individual person in question.
I called it some time ago when I posted a thread I think I called "Astrological Discrimination".
It's not going to stop.

Respectfully, couldn't the same be said for pretty much astrological designation? All signs are ascribed certain virtues and certain deficits.

Well, if it makes you feel any better, Libras are stereotyped as the most accident-prone drivers.

Posted by Rabbit

Posted by CreoleGeisha
Well, if it makes you feel any better, Libras are stereotyped as the most accident-prone drivers.

So you're saying all Libras are Asian?

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Now, Rabbit, if I'm saying that, I would've posted that. However, I personally have never had a single ticket, much less a wreck.

Posted by CreoleGeisha

Posted by Rabbit

Posted by CreoleGeisha
Well, if it makes you feel any better, Libras are stereotyped as the most accident-prone drivers.

So you're saying all Libras are Asian?

Now, Rabbit, if I'm saying that, I would've posted that. However, I personally have never had a single ticket, much less a wreck.

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This means you haven't driven through Texas with a Californian mentality that speed limit is a suggestion.

Posted by MoonArtist

Posted by CreoleGeisha

Posted by Rabbit

Posted by CreoleGeisha
Well, if it makes you feel any better, Libras are stereotyped as the most accident-prone drivers.

So you're saying all Libras are Asian?

Now, Rabbit, if I'm saying that, I would've posted that. However, I personally have never had a single ticket, much less a wreck.

This means you haven't driven through Texas with a Californian mentality that speed limit is a suggestion.

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No, I avoid driving in Texas, especially Houston. I swear, you take your life into your hands driving in Houston. No offense to Texans, they are fabulous, hospitable people.

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Posted by MoonArtist

Posted by CreoleGeisha

Posted by Rabbit

Posted by CreoleGeisha
Well, if it makes you feel any better, Libras are stereotyped as the most accident-prone drivers.

So you're saying all Libras are Asian?

Now, Rabbit, if I'm saying that, I would've posted that. However, I personally have never had a single ticket, much less a wreck.

This means you haven't driven through Texas with a Californian mentality that speed limit is a suggestion.

No, I avoid driving in Texas, especially Houston. I swear, you take your life into your hands driving in Houston. No offense to Texans, they are fabulous, hospitable people.

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Well, I generally love driving through Texas and learned to take the speed limit more seriously. What was interesting was driving through Houston close to midnight and the fwy was mostly empty when I came across about 50 little Asian cars all tricked out and slammed low going super slow and literally barricading the whole fwy so a few cars at the front could drag race. I was already in a pissy mood and in a hurry. Yes, I do have a bit of road rage. So, with music blaring and the sunroof open I took the big Acura MDX through the ranks. Wasn't easy since they were all playing jockey and trying to keep me in the back. HA! I grew up driving CA rush hr. traffic!! Bring it, mofos! I kid you not, there were at least 5 of those damn groups I had to plow through, one after the other. I think I left a ton of pissed off mini car geeks behind.