Mirroring Scorpio - Why? and is it Beneficial?

In romantic relationships that is.

Curious about "mirroring" scorpio. It is mentioned on this forum frequently.

What exactly does this mean?

Why do it? Is there a benefit?

Basically that they repay you in the same currency - what yo do to them - they will do to you.
In bad or good

For everything else a Scorpio should answer.

Did it help him Impulsv?

they use mirrors all the signs do.havnt broken 1 yet thank god

Impulsv: Sometimes we meet people because we need to, and sometimes we meet people because THEY need to 😉
But I know a thing or two abut confusing other peoples feelings with my own - and then, as most pisces do - I take a nap 😉

Posted by Divinesun
In romantic relationships that is.

Curious about "mirroring" scorpio. It is mentioned on this forum frequently.

What exactly does this mean?

Why do it? Is there a benefit?

Men are better @ mirroring back bad behavior.

BAD BEHAVIOR = Playing games with him ie a ditz who plays hard to get due to her insecurities, no contact or response to the scorp, playing the jealousy game/flirting (trying to get her scorp jealous ...big big mistake), lying, cheating, etc...

Some female Scorps will put a guy in the dead zone typically and walk away if a guy does the above to her. It depends though, some female Scorps can measure up to the male scorps and play the mirror game harder.

For me personally, too ^^that's way too much energy. Dead zone..and non-existent. So much nicer and squashes everything.

*drop the first "too" 😢

Posted by Divinesun
In romantic relationships that is.

Curious about "mirroring" scorpio. It is mentioned on this forum frequently.

What exactly does this mean?

Why do it? Is there a benefit?

Trying to understand this thread. Better yet, the intention behind it. Are you asking if you should mirror a Scorp while in a relationship or asking why (if we do) it?

Posted by LetltB

Posted by Divinesun
In romantic relationships that is.

Curious about "mirroring" scorpio. It is mentioned on this forum frequently.

What exactly does this mean?

Why do it? Is there a benefit?

Men are better @ mirroring back bad behavior.

BAD BEHAVIOR = Playing games with him ie a ditz who plays hard to get due to her insecurities, no contact or response to the scorp, playing the jealousy game/flirting (trying to get her scorp jealous ...big big mistake), lying, cheating, etc...

Some female Scorps will put a guy in the dead zone typically and walk away if a guy does the above to her. It depends though, some female Scorps can measure up to the male scorps and play the mirror game harder.

For me personally, too ^^that's way too much energy. Dead zone..and non-existent. So much nicer and squashes everything.

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BINGO!

Also, this ties in a couple of things.

That bit about the so called "Scorpio Death Stare" and "Scorpio Disappearing Act" has to do with seeing right through the offensive person. And a) back away or b) analyze what had been observed and take stock in choices. I personally prefer to intelligently make informed decisions. I don't like to be rushed with reckless ignorance. I'd prefer to age, gracefully.

Pheonix, there is no intention behind the thread.
As I stated, I am curious as to what it means and why it's done.

@Divinesun

Okay. Well, I rarely do it as I tend to ignore most people or poor behavior until they 1) get a clue and stop or 2) they simply fade away. I have very low tolerance for certain behaviors and (while this will sound cold) I simply don't care enough to work through something with anyone that isn't long term potential, especially when I view their actions as manipulative or immature. I tend to just cut my losses without hesitation.

When I do mirror, it will be with someone I love and only because 1) I have a very bad temper and my words often hurt more than necessary 2) I am trying to figure out how to address whatever it is the person is doing without making the situation worse. In other words, I will only mirror because I am trying to preserve the relationship.

For me, "mirroring" is reserved for people that matter to me. I simply don't waste my time with people who do not mean that much to me and it takes a lot to pass that threshold.

Posted by Impulsv
I'll explained I was dating someone who was in fear of being in a relationship. He didn't say it I could feel the fear. So in taking on the fear I in turn displayed fear. Not on purpose but that was the energy..

How does this fear display itself? By not being open and not communicating?

@ Divinesun, I think the benefit would be if you had positive energy around a Scorpio, they too would give back to you positive energy in return.

P.S. In my first post I meant to write I am trying to understand the OP and what you're trying to ask/understand. I didn't mean to suggest you had an ulterior motive.

Thanks Phoenix, I appreciate you clarifying that : )

Posted by Impulsv
It was inherent. I just knew he never said anything open. He showed by holding back n being guarded in sharing n hiding feeling. I knew he liked me n Was attracted to me but he could not say it. Like for him it was like he was placing himself in vulnerability. Like painful for him to
Reveal himself.
Plus the fact that after his ex broke his heart 10 years earlier he never had a gf since. He had closed his heart. 😢 even though deep down he wants to be close.

So uncanny as it sounds a lot like myself. 😢

Thanks everyone for your comments and examples.
I now understand 🙂

I have a question or few now about the mirroring. in the beginning i told the scorp i was with, we inlaws, so im stuck with u so i preferr not to bother, so yrs later (current day n age) we started off while we both were just dating, now i notice him giving me a very hard time to the point where its all the old energy coming in the new days. I tried talking thru our issues, showing with action how much i give a damn, and etc, but we are to the non talkin stage where i just deccided to no longer even have contact plus cut my losses with all i have invested into the relationship
tell me now what should i do in my case—?? i hear they dont like bein ignored and he's text me 4 ties since an i havent responded. yesterday was my bday an i had to put him out for being a prude ass individual . which he then told me he would never text nor call me again a day in my life. then the first text he sent me was asking me who was at my house (WTF) but you aintt talkin to me no more huh; smgdh.....

1 last thing tho does ths show him mirroring me to you all or does it indicate he indeed has love for me ?

ok noone came bax here i see lol

Normally a woman mirrors her man.

That's when I know a woman is attracted 2 me.

One of the many signs a female exhibits.

Not sure abt a man, maybe this applies.

Posted by SilentGhost
Normally a woman mirrors her man.

That's when I know a woman is attracted 2 me.

One of the many signs a female exhibits.

Not sure abt a man, maybe this applies.

so you mean we already subliminally mirror scorpios weather we want, or try?
Since you say that then anything we choose as an intuitive reply is correct since we are only mirroring their behavior. I would like to see how things continue going for everybody's relationships after friday and march 24th, I been skimming thru readings on each persons take of the retro seeing how they have been doing and affected by this period , my situation seems alot like silver's an i noticed we have the same charts lol so its funny we are going thru the same things with the same signs. I guess we will need to get us some new signs lol

Only if you want to circle eachother for time immemorial.

It seems scorps think they ought to be the mirror.. Or at least mine does. And with my mirroring to counter it... It takes an odd day to pull us out of our circling around.

I get so frustrated when the Scorp and I mirror each other because it is not usually a good thing. It usually happens when one of us is in a crappy mood, then both of us are in a crappy mood.

I usually can't help it, when he starts whining about something, or he acts frustrated, then I start getting frustrated back.