Soooo I was talking to this Scorpio for about two weeks (not long at all) him 24 and me 25 (I’m a Taurus) long story short, I expressed to him about how some of his actions were showing signs of disinterest. I was just trying my to get better understanding because he had came on so strong before, not necessarily to start an argument. Well he lashed out. Accused me of wanting me to be placed before his mother because that’s who he was with at the time and that was not where I was coming from at all. After he told me to stop talking to him, I did and proceeded to unfriend/ unfollow him on SM since we were no longer cool. I figured space was the right thing. Afterwards he gets on Twitter and just starts bad mouthing me, of course I got in my feelings and went back and forth with him. He got all of his friends (mostly females) to hate me and talk bad about me. Being a Taurus, I soon realized how petty the back and forth was and tried to be civil with him... yes I asked for a second chance like a Dumb a** and was persistent for about a week and he rejected me HARD over and over. He even accused me of being with someone else during our short time. I had proof that I wasn’t and showed it to him. He continued to ignore me and treat me bad. So finally I just told him “you win” and I never talked to him again. Even when he replied rudely I still didn’t reply back, I just let it go. About a month later, it was brought to my attention that he started bashing me subliminally about my new photos (which always got hundreds of likes so I know they weren’t terrible lol) and started bashing my appearance and exaggerating truths to make himself appear more “cool and sane” still, I ignored. About a week after our split he was already with someone new and he began to flaunt their sex life constantly.. still, I ignored. His female friends that hate me started sending me friend requests, i ignored. His cousin even tried sleeping with me. Implying that the Scorp didn’t take what we had seriously. I still declined his cousins offer. They are like best friends and I thought it was weird. The Scorp cooled down for it a bit I suppose bc it was never brought up again by mutual friends. But now, it’s two months in (yes I blocked him, his friends and his cousin) but mutual friends came to me and he’s back to subliminally bashing me and talking crap. Like give it a rest! I haven’t said one word and I don’t plan to. But I still have so many questions. Like why is he trying to make me suffer when I didn’t do anything wrong and he was the one who rejected/ dumped me? Why after all this time is my appearance and photos so bothersome and why is he trying to make me out to be a hoe when I was good to him? He has a gf shouldn’t he be focusing on her? He wants nothing to do with me so Why take the time out to bring someone down who is giving you what you want? I’m letting him do him but yet two months later I’m still the target. Are scorpios known for this type of behavior? Will it ever stop?
Scorpio loves drama
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I like to consider myself one. I don’t cheat, I’m not vindictive or anything like that. I guess the only time I’m not an angel is when someone pisses me off by talking shit so some times I feel the need to talk shit back. That’s as far as it goes with me though
Ok but that’s just it...I DO get it. I understand perfectly that we are done. I haven’t spoken to him, seen him in two whole months and have no desire to... but yet I’m the topic of his conversations.... and this is my fault how?? Lol. I could see if I didn’t let him go or didn’t give him space how talking about me would be logical.... but I don’t want him and I don’t bother him. I don’t even give him reactions... and this is still a problem.
Posted by peachy06
That's because Taurus don't get it, that when we're done, we're done for good.
k but that’s just it...I DO get it. I understand perfectly that we are done. I haven’t spoken to him, seen him in two whole months and have no desire to... but yet I’m the topic of his conversations.... and this is my fault how?? Lol. I could see if I didn’t let him go or didn’t give him space how talking about me would be logical.... but I don’t want him and I don’t bother him. I don’t even give him reactions... and this is still a problem.
But see that’s just the thing. I don’t care. I’ve moved on, started dating, etc. mutual friends come to me about it, not the other way around. And I’m always nonchalant and dismiss it but it’s human nature... it still doesn’t stop me from wondering and asking why. Especially since it seems so unnecessary
I’m very mature and have been through a lot in my life so I don’t react how an underdeveloped Taurus would act in most cases. It takes a lot to get me out of character and to truly act like a typical Taurus. I don’t talk to mutual friends about him. They bring him up, I shut it down. Everything that involves him I have reacted that way towards. The only time I acted out of character was when I did care too much because the rejection hurt. But now... I’m literally just the chill Taurus whose like “whatever” but that doesn’t stop the drama, does it : ( I see what you’re saying though
Posted by 7sPosted by Phantom_DangusPosted by 7sPosted by TheStubbornTaurus
Ok but that’s just it...I DO get it. I understand perfectly that we are done. I haven’t spoken to him, seen him in two whole months and have no desire to... but yet I’m the topic of his conversations.... and this is my fault how?? Lol. I could see if I didn’t let him go or didn’t give him space how talking about me would be logical.... but I don’t want him and I don’t bother him. I don’t even give him reactions... and this is still a problem.
you created a whole thread. How is that not a reaction?! And those are just the things we can see
He can't see it. She wants advice on how to handle an asshole.
Woooow people are rude asf on here. No need to be nasty especially when you don’t even know me. If you think I’m gullible why not just leave the thread? Lol why be an ass for no reason. Sending prayers and positivity your way
Why are people attacking OP?
cause I'm not gullible. it's called thinking. Try itclick to expand

"Accused me of wanting me to be placed before his mother" 😳
How old is he?
How old is he?
Woooow people are rude asf on here. No need to be nasty especially when you don’t even know me. If you think I’m gullible why not just leave the thread? Lol why be an ass for no reason? Sending prayers and positivity your way!

Posted by Araujo97Posted by peachy06
That's because Taurus don't get it, that when we're done, we're done for good.
The asshole is trying to bully her after many time they split, the taurus who is done with the scorp and the scorp cant forget her and trying to having her attention talking shit, like he regreted or something, very shitty behaviorclick to expand
He sounds like a raging maniac 👎🏻
Posted by MyStarsShine
"Accused me of wanting me to be placed before his mother" 😳
How old is he?
He’s 24. And we weren’t even together that long for me to even feel entitled enough for that (if I was that type of person but I’m not)

Posted by TheStubbornTaurusPosted by MyStarsShine
"Accused me of wanting me to be placed before his mother" 😳
How old is he?
He’s 24. And we weren’t even together that long for me to even feel entitled enough for that (if I was that type of person but I’m not)click to expand
He's acting like a 13yr old boy...🤔
Posted by jaymens933Posted by Araujo97Posted by TheStubbornTaurus
I’m very mature and have been through a lot in my life so I don’t react how an underdeveloped Taurus would act in most cases. It takes a lot to get me out of character and to truly act like a typical Taurus. I don’t talk to mutual friends about him. They bring him up, I shut it down. Everything that involves him I have reacted that way towards. The only time I acted out of character was when I did care too much because the rejection hurt. But now... I’m literally just the chill Taurus whose like “whatever” but that doesn’t stop the drama, does it : ( I see what you’re saying though
Throw a rock in him lol
ey Araujo ur not an Aquarius ur a Taurus u
What are you even talking about—? Lolclick to expand

Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by peachy06Posted by TheStubbornTaurus
Ok but that’s just it...I DO get it. I understand perfectly that we are done. I haven’t spoken to him, seen him in two whole months and have no desire to... but yet I’m the topic of his conversations.... and this is my fault how?? Lol. I could see if I didn’t let him go or didn’t give him space how talking about me would be logical.... but I don’t want him and I don’t bother him. I don’t even give him reactions... and this is still a problem.
But why do you care so much ? Clearly, you don't get it, because you keep caring. When something is over, you have to move on, or something.
He's talking shit about her to other people. He is not letting it go.click to expand
He really isn't🙄
She is though.....
Posted by jaymens933Posted by TheStubbornTaurus
Soooo I was talking to this Scorpio for about two weeks (not long at all) him 24 and me 25 (I’m a Taurus) long story short, I expressed to him about how some of his actions were showing signs of disinterest. I was just trying my to get better understanding because he had came on so strong before, not necessarily to start an argument. Well he lashed out. Accused me of wanting me to be placed before his mother because that’s who he was with at the time and that was not where I was coming from at all. After he told me to stop talking to him, I did and proceeded to unfriend/ unfollow him on SM since we were no longer cool. I figured space was the right thing. Afterwards he gets on Twitter and just starts bad mouthing me, of course I got in my feelings and went back and forth with him. He got all of his friends (mostly females) to hate me and talk bad about me. Being a Taurus, I soon realized how petty the back and forth was and tried to be civil with him... yes I asked for a second chance like a Dumb a** and was persistent for about a week and he rejected me HARD over and over. He even accused me of being with someone else during our short time. I had proof that I wasn’t and showed it to him. He continued to ignore me and treat me bad. So finally I just told him “you win” and I never talked to him again. Even when he replied rudely I still didn’t reply back, I just let it go. About a month later, it was brought to my attention that he started bashing me subliminally about my new photos (which always got hundreds of likes so I know they weren’t terrible lol) and started bashing my appearance and exaggerating truths to make himself appear more “cool and sane” still, I ignored. About a week after our split he was already with someone new and he began to flaunt their sex life constantly.. still, I ignored. His female friends that hate me started sending me friend requests, i ignored. His cousin even tried sleeping with me. Implying that the Scorp didn’t take what we had seriously. I still declined his cousins offer. They are like best friends and I thought it was weird. The Scorp cooled down for it a bit I suppose bc it was never brought up again by mutual friends. But now, it’s two months in (yes I blocked him, his friends and his cousin) but mutual friends came to me and he’s back to subliminally bashing me and talking crap. Like give it a rest! I haven’t said one word and I don’t plan to. But I still have so many questions. Like why is he trying to make me suffer when I didn’t do anything wrong and he was the one who rejected/ dumped me? Why after all this time is my appearance and photos so bothersome and why is he trying to make me out to be a hoe when I was good to him? He has a gf shouldn’t he be focusing on her? He wants nothing to do with me so Why take the time out to bring someone down who is giving you what you want? I’m letting him do him but yet two months later I’m still the target. Are scorpios known for this type of behavior? Will it ever stop?
Its hard to say usually taurus cant see their own behavior, they could steal ur idea and take credit for it, so for him to accuse you of trying to be placed higher than his mother and then be firm on his decision shows that u had innappropiate behaviour.
He didnt try to get revenge which probably means he realizes ur simply an ignorant personclick to expand
I didn’t act or say anything inappropriate though. Literally what I said was that him pulling away (for no reason I might add) is a sign of disinterest. Just days before that we were perfectly fine, kissing, talking, laughing. And he lashed out on me for saying I think he is showing signs of disinterest now lol. But I’m ignorant—? For wanting better understanding and open communication that makes me ignorant— Wow.

Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Phantom_DangusPosted by peachy06Posted by TheStubbornTaurus
Ok but that’s just it...I DO get it. I understand perfectly that we are done. I haven’t spoken to him, seen him in two whole months and have no desire to... but yet I’m the topic of his conversations.... and this is my fault how?? Lol. I could see if I didn’t let him go or didn’t give him space how talking about me would be logical.... but I don’t want him and I don’t bother him. I don’t even give him reactions... and this is still a problem.
But why do you care so much ? Clearly, you don't get it, because you keep caring. When something is over, you have to move on, or something.
He's talking shit about her to other people. He is not letting it go.
J
He really isn't🙄
She is though.....
What? She says the Scorpio is talking shit about her to her friends. I see no reason to doubt that.click to expand
He's not letting go
She is....letting go ...
Posted by Araujo97Posted by jaymens933Posted by Araujo97Posted by TheStubbornTaurus
I’m very mature and have been through a lot in my life so I don’t react how an underdeveloped Taurus would act in most cases. It takes a lot to get me out of character and to truly act like a typical Taurus. I don’t talk to mutual friends about him. They bring him up, I shut it down. Everything that involves him I have reacted that way towards. The only time I acted out of character was when I did care too much because the rejection hurt. But now... I’m literally just the chill Taurus whose like “whatever” but that doesn’t stop the drama, does it : ( I see what you’re saying though
Throw a rock in him lol
ey Araujo ur not an Aquarius ur a Taurus u dumbo. Get that clear
Why are you in a thread about past relationships you fucking incel? Lolclick to expand
Lol you literally came to my thread just to bash me. Lol that’s what I like to call mental illness. You must be a Scorpio too😭 you’re sad dude lol

Posted by TheStubbornTaurus
Soooo I was talking to this Scorpio for about two weeks (not long at all) him 24 and me 25 (I’m a Taurus) long story short, I expressed to him about how some of his actions were showing signs of disinterest. I was just trying my to get better understanding because he had came on so strong before, not necessarily to start an argument. Well he lashed out. Accused me of wanting me to be placed before his mother because that’s who he was with at the time and that was not where I was coming from at all. After he told me to stop talking to him, I did and proceeded to unfriend/ unfollow him on SM since we were no longer cool. I figured space was the right thing. Afterwards he gets on Twitter and just starts bad mouthing me, of course I got in my feelings and went back and forth with him. He got all of his friends (mostly females) to hate me and talk bad about me. Being a Taurus, I soon realized how petty the back and forth was and tried to be civil with him... yes I asked for a second chance like a Dumb a** and was persistent for about a week and he rejected me HARD over and over. He even accused me of being with someone else during our short time. I had proof that I wasn’t and showed it to him. He continued to ignore me and treat me bad. So finally I just told him “you win” and I never talked to him again. Even when he replied rudely I still didn’t reply back, I just let it go. About a month later, it was brought to my attention that he started bashing me subliminally about my new photos (which always got hundreds of likes so I know they weren’t terrible lol) and started bashing my appearance and exaggerating truths to make himself appear more “cool and sane” still, I ignored. About a week after our split he was already with someone new and he began to flaunt their sex life constantly.. still, I ignored. His female friends that hate me started sending me friend requests, i ignored. His cousin even tried sleeping with me. Implying that the Scorp didn’t take what we had seriously. I still declined his cousins offer. They are like best friends and I thought it was weird. The Scorp cooled down for it a bit I suppose bc it was never brought up again by mutual friends. But now, it’s two months in (yes I blocked him, his friends and his cousin) but mutual friends came to me and he’s back to subliminally bashing me and talking crap. Like give it a rest! I haven’t said one word and I don’t plan to. But I still have so many questions. Like why is he trying to make me suffer when I didn’t do anything wrong and he was the one who rejected/ dumped me? Why after all this time is my appearance and photos so bothersome and why is he trying to make me out to be a hoe when I was good to him? He has a gf shouldn’t he be focusing on her? He wants nothing to do with me so Why take the time out to bring someone down who is giving you what you want? I’m letting him do him but yet two months later I’m still the target. Are scorpios known for this type of behavior? Will it ever stop?

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Phantom_DangusPosted by peachy06Posted by TheStubbornTaurus
Ok but that’s just it...I DO get it. I understand perfectly that we are done. I haven’t spoken to him, seen him in two whole months and have no desire to... but yet I’m the topic of his conversations.... and this is my fault how?? Lol. I could see if I didn’t let him go or didn’t give him space how talking about me would be logical.... but I don’t want him and I don’t bother him. I don’t even give him reactions... and this is still a problem.
But why do you care so much ? Clearly, you don't get it, because you keep caring. When something is over, you have to move on, or something.
He's talking shit about her to other people. He is not letting it go.
He really isn't🙄
She is though.....click to expand
I have no desire to talk shit about him. Because talking shit only makes me look bad. Not sure how you came up with the conclusion that I’m talking shit buuuuut ok. Whatever you say lmao

Posted by TheStubbornTaurusPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Phantom_DangusPosted by peachy06Posted by TheStubbornTaurus
Ok but that’s just it...I DO get it. I understand perfectly that we are done. I haven’t spoken to him, seen him in two whole months and have no desire to... but yet I’m the topic of his conversations.... and this is my fault how?? Lol. I could see if I didn’t let him go or didn’t give him space how talking about me would be logical.... but I don’t want him and I don’t bother him. I don’t even give him reactions... and this is still a problem.
But why do you care so much ? Clearly, you don't get it, because you keep caring. When something is over, you have to move on, or something.
He's talking shit about her to other people. He is not letting it go.
He really isn't🙄
She is though.....
I have no desire to talk shit about him. Because talking shit only makes me look bad. Not sure how you came up with the conclusion that I’m talking shit buuuuut ok. Whatever you say lmaoclick to expand
He really isn't.......letting go
She is though.....letting go
Excuse my ambiguity....
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by TheStubbornTaurusPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Phantom_DangusPosted by peachy06Posted by TheStubbornTaurus
Ok but that’s just it...I DO get it. I understand perfectly that we are done. I haven’t spoken to him, seen him in two whole months and have no desire to... but yet I’m the topic of his conversations.... and this is my fault how?? Lol. I could see if I didn’t let him go or didn’t give him space how talking about me would be logical.... but I don’t want him and I don’t bother him. I don’t even give him reactions... and this is still a problem.
But why do you care so much ? Clearly, you don't get it, because you keep caring. When something is over, you have to move on, or something.
He's talking shit about her to other people. He is not letting it go.
He really isn't🙄
She is though.....
I have no desire to talk shit about him. Because talking shit only makes me look bad. Not sure how you came up with the conclusion that I’m talking shit buuuuut ok. Whatever you say lmao
He really isn't.......letting go
She is though.....letting go
Excuse my ambiguity....click to expand
Ooooooh gotcha lol my fault

Ignore him and move on.
/thread
/thread
Been at that point lol and will continue to do so
I agree which is why I haven’t said anything or reacted. I don’t want it getting out of control for the sake of my peace. I love how peaceful life is now and I don’t want to give that up for no one especially an ex
If this helps I have dated a scorp before so I definitely know not to react bc it does make things worse. But what gets me is that the scorps I know, if you don’t react they tend to get back calm... but this one he is mad different. I’m not reacting at all and he is just going and going all by himself lol weird asf to me
If this helps I have dated a scorp before so I definitely know not to react bc it does make things worse. But what gets me is that the scorps I know, if you don’t react they tend to get back calm... but this one he is mad different. I’m not reacting at all and he is just going and going all by himself lol weird asf to me
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by TheStubbornTaurus
If this helps I have dated a scorp before so I definitely know not to react bc it does make things worse. But what gets me is that the scorps I know, if you don’t react they tend to get back calm... but this one he is mad different. I’m not reacting at all and he is just going and going all by himself lol weird asf to me
Just keep doing what you're doing. I would also tell friends you don't want to hear his shit if you haven't already, unless of course, he threatens you. Any threats should go straight to the police.click to expand
I’m a paralegal and have a very good standing with a few police, attorneys and judges.... I think that’s why it hasn’t gotten as far as threats.... still praying through it all though😁

I'm a Scorpio and I hate drama.
But I'm also a Leo moon and I love drama.
But I'm also a Leo moon and I love drama.

Posted by TheStubbornTaurusPosted by jaymens933Posted by TheStubbornTaurus
Soooo I was talking to this Scorpio for about two weeks (not long at all) him 24 and me 25 (I’m a Taurus) long story short, I expressed to him about how some of his actions were showing signs of disinterest. I was just trying my to get better understanding because he had came on so strong before, not necessarily to start an argument. Well he lashed out. Accused me of wanting me to be placed before his mother because that’s who he was with at the time and that was not where I was coming from at all. After he told me to stop talking to him, I did and proceeded to unfriend/ unfollow him on SM since we were no longer cool. I figured space was the right thing. Afterwards he gets on Twitter and just starts bad mouthing me, of course I got in my feelings and went back and forth with him. He got all of his friends (mostly females) to hate me and talk bad about me. Being a Taurus, I soon realized how petty the back and forth was and tried to be civil with him... yes I asked for a second chance like a Dumb a** and was persistent for about a week and he rejected me HARD over and over. He even accused me of being with someone else during our short time. I had proof that I wasn’t and showed it to him. He continued to ignore me and treat me bad. So finally I just told him “you win” and I never talked to him again. Even when he replied rudely I still didn’t reply back, I just let it go. About a month later, it was brought to my attention that he started bashing me subliminally about my new photos (which always got hundreds of likes so I know they weren’t terrible lol) and started bashing my appearance and exaggerating truths to make himself appear more “cool and sane” still, I ignored. About a week after our split he was already with someone new and he began to flaunt their sex life constantly.. still, I ignored. His female friends that hate me started sending me friend requests, i ignored. His cousin even tried sleeping with me. Implying that the Scorp didn’t take what we had seriously. I still declined his cousins offer. They are like best friends and I thought it was weird. The Scorp cooled down for it a bit I suppose bc it was never brought up again by mutual friends. But now, it’s two months in (yes I blocked him, his friends and his cousin) but mutual friends came to me and he’s back to subliminally bashing me and talking crap. Like give it a rest! I haven’t said one word and I don’t plan to. But I still have so many questions. Like why is he trying to make me suffer when I didn’t do anything wrong and he was the one who rejected/ dumped me? Why after all this time is my appearance and photos so bothersome and why is he trying to make me out to be a hoe when I was good to him? He has a gf shouldn’t he be focusing on her? He wants nothing to do with me so Why take the time out to bring someone down who is giving you what you want? I’m letting him do him but yet two months later I’m still the target. Are scorpios known for this type of behavior? Will it ever stop?
Its hard to say usually taurus cant see their own behavior, they could steal ur idea and take credit for it, so for him to accuse you of trying to be placed higher than his mother and then be firm on his decision shows that u had innappropiate behaviour.
He didnt try to get revenge which probably means he realizes ur simply an ignorant person
I didn’t act or say anything inappropriate though. Literally what I said was that him pulling away (for no reason I might add) is a sign of disinterest. Just days before that we were perfectly fine, kissing, talking, laughing. And he lashed out on me for saying I think he is showing signs of disinterest now lol. But I’m ignorant—? For wanting better understanding and open communication that makes me ignorant— Wow.click to expand
You're being baited!! You're falling in the trap of trying to defend yourself on here. Don't, just ignore!!
Ignore the ones trying to strike drama on here.

My thoughts on the young Scorpio, is he is bitter bc he still wants your attention. Clearly he is still thinking of you. I mean he is watching you!! He is a fan!!
Lol
Whatever you do, DO NOT react or show any type of negative reaction bc he will LOVE it if he gets under your skin.
Every single Scorpio young or mature have loved getting me riled up. They have told me it turns them on. Lolol
Btw it sounds like you dodged a bullet with this guy.
Lol
Whatever you do, DO NOT react or show any type of negative reaction bc he will LOVE it if he gets under your skin.
Every single Scorpio young or mature have loved getting me riled up. They have told me it turns them on. Lolol
Btw it sounds like you dodged a bullet with this guy.

This was all after only two weeks? Nawww....there's gotta be more here...

Restraining orders exist for a reason. If he gonna talk, then let him talk.
Put his ass in the TRASH and move FORWARD 🤦
Waste NO MORE time on any dude who "bad mouths" you to others.
Waste NO MORE time on any dude who "bad mouths" you to others.
Posted by Impulsv
What is subliminal talking shit! Explain op
So is it like imagining talking shit?
No it’s moreso him talking bad about me without actually using my name. But anyone who knows the issue fully would know exactly who he is referring to... things like that. Or he will take something that I’ve said and exaggerate it
Posted by Arielle83
You’re leaving out stuff to look like an”angel”.
Sounds like you got clingy in 2 weeks and criticized scorpio for not matching your needs.
He wrote you off as selfish and couldn’t believe your expectations after a couple of weeks.
“Subliminally”? You’re looking at his shit to find that you matter. Then getting offended when you think you’ve found it.
You love drama
I love how you know more about me than I know myself lol but no, you’re wrong. In those two weeks I fed him, was nice to him, took him everywhere, never complained bc I enjoyed his company. HOWEVER, during that time he stayed at my house for like three or four days and wouldn’t leave. He was clingy with me, not the other way around. I would literally go to work and he would want me to drive to see him on my breaks... lmao. I couldn’t even sleep the whole night without him touching or holding me. Not that that was an issue but I’m independent asf and enjoy the hell out of my solitude so clingy was never the problem. And I’m not looking at his shit. The post clearly stated that people are coming to me about it. I currently have him blocked on everything. So how could I see it— I’m not offended because I know what type of woman I am. I just think it’s weird and just wanted general opinions... that’s literally all lmao

Posted by TheStubbornTaurus
Soooo I was talking to this Scorpio for about two weeks (not long at all) him 24 and me 25 (I’m a Taurus) long story short, I expressed to him about how some of his actions were showing signs of disinterest. I was just trying my to get better understanding because he had came on so strong before, not necessarily to start an argument. Well he lashed out. Accused me of wanting me to be placed before his mother because that’s who he was with at the time and that was not where I was coming from at all. After he told me to stop talking to him, I did and proceeded to unfriend/ unfollow him on SM since we were no longer cool. I figured space was the right thing. Afterwards he gets on Twitter and just starts bad mouthing me, of course I got in my feelings and went back and forth with him. He got all of his friends (mostly females) to hate me and talk bad about me. Being a Taurus, I soon realized how petty the back and forth was and tried to be civil with him... yes I asked for a second chance like a Dumb a** and was persistent for about a week and he rejected me HARD over and over. He even accused me of being with someone else during our short time. I had proof that I wasn’t and showed it to him. He continued to ignore me and treat me bad. So finally I just told him “you win” and I never talked to him again. Even when he replied rudely I still didn’t reply back, I just let it go. About a month later, it was brought to my attention that he started bashing me subliminally about my new photos (which always got hundreds of likes so I know they weren’t terrible lol) and started bashing my appearance and exaggerating truths to make himself appear more “cool and sane” still, I ignored. About a week after our split he was already with someone new and he began to flaunt their sex life constantly.. still, I ignored. His female friends that hate me started sending me friend requests, i ignored. His cousin even tried sleeping with me. Implying that the Scorp didn’t take what we had seriously. I still declined his cousins offer. They are like best friends and I thought it was weird. The Scorp cooled down for it a bit I suppose bc it was never brought up again by mutual friends. But now, it’s two months in (yes I blocked him, his friends and his cousin) but mutual friends came to me and he’s back to subliminally bashing me and talking crap. Like give it a rest! I haven’t said one word and I don’t plan to. But I still have so many questions. Like why is he trying to make me suffer when I didn’t do anything wrong and he was the one who rejected/ dumped me? Why after all this time is my appearance and photos so bothersome and why is he trying to make me out to be a hoe when I was good to him? He has a gf shouldn’t he be focusing on her? He wants nothing to do with me so Why take the time out to bring someone down who is giving you what you want? I’m letting him do him but yet two months later I’m still the target. Are scorpios known for this type of behavior? Will it ever stop?
Yikes. It looks like he is having fun fucking with you. Thats really bad. Especally if hes doing it in negative direct ways. High end Scorpio will fuck with people by being nice, and get their revenge by moving forward and becoming a better person. This is a true admirable human with real power, and positive success.
Your Scorpio is one of two things. Either really narcissistic and loves to control all people while fucking with their emotions. This type of scorpio is a true cold hearted prick. Or narcissistic and loves to control and fuck with the emotions only of the people who are also narcissistic. This type of Scorpio is the narcissist of narcissists. I don't know what you truly did to the Scoprio, so I can't tell. All I know is you are quite literally fucked. Maybe he will eventually get bored and move to an easier target, but you will always be a target if the next one fails in any way.
This is why I never piss off a Scorpio sun. I have Scorpio moon, and kind of know what I'd be getting into. In a sense I do the same shit.

Posted by dilettantePosted by LostinmyMind11
This was all after only two weeks? Nawww....there's gotta be more here...
i agree. something isnt adding up.
why would he flip out like this over 1 statement. i think something has been compounding & OP isnt telling us what.
it is a nice “crazy scorpio” storyline thoughclick to expand
Agreed

Posted by SoulPosted by TheStubbornTaurus
Soooo I was talking to this Scorpio for about two weeks (not long at all) him 24 and me 25 (I’m a Taurus) long story short, I expressed to him about how some of his actions were showing signs of disinterest. I was just trying my to get better understanding because he had came on so strong before, not necessarily to start an argument. Well he lashed out. Accused me of wanting me to be placed before his mother because that’s who he was with at the time and that was not where I was coming from at all. After he told me to stop talking to him, I did and proceeded to unfriend/ unfollow him on SM since we were no longer cool. I figured space was the right thing. Afterwards he gets on Twitter and just starts bad mouthing me, of course I got in my feelings and went back and forth with him. He got all of his friends (mostly females) to hate me and talk bad about me. Being a Taurus, I soon realized how petty the back and forth was and tried to be civil with him... yes I asked for a second chance like a Dumb a** and was persistent for about a week and he rejected me HARD over and over. He even accused me of being with someone else during our short time. I had proof that I wasn’t and showed it to him. He continued to ignore me and treat me bad. So finally I just told him “you win” and I never talked to him again. Even when he replied rudely I still didn’t reply back, I just let it go. About a month later, it was brought to my attention that he started bashing me subliminally about my new photos (which always got hundreds of likes so I know they weren’t terrible lol) and started bashing my appearance and exaggerating truths to make himself appear more “cool and sane” still, I ignored. About a week after our split he was already with someone new and he began to flaunt their sex life constantly.. still, I ignored. His female friends that hate me started sending me friend requests, i ignored. His cousin even tried sleeping with me. Implying that the Scorp didn’t take what we had seriously. I still declined his cousins offer. They are like best friends and I thought it was weird. The Scorp cooled down for it a bit I suppose bc it was never brought up again by mutual friends. But now, it’s two months in (yes I blocked him, his friends and his cousin) but mutual friends came to me and he’s back to subliminally bashing me and talking crap. Like give it a rest! I haven’t said one word and I don’t plan to. But I still have so many questions. Like why is he trying to make me suffer when I didn’t do anything wrong and he was the one who rejected/ dumped me? Why after all this time is my appearance and photos so bothersome and why is he trying to make me out to be a hoe when I was good to him? He has a gf shouldn’t he be focusing on her? He wants nothing to do with me so Why take the time out to bring someone down who is giving you what you want? I’m letting him do him but yet two months later I’m still the target. Are scorpios known for this type of behavior? Will it ever stop?
Yikes. It looks like he is having fun fucking with you. Thats really bad. Especally if hes doing it in negative direct ways. High end Scorpio will fuck with people by being nice, and get their revenge by moving forward and becoming a better person. This is a true admirable human with real power, and positive success.
Your Scorpio is one of two things. Either really narcissistic and loves to control all people while fucking with their emotions. This type of scorpio is a true cold hearted prick. Or narcissistic and loves to control and fuck with the emotions only of the people who are also narcissistic. This type of Scorpio is the narcissist of narcissists. I don't know what you truly did to the Scoprio, so I can't tell. All I know is you are quite literally fucked. Maybe he will eventually get bored and move to an easier target, but you will always be a target if the next one fails in any way.
This is why I never piss off a Scorpio sun. I have Scorpio moon, and kind of know what I'd be getting into. In a sense I do the same shit.click to expand
Just wow, smfh
I think this is what my ex is doing to me and I just want it to stop
Today I blocked him on all platforms and I want to move forward
No text or no help... it hurts but it's just too toxic man
Posted by dilettantePosted by TheStubbornTaurus I currently have him blocked on everything. So how could I see it—
well tbh if you block someone, you can still see their stuff.... they just cant see yours.
sooooo....click to expand
I can’t see anything of his on Facebook or IG BECAUSE HES BLOCKED.... sooooooo
Posted by Arielle83Posted by TheStubbornTaurusPosted by Arielle83
You’re leaving out stuff to look like an”angel”.
Sounds like you got clingy in 2 weeks and criticized scorpio for not matching your needs.
He wrote you off as selfish and couldn’t believe your expectations after a couple of weeks.
“Subliminally”? You’re looking at his shit to find that you matter. Then getting offended when you think you’ve found it.
You love drama
I love how you know more about me than I know myself lol but no, you’re wrong. In those two weeks I fed him, was nice to him, took him everywhere, never complained bc I enjoyed his company. HOWEVER, during that time he stayed at my house for like three or four days and wouldn’t leave. He was clingy with me, not the other way around. I would literally go to work and he would want me to drive to see him on my breaks... lmao. I couldn’t even sleep the whole night without him touching or holding me. Not that that was an issue but I’m independent asf and enjoy the hell out of my solitude so clingy was never the problem. And I’m not looking at his shit. The post clearly stated that people are coming to me about it. I currently have him blocked on everything. So how could I see it— I’m not offended because I know what type of woman I am. I just think it’s weird and just wanted general opinions... that’s literally all lmao
I don’t give a fuck what you are.
You asked for opinions and I answered why he reacted the way he did, and how he “most likely” sees you.
You have some reason to want to hate on him or act like he’s all this or that and you are not to blame.
So why do you care to be so hung up and need to defend yourself?
You love the drama.click to expand
Sweetheart you’re just weird😂😂 but ok
IMAGINE REMOVING TOXIC PEOPLE OUT OF YOUR LIFE, ENJOYING YOUR NEW FOUND FREEDOM AND PEACE THEN BOMB! SOME STRANGER TELL YOU THAT YOURE THE ONE WHO LOVES DRAMA LMAO😂 I seriously can’t make this up lol
Posted by dilettantePosted by TheStubbornTaurusPosted by dilettantePosted by TheStubbornTaurus I currently have him blocked on everything. So how could I see it—
well tbh if you block someone, you can still see their stuff.... they just cant see yours.
sooooo....
I can’t see anything of his on Facebook or IG BECAUSE HES BLOCKED.... sooooooo
then he mustve blocked you on IG.
bc if you block someone there, they cant see you but you can see them.click to expand
Before I blocked him I could see everything on his page. When I blocked him that’s when I couldn’t because I made the action. And he can’t see my stuff even if he wasn’t blocked cuz my page is private. I tried it just to be sure... I unblocked him and can see his whole page again. I’m positive he doesn’t have me blocked
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by TheStubbornTaurus
IMAGINE REMOVING TOXIC PEOPLE OUT OF YOUR LIFE, ENJOYING YOUR NEW FOUND FREEDOM AND PEACE THEN BOMB! SOME STRANGER TELL YOU THAT YOURE THE ONE WHO LOVES DRAMA LMAO😂 I seriously can’t make this up lol
Okay, but explain the subliminal thing, because I thought you were just misusing that word, but now I'm unsure what happened.click to expand
Subliminal means to affect someone’s mind without their knowledge.... basically to be indirect. He’s constantly posting statuses about me that are indirect but are detailed enough to affect my mind, mood, etc and those of our mutual friends who knows what’s going on. That’s why I said subliminal
Posted by dilettantePosted by TheStubbornTaurusPosted by dilettantePosted by TheStubbornTaurusPosted by dilettantePosted by TheStubbornTaurus I currently have him blocked on everything. So how could I see it—
well tbh if you block someone, you can still see their stuff.... they just cant see yours.
sooooo....
I can’t see anything of his on Facebook or IG BECAUSE HES BLOCKED.... sooooooo
then he mustve blocked you on IG.
bc if you block someone there, they cant see you but you can see them.
Before I blocked him I could see everything on his page. When I blocked him that’s when I couldn’t because I made the action. And he can’t see my stuff even if he wasn’t blocked cuz my page is private. I tried it just to be sure... I unblocked him and can see his whole page again. I’m positive he doesn’t have me blocked
ive tried on my account just now & i can still see their stuff
so... i dunnoclick to expand
Maybe you have an updated version. I suck at updating my phone lol.
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Personally, I would refuse to engage anyone who is being a pussy like that. But I hate passive aggression and would rather get yelled at than have shade thrown.
Exactly! I’m a communicator. So when a person tells me that they don’t want anything to do with me but still posts about me but won’t engage with me about the problem either it just throws me off. Like obviously you wanna get some shit off your chest. Stop being a passive aggressive pussy and let’s get this over with so we can both move on.... not everyone will agree but that’s how I see it
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by TheStubbornTaurus
IMAGINE REMOVING TOXIC PEOPLE OUT OF YOUR LIFE, ENJOYING YOUR NEW FOUND FREEDOM AND PEACE THEN BOMB! SOME STRANGER TELL YOU THAT YOURE THE ONE WHO LOVES DRAMA LMAO😂 I seriously can’t make this up lol
what is your moon and his moon?click to expand
I honestly have no clue. I’m in to astrology but not that advanced in it. I was born on 4/20 and he was born on 10/25 if that helps

Posted by TheStubbornTaurus
Soooo I was talking to this Scorpio for about two weeks(not long at all) him 24 and me 25 (I’m a Taurus) long story short, I expressed to him about how some of his actions were showing signs of disinterest... Well he lashed out... After he told me to stop talking to him, I did and proceeded to unfriend/ unfollow him on SM since we were no longer cool. I figured space was the right thing. Afterwards he gets on Twitter and just startsbad mouthing me, of course I got in my feelings and went back and forth with him. He got all of his friends (mostly females) to hate me and talk bad about me. Being a Taurus, I soon realized how petty the back and forth was and tried to be civil with him... yes I asked for a second chance like a Dumb a** and was persistent for about a week and he rejected me HARD over and over... He continued to ignore me and treat me bad. So finally I just told him “you win” and I never talked to him again. Even when he replied rudely I still didn’t reply back, I just let it go. About a month later, it was brought to my attention that he started bashing me subliminally about my new photos (which always got hundreds of likes so I know they weren’t terrible lol) and started bashing my appearance and exaggerating truths to make himself appear more “cool and sane” still, I ignored. About a week after our split he was already with someone new and he began to flaunt their sex life constantly.. still, I ignored... But now, it’s two months in (yes I blocked him, his friends and his cousin) but mutual friends came to me and he’s back to subliminally bashing me and talking crap...
Posted by TheStubbornTaurus
HOWEVER, during that time he stayed at my house for like three or four days and wouldn’t leave. He was clingy with me, not the other way around. I would literally go to work and he would want me to drive to see him on my breaks... lmao. couldn’t even sleep the whole night without him touching or holding me. Not that that was an issue but I’m independent asf and enjoy the hell out of my solitude so clingy was never the problem..click to expand
I cut most of the useless drivel out for this response, because most of it is just a bunch of filler that you included to add some dramatic effect to your original post.
And this was what most of us, were waiting for. So let's go through the "facts" using your own statements in this thread.
So, in the two weeks you guys "dated", he was clingy and needy and always at your house and wouldn't leave. Also couldn't sleep without being up your ass either apparently. Yet, he was showing you "actions that showed disinterest"? Which is it, he was needy and clingy, or being disinterested? I would like to see you talk your way around this one now.
Then a "fight" ensues, which leads to you removing him on social media. Where you guys apparently had a verbal sparring match that went back and forth, that includes some bullying from girl friends of his. Not even sure why you felt it necessary to identify their gender specifically, because that means jack shit for context. But then you justify being the proverbial "doormat" on your sun sign, and essentially saying you beg the shit out of him for a week straight for him to get back with you.
Now to top that off, dude that is a disinterested, clingy, needy, verbal abusing, Pied Piper that can lead cat ladies into an attack on you, ghoster, also is fucking another girl "about a week after your split". So not only were you begging for this "winner" to come back to you, but while you were "persistently" asking him to come back to you for a solid week, he was out being a whore. So did you say "you win" to him the day before, or the day after he started posting shit with the new hole he can put his dick in?
So if this guy is this TERRIBLE ass dude, that did all this shit to you, then you must be the most insecure fuckhead ever to walk the on this Earth to persistently beg this dude to get back with you. Not to mention all the other shit you have posted. I mean, last year you posted about another dude that was a Cancer, that you accused of sexual assault, and letting him give you head out of spite cause he was trying to force his dick into you. But then got pissy that he showed signs "disinterest" and stopped talking to you everyday. Which led this dude into blocking you.
Now to top it ALL off, you are "ignoring him" but sure do have a nice play by play of everything he is doing on his social media. And then you decided to log into a site that you haven't been on in a year, to ask why he is "subliminally" talking about you. Damn, he sounds like the Leo dude you posted about. You remember him right? The one that got annoyed with your clinginess, and told you to find someone else. But you kept on being clingy and being "persistent", to the point he blocked you. But that dude "stalked" your IG too for months, you just KNEW it. And you just KNEW it was him that texted you months after blocking you, from an unknown number. Fuckm you are just SURROUNDED by dudes that just can't help but think about you FOR MONTHS. MuSt Be Da SuN SiGnZ LuLz. Right?
But hey, everyone, she's the nice one, and the Scorpio, Cancer, and Leo dudes were all the fuckheads that wanted drama. Cause clearly, she did nothing wrong, EVER. It's all the dudes.

Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by Phantom_DangusPosted by TheStubbornTaurusPosted by Phantom_Dangus
Personally, I would refuse to engage anyone who is being a pussy like that. But I hate passive aggression and would rather get yelled at than have shade thrown.
Exactly! I’m a communicator. So when a person tells me that they don’t want anything to do with me but still posts about me but won’t engage with me about the problem either it just throws me off. Like obviously you wanna get some shit off your chest. Stop being a passive aggressive pussy and let’s get this over with so we can both move on.... not everyone will agree but that’s how I see it
But look at what's happening. His attempt to get under your skin (for whatever reason) is working, and now you want a confrontation. He's using your own weaknesses against you.
He also has you posting things on forums that are getting you yelled at. Perfect gaslighting move. IGNORE.click to expand
I would suggest for you to read her posting history, and then actually reading what this OP posted. Before you automatically assume this OP's story. There are GLARING holes, and idiosyncrasies she has exhibited with 3 separate men. All in which, she clearly absconds herself from any wrong doing, and clearly demonizes the male counterpart in her stories that are not based on any factual information, just in her own mind and opinion. Nothing else.

Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by nikkistarPosted by Phantom_DangusPosted by Phantom_DangusPosted by TheStubbornTaurusPosted by Phantom_Dangus
Personally, I would refuse to engage anyone who is being a pussy like that. But I hate passive aggression and would rather get yelled at than have shade thrown.
Exactly! I’m a communicator. So when a person tells me that they don’t want anything to do with me but still posts about me but won’t engage with me about the problem either it just throws me off. Like obviously you wanna get some shit off your chest. Stop being a passive aggressive pussy and let’s get this over with so we can both move on.... not everyone will agree but that’s how I see it
But look at what's happening. His attempt to get under your skin (for whatever reason) is working, and now you want a confrontation. He's using your own weaknesses against you.
He also has you posting things on forums that are getting you yelled at. Perfect gaslighting move. IGNORE.
I would suggest for you to read her posting history, and then actually reading what this OP posted. Before you automatically assume this OP's story. There are GLARING holes, and idiosyncrasies she has exhibited with 3 separate men. All in which, she clearly absconds herself from any wrong doing, and clearly demonizes the male counterpart in her stories that are not based on any factual information, just in her own mind and opinion. Nothing else.
I'll take a look later. It really doesn't matter, though. She needs to stop paying attention to him, whether he's messing with her for real or it's all in her head.click to expand
She does need to stop paying attention to him. But I would not jump to the sole conclusion that he is the one gaslighting her, and that he is the issue. Your responses come off as you believing her word entirely, when there is no definitive proof that it is. Which probably causes unnecessary drama for you, and arguing with other posters that I don't think you ever like, or really want to do. But sometimes happens.
Posted by nikkistarPosted by TheStubbornTaurus
Soooo I was talking to this Scorpio for about two weeks(not long at all) him 24 and me 25 (I’m a Taurus) long story short, I expressed to him about how some of his actions were showing signs of disinterest... Well he lashed out... After he told me to stop talking to him, I did and proceeded to unfriend/ unfollow him on SM since we were no longer cool. I figured space was the right thing. Afterwards he gets on Twitter and just startsbad mouthing me, of course I got in my feelings and went back and forth with him. He got all of his friends (mostly females) to hate me and talk bad about me. Being a Taurus, I soon realized how petty the back and forth was and tried to be civil with him... yes I asked for a second chance like a Dumb a** and was persistent for about a week and he rejected me HARD over and over... He continued to ignore me and treat me bad. So finally I just told him “you win” and I never talked to him again. Even when he replied rudely I still didn’t reply back, I just let it go. About a month later, it was brought to my attention that he started bashing me subliminally about my new photos (which always got hundreds of likes so I know they weren’t terrible lol) and started bashing my appearance and exaggerating truths to make himself appear more “cool and sane” still, I ignored. About a week after our split he was already with someone new and he began to flaunt their sex life constantly.. still, I ignored... But now, it’s two months in (yes I blocked him, his friends and his cousin) but mutual friends came to me and he’s back to subliminally bashing me and talking crap...Posted by TheStubbornTaurus
HOWEVER, during that time he stayed at my house for like three or four days and wouldn’t leave. He was clingy with me, not the other way around. I would literally go to work and he would want me to drive to see him on my breaks... lmao. couldn’t even sleep the whole night without him touching or holding me. Not that that was an issue but I’m independent asf and enjoy the hell out of my solitude so clingy was never the problem..
I cut most of the useless drivel out for this response, because most of it is just a bunch of filler that you included to add some dramatic effect to your original post.
And this was what most of us, were waiting for. So let's go through the "facts" using your own statements in this thread.
So, in the two weeks you guys "dated", he was clingy and needy and always at your house and wouldn't leave. Also couldn't sleep without being up your ass either apparently. Yet, he was showing you "actions that showed disinterest"? Which is it, he was needy and clingy, or being disinterested? I would like to see you talk your way around this one now.
Then a "fight" ensues, which leads to you removing him on social media. Where you guys apparently had a verbal sparring match that went back and forth, that includes some bullying from girl friends of his. Not even sure why you felt it necessary to identify their gender specifically, because that means jack shit for context. But then you justify being the proverbial "doormat" on your sun sign, and essentially saying you beg the shit out of him for a week straight for him to get back with you.
Now to top that off, dude that is a disinterested, clingy, needy, verbal abusing, Pied Piper that can lead cat ladies into an attack on you, ghoster, also is fucking another girl "about a week after your split". So not only were you begging for this "winner" to come back to you, but while you were "persistently" asking him to come back to you for a solid week, he was out being a whore. So did you say "you win" to him the day before, or the day after he started posting shit with the new hole he can put his dick in?
So if this guy is this TERRIBLE ass dude, that did all this shit to you, then you must be the most insecure fuckhead ever to walk the on this Earth to persistently beg this dude to get back with you. Not to mention all the other shit you have posted. I mean, last year you posted about another dude that was a Cancer, that you accused of sexual assault, and letting him give you head out of spite cause he was trying to force his dick into you. But then got pissy that he showed signs "disinterest" and stopped talking to you everyday. Which led this dude into blocking you.
Now to top it ALL off, you are "ignoring him" but sure do have a nice play by play of everything he is doing on his social media. And then you decided to log into a site that you haven't been on in a year, to ask why he is "subliminally" talking about you. Damn, he sounds like the Leo dude you posted about. You remember him right? The one that got annoyed with your clinginess, and told you to find someone else. But you kept on being clingy and being "persistent", to the point he blocked you. But that dude "stalked" your IG too for months, you just KNEW it. And you just KNEW it was him that texted you months after blocking you, from an unknown number. Fuckm you are just SURROUNDED by dudes that just can't help but think about you FOR MONTHS. MuSt Be Da SuN SiGnZ LuLz. Right?
But hey, everyone, she's the nice one, and the Scorpio, Cancer, and Leo dudes were all the fuckheads that wanted drama. Cause clearly, she did nothing wrong, EVER. It's all the dudes.click to expand
Sweetheart this is why you SHOULDNT cut things out lmao. I don’t have to work around anything. I’ll gladly take you through step by step if need be. Yes, I said two weeks.... never did I indicate that we dated. I clearly stated that we were talking. AT FIRST, he was clingy and very affectionate THEN he became distant through various actions that he had not done before. I felt the need to identify genders of the females because I safely assumed that that detail would help someone else’s perception on the matter, if need be. I’m not sure why you’re shedding so much light on the fact that I begged for communication FOR A WEEK out of a TWO MONTH PERIOD LMAO! Clearly I indicated that I was a dumb ass for doing so and corrected my actions by not bothering him anymore. During that week he never shit posted about me not brought up having a girl. Thursday morning on August 15th I texted him one simple line that said “you win. I will stop bothering you” because at that point I was just beating a dead horse. After that one text I never reached out to him since. His shit posting began days after that. The cancer post has nothing to do with this situation here. They are completely different scenarios and completely different relationships lol so therefore that’s irrelevant and is being counted as dismissed lmfaoo! FOR THE HUNDREDTH TIME, the only reason I know what he does is because friends come to me about it. I don’t stalk him nor do I ask about him. But all in all you’re seriously a lame for wanting to talk down to me for my past.... as if you don’t have one yourself. For the record and not to toot my own horn but YES! Every guy I’ve ever dated has came back to apologize for being wrong and has wanted a second chance... including the cancer guy and Leo guy that you’re so hung up on like a weirdo lol. And whether it’s been a year, 2, 3, 4, 5 HELL IDGAF IF ITS BEEN 10 years since I been on here B@ $ ?# THIS IS MY PAGE! NOT YOURS! Fucking goofy! I never once said that I did nothing wrong in my past. Without shame I can gladly attest and admit that I was a level 10 clinger... but that was a year ago and this is now. Y’all act like people don’t grow and change within a year... but I guess that’s your sun sign that makes YOU the fucking idiot... lol clearly 🙂
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