scorpio man behavior

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azul
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there is this scorpio that i know he likes me.because of all the signs he gives off.(the staring,the heavy touching...).but he doesnt talk much to me except if there is a third person,so he talks to me through that person but he keep it casual,but when i sit next to him i feel like hes unconfortable and stressed out. i asked him for sth once and he was actually shaking.anyways i think he gets jealous of other guys that talks to me,i dont talk much but they talk to me, especially when a close friend of his talks to me he stares holes into him. And i think but since he doesnt study the same hours as me.there are some days when i dont get to greet and then we dont talk at all.or some days when i feel he needs space i leave him alone.so i think its hot and cold to him,so he mirrors me,the thing is that yesterday there was a guy that is so close to my friend, sat next to me and another girl,at one point the guy pinched the girl in her hip and then turned to me so i said to him dont even think about touching me.the scorp heard all of it,and kept on cheking on me and the guy till the end of class,now he totally ignores me.except in the beginning of class i sat down next to him and when my seat was vacant this girl took it and she asked who's sitting next to him.he told her that i was and then he turned to me and said im gonna flirt with her a little ok.and i said go ahead.he smiled at me and then talked to the girl.between i know that he didnt actually flirt with her since i know that there is nothing between them and she a sweet girl.so please how to fix this situation ?since hes someone important to me and i dont want to lose him.thank You.and sorry for the long post
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azul
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Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by puzzle
there is this scorpio that i know he likes me.because of all the signs he gives off.(the staring,the heavy touching...).but he doesnt talk much to me except if there is a third person,so he talks to me through that person but he keep it casual,but when i sit next to him i feel like hes unconfortable and stressed out. i asked him for sth once and he was actually shaking.anyways i think he gets jealous of other guys that talks to me,i dont talk much but they talk to me, especially when a close friend of his talks to me he stares holes into him. And i think but since he doesnt study the same hours as me.there are some days when i dont get to greet and then we dont talk at all.or some days when i feel he needs space i leave him alone.so i think its hot and cold to him,so he mirrors me,the thing is that yesterday there was a guy that is so close to my friend, sat next to me and another girl,at one point the guy pinched the girl in her hip and then turned to me so i said to him dont even think about touching me.the scorp heard all of it,and kept on cheking on me and the guy till the end of class,now he totally ignores me.except in the beginning of class i sat down next to him and when my seat was vacant this girl took it and she asked who's sitting next to him.he told her that i was and then he turned to me and said im gonna flirt with her a little ok.and i said go ahead.he smiled at me and then talked to the girl.between i know that he didnt actually flirt with her since i know that there is nothing between them and she a sweet girl.so please how to fix this situation ?since hes someone important to me and i dont want to lose him.thank You.and sorry for the long post

Staring is a good indicator he likes you, but I think he's playing a stupid game.
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Can u please explain what u mean ?
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Posted by puzzle
there is this scorpio that i know he likes me.because of all the signs he gives off.(the staring,the heavy touching...).but he doesnt talk much to me except if there is a third person,so he talks to me through that person but he keep it casual,but when i sit next to him i feel like hes unconfortable and stressed out. i asked him for sth once and he was actually shaking.anyways i think he gets jealous of other guys that talks to me,i dont talk much but they talk to me, especially when a close friend of his talks to me he stares holes into him. And i think but since he doesnt study the same hours as me.there are some days when i dont get to greet and then we dont talk at all.or some days when i feel he needs space i leave him alone.so i think its hot and cold to him,so he mirrors me,the thing is that yesterday there was a guy that is so close to my friend, sat next to me and another girl,at one point the guy pinched the girl in her hip and then turned to me so i said to him dont even think about touching me.the scorp heard all of it,and kept on cheking on me and the guy till the end of class,now he totally ignores me.except in the beginning of class i sat down next to him and when my seat was vacant this girl took it and she asked who's sitting next to him.he told her that i was and then he turned to me and said im gonna flirt with her a little ok.and i said go ahead.he smiled at me and then talked to the girl.between i know that he didnt actually flirt with her since i know that there is nothing between them and she a sweet girl.so please how to fix this situation ?since hes someone important to me and i dont want to lose him.thank You.and sorry for the long post

What is there to fix? He sounds insecure, immature and horny. He'll need to take the lead on this one. Otherwise, expect much of the same, just dressed up differently.

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azul
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@Alpha we are definitly not highschoolers, we are both in our twenties

@phoenixRising and @ reincarnation thank you for sharing your opinions

I have so much going on in my life right now.he was different at first but now i dont know what happened,so i dont need this drama, what im going through is enough.ill wait and see what he'll do next.and meanwhile i'll be focusing on me
That's even worse for him. He's very immature, tbh.
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He talking to me now but only a few words . So i respond like my normal self,i think the issue is that he flirts with alot of girls but when he see me talking to some guy,he thinks im flirting with them or they are seducing me,the guy that i talked with is taking !! and he's very close to my friend and everybody saw her with him.and the guy had a bad day and he talked to me about it so the scorp thought i was flirting thats why i think he said he'll flirt with the girl, that is stupid.and then ignoring me,i dont ask for attention,the guy told my friend im a nice person he talked to me what's the big deal? the thing is i'm not a flirt and since he doesnt know me well why is he making assumptions?