Posted by pisces_89Lol. I guess the other Scorps are thinking what I am...
My Scorpio man travels a lot for work (consulting). How can I get him to communicate more while away? I tend to just wait till he texts me, but sometimes it's difficult and I want to reach out and tell him I'm thinking of him or just say hey how's everything going. He always responds and sometimes initiatives, but how to get him to make the first move more often/frequently?
Posted by PhoenixRisingIt’s been a little over 2 months. That definitely could play a part like you say. He usually is pretty busy with work ending late in the night/early morning. I do want to let him know I’d like more contact the next time we meet in person-was afraid it could be misconstrued by textPosted by pisces_89Lol. I guess the other Scorps are thinking what I am...
My Scorpio man travels a lot for work (consulting). How can I get him to communicate more while away? I tend to just wait till he texts me, but sometimes it's difficult and I want to reach out and tell him I'm thinking of him or just say hey how's everything going. He always responds and sometimes initiatives, but how to get him to make the first move more often/frequently?
No magical formula for manipulating initiative here dear Fish beyond you telling him this is something you would like and see if he can do that.
I mean what do you actually chat about if not your needs and expectations? How did you allow him to graduate to being "your man" if he doesn't know this small bit of info about your desire to feel needed?
Your answer to those questions may be the issue.
As well, how long have you been together? That may speak to a few things. What type of day does he have? If it's filled with noise and chatter he may need time to just "be". Too many things you're leaving out to provide more feedback beyond what I shared.click to expand
Posted by pisces_89Posted by PhoenixRisingIt’s been a little over 2 months. That definitely could play a part like you say. He usually is pretty busy with work ending late in the night/early morning. I do want to let him know I’d like more contact the next time we meet in person-was afraid it could be misconstrued by textPosted by pisces_89Lol. I guess the other Scorps are thinking what I am...
My Scorpio man travels a lot for work (consulting). How can I get him to communicate more while away? I tend to just wait till he texts me, but sometimes it's difficult and I want to reach out and tell him I'm thinking of him or just say hey how's everything going. He always responds and sometimes initiatives, but how to get him to make the first move more often/frequently?
No magical formula for manipulating initiative here dear Fish beyond you telling him this is something you would like and see if he can do that.
I mean what do you actually chat about if not your needs and expectations? How did you allow him to graduate to being "your man" if he doesn't know this small bit of info about your desire to feel needed?
Your answer to those questions may be the issue.
As well, how long have you been together? That may speak to a few things. What type of day does he have? If it's filled with noise and chatter he may need time to just "be". Too many things you're leaving out to provide more feedback beyond what I shared.
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Posted by aquarius_beautyYes we do I know I have.Posted by PhoenixRisingDo Scorpios go MIA sometimes? Then return like nothing happened? Especially after expressing 'feelings' or opening up to you?Posted by pisces_89Posted by PhoenixRisingIt’s been a little over 2 months. That definitely could play a part like you say. He usually is pretty busy with work ending late in the night/early morning. I do want to let him know I’d like more contact the next time we meet in person-was afraid it could be misconstrued by textPosted by pisces_89Lol. I guess the other Scorps are thinking what I am...
My Scorpio man travels a lot for work (consulting). How can I get him to communicate more while away? I tend to just wait till he texts me, but sometimes it's difficult and I want to reach out and tell him I'm thinking of him or just say hey how's everything going. He always responds and sometimes initiatives, but how to get him to make the first move more often/frequently?
No magical formula for manipulating initiative here dear Fish beyond you telling him this is something you would like and see if he can do that.
I mean what do you actually chat about if not your needs and expectations? How did you allow him to graduate to being "your man" if he doesn't know this small bit of info about your desire to feel needed?
Your answer to those questions may be the issue.
As well, how long have you been together? That may speak to a few things. What type of day does he have? If it's filled with noise and chatter he may need time to just "be". Too many things you're leaving out to provide more feedback beyond what I shared.
I would agree to not do it over text. As two water signs go with what you do best: connecting on a personal level. Request get delivered and received much better when one can see you in person vs being filtered through his fatigue, irritation or whatever he may be feeling when he reads your text.
Make sure it's simply you sharing your feelings. Don't come off like you're telling him what to do or issuing an ultimatum. That will backfire.
With that stated, he may just be really tired after a long day and (don't take offense) chillin out may take priority over connecting with you at this stage. Or he may simply be a detached Scorp. We do exist. Speaking for myself, 2 months isn't a long time imo to expect me to reach out. I don't know if I'd claim a man that soon.
His distance simply need to be brought to his attention. Acknowledge that this may be hard for him to manage everything and express that you would love to help him unwind, hear about his day.... Also, be aware that you're not going on too much about the challenges your having when you talk. Absolutely nothing wrong with sharing what is going on in your life, just make it balanced. Allow him to share and you share---assuming this isn't already happening.
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Posted by aquarius_beautyLeave his ass alone let him initiate you've done your part scorps love the chase if we are into you.Posted by Stinger408scorpHow would you take me initiating contact most of the time. Like me initiating seeing you. He has mentioned to me last week he wanted to see me this Friday. But i texted him the following day and he didn't reply -_- so I let things be. Should I initiate contact and let him know I'd love to see him?Posted by aquarius_beautyYes we do I know I have.Posted by PhoenixRisingDo Scorpios go MIA sometimes? Then return like nothing happened? Especially after expressing 'feelings' or opening up to you?Posted by pisces_89Posted by PhoenixRisingIt’s been a little over 2 months. That definitely could play a part like you say. He usually is pretty busy with work ending late in the night/early morning. I do want to let him know I’d like more contact the next time we meet in person-was afraid it could be misconstrued by textPosted by pisces_89Lol. I guess the other Scorps are thinking what I am...
My Scorpio man travels a lot for work (consulting). How can I get him to communicate more while away? I tend to just wait till he texts me, but sometimes it's difficult and I want to reach out and tell him I'm thinking of him or just say hey how's everything going. He always responds and sometimes initiatives, but how to get him to make the first move more often/frequently?
No magical formula for manipulating initiative here dear Fish beyond you telling him this is something you would like and see if he can do that.
I mean what do you actually chat about if not your needs and expectations? How did you allow him to graduate to being "your man" if he doesn't know this small bit of info about your desire to feel needed?
Your answer to those questions may be the issue.
As well, how long have you been together? That may speak to a few things. What type of day does he have? If it's filled with noise and chatter he may need time to just "be". Too many things you're leaving out to provide more feedback beyond what I shared.
I would agree to not do it over text. As two water signs go with what you do best: connecting on a personal level. Request get delivered and received much better when one can see you in person vs being filtered through his fatigue, irritation or whatever he may be feeling when he reads your text.
Make sure it's simply you sharing your feelings. Don't come off like you're telling him what to do or issuing an ultimatum. That will backfire.
With that stated, he may just be really tired after a long day and (don't take offense) chillin out may take priority over connecting with you at this stage. Or he may simply be a detached Scorp. We do exist. Speaking for myself, 2 months isn't a long time imo to expect me to reach out. I don't know if I'd claim a man that soon.
His distance simply need to be brought to his attention. Acknowledge that this may be hard for him to manage everything and express that you would love to help him unwind, hear about his day.... Also, be aware that you're not going on too much about the challenges your having when you talk. Absolutely nothing wrong with sharing what is going on in your life, just make it balanced. Allow him to share and you share---assuming this isn't already happening.
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Posted by aquarius_beautyCall his ass just to make sure and if he doesn't pick up then leave a message just so there's no excuse on his end that he didn't get your text and then just leave him alone and make his ass work.Posted by Stinger408scorpHow would you take me initiating contact most of the time. Like me initiating seeing you. He has mentioned to me last week he wanted to see me this Friday. But i texted him the following day and he didn't reply -_- so I let things be. Should I initiate contact and let him know I'd love to see him?Posted by aquarius_beautyYes we do I know I have.Posted by PhoenixRisingDo Scorpios go MIA sometimes? Then return like nothing happened? Especially after expressing 'feelings' or opening up to you?Posted by pisces_89Posted by PhoenixRisingIt’s been a little over 2 months. That definitely could play a part like you say. He usually is pretty busy with work ending late in the night/early morning. I do want to let him know I’d like more contact the next time we meet in person-was afraid it could be misconstrued by textPosted by pisces_89Lol. I guess the other Scorps are thinking what I am...
My Scorpio man travels a lot for work (consulting). How can I get him to communicate more while away? I tend to just wait till he texts me, but sometimes it's difficult and I want to reach out and tell him I'm thinking of him or just say hey how's everything going. He always responds and sometimes initiatives, but how to get him to make the first move more often/frequently?
No magical formula for manipulating initiative here dear Fish beyond you telling him this is something you would like and see if he can do that.
I mean what do you actually chat about if not your needs and expectations? How did you allow him to graduate to being "your man" if he doesn't know this small bit of info about your desire to feel needed?
Your answer to those questions may be the issue.
As well, how long have you been together? That may speak to a few things. What type of day does he have? If it's filled with noise and chatter he may need time to just "be". Too many things you're leaving out to provide more feedback beyond what I shared.
I would agree to not do it over text. As two water signs go with what you do best: connecting on a personal level. Request get delivered and received much better when one can see you in person vs being filtered through his fatigue, irritation or whatever he may be feeling when he reads your text.
Make sure it's simply you sharing your feelings. Don't come off like you're telling him what to do or issuing an ultimatum. That will backfire.
With that stated, he may just be really tired after a long day and (don't take offense) chillin out may take priority over connecting with you at this stage. Or he may simply be a detached Scorp. We do exist. Speaking for myself, 2 months isn't a long time imo to expect me to reach out. I don't know if I'd claim a man that soon.
His distance simply need to be brought to his attention. Acknowledge that this may be hard for him to manage everything and express that you would love to help him unwind, hear about his day.... Also, be aware that you're not going on too much about the challenges your having when you talk. Absolutely nothing wrong with sharing what is going on in your life, just make it balanced. Allow him to share and you share---assuming this isn't already happening.
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Posted by aquarius_beautyBe straightforward unless you wanna play games along with him.Posted by Stinger408scorpI did call him that day he ignored me but I hung up after two rings. He didn't call back. It's been 3 days so no word from him either. If he reaches out, should I ignore him or pretend like nothings happened and act casual?Posted by aquarius_beautyCall his ass just to make sure and if he doesn't pick up then leave a message just so there's no excuse on his end that he didn't get your text and then just leave him alone and make his ass work.Posted by Stinger408scorpHow would you take me initiating contact most of the time. Like me initiating seeing you. He has mentioned to me last week he wanted to see me this Friday. But i texted him the following day and he didn't reply -_- so I let things be. Should I initiate contact and let him know I'd love to see him?Posted by aquarius_beautyYes we do I know I have.Posted by PhoenixRisingDo Scorpios go MIA sometimes? Then return like nothing happened? Especially after expressing 'feelings' or opening up to you?Posted by pisces_89Posted by PhoenixRisingIt’s been a little over 2 months. That definitely could play a part like you say. He usually is pretty busy with work ending late in the night/early morning. I do want to let him know I’d like more contact the next time we meet in person-was afraid it could be misconstrued by textPosted by pisces_89Lol. I guess the other Scorps are thinking what I am...
My Scorpio man travels a lot for work (consulting). How can I get him to communicate more while away? I tend to just wait till he texts me, but sometimes it's difficult and I want to reach out and tell him I'm thinking of him or just say hey how's everything going. He always responds and sometimes initiatives, but how to get him to make the first move more often/frequently?
No magical formula for manipulating initiative here dear Fish beyond you telling him this is something you would like and see if he can do that.
I mean what do you actually chat about if not your needs and expectations? How did you allow him to graduate to being "your man" if he doesn't know this small bit of info about your desire to feel needed?
Your answer to those questions may be the issue.
As well, how long have you been together? That may speak to a few things. What type of day does he have? If it's filled with noise and chatter he may need time to just "be". Too many things you're leaving out to provide more feedback beyond what I shared.
I would agree to not do it over text. As two water signs go with what you do best: connecting on a personal level. Request get delivered and received much better when one can see you in person vs being filtered through his fatigue, irritation or whatever he may be feeling when he reads your text.
Make sure it's simply you sharing your feelings. Don't come off like you're telling him what to do or issuing an ultimatum. That will backfire.
With that stated, he may just be really tired after a long day and (don't take offense) chillin out may take priority over connecting with you at this stage. Or he may simply be a detached Scorp. We do exist. Speaking for myself, 2 months isn't a long time imo to expect me to reach out. I don't know if I'd claim a man that soon.
His distance simply need to be brought to his attention. Acknowledge that this may be hard for him to manage everything and express that you would love to help him unwind, hear about his day.... Also, be aware that you're not going on too much about the challenges your having when you talk. Absolutely nothing wrong with sharing what is going on in your life, just make it balanced. Allow him to share and you share---assuming this isn't already happening.
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Posted by aquarius_beautyPosted by Stinger408scorpPosted by aquarius_beautyPosted by Stinger408scorpPosted by aquarius_beautyPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by pisces_89I've done weeks lolPosted by PhoenixRisingHow long do you go MIA for?Posted by pisces_89Leave his ass alone let him initiate you've done your part scorps love the chase if we are into you.
My Scorpio man travels a lot for work (consulting). How can I get him to communicate more while away? I tend to just wait till he texts me, but sometimes it's difficult and I want to reach out and tell him I'm thinking of him or just say hey how's everything going. He always responds and sometimes initiatives, but how to get him to make the first move more often/frequently?click to expand
Posted by aquarius_beautyMaybe attraction isn't that strong cause if he is this wouldn't happen.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have thought about that. How would you take it, if we're not official? We're in the beginning stages.Posted by aquarius_beautyBe straightforward unless you wanna play games along with him.Posted by Stinger408scorpI did call him that day he ignored me but I hung up after two rings. He didn't call back. It's been 3 days so no word from him either. If he reaches out, should I ignore him or pretend like nothings happened and act casual?Posted by aquarius_beautyCall his ass just to make sure and if he doesn't pick up then leave a message just so there's no excuse on his end that he didn't get your text and then just leave him alone and make his ass work.Posted by Stinger408scorpHow would you take me initiating contact most of the time. Like me initiating seeing you. He has mentioned to me last week he wanted to see me this Friday. But i texted him the following day and he didn't reply -_- so I let things be. Should I initiate contact and let him know I'd love to see him?Posted by aquarius_beautyYes we do I know I have.Posted by PhoenixRisingDo Scorpios go MIA sometimes? Then return like nothing happened? Especially after expressing 'feelings' or opening up to you?Posted by pisces_89Posted by PhoenixRisingIt’s been a little over 2 months. That definitely could play a part like you say. He usually is pretty busy with work ending late in the night/early morning. I do want to let him know I’d like more contact the next time we meet in person-was afraid it could be misconstrued by textPosted by pisces_89Lol. I guess the other Scorps are thinking what I am...
My Scorpio man travels a lot for work (consulting). How can I get him to communicate more while away? I tend to just wait till he texts me, but sometimes it's difficult and I want to reach out and tell him I'm thinking of him or just say hey how's everything going. He always responds and sometimes initiatives, but how to get him to make the first move more often/frequently?
No magical formula for manipulating initiative here dear Fish beyond you telling him this is something you would like and see if he can do that.
I mean what do you actually chat about if not your needs and expectations? How did you allow him to graduate to being "your man" if he doesn't know this small bit of info about your desire to feel needed?
Your answer to those questions may be the issue.
As well, how long have you been together? That may speak to a few things. What type of day does he have? If it's filled with noise and chatter he may need time to just "be". Too many things you're leaving out to provide more feedback beyond what I shared.
I would agree to not do it over text. As two water signs go with what you do best: connecting on a personal level. Request get delivered and received much better when one can see you in person vs being filtered through his fatigue, irritation or whatever he may be feeling when he reads your text.
Make sure it's simply you sharing your feelings. Don't come off like you're telling him what to do or issuing an ultimatum. That will backfire.
With that stated, he may just be really tired after a long day and (don't take offense) chillin out may take priority over connecting with you at this stage. Or he may simply be a detached Scorp. We do exist. Speaking for myself, 2 months isn't a long time imo to expect me to reach out. I don't know if I'd claim a man that soon.
His distance simply need to be brought to his attention. Acknowledge that this may be hard for him to manage everything and express that you would love to help him unwind, hear about his day.... Also, be aware that you're not going on too much about the challenges your having when you talk. Absolutely nothing wrong with sharing what is going on in your life, just make it balanced. Allow him to share and you share---assuming this isn't already happening.
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Posted by aquarius_beautyPosted by PhoenixRisingDo Scorpios go MIA sometimes? Then return like nothing happened? Especially after expressing 'feelings' or opening up to you?Posted by pisces_89Posted by PhoenixRisingIt’s been a little over 2 months. That definitely could play a part like you say. He usually is pretty busy with work ending late in the night/early morning. I do want to let him know I’d like more contact the next time we meet in person-was afraid it could be misconstrued by textPosted by pisces_89Lol. I guess the other Scorps are thinking what I am...
My Scorpio man travels a lot for work (consulting). How can I get him to communicate more while away? I tend to just wait till he texts me, but sometimes it's difficult and I want to reach out and tell him I'm thinking of him or just say hey how's everything going. He always responds and sometimes initiatives, but how to get him to make the first move more often/frequently?
No magical formula for manipulating initiative here dear Fish beyond you telling him this is something you would like and see if he can do that.
I mean what do you actually chat about if not your needs and expectations? How did you allow him to graduate to being "your man" if he doesn't know this small bit of info about your desire to feel needed?
Your answer to those questions may be the issue.
As well, how long have you been together? That may speak to a few things. What type of day does he have? If it's filled with noise and chatter he may need time to just "be". Too many things you're leaving out to provide more feedback beyond what I shared.
I would agree to not do it over text. As two water signs go with what you do best: connecting on a personal level. Request get delivered and received much better when one can see you in person vs being filtered through his fatigue, irritation or whatever he may be feeling when he reads your text.
Make sure it's simply you sharing your feelings. Don't come off like you're telling him what to do or issuing an ultimatum. That will backfire.
With that stated, he may just be really tired after a long day and (don't take offense) chillin out may take priority over connecting with you at this stage. Or he may simply be a detached Scorp. We do exist. Speaking for myself, 2 months isn't a long time imo to expect me to reach out. I don't know if I'd claim a man that soon.
His distance simply need to be brought to his attention. Acknowledge that this may be hard for him to manage everything and express that you would love to help him unwind, hear about his day.... Also, be aware that you're not going on too much about the challenges your having when you talk. Absolutely nothing wrong with sharing what is going on in your life, just make it balanced. Allow him to share and you share---assuming this isn't already happening.
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Posted by aquarius_beautyI only do stuff you've described to people I'm not that attracted with.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have thought about that. How would you take it, if we're not official? We're in the beginning stages.Posted by aquarius_beautyBe straightforward unless you wanna play games along with him.Posted by Stinger408scorpI did call him that day he ignored me but I hung up after two rings. He didn't call back. It's been 3 days so no word from him either. If he reaches out, should I ignore him or pretend like nothings happened and act casual?Posted by aquarius_beautyCall his ass just to make sure and if he doesn't pick up then leave a message just so there's no excuse on his end that he didn't get your text and then just leave him alone and make his ass work.Posted by Stinger408scorpHow would you take me initiating contact most of the time. Like me initiating seeing you. He has mentioned to me last week he wanted to see me this Friday. But i texted him the following day and he didn't reply -_- so I let things be. Should I initiate contact and let him know I'd love to see him?Posted by aquarius_beautyYes we do I know I have.Posted by PhoenixRisingDo Scorpios go MIA sometimes? Then return like nothing happened? Especially after expressing 'feelings' or opening up to you?Posted by pisces_89Posted by PhoenixRisingIt’s been a little over 2 months. That definitely could play a part like you say. He usually is pretty busy with work ending late in the night/early morning. I do want to let him know I’d like more contact the next time we meet in person-was afraid it could be misconstrued by textPosted by pisces_89Lol. I guess the other Scorps are thinking what I am...
My Scorpio man travels a lot for work (consulting). How can I get him to communicate more while away? I tend to just wait till he texts me, but sometimes it's difficult and I want to reach out and tell him I'm thinking of him or just say hey how's everything going. He always responds and sometimes initiatives, but how to get him to make the first move more often/frequently?
No magical formula for manipulating initiative here dear Fish beyond you telling him this is something you would like and see if he can do that.
I mean what do you actually chat about if not your needs and expectations? How did you allow him to graduate to being "your man" if he doesn't know this small bit of info about your desire to feel needed?
Your answer to those questions may be the issue.
As well, how long have you been together? That may speak to a few things. What type of day does he have? If it's filled with noise and chatter he may need time to just "be". Too many things you're leaving out to provide more feedback beyond what I shared.
I would agree to not do it over text. As two water signs go with what you do best: connecting on a personal level. Request get delivered and received much better when one can see you in person vs being filtered through his fatigue, irritation or whatever he may be feeling when he reads your text.
Make sure it's simply you sharing your feelings. Don't come off like you're telling him what to do or issuing an ultimatum. That will backfire.
With that stated, he may just be really tired after a long day and (don't take offense) chillin out may take priority over connecting with you at this stage. Or he may simply be a detached Scorp. We do exist. Speaking for myself, 2 months isn't a long time imo to expect me to reach out. I don't know if I'd claim a man that soon.
His distance simply need to be brought to his attention. Acknowledge that this may be hard for him to manage everything and express that you would love to help him unwind, hear about his day.... Also, be aware that you're not going on too much about the challenges your having when you talk. Absolutely nothing wrong with sharing what is going on in your life, just make it balanced. Allow him to share and you share---assuming this isn't already happening.
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Posted by aquarius_beautyLeave him alone I know I would if he does all that crap.
@Stinger408scorp
Makes total sense. Oh well. Then I guess, I'll just let it be.
Posted by -elle-Posted by Stinger408scorpSerious question....Posted by aquarius_beautyI only do stuff you've described to people I'm not that attracted with.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have thought about that. How would you take it, if we're not official? We're in the beginning stages.Posted by aquarius_beautyBe straightforward unless you wanna play games along with him.Posted by Stinger408scorpI did call him that day he ignored me but I hung up after two rings. He didn't call back. It's been 3 days so no word from him either. If he reaches out, should I ignore him or pretend like nothings happened and act casual?Posted by aquarius_beautyCall his ass just to make sure and if he doesn't pick up then leave a message just so there's no excuse on his end that he didn't get your text and then just leave him alone and make his ass work.Posted by Stinger408scorpHow would you take me initiating contact most of the time. Like me initiating seeing you. He has mentioned to me last week he wanted to see me this Friday. But i texted him the following day and he didn't reply -_- so I let things be. Should I initiate contact and let him know I'd love to see him?Posted by aquarius_beautyYes we do I know I have.Posted by PhoenixRisingDo Scorpios go MIA sometimes? Then return like nothing happened? Especially after expressing 'feelings' or opening up to you?Posted by pisces_89Posted by PhoenixRisingIt’s been a little over 2 months. That definitely could play a part like you say. He usually is pretty busy with work ending late in the night/early morning. I do want to let him know I’d like more contact the next time we meet in person-was afraid it could be misconstrued by textPosted by pisces_89Lol. I guess the other Scorps are thinking what I am...
My Scorpio man travels a lot for work (consulting). How can I get him to communicate more while away? I tend to just wait till he texts me, but sometimes it's difficult and I want to reach out and tell him I'm thinking of him or just say hey how's everything going. He always responds and sometimes initiatives, but how to get him to make the first move more often/frequently?
No magical formula for manipulating initiative here dear Fish beyond you telling him this is something you would like and see if he can do that.
I mean what do you actually chat about if not your needs and expectations? How did you allow him to graduate to being "your man" if he doesn't know this small bit of info about your desire to feel needed?
Your answer to those questions may be the issue.
As well, how long have you been together? That may speak to a few things. What type of day does he have? If it's filled with noise and chatter he may need time to just "be". Too many things you're leaving out to provide more feedback beyond what I shared.
I would agree to not do it over text. As two water signs go with what you do best: connecting on a personal level. Request get delivered and received much better when one can see you in person vs being filtered through his fatigue, irritation or whatever he may be feeling when he reads your text.
Make sure it's simply you sharing your feelings. Don't come off like you're telling him what to do or issuing an ultimatum. That will backfire.
With that stated, he may just be really tired after a long day and (don't take offense) chillin out may take priority over connecting with you at this stage. Or he may simply be a detached Scorp. We do exist. Speaking for myself, 2 months isn't a long time imo to expect me to reach out. I don't know if I'd claim a man that soon.
His distance simply need to be brought to his attention. Acknowledge that this may be hard for him to manage everything and express that you would love to help him unwind, hear about his day.... Also, be aware that you're not going on too much about the challenges your having when you talk. Absolutely nothing wrong with sharing what is going on in your life, just make it balanced. Allow him to share and you share---assuming this isn't already happening.
Do you have a career?
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Posted by -elle-Posted by Stinger408scorpI wouldn't have gathered that in your replies because you went straight to game playing. Who has time for that?Posted by -elle-Posted by Stinger408scorpSerious question....Posted by aquarius_beautyI only do stuff you've described to people I'm not that attracted with.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have thought about that. How would you take it, if we're not official? We're in the beginning stages.Posted by aquarius_beautyBe straightforward unless you wanna play games along with him.Posted by Stinger408scorpI did call him that day he ignored me but I hung up after two rings. He didn't call back. It's been 3 days so no word from him either. If he reaches out, should I ignore him or pretend like nothings happened and act casual?Posted by aquarius_beautyCall his ass just to make sure and if he doesn't pick up then leave a message just so there's no excuse on his end that he didn't get your text and then just leave him alone and make his ass work.Posted by Stinger408scorpHow would you take me initiating contact most of the time. Like me initiating seeing you. He has mentioned to me last week he wanted to see me this Friday. But i texted him the following day and he didn't reply -_- so I let things be. Should I initiate contact and let him know I'd love to see him?Posted by aquarius_beautyYes we do I know I have.Posted by PhoenixRisingDo Scorpios go MIA sometimes? Then return like nothing happened? Especially after expressing 'feelings' or opening up to you?Posted by pisces_89Posted by PhoenixRisingIt’s been a little over 2 months. That definitely could play a part like you say. He usually is pretty busy with work ending late in the night/early morning. I do want to let him know I’d like more contact the next time we meet in person-was afraid it could be misconstrued by textPosted by pisces_89Lol. I guess the other Scorps are thinking what I am...
My Scorpio man travels a lot for work (consulting). How can I get him to communicate more while away? I tend to just wait till he texts me, but sometimes it's difficult and I want to reach out and tell him I'm thinking of him or just say hey how's everything going. He always responds and sometimes initiatives, but how to get him to make the first move more often/frequently?
No magical formula for manipulating initiative here dear Fish beyond you telling him this is something you would like and see if he can do that.
I mean what do you actually chat about if not your needs and expectations? How did you allow him to graduate to being "your man" if he doesn't know this small bit of info about your desire to feel needed?
Your answer to those questions may be the issue.
As well, how long have you been together? That may speak to a few things. What type of day does he have? If it's filled with noise and chatter he may need time to just "be". Too many things you're leaving out to provide more feedback beyond what I shared.
I would agree to not do it over text. As two water signs go with what you do best: connecting on a personal level. Request get delivered and received much better when one can see you in person vs being filtered through his fatigue, irritation or whatever he may be feeling when he reads your text.
Make sure it's simply you sharing your feelings. Don't come off like you're telling him what to do or issuing an ultimatum. That will backfire.
With that stated, he may just be really tired after a long day and (don't take offense) chillin out may take priority over connecting with you at this stage. Or he may simply be a detached Scorp. We do exist. Speaking for myself, 2 months isn't a long time imo to expect me to reach out. I don't know if I'd claim a man that soon.
His distance simply need to be brought to his attention. Acknowledge that this may be hard for him to manage everything and express that you would love to help him unwind, hear about his day.... Also, be aware that you're not going on too much about the challenges your having when you talk. Absolutely nothing wrong with sharing what is going on in your life, just make it balanced. Allow him to share and you share---assuming this isn't already happening.
Do you have a career?
Yes I do.
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Posted by pisces_89He is answering to you? So what's the problem? Must you complain?
My Scorpio man travels a lot for work (consulting). How can I get him to communicate more while away? I tend to just wait till he texts me, but sometimes it's difficult and I want to reach out and tell him I'm thinking of him or just say hey how's everything going. He always responds and sometimes initiatives, but how to get him to make the first move more often/frequently?
Posted by -elle-Are you trying to get her single again?Posted by SeraphlightWat?
Tell him to call you every day when he is away.
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Posted by -elle-I don't like games cause it's a waste of each other's time but if pushed I will play it and you will end up hurt.Posted by Stinger408scorpI wouldn't have gathered that in your replies because you went straight to game playing. Who has time for that?Posted by -elle-Posted by Stinger408scorpSerious question....Posted by aquarius_beautyI only do stuff you've described to people I'm not that attracted with.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have thought about that. How would you take it, if we're not official? We're in the beginning stages.Posted by aquarius_beautyBe straightforward unless you wanna play games along with him.Posted by Stinger408scorpI did call him that day he ignored me but I hung up after two rings. He didn't call back. It's been 3 days so no word from him either. If he reaches out, should I ignore him or pretend like nothings happened and act casual?Posted by aquarius_beautyCall his ass just to make sure and if he doesn't pick up then leave a message just so there's no excuse on his end that he didn't get your text and then just leave him alone and make his ass work.Posted by Stinger408scorpHow would you take me initiating contact most of the time. Like me initiating seeing you. He has mentioned to me last week he wanted to see me this Friday. But i texted him the following day and he didn't reply -_- so I let things be. Should I initiate contact and let him know I'd love to see him?Posted by aquarius_beautyYes we do I know I have.Posted by PhoenixRisingDo Scorpios go MIA sometimes? Then return like nothing happened? Especially after expressing 'feelings' or opening up to you?Posted by pisces_89Posted by PhoenixRisingIt’s been a little over 2 months. That definitely could play a part like you say. He usually is pretty busy with work ending late in the night/early morning. I do want to let him know I’d like more contact the next time we meet in person-was afraid it could be misconstrued by textPosted by pisces_89Lol. I guess the other Scorps are thinking what I am...
My Scorpio man travels a lot for work (consulting). How can I get him to communicate more while away? I tend to just wait till he texts me, but sometimes it's difficult and I want to reach out and tell him I'm thinking of him or just say hey how's everything going. He always responds and sometimes initiatives, but how to get him to make the first move more often/frequently?
No magical formula for manipulating initiative here dear Fish beyond you telling him this is something you would like and see if he can do that.
I mean what do you actually chat about if not your needs and expectations? How did you allow him to graduate to being "your man" if he doesn't know this small bit of info about your desire to feel needed?
Your answer to those questions may be the issue.
As well, how long have you been together? That may speak to a few things. What type of day does he have? If it's filled with noise and chatter he may need time to just "be". Too many things you're leaving out to provide more feedback beyond what I shared.
I would agree to not do it over text. As two water signs go with what you do best: connecting on a personal level. Request get delivered and received much better when one can see you in person vs being filtered through his fatigue, irritation or whatever he may be feeling when he reads your text.
Make sure it's simply you sharing your feelings. Don't come off like you're telling him what to do or issuing an ultimatum. That will backfire.
With that stated, he may just be really tired after a long day and (don't take offense) chillin out may take priority over connecting with you at this stage. Or he may simply be a detached Scorp. We do exist. Speaking for myself, 2 months isn't a long time imo to expect me to reach out. I don't know if I'd claim a man that soon.
His distance simply need to be brought to his attention. Acknowledge that this may be hard for him to manage everything and express that you would love to help him unwind, hear about his day.... Also, be aware that you're not going on too much about the challenges your having when you talk. Absolutely nothing wrong with sharing what is going on in your life, just make it balanced. Allow him to share and you share---assuming this isn't already happening.
Do you have a career?
Yes I do.
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Posted by -elle-And what makes you say that?Posted by Stinger408scorpIf you have time to play them you aren't doing it rightPosted by -elle-I don't like games cause it's a waste of each other's time but if pushed I will play it and you will end up hurt.Posted by Stinger408scorpI wouldn't have gathered that in your replies because you went straight to game playing. Who has time for that?Posted by -elle-Posted by Stinger408scorpSerious question....Posted by aquarius_beautyI only do stuff you've described to people I'm not that attracted with.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have thought about that. How would you take it, if we're not official? We're in the beginning stages.Posted by aquarius_beautyBe straightforward unless you wanna play games along with him.Posted by Stinger408scorpI did call him that day he ignored me but I hung up after two rings. He didn't call back. It's been 3 days so no word from him either. If he reaches out, should I ignore him or pretend like nothings happened and act casual?Posted by aquarius_beautyCall his ass just to make sure and if he doesn't pick up then leave a message just so there's no excuse on his end that he didn't get your text and then just leave him alone and make his ass work.Posted by Stinger408scorpHow would you take me initiating contact most of the time. Like me initiating seeing you. He has mentioned to me last week he wanted to see me this Friday. But i texted him the following day and he didn't reply -_- so I let things be. Should I initiate contact and let him know I'd love to see him?Posted by aquarius_beautyYes we do I know I have.Posted by PhoenixRisingDo Scorpios go MIA sometimes? Then return like nothing happened? Especially after expressing 'feelings' or opening up to you?Posted by pisces_89Posted by PhoenixRisingIt’s been a little over 2 months. That definitely could play a part like you say. He usually is pretty busy with work ending late in the night/early morning. I do want to let him know I’d like more contact the next time we meet in person-was afraid it could be misconstrued by textPosted by pisces_89Lol. I guess the other Scorps are thinking what I am...
My Scorpio man travels a lot for work (consulting). How can I get him to communicate more while away? I tend to just wait till he texts me, but sometimes it's difficult and I want to reach out and tell him I'm thinking of him or just say hey how's everything going. He always responds and sometimes initiatives, but how to get him to make the first move more often/frequently?
No magical formula for manipulating initiative here dear Fish beyond you telling him this is something you would like and see if he can do that.
I mean what do you actually chat about if not your needs and expectations? How did you allow him to graduate to being "your man" if he doesn't know this small bit of info about your desire to feel needed?
Your answer to those questions may be the issue.
As well, how long have you been together? That may speak to a few things. What type of day does he have? If it's filled with noise and chatter he may need time to just "be". Too many things you're leaving out to provide more feedback beyond what I shared.
I would agree to not do it over text. As two water signs go with what you do best: connecting on a personal level. Request get delivered and received much better when one can see you in person vs being filtered through his fatigue, irritation or whatever he may be feeling when he reads your text.
Make sure it's simply you sharing your feelings. Don't come off like you're telling him what to do or issuing an ultimatum. That will backfire.
With that stated, he may just be really tired after a long day and (don't take offense) chillin out may take priority over connecting with you at this stage. Or he may simply be a detached Scorp. We do exist. Speaking for myself, 2 months isn't a long time imo to expect me to reach out. I don't know if I'd claim a man that soon.
His distance simply need to be brought to his attention. Acknowledge that this may be hard for him to manage everything and express that you would love to help him unwind, hear about his day.... Also, be aware that you're not going on too much about the challenges your having when you talk. Absolutely nothing wrong with sharing what is going on in your life, just make it balanced. Allow him to share and you share---assuming this isn't already happening.
Do you have a career?
Yes I do.
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Posted by AgentP911This thread really took off!
OP,
It's only been two months. I don't know your situation but this is still the early stages of dating where you are learning about each other.
I think this is too early to communicate your need for him to initiate more just to fill the hole you're feeling.
It's like unwrapping a present. At the moment you have opened only one end and are peaking in to see what it could be. Try not to complain about what might be inside before you've taken the time to unwrap it fully.
He IS initiating and he IS responding to you. These are both very positive. I would look at the reason WHY you feel you NEED him to initiate more.
Give it more time first. If you want to hear from him a little more then initiate a little more. Don't pursue or harrass the guy. Let things flow.
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