Scorpio Man/ Scorpio Woman

In "Love Signs", Linda Goodman wrote that the Scorpio man and Scorpio woman can go for weeks, months, or even years without giving in and admitting their feelings for each other.

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Hi, I married a Scoprio woman and we have been together for over twenty years... has it been that long... I think in some cases your right but we dont need to say everything cause we just know how we feel. I have read how the male Scorpio is jealous and I have never been that way, but I was born Oct 29th and it seems that my friends that are also Scorpio and are born around the 22 of October are a bit diffrent. They seem to be the jealous ones and very competitive too. Just a intresting observation on my end. Its funny but Scorpios gravitate to Scorpios too...

Scorpio Guy...

Thanks. I can understand the day-to-day *knowing* between two Scorpios in a relationship. That's a given.

But what about initially establishing that relationship? Neither party willing to make the first move-- over a looooong period of time--in spite of all signs pointing to the inevitable... that's the issue that's making me crazy.

What's the solution?

I was involved with a Scorpio once. We had no problem admitting we had feelings for one another. Our problem completely had to do with trust issues. He was flirtatious and I didn't trust that as far as I could spit, and he hated it when other men talked to me - wanted to hide me away from the world or something. I didn't like the 'it's okay for me, but not for you' attitude and I thought he played too many mind games.

LOL - I would not call that relationship a match made in heaven - more like a match made in Hades lol. We were both too jealous, too mistrustful, too controlling, too possessive, too stubborn... too too too Scorpio? lol (I was born on 10/31 and he was born on 11/3 - Maybe we were just too much alike lol)

Nope - I wouldn't try that one again, but I'm happy to hear it worked out for someone. 🙂

Congrats on 20 years!!!! I think that's just awesome. 🙂

I knew 2 Scorpios involved. They ended up tearing each other apart. Scorpio and Scorpio relations go either really well or really bad.

Strange....I'm a pisces and scorpio rising.......never knew that....because I'm always trying to end the cycle and move on....but I just can't with this one scorpio....now I know its a trait maybe I can finally let go and swim away.......mmmmmmm

Socrates, when's your birthday exactly (just the month and day) just curious.

on the isles of march....the fifteenth....caesar's assination....look for clues what you can learn from the past and what intriques you...again in a positive light....thats when a pisces "feels" the direction to move to....sometimes the direction leads us to a new experience to learn both positive and negative aspects of ourselves....believe me...been to the path less travelled more times than i can count....lol

This is to Riders Angel...I just got this weird deja vu feeling reading your response to the Scorpio man/Scorpio woman topic. You see, my birthday is 11/3 and the birthday of the guy I like is 10/31. I guess we're the reverse of you and the guy you were once involved with. It's pretty weird...anyway, we also have some trust issues. I don't trust him at all, I have no clue as to how he really feels about me. But regardless of all that, I still like him, I don't know why. A little bit of trivia, something you might already know, the main traits of people with your birthday are that they're caring, observant, and indomitable (Book of Birthdays, they're at any bookstore). Just thought I'd share that, peace out.

I also wanted to add that Scorpio men are usually excellent when it comes to sex and passion, at least in my esperience, maybe that's why it's hard to let them go...

yes and no.......its not sex that keeps my mind floating to another region....but an emotion.....i felt safe...not alone....and the funny thing was .........we were hardly together....but when i was....ahhhh i wish him all the love and support i can give but i wish he would cut me loose.....sry

But back to the original thought....i've thought about this a little....are either of you creative.....like do they play an intstrument....you could ask them to play the kelley song from cheers....lol....ok joking...but sing/write/ I love you this valentine day....everywhere in your place together.....and just watch his/her reaction.....just a thought from a dreamy place....lol....stay positive its all a learning experience

To Scorpio1103: That's just eery lol. I guess it's got to do with the dates we were born on or something, seeing as how the reverse of the dates still doesn't remove the trust issues. The only recommendation I can give is 'try' to focus on the positive things he has to offer and 'try' not to focus on the jealousy issue, but I know how hard this is. Remember, not all of us Scorpios are incapable of being with just one partner - maybe he's another exception to this rule. 🙂 The man I was referring to had too many sides to his personaly for me to ever get close to understanding him (he was one person in one situation and 10 other situations had another personality type *shew talk about confusing lol*) and he was wayyyyyy too flirtatious for me to ever feel comfortable. A very close friend of mine came by last evening and she ended up spending the night. She and I were planning to go to the store to get some munchies when her little girl woke up just as we were going out the door. I left the house at 2:00 a.m. and I didn't blink twice about trusting my fiancee alone in the house with another woman. THIS is what was missing in the relationship with the Scorpio. I guess my Cancerman just offers more stability to me. BUT, that doesn't mean I'm recommending you leave your Scorp and find a Cancer - just understand that with 2 such similar personalities, things such as trust may come a little more slowly... As Scorps, we just can't help our natural curiosity and that niggling little mistrust bell that goes off - just try to ignore it lol. Hang in there and focus on the things you do love about him. I wish you all the best of luck. 🙂

Hugsssssssssss
Angel

Thanks Angel, good luck with your Cancerman.

Hi,

I have read the comments and suggestions above. I am a Scorpio woman and just met a Scorpio man for 30 mins. & I am not able to take my mind off him.

Any suggestions ? Is it worth it to take him off my mind or do I try and persue him ahead. and how ?

I do not see myself being able to do either of the 2.