Scorpio men - what attracts you physically?

I have a lovely Scorpio man interested in me over text - we connected 2 years ago and have texted on and off (sometimes big gaps of many months).

The pictures he saw of me back then, I was only 14lbs overweight… but since then (for reasons I won’t go into here) I’ve packed on another 25 pounds 😢

I’m ready to tackle this, in my time - but Me Scorpio is recently back in touch… is pushing to meet finally

There are many reasons why we never met before, nothing insidious, just life.

Now I’m too fat to meet him! I don’t feel like myself much, very self conscious and don’t want him running for hills.

I know I shouldn’t care… but I do!

How horrified would you Scorpio guys be?!!!

I think most people would run for the hills, especially Scorpio men.

It's easier to fatten up while already in a relationship and maintain the relationship despite the weight gain. Attempting to attract a partner who already has expectations about your appearance while being overweight and on top of that feeling self-conscious? I would not recommend.

Either work on your body positivity and/or weight loss but don't enter a relationship or seek one while being an insecure mess.

Posted by Lumin
Oh dear, I (used to) have body dysmorphia and just know that you should not delay your life because of your weight. Carry yourself with confidence and any weight will look good on you.

Thanks for your positivity…

You’re right, I guess as I feel unhappy about the weight gain, its affecting me.

I appreciate your response and I will do this whilst starting my weight loss journey - which can only add positivity 🙏🏾

Posted by Dastard2020
I think most people would run for the hills, especially Scorpio men.

It's easier to fatten up while already in a relationship and maintain the relationship despite the weight gain. Attempting to attract a partner who already has expectations about your appearance while being overweight and on top of that feeling self-conscious? I would not recommend.

Either work on your body positivity and/or weight loss but don't enter a relationship or seek one while being an insecure mess.

Ouch!

‘Most men especially Scorpio men’ - bitter pill to swallow but thanks for the truth 🙏🏾

I’d say Scorpio dudes can be pretty vain soo

Posted by SassyKiwi
I’d say Scorpio dudes can be pretty vain soo

Dang… well looks like I’m crossing him of my list!

Yea, Scorpio will either love you or hate you, so don't feel bad of he's like, super instant reject!

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I’d say Scorpio dudes can be pretty vain soo

Dang… well looks like I’m crossing him of my list!

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I would also use this opportunity as a social experiment for yourself. Go and meet up with him and see how things go just for fun. You literally have nothing to lose because you don’t have to see or talk to him afterwards if things go bad.

Depends where the weight went

Posted by AquaClassy
If you have personality they are able to fall in love with, your body is secondary for them. That’s what I see interacting with scorpios.

That’s nice to hear - if only everyone fell in love with a naked soul , would make the world a better place

Posted by AquaClassy
If you have personality they are able to fall in love with, your body is secondary for them. That’s what I see interacting with scorpios.

I laughed so hard reading this.

“Personality.” For a scorpio man? What are we talking about here? Let’s not mislead OP. Scorpio men are as evil as they come. On God.

Just wear a black bodysuit and don't over think it.

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Posted by AquaClassy
If you have personality they are able to fall in love with, your body is secondary for them. That’s what I see interacting with scorpios.

I laughed so hard reading this.
“Personality.” For a scorpio man? What are we talking about here? Let’s not mislead OP. Scorpio men are as evil as they come. On God.
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Not the one I met. And yes personally because if they can't be deep in your head with their possessiveness then you out 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Are they evil-yes i agree, but it doesn't change fact they can fall in love and if so they will accept your body how it is.

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Nah, the ones I knew gets deep in somebody’s head and still plays games. They’re plain evil.

Geminis are sick though if they’re Pluto dominant.

OP, get you a Gemini

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If you have personality they are able to fall in love with, your body is secondary for them. That’s what I see interacting with scorpios.

That’s nice to hear - if only everyone fell in love with a naked soul , would make the world a better place
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From my experience gay are most critical when it comes to appearence.

Also the one I knew loved big butt's, and every scorpio love big tits. 😁

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Ooooh well, I’ve never dated a Scorpio, only Aquarius, Taurus, cancer and Capricorn - interestingly none of them were too worried about weight (I’ve fluctuated over decades and kids) - I’m a Taurus, cancer rising l, Aquarius moon. I literally have no experience of Scorpio except a friend from years ago who fancied me big time… I was young and voluptuous haha, he called me Aphrodite- but this 30 years ago!

Posted by therestheone
OP, get you a Gemini

I thought Gemini men were into elfin boy like bodies?!! Only what Ive read!

Posted by Walk_on_by
Just wear a black bodysuit and don't over think it.

Like bin liner?!!!

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Posted by AquaClassy
If you have personality they are able to fall in love with, your body is secondary for them. That’s what I see interacting with scorpios.

I laughed so hard reading this.

“Personality.” For a scorpio man? What are we talking about here? Let’s not mislead OP. Scorpio men are as evil as they come. On God.

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Oh God! Please explain the evil thing—!!! I’m very curious to learn anything!!!

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Posted by AquaClassy
If you have personality they are able to fall in love with, your body is secondary for them. That’s what I see interacting with scorpios.

I laughed so hard reading this.
“Personality.” For a scorpio man? What are we talking about here? Let’s not mislead OP. Scorpio men are as evil as they come. On God.
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Oh God! Please explain the evil thing—!!! I’m very curious to learn anything!!!

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They just play too much. Like they know they have you, they know they’re your world, but then they’ll play military mind games like it’s ww3. Who has the time for that bro.

Looks and first impressions matter, but that aint even enough to keep them around even when they know they’ve got your whole heart.

Aa far as the evil thing, idk what’s more evil than somebody knowing they have your heart who keeps playing military mind games with you.

I say if you really hell bent about it, go out on a date just to see what happens. Placements matter too. If it’s too much Sag energy I would stay clear and far away from that, unless the placements are in more spiritual aspects. Then again, I could be wrong and you could be a keeper in their eyes. You won’t know unless you go and find out. Just be yourself and enjoy yourself whatever the outcome. They aint shit anyway.

@AquaClassy is the hurt showing yet 😂😂😂 I seen you Like my other post on Raina’s topic. But let me tell you when I say I wasn’t playing no games, I mean I was playing 0 games and this fool thought he was too good for me until he came back around time and time again.

Guess some scorpio men can’t control that Sag energy and they be heavy on the hoe shit 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ not my problem 😂

OP yo I got stories for daaaaaaaayyyyyssssss but I can’t get into it on your topic, don’t wanna hijack the thread

OP, did you ever go out on that date? What happened?