Scorpio men: why are they so charming and sweet?

So this is the conflict. He said we were "friends", but that came from when we were in Public speaking class as we were listening to a speech on marriage and divorce and I leaned into him and said "that is why they should be friends first". He finds excuses to touch me; serious why touch someones thigh, arm, back(when he was talking to another guy he said "we") and cupped his hand over mine. The list just goes on and on, I don't understand why he says one thing but behaves another way for three months like this and just yesterday he said he has a girlfriend which know is not me. But yet he still does all these things. Drives me nt because I wanted to be mad at him.

Posted by JTaurus
So this is the conflict. He said we were "friends", but that came from when we were in Public speaking class as we were listening to a speech on marriage and divorce and I leaned into him and said "that is why they should be friends first". He finds excuses to touch me; serious why touch someones thigh, arm, back(when he was talking to another guy he said "we") and cupped his hand over mine. The list just goes on and on, I don't understand why he says one thing but behaves another way for three months like this and just yesterday he said he has a girlfriend which know is not me. But yet he still does all these things. Drives me nt because I wanted to be mad at him.

If you want to be mad at him, go ahead be mad at him. Your choice.

He's using your body. You need to tell him to stop.

He's ready to cheat....and that will be with you. Doesn't mean he wants a relationship with you in the later on just means he's and asshole.

Posted by IntriguedScorp
*sigh*

How do we know the guy's a marker and this woman is not wishful thinking?

Not all men are markers. Seriously.

/rant

Thank you intrigued.
My x and my mother called me an "asshole". 😢
I'm not an "asshole".
I try not to be an "asshole".
But like you say, it could be wishful thinking.

I honestly cannot remember why mom called me an "asshole".
It was about 25 years ago.
I don't know why, but "asshole" is one of her favorite bad words.
She even laughs when she says "asshole".
I guess, to her, "asshole" sounds funny.

Do you or anyone else, think that word "asshole", itself, sounds funny?

ehhh... some people are very friendly and some people are just leading others on. i think the line between the two is extremely hazy.


there's a guy at a hospital that i would always talk to (another scorp actually)... not even flirting, just liked to small talk about whatever. weeks of short chit chat and occasional joking. talk was so small and brief that the fact that i have a bf never really came up until recently. id noticed he was getting a little flirty and i could tell he was days away from asking for my number so i just dropped it casually in convo about doing something with my bf.

did i lead him on? i really hope not, but i've been told in other situations similar to this that it is misleading. i of course disagree, but whatever the case, i always handle it.

some people are flat out misleading, some are ignorantly misleading, some are more aware and respectful. it's kind of a hard call if you are going to call someone out on intentionally leading you on, but i say if it makes you feel better than go and speak your mind, get the truth, squash it... be more respected.

Posted by IntriguedScorp

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by IntriguedScorp
*sigh*

How do we know the guy's a marker and this woman is not wishful thinking?

Not all men are markers. Seriously.

/rant

Thank you intrigued.
My x and my mother called me an "asshole". 😢
I'm not an "asshole".
I try not to be an "asshole".
But like you say, it could be wishful thinking.

I honestly cannot remember why mom called me an "asshole".
It was about 25 years ago.
I don't know why, but "asshole" is one of her favorite bad words.
She even laughs when she says "asshole".
I guess, to her, "asshole" sounds funny.

Do you or anyone else, think that word "asshole", itself, sounds funny?

LMBO! I actually use the word "marker" now in conversation. And I really don't know exactly what it means. Its just sounds right for some reason. 😄

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... freakin scorpios

FOR HEAVENS SAKE
SCORPIO MEN ARE THE COMPLETE OPPOSITE

Seriously (exoskeleton)you are annoying, this is the second time you dropped a comment on one of my boards and it's nothing more than "lol". I didn't say I wanted to roll around in the hay with him, I can get alpha males NO problem with that what so ever; wishful thinking please(intriguedscorpio). MAKER= creates a false state of emotions or thoughts, baby maker...
Thanks chachacha, creepypants and ellessque that was helpful. Look I'm honest enough to say I could of should of ignored the whole scenerio, male or female you can only go as far as the other person lets you. He is an awesome friend he truely is but that is also why I am mad I thought are communication was stronger than that because hmm sure people hide certain things about their personal life but already being romantically attatched shouldn't be one of them.

dimitri explain more what you mean by that, nice attitude behind that I got a good chuckle from that.

Posted by IntriguedScorp

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by IntriguedScorp
*sigh*

How do we know the guy's a marker and this woman is not wishful thinking?

Not all men are markers. Seriously.

/rant

Thank you intrigued.
My x and my mother called me an "asshole". 😢
I'm not an "asshole".
I try not to be an "asshole".
But like you say, it could be wishful thinking.

I honestly cannot remember why mom called me an "asshole".
It was about 25 years ago.
I don't know why, but "asshole" is one of her favorite bad words.
She even laughs when she says "asshole".
I guess, to her, "asshole" sounds funny.

Do you or anyone else, think that word "asshole", itself, sounds funny?

LMBO! I actually use the word "marker" now in conversation. And I really don't know exactly what it means. Its just sounds right for some reason. 😄

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No, not "marker"
but

Posted by scorchedearth
mrfirebird, maybe you really were being an asshole? 😛

Not true.
Just because she's my mother, doesn't mean she's entitled to call me an A S S H O L E
Mother is partially to blame for makin' me and my x partially to blame for making me Daddy
and the both of them, what they THINK I am.....
But...
😢 I am NOT a machine and I am not an A S S H O L E !! 😢

Lol @ lol

Bullgem, she must be seeing red

Whooo JTaurus babyyy!! Pump your brakes mama.. The reason Scorp Pawed your body..its cuz you ALLOWED him to. Either he's being extrememly flirty to gauge your reaction to see if you can SET boundaries. You didn't so..he'll keep doing it until you tell him to stop. Its that simple. Don't read too hard into Scorpio's flirting. Ask him how his girlfriend is doing when he approaches again..then read his body language.

Attitudes should be left outside of the forums.. Tuck the horns away..

I wouldn't consider Scorpio men to be the ultimate "Alpha Male" though..(not that there is anything wrong with that), I'm just sayin'.. I would think Aries men fit the description. "The Competitive hunter", always ready for the chase, must be 1st in EVERYTHING...etc. --ALPHA MALE.

Ok I can laugh at this because you all made good points, yes as suggested I should put the horns away. My apology to everyone that I lashed out at really I am sorry. I was showing the worst of me, not the best of me. I did not mean he was sexually touching me, just hmm..if he was honest from the get go that he had a girlfriend I wouldn't have thought the door was open for light-flirting with him. It is so hard for me to explain in just a few words I pay enough attention to him to know he is there and maybe a smile or a joke to make him laugh thats it but then I just go about my business, this seems to some how encourage his behavior. I am so lost with this Scorp, its like right on the line of he could be telling the truth and trying to make me jealious GOSH its just too much making me crazy hahaha.
Hey exoskeleton it was I forget the exact wording of the title but I was talking about the same guy, confused about his behavior towards me and trying to ask anyone to help figure out why he was behaving the way he was towards me pretty much like this post here. Its like he knows how to control the situation every time then when I later on think about it, I get flustered. I heard Scorps "can be" secretive about their feelings and thoughts toward certain people if their life to avoid disappointment and hurt, ehhh assuming that might be true than how do I approach him to ask what the heck is going on without ruining the friendship?