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Posted by Kalelno
Should I do this to the 3 girls I ghosted? I think they were 3

Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Dang man you go through men like a kid go through candy. A lot of Pisces men are nothing but druggies and alcoholics. If he's like my weed headed Pisces nephew he's no good which I hope he ain't and hope you know what you're getting yourself into. I know you meant to say livid when I read vivid. So what is it you want from us?

Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Dang man you go through men like a kid go through candy. A lot of Pisces men are nothing but druggies and alcoholics. If he's like my weed headed Pisces nephew he's no good which I hope he ain't and hope you know what you're getting yourself into. I know you meant to say livid when I read vivid. So what is it you want from us?
I don’t know what I want. And yes I meant livid.
I guess I just wanted to write my current feelings down.
Pisces is not a druggie, he is a doctor…click to expand

Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by Jumpin_JupiterI don’t know what I want. And yes I meant livid.
Dang man you go through men like a kid go through candy. A lot of Pisces men are nothing but druggies and alcoholics. If he's like my weed headed Pisces nephew he's no good which I hope he ain't and hope you know what you're getting yourself into. I know you meant to say livid when I read vivid. So what is it you want from us?
I guess I just wanted to write my current feelings down.
Pisces is not a druggie, he is a doctor…
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Yeah I just thought it's about time we boomers retire from all of this and spend the rest of our lives in peace and harmony. We Gen x's are approaching the boomer ages now. But since he's a doctor he's a good one. At least he got a career unlike other Pisces I know.click to expand

Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by Kalelno
Should I do this to the 3 girls I ghosted? I think they were 3
I need your sage advice ands. Hit me with your Taurus grounded wisdom, por favor.click to expand

Posted by KalelnoPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by KalelnoI need your sage advice ands. Hit me with your Taurus grounded wisdom, por favor.
Should I do this to the 3 girls I ghosted? I think they were 3
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Block for 2-3 months then see where your headspace is then
I do not allow my cortisol to go above certain levels so I would not be engaging any furtherclick to expand

Posted by Overthinker
What I can say to this is only - been there, done that (or read: heard the same). I think this speaks enough for itself. I've had exact same convos with a Scorpio I met when I was 16 and he was 17. My friend (Gemini btw) married one who did the same several times. She's not happy with him but she made her peace she can live without him too. I'd say don't waste your time any further. They do that simply to mess with your head and it's honestly not worth it. Have you watched sex and the city? Big is a description of Scorpio man. Carries is a description of a Gemini woman. And you know what their relationship looks like. It's a textbook example of what these men do. I love big in fact and I like how they romanticized a toxic relationship, but let's be real - who needs that in real life honestly? It's exciting, it's consuming and it causes you serious heartbreaks and loss of nerves and stress that eventually lead to disappointment.
And may I add in the end - I was Carrie and I dealt with my Mr Big eventhough hw wasn't Scorpio but a Virgo. And i did get it my way. But in the end it's not worth it, I played myself with that ans I should have given up at the very begining

Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by KalelnoPosted by borednbeautifulBlock for 2-3 months then see where your headspace is thenPosted by KalelnoI need your sage advice ands. Hit me with your Taurus grounded wisdom, por favor.
Should I do this to the 3 girls I ghosted? I think they were 3
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I do not allow my cortisol to go above certain levels so I would not be engaging any further
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I unfollowed and asked him to do the same. And he complied.
I don’t intend to engage any further at this current state of mind.click to expand

Posted by KalelnoPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by KalelnoI unfollowed and asked him to do the same. And he complied.Posted by borednbeautifulBlock for 2-3 months then see where your headspace is thenPosted by KalelnoI need your sage advice ands. Hit me with your Taurus grounded wisdom, por favor.
Should I do this to the 3 girls I ghosted? I think they were 3
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I do not allow my cortisol to go above certain levels so I would not be engaging any further
click to expand
I don’t intend to engage any further at this current state of mind.
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Is that how instagram breakups happen?click to expand

Posted by OverthinkerPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by OverthinkerWhy do they do this? I told him it’s manipulation, I openly confronted him and he denied it.
What I can say to this is only - been there, done that (or read: heard the same). I think this speaks enough for itself. I've had exact same convos with a Scorpio I met when I was 16 and he was 17. My friend (Gemini btw) married one who did the same several times. She's not happy with him but she made her peace she can live without him too. I'd say don't waste your time any further. They do that simply to mess with your head and it's honestly not worth it. Have you watched sex and the city? Big is a description of Scorpio man. Carries is a description of a Gemini woman. And you know what their relationship looks like. It's a textbook example of what these men do. I love big in fact and I like how they romanticized a toxic relationship, but let's be real - who needs that in real life honestly? It's exciting, it's consuming and it causes you serious heartbreaks and loss of nerves and stress that eventually lead to disappointment.
And may I add in the end - I was Carrie and I dealt with my Mr Big eventhough hw wasn't Scorpio but a Virgo. And i did get it my way. But in the end it's not worth it, I played myself with that ans I should have given up at the very begining
He said - can you get out of your own ego? It has nothing to do with you, bla bla bla.
Anyway, unfollowed and plan on keeping it that way.
This feeling shall pass. I already forgot about him until he triggered me again.
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Because it's who they are. They thrive on being mysterious. They make themselves appear difficult snd complicated. Meanwhile they deal with most basic things every other human in the world deals with - but to them it feels unique and dramatic, like no one can feel it so deeply as them. That's why I always say they have no depth. Because their depth is imaginary, what they created it to be while everyone else accepts it and deals with it in much normal ways. All in all, it's simply who they are, you can't change it, you can just accept it or cross them over and move on.click to expand
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by KalelnoPosted by borednbeautifulIs that how instagram breakups happen?Posted by KalelnoI unfollowed and asked him to do the same. And he complied.Posted by borednbeautifulBlock for 2-3 months then see where your headspace is thenPosted by KalelnoI need your sage advice ands. Hit me with your Taurus grounded wisdom, por favor.
Should I do this to the 3 girls I ghosted? I think they were 3
click to expand
I do not allow my cortisol to go above certain levels so I would not be engaging any further
click to expand
I don’t intend to engage any further at this current state of mind.
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Well, I know him in person too, but since he works in construction/civil engineering, he travels a lot for projects. He is very secretive and somewhat a recluse.click to expand

Posted by PolyannananaPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by KalelnoWell, I know him in person too, but since he works in construction/civil engineering, he travels a lot for projects. He is very secretive and somewhat a recluse.Posted by borednbeautifulIs that how instagram breakups happen?Posted by KalelnoI unfollowed and asked him to do the same. And he complied.Posted by borednbeautifulBlock for 2-3 months then see where your headspace is thenPosted by KalelnoI need your sage advice ands. Hit me with your Taurus grounded wisdom, por favor.
Should I do this to the 3 girls I ghosted? I think they were 3
click to expand
I do not allow my cortisol to go above certain levels so I would not be engaging any further
click to expand
I don’t intend to engage any further at this current state of mind.
click to expand
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He sounds horrible ! Sorry girl but the doctor sounds good 😍😍
Scorpio men, when they are the bad kind they really are selfish bastards and really get under your skin too 😭😂😂click to expand
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by PolyannananaPosted by borednbeautifulHe sounds horrible ! Sorry girl but the doctor sounds good 😍😍Posted by KalelnoWell, I know him in person too, but since he works in construction/civil engineering, he travels a lot for projects. He is very secretive and somewhat a recluse.Posted by borednbeautifulIs that how instagram breakups happen?Posted by KalelnoI unfollowed and asked him to do the same. And he complied.Posted by borednbeautifulBlock for 2-3 months then see where your headspace is thenPosted by KalelnoI need your sage advice ands. Hit me with your Taurus grounded wisdom, por favor.
Should I do this to the 3 girls I ghosted? I think they were 3
click to expand
I do not allow my cortisol to go above certain levels so I would not be engaging any further
click to expand
I don’t intend to engage any further at this current state of mind.
click to expand
click to expand
click to expand
Scorpio men, when they are the bad kind they really are selfish bastards and really get under your skin too 😭😂😂
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Can you please tell me why is he doing this? 🤔
I am so sad in a way that it came to this. We’ve had some great time together 😔
Pisces is very lovely. A bit passive, but I’m sure there is a naughty boy in there somewhere (Aries venus).click to expand


Posted by hermitcrab
Did you ever ask him what he was going through?

Posted by MyStarsShine
He sounds like hard work
I’d stay away from him
Gemini and Scorpio together
= 😬🥴

Posted by OverthinkerPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by OverthinkerI deal with it by becoming angry, saying my peace and moving on with someone better/ Leo moon style ✌️Posted by borednbeautifulBecause it's who they are. They thrive on being mysterious. They make themselves appear difficult snd complicated. Meanwhile they deal with most basic things every other human in the world deals with - but to them it feels unique and dramatic, like no one can feel it so deeply as them. That's why I always say they have no depth. Because their depth is imaginary, what they created it to be while everyone else accepts it and deals with it in much normal ways. All in all, it's simply who they are, you can't change it, you can just accept it or cross them over and move on.Posted by OverthinkerWhy do they do this? I told him it’s manipulation, I openly confronted him and he denied it.
What I can say to this is only - been there, done that (or read: heard the same). I think this speaks enough for itself. I've had exact same convos with a Scorpio I met when I was 16 and he was 17. My friend (Gemini btw) married one who did the same several times. She's not happy with him but she made her peace she can live without him too. I'd say don't waste your time any further. They do that simply to mess with your head and it's honestly not worth it. Have you watched sex and the city? Big is a description of Scorpio man. Carries is a description of a Gemini woman. And you know what their relationship looks like. It's a textbook example of what these men do. I love big in fact and I like how they romanticized a toxic relationship, but let's be real - who needs that in real life honestly? It's exciting, it's consuming and it causes you serious heartbreaks and loss of nerves and stress that eventually lead to disappointment.
And may I add in the end - I was Carrie and I dealt with my Mr Big eventhough hw wasn't Scorpio but a Virgo. And i did get it my way. But in the end it's not worth it, I played myself with that ans I should have given up at the very begining
He said - can you get out of your own ego? It has nothing to do with you, bla bla bla.
Anyway, unfollowed and plan on keeping it that way.
This feeling shall pass. I already forgot about him until he triggered me again.
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Life is too short - I wanna enjoy! 🤩
He will probably stay stuck in his misery 🥴
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Absolutely, it's not worth wasting your time on undeserving people. And yes, he's going to remain that way.click to expand

Posted by PolyannananaPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by PolyannananaCan you please tell me why is he doing this? 🤔Posted by borednbeautifulHe sounds horrible ! Sorry girl but the doctor sounds good 😍😍Posted by KalelnoWell, I know him in person too, but since he works in construction/civil engineering, he travels a lot for projects. He is very secretive and somewhat a recluse.Posted by borednbeautifulIs that how instagram breakups happen?Posted by KalelnoI unfollowed and asked him to do the same. And he complied.Posted by borednbeautifulBlock for 2-3 months then see where your headspace is thenPosted by KalelnoI need your sage advice ands. Hit me with your Taurus grounded wisdom, por favor.
Should I do this to the 3 girls I ghosted? I think they were 3
click to expand
I do not allow my cortisol to go above certain levels so I would not be engaging any further
click to expand
I don’t intend to engage any further at this current state of mind.
click to expand
click to expand
click to expand
Scorpio men, when they are the bad kind they really are selfish bastards and really get under your skin too 😭😂😂
click to expand
I am so sad in a way that it came to this. We’ve had some great time together 😔
Pisces is very lovely. A bit passive, but I’m sure there is a naughty boy in there somewhere (Aries venus).
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Did you hurt the Scorpio's ego in any way? Maybe without being aware of it?
Also did he know before these final messages from your social media that you were dating others?
The way he ended things gave me the impression that his ego was hurt. And like a kid he is trying to make you feel like he didn't care much anyways, which happened to me once with a scorpio ex 😂😂
Or he realized he really can't make a relationship with you due to work and tried to look cool and like he is over it.
Probably a combo of these 2 😝click to expand


Posted by OverthinkerPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by OverthinkerMaybe in 3 months I will give him a taste of his medicine. Casually say hello “on good terms”Posted by borednbeautifulAbsolutely, it's not worth wasting your time on undeserving people. And yes, he's going to remain that way.Posted by OverthinkerI deal with it by becoming angry, saying my peace and moving on with someone better/ Leo moon style ✌️Posted by borednbeautifulBecause it's who they are. They thrive on being mysterious. They make themselves appear difficult snd complicated. Meanwhile they deal with most basic things every other human in the world deals with - but to them it feels unique and dramatic, like no one can feel it so deeply as them. That's why I always say they have no depth. Because their depth is imaginary, what they created it to be while everyone else accepts it and deals with it in much normal ways. All in all, it's simply who they are, you can't change it, you can just accept it or cross them over and move on.Posted by OverthinkerWhy do they do this? I told him it’s manipulation, I openly confronted him and he denied it.
What I can say to this is only - been there, done that (or read: heard the same). I think this speaks enough for itself. I've had exact same convos with a Scorpio I met when I was 16 and he was 17. My friend (Gemini btw) married one who did the same several times. She's not happy with him but she made her peace she can live without him too. I'd say don't waste your time any further. They do that simply to mess with your head and it's honestly not worth it. Have you watched sex and the city? Big is a description of Scorpio man. Carries is a description of a Gemini woman. And you know what their relationship looks like. It's a textbook example of what these men do. I love big in fact and I like how they romanticized a toxic relationship, but let's be real - who needs that in real life honestly? It's exciting, it's consuming and it causes you serious heartbreaks and loss of nerves and stress that eventually lead to disappointment.
And may I add in the end - I was Carrie and I dealt with my Mr Big eventhough hw wasn't Scorpio but a Virgo. And i did get it my way. But in the end it's not worth it, I played myself with that ans I should have given up at the very begining
He said - can you get out of your own ego? It has nothing to do with you, bla bla bla.
Anyway, unfollowed and plan on keeping it that way.
This feeling shall pass. I already forgot about him until he triggered me again.
click to expand
click to expand
Life is too short - I wanna enjoy! 🤩
He will probably stay stuck in his misery 🥴
click to expand
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What works best on them is ignoring. The more you seem unbothered the more they stick to you. As long as you show their actions leave an impact on you - you're exactly where they want youclick to expand

Posted by hermitcrabPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by hermitcrabI asked back in March and he said he didn’t wanna talk about it. He asked me how do I reconcile with intruding thoughts and going back to past, reconsidering decisions? He said he had to make a decision like his life depended on it.
Did you ever ask him what he was going through?
I asked again yesterday if he is better, and he said yes.
I am suspicious of something criminal. We do have local mafia here. Money laundering, gambling, drugs, arms trade, human trafficking.
He lives a good life and works for an architectural firm. He already told me about cocaine and poker gambling. I mean I only knew him casually 2 years and dated only 2 months.
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Don’t give these hoes your energy. How long is his ring finger and how big are his balls?click to expand

Posted by hermitcrabPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by hermitcrabI asked back in March and he said he didn’t wanna talk about it. He asked me how do I reconcile with intruding thoughts and going back to past, reconsidering decisions? He said he had to make a decision like his life depended on it.
Did you ever ask him what he was going through?
I asked again yesterday if he is better, and he said yes.
I am suspicious of something criminal. We do have local mafia here. Money laundering, gambling, drugs, arms trade, human trafficking.
He lives a good life and works for an architectural firm. He already told me about cocaine and poker gambling. I mean I only knew him casually 2 years and dated only 2 months.
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Don’t give these hoes your energy. How long is his ring finger and how big are his balls?click to expand
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by PolyannananaPosted by borednbeautifulDid you hurt the Scorpio's ego in any way? Maybe without being aware of it?Posted by PolyannananaCan you please tell me why is he doing this? 🤔Posted by borednbeautifulHe sounds horrible ! Sorry girl but the doctor sounds good 😍😍Posted by KalelnoWell, I know him in person too, but since he works in construction/civil engineering, he travels a lot for projects. He is very secretive and somewhat a recluse.Posted by borednbeautifulIs that how instagram breakups happen?Posted by KalelnoI unfollowed and asked him to do the same. And he complied.Posted by borednbeautifulBlock for 2-3 months then see where your headspace is thenPosted by KalelnoI need your sage advice ands. Hit me with your Taurus grounded wisdom, por favor.
Should I do this to the 3 girls I ghosted? I think they were 3
click to expand
I do not allow my cortisol to go above certain levels so I would not be engaging any further
click to expand
I don’t intend to engage any further at this current state of mind.
click to expand
click to expand
click to expand
Scorpio men, when they are the bad kind they really are selfish bastards and really get under your skin too 😭😂😂
click to expand
I am so sad in a way that it came to this. We’ve had some great time together 😔
Pisces is very lovely. A bit passive, but I’m sure there is a naughty boy in there somewhere (Aries venus).
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Also did he know before these final messages from your social media that you were dating others?
The way he ended things gave me the impression that his ego was hurt. And like a kid he is trying to make you feel like he didn't care much anyways, which happened to me once with a scorpio ex 😂😂
Or he realized he really can't make a relationship with you due to work and tried to look cool and like he is over it.
Probably a combo of these 2 😝
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I think I may have hurt his ego when I said I didn’t feel chemistry and connection anymore between us. And when I said not to contact me again. But then I felt bad, and wanted to apologize. Which was my bad.
He was short, cold, detached.
Why reply at all? He could have seen from my posts I moved on…
He probably knows Aries and Pisces too. It’s a medium size city.click to expand

Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by MyStarsShine
He sounds like hard work
I’d stay away from him
Gemini and Scorpio together
= 😬🥴
Ahhhhh star!
Should have listened to you long ago 😑
He’s a very difficult energy and aura..
How’s Gemini and Pisces in your opinion?click to expand
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I am currently seeing a pisces guy and we have a great connection and chemistry.
But he does get under my skin sooo bad that I could easily see myself strangling him ugh 😣 😬
(The Scorpio I mean).
Some of you may remember he took a break from dating me a couple of months ago. He was going through something internally. Then sometime in April I sent him a message asking him how he is doing, no reply.
So i honestly kinda gave up. I met an Aries, then his friend Pisces, then a Sagittarius.
Fast forward to this weekend. Scorpio replies to my message from April. WTF? Why?
I was somewhat cold and detached, and he was even worse so. I asked him why now and he said he wasn’t in a good place, and can I leave my ego aside, all he wanted was say hello “on good terms”, bla bla bla. But he doesn’t wanna date because he is not the same person he was 3 months ago and it has nothing to do with me.
At this point I lose it. I tell him to leave me alone, not to write to me, to unfollow me.
And he said sorry if I ever hurt you. And I said the same back. I said I was disappointed in him. And he just kept quiet..
But didn’t block me.
I am still vivid! The nerve of this man!!!