Hello, this is my very first post. I have a few questions that I hope you can all help me with. So, I am a Scorpio male, born the 30 of October. Long story short, I broke up with my ex because of his excessive flirting and hookup app usage (when I discovered it and also I had a feeling). Whilst dating him, one of his aquaintances was this other guy who I didn't know was a scorpio too (4 Nov). This guy added me on instagram and we would often talk about gym related stuff. Eventually we became better "friends" when I broke up with my ex but it was never sexual ot with any sexual innuendos at all. We talked about each other and realised we botnh were scorpios so we kinda became super talkative. He eventually gave me his number. We would text random things and eventually he started telling me to come out or to travel with him and such. I always thought he was good looking but never really went beyond that. Eventually he started to ghost me and I confronted him. He later told me he felt like I was playing games because my ex started to text him so this guy thought I had some devious plan with my ex to play a game ( I still live with the ex ? since April up until now and till november when he moves out, he moved into the spare bedroom). This wasn't the case. He became friendly again eventually and trusted me so I wasn't gonna give him any doubt not to trust me as I was warming up to him so I kept my word and believe it or not, living with my ex became even more of a housemate thing and I ignored all the advances my ex made. Eventually the ex gave up and right now we hardly coincide in the house. This is good. So, I decided to book a trip to London for a weekend because I was feeling lonely and wanted to explore. This scorpio guy was texting me and suddenly I decided to invite him. During the week coming up to the london weekend he was chatty af, telling me how excited he was as talking we realised we had a lot in common. So, the day came and this was the very first time him and I would actually hang out one on one. It was amazing. Not only did I feel safe, I warmed up to him super quick and we were on the same midset, cracking jokes and we had A LOT of chemistry. So, that night we slept together. But this wasn't a "lets fuck" kinda thing. We spooned, spoke whilst spooning about life and we really connected so we stared off being super loving and we got to th hot stage and when done we hugged again and all I can say is that it was so intense and romantic. I loved it. The next morning he started it and we were back at it again. He was huggy throughout the day. So the weekend ended and I got a text saying he was happy we went and that he missed his spoon and that he reckons we would make a great team and protect each other. After a week of slowly dying texts...BAM. He no longer reads his texts straight away. He waits a long time and I feel a bit heartbroken. I am a scorpio so I am thinking "does he feel like I do? Trying to be mysterious so e doesn't lose me?" "Or has he lost interest?" And I get paranoid. I felt so amazing being with him and analizing my previous dates I realised he made me feel butterflies and like I can trust him whereas with other dates I always had a naggy feeling that something wasn't quite right. So, what do you all think? I feel a bit poo at the moment. I don't wanna ruin this if we have a chance, I wanna get to know him better and we agreed I'd go visit him (he lives about half an hour away) but for the time being he doesn't text as often. I'm super confused because I thought I'd know him because he is a scorpio and so am I but I'm clueless ?
SCORPIO + SCORPIO RELATIONSHIP
He's not friends friends with him. He knows him but they've only hung out twice because they know the same people so it was a group going out thing both times.

This sounds messy and I would have been out from "Whilst dating him, one of his aquaintances was this other guy who I didn't know was a scorpio too (4 Nov). This guy added me on instagram..." however, you're not asking that.
Anyway, don't try to "figure" him out, just set the pace and just be straightforward. In other words, don't sit there trying to guess why he isn't texting as much, just text him and try to engage him. He may need space, he may be bored with you, who knows.
If your actions do not appear to be reciprocated, and you sense he is interested and you would like that to change talk to him about it. If nothing changes at that point, move on.
This tit for tat, mirroring is usually Scorp-Scorp undoing before it can even officially start. Someone will need to take the lead. Since you're the one here asking for advice, that would be you.
Anyway, don't try to "figure" him out, just set the pace and just be straightforward. In other words, don't sit there trying to guess why he isn't texting as much, just text him and try to engage him. He may need space, he may be bored with you, who knows.
If your actions do not appear to be reciprocated, and you sense he is interested and you would like that to change talk to him about it. If nothing changes at that point, move on.
This tit for tat, mirroring is usually Scorp-Scorp undoing before it can even officially start. Someone will need to take the lead. Since you're the one here asking for advice, that would be you.
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