Scorpio Sun Male toying w/my Scorpio Moon emotions

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Geminthesun
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I am a Gemini female with Scorpio Moon and I have really liked a particular Scorpio Sun male for quite awhile...5 years in to be exact. It has taken so long to come to any sort of "action" b/c when we met, we were both attached/married to another. But the chemistry and attraction has always been there and you could cut it with a knife. Anyway, to get to the point, over the past year (each of us "unattached") he has been more touchy-feely and bold. He has touched my thighs, knees, arms, and leaves his hands in place for a long time every time. Sometimes it stays quiet for a long time when we talk and we lock eyes the whole time. He asks me questions about my life and he tells me random things about his life. But, he has never asked me out. So I on the other hand have not pursued him. I feel if a man likes me, he will ask me out right? Anyway, the green light for me to gently break the ice and inform him that I was attracted to him came after he came up to me at the gym by surprise while I was still in my truck. He came up to my car door quite forceful, gave me a hug and squeezed me pretty tight. He then walked me in, and we talked for a good 20 minutes about random stuff. So I sent him this message and he DID NOT RESPOND! I was pretty ticked b/c I thought maybe, just maybe we were both holding back and one of us needed to give in. Well, I did and I feel angry. I sent him another message (probably another mistake to add to the first one) and told him that since he did not respond, I definitely got the message but only enjoyed talking to him. I know this was the wrong thing to say but I felt inclined to salvage my dignity. Again, he didn't respond! I am not so much mortified as I am inclined to let him know he cannot and will not shake me. Of course I will not ever message him again or take his flirtations seriously from here on out. But I just cannot understand why anyone would not respond. At least tell me he didn't mean to lead me on or that he isn't interested. I can live w/that. But not responding is totally rude and confusing since he has always been so kind. So is he interested or not? I am again-UNSURE.
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Easha23000us
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From here on out, pretend that you do not care...Act as if you have never sent the message, and when he gives you that scorpionic stare, out stare him, but in a non flirtatious way. If you act as if you are affected by his actions, or should I say inaction, it would cause him to stir up more emotions from you. When you see him again, pretend all is well, plaster the biggest and prettiest smile on your face, and remain unaffected. Scorpios like to stir things up,just to see how they affect you. Don't play into it.Once he sees that you are your normal self, and not acting differently towards him, if he does like you, He will respond more favorably.
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Posted by Geminthesun
So I sent him this message and he DID NOT RESPOND!



What message did you send him?

Posted by Geminthesun
Well, I did and I feel angry. I sent him another message (probably another mistake to add to the first one) and told him that since he did not respond, I definitely got the message but only enjoyed talking to him.
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Dignity doesn't have anything to do with the other person. But sending a second message after he didn't reply to the first sounds insecurish and pushy to me.

When did you send him the message? How much time has it passed since then?

I don't know about the rest..up until the thing with the messages it seems he was into you but I cannot tell if into you for the sexual chemistry or really into you, so I won't say anything about that.
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Geminthesun
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I am a Gemini with Scorpio Moon. While I do have traits of a Gemini, I am not the most social or lighthearted as some. I am very emotional and intense and perhaps a little morbid and I guess that COULD be a little of the Scorpio moon in me. It is pretty tough. But again, I am not saying that I am totally like Scorpio. My point is that people often say Scorpios and Geminis do not go well. The things that bother me about Gemini's may be exactly what Scorpio people and other signs dislike and that is what makes me different than the typical Gemini. But who knows.