Dream Gifts for Dream Girls

Gemini girls, if you could ask for one thing from your boyfriend what would it be?

Ok, I can see somebody is jealous that I'm giving the pretty gemmies so much attention. Can't say I blame you though 🙂

Seriously Missfisk Pisces girls are pretty too just in a different way don't be jealous.

(Runs and hides before rage hits)

Posted by Tornadoday16
Gemini girls, if you could ask for one thing from your boyfriend what would it be?

I want experiences, not objects. A mystery trip (doesn't have to be far) to somewhere really interesting, for example. And a guy who doesn't shy away from sharing in the experience.

Posted by Whimsy

Posted by Tornadoday16
Gemini girls, if you could ask for one thing from your boyfriend what would it be?

I want experiences, not objects. A mystery trip (doesn't have to be far) to somewhere really interesting, for example. And a guy who doesn't shy away from sharing in the experience.

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yea this sounds about right..thinking back I don't really carry or care much about the objects my exes got for me.. but I never forget good experiences or activities we did together.. and of course my guy needs to be in and down for those experiences with me any time..

I agree with Whimsy and Xxixxi! The past 3 years have been more memorable for me! I have been to more places and experienced more things these last few years than I have in my whole entire life! I can honestly say, I'm living the dream! 🙂

Jeez, a surprise trip or something of the sort will definitely be the best EVER!

@everyone
Would y'all rather your boyfriend take you tubing down a quiet, rural river or take you to a theme park for roller coaster riding? Or maybe even just go on a day trip to the beach have dinner and get diamonds afterwards?

Posted by Tornadoday16
@everyone
Would y'all rather your boyfriend take you tubing down a quiet, rural river or take you to a theme park for roller coaster riding? Or maybe even just go on a day trip to the beach have dinner and get diamonds afterwards?

Yeah, 100% agree with the other girls. Its experiences that are the most valuable.

Many and varied experiences are it. Exploring new things or old things in new ways. Everything you listed could potentially be a great time. There is no hard set rule just have fun. Also find ways to make the unromantic things you do fun and romantic. The other night i was slow dancing with my partner in the carpark of the shopping centre when we went to buy a few things. Spontaneous moments.

I know Gemini aren't the materialistic type but im just wondering if there is a particular jewel that y'all really like or think is in fashion?

^^Not really. I kind of like Turquoise. I do like big, unusual funky jewellery, stuff you can buy in second hand shops. Indian grocery shops where i live have the most amazing earrings. Really beautiful and elaborate.

Do you think you would be freaked out on a first date if a guy gave you like a diamond or something?

Posted by Tornadoday16
Do you think you would be freaked out on a first date if a guy gave you like a diamond or something?

Yes. I would run for the hills. Too much pressure. LOL. I don't even like getting flowers.

I can understand diamonds being too much pressure but flowers? I love giving girls flowers. I'm not trying to box her in with them I just like how romantic I feel giving her something pretty like that. I'd think that a Gemini would like romantic things like that as long as they don't feel boxed in by it.

Posted by Tornadoday16
I can understand diamonds being too much pressure but flowers? I love giving girls flowers. I'm not trying to box her in with them I just like how romantic I feel giving her something pretty like that. I'd think that a Gemini would like romantic things like that as long as they don't feel boxed in by it.

I do like romantic things but they have to be unusually romantic. Flowers are a bit too usual. I got given flowers once and it did freak me out. Was like outr 3rd date or something. I felt pressure. As i was driving home after the date i stopped and left them on a stranger's doorstep with a little note to say "hope these brighten your day, with love from a passerby". Just not for me.

hmmm....maybe its just me or could be my aqua moon. I remember a guy gave me his recycling once. That made my day. So bizarre and sweet.

LOL Was it a piece of art made from his recycling or did he just give you the bin and say "hey, throw this out for me"?

Posted by Tornadoday16
LOL Was it a piece of art made from his recycling or did he just give you the bin and say "hey, throw this out for me"?

Bahaha....no it wasn't art. He just thought i "looked like the kind of girl that would enjoy recycling."

Wow... And you were enthralled because you didn't know how to respond to that? What was his sign?

Posted by Tornadoday16
Wow... And you were enthralled because you didn't know how to respond to that? What was his sign?

He was an aqua.

So who is this gem woman you are looking to romance?

*actually he still is an aqua. That was weird of me to use past tense.

I mean he was taking a chance. My Aqua Mars respects that much.

Yeah, I actually really appreciated the thought and effort. Aqua men are my weakness though.

Anyway. I think if you want to impress a gemini woman with an actual physical object then make it something unusual and something that has meaning to just the two of you. Something that isn't what you would give to everyone. Something particularly special for her personality

@Sunshinedaze
There actually isn't a particular girl right now but I am really attracted to Gemini's bodies and their ditzy air attract me and I want to learn more about y'all.

Posted by Tornadoday16
@Sunshinedaze
There actually isn't a particular girl right now but I am really attracted to Gemini's bodies and their ditzy air attract me and I want to learn more about y'all.

Ah i see. Well, what i said above still stands. Unique and thoughtful warm our hearts, not generic romance.

Okay, I can dig giving her something special thats cool. It's just sometimes when I express my feelings for someone it comes out in a sudden blast so I could imagine some Gems being freaked out by that its just unfortunate because I don't mean to box them in I just want to say "you are beautiful" but it can be hard for people to understand Pisces since we can have extreme emotions and at the same time not be ruled them.

What happened to the gemini Tornadoday?

@loveseeker
We are on good terms but not romantic ones and I haven't been seeing her too much since I have left that job so I'm moving on.

Posted by Tornadoday16
Do you think you would be freaked out on a first date if a guy gave you like a diamond or something?

Umm, yes. For me, that's a bit tooooooooooo forward and suspiciously early.... Lol!

@misslissa
What if it was just as a joke? Like he gives it to you just to see how you react and then takes it away. Lol

Not a good joke..... For me, something more practical is good. Something I can use. And, every time I use it that person will be thought of with a smile. 🙂

Altho, I do like the art idea, as well! I have a lot of aqua influence in my chart. Lol!

Something you can get use out of and think of me everytime you use it? I have a few ideas 😉 One art idea I have is to ask a girl out to a show I am playing and play a love song that is obviously about her. It's romantic but might be a little too creepy for Gemini, it's probably something that a cancer would enjoy.

Tubing or a rollercoaster= yes. Romantic dinner and diamonds= no. Gifts too early are a turn-off for me. It feels like pressure. I just want to "hang" and figure out if I like a guy before things turn serious enough for gifts. You seem pretty set on the gift thing, but I really wouldn't recommend it.

Posted by Whimsy
Tubing or a rollercoaster= yes. Romantic dinner and diamonds= no. Gifts too early are a turn-off for me. It feels like pressure. I just want to "hang" and figure out if I like a guy before things turn serious enough for gifts. You seem pretty set on the gift thing, but I really wouldn't recommend it.

Completely agree here..
Woohoo roller coaster!!
Or going check out some off beat art galleries??
Actually my sag friend/date?? and I are going to do this.. steam punk arts exhibition lol
Never been to one related to steam punk themed..
I don't know why but appealing to the romantic side doesn't work with me.. actually on the early stage that sounds boring lol..
Romantic dinner flowers jewels..any other guy can give them to me.. bring me something unusual some ideas I have never explored..
As for early gifts.. I'd rather be happy given with some funky flavoured candies than flowers.. Some weird flavoured sweets so he and I can try them together and go ewwww or laugh together.. now that's new that's fun and not so pressuring..🙂

I think it's a good idea to be a little kid when you hang out with gems.. regardless your biological age.. We love to have fun, some childish fun lol .. never become afraid of bringing up something new because kids are all about curiosity towards this world and the life.. and I believe gems have this attitude towards everything..

Posted by Tornadoday16
Gemini girls, if you could ask for one thing from your boyfriend what would it be?

I would love a romantic poem, home cooked meal or a nice place for a romantic dinner. Laying under the stars listening to music!! Anything thought out and personal to me is really what will warm my heart.

I am a hopeless romantic!!

@Waterygem
Wow. That sounds so beautiful. That sounds so Cancer like. What is your Venus placement? I think the answer to this question would really rely more on the Venus placement than the sun.

@xxixxi
Yea, there are a lot more ways to react to a steam punk exhibit than a dinner. Mind telling your Mars and Venus placements? Because I have Mars Aquarius I really get what you mean about dates to the movies or restaraunt a being too boxing, but with my Venus in Pisces I still really enjoy the sentimentality if those dates.

Posted by Tornadoday16
Something you can get use out of and think of me everytime you use it? I have a few ideas 😉 One art idea I have is to ask a girl out to a show I am playing and play a love song that is obviously about her. It's romantic but might be a little too creepy for Gemini, it's probably something that a cancer would enjoy.

Well, I am gem sun/venus and cancer moon/merc/mars. Yes, I would find a romantic song about me on the FIRST DATE alil creepy. Like Whimsy said, first dates are for getting to know each other.... Even the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, etc., dates are for that.....

I think it's safe to say that the gift giving, especially romantic gift giving, should be held off until like, maybe, 6th month, for me. Lol!

Posted by Tornadoday16
@xxixxi
Yea, there are a lot more ways to react to a steam punk exhibit than a dinner. Mind telling your Mars and Venus placements? Because I have Mars Aquarius I really get what you mean about dates to the movies or restaraunt a being too boxing, but with my Venus in Pisces I still really enjoy the sentimentality if those dates.

Scorpio mars cancer venus

I'm Gemini Venus, Aqua Mars, and my chart is nearly equal parts air and water (34.7% air and 30.5% water).

Tornadoday, dealing with a Gem is counterintuitive. With most ladies, you romance first and then they decide if they like you. With most Gems, we decide we like you and then you can romance us.

In the beginning, just being thoughtful, gentlemanly, and original will earn you more points than being romantic.

Tornadoday, I just had a lot of coffee, so here's a story about my best Gemini friend and a Pisces man (for what it's worth):

They met on a music cruise, and had a blast. There was always something new and exciting to share (dancing, exploring, ports of call, exotic foods) and zero pressure because they were just having fun. They happened to live close to each other, so she was excited to see how things would go back on dry land.

He flubbed it up immediately (poor guy had no idea he was messing up) by calling her every day and sending flowers to her workplace. From her point of view, he was acting like someone who believed they were already a couple. Her interest nosedived and she dumped him.

I've seen this happen time after time with the same Gem and other Pisces guys who came on too strong or too quickly. Only one Pisces made it to "boyfriend" status, and that's just because he was the strangest person she had ever met and she was endlessly intrigued by his personality. His personality was an adventure in and of itself!

Posted by Tornadoday16
Gemini girls, if you could ask for one thing from your boyfriend what would it be?

It probably wouldn't be drugs, that's for sure.

Are you kidding? That's one of the great things about having a Pisces boyfriend! 😉

I was just funnin', Carlos.

But...he wasn't her boyfriend, was he?

Posted by Sunshinedaze

Posted by Tornadoday16
Do you think you would be freaked out on a first date if a guy gave you like a diamond or something?

Yes. I would run for the hills. Too much pressure. LOL. I don't even like getting flowers.

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^^This

That's way too freaky for me too. Like THE WALLS ARE CLOSING IN! Water signs corner the shit out of us and this is where they always go wrong. Trying to drown us. Calm down you know LOL! Flowers are ok but it has to be on an ACTUAL occasion. I don't like super overdoing cause then I get kinda uncomfortable like what are you up to? What did you do....SUSPICIOUS. OR it just makes me feel weird like youre a stage 5 clinger.

Posted by Tornadoday16
@Waterygem
Wow. That sounds so beautiful. That sounds so Cancer like. What is your Venus placement? I think the answer to this question would really rely more on the Venus placement than the sun.

My Venus is in Cancer. 🙂

well I'm a Gemini Guy but as far as I know Gemini don't like getting things from others specially the first day not because they dislike it but because it will drive us to overthink about the causes which will lead to negative thoughts as you are bying her so you can bang her . It's just too iritating . At first date , try to be charming , witty , a good talker , and that Gem girl will be certainly yours 😉