Scorpio trying to make me jealous

I was talking to a scorpio online (many planets in scorpio), and he didn't know what I looked like. He was very polite... then after I sent him my pic (which he liked? ) He was smitten, and then started writing me these messages, mentioning these women, and talking about his ex so I did the same back. Why? Why is he trying to piss me off? WHY?

I hate feeling jealousy and I am a fair person, so I will always do the same back to him, but I don't want to..

thanks yall

Posted by al7isra
I was talking to a scorpio online (many planets in scorpio), and he didn't know what I looked like. He was very polite... then after I sent him my pic (which he liked? ) He was smitten, and then started writing me these messages, mentioning these women, and talking about his ex so I did the same back. Why? Why is he trying to piss me off? WHY?

I hate feeling jealousy and I am a fair person, so I will always do the same back to him, but I don't want to..

thanks yall

don't think too deep into it, or analyze it, he is just being himself. if you don't like the way he is, and it makes you already too jealous and pissed off, I don't think he is the guy for you.

edit -- i'm jus' saying, early on if he pisses you off, and you get too jealous, just think when you are with him. You will be unhappy always pissed off and jealous.

Posted by Arielle83
He's just being open

This. He's being open, and the fact that you are giving it back to him in return is showing him that you are ok with him being open with you. If you don't want to hear it, tell him.

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Posted by pisces4scorpio
its actually about intimacy. Sharing on a more intimate level to bring you into an inner circle like a confidant.

When they talk about women theyre doing NOW it means you dont mean anything to them. If they only talk about the past experiences, they are sharing with you on an intimate level.

Dont be jealous. But, Scorpios like blunt straight forward addressment of feelings so if it does hurt just tell him or ask him.

I truly doubt this is something that´s meant to be that deep, it´s not sharing on an intimate level. You overrate scorpios way too much 😄 And guys. It´s just talk.

This topic is about how you want the scorpio to be thinking, not what´s actually really going on, which is in many cases: nothing.

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Yea, but I'm a scorpio and @pisces4scorpio is 100% true. It is intimate to share things about yourself. Scorpios, water signs in general tend to be private people and not many people get to know certain things, so if I invite you into that space, it means you are special. Somethings aren't that deep to other people (like you I presume, no offense) so the intent is misinterpreted.

Posted by Hare
He sounds interpersonally inept.

Yes he does, and insecure

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Posted by pisces4scorpio
its actually about intimacy. Sharing on a more intimate level to bring you into an inner circle like a confidant.

When they talk about women theyre doing NOW it means you dont mean anything to them. If they only talk about the past experiences, they are sharing with you on an intimate level.

Dont be jealous. But, Scorpios like blunt straight forward addressment of feelings so if it does hurt just tell him or ask him.

I truly doubt this is something that´s meant to be that deep, it´s not sharing on an intimate level. You overrate scorpios way too much 😄 And guys. It´s just talk.

This topic is about how you want the scorpio to be thinking, not what´s actually really going on, which is in many cases: nothing.

Yea, but I'm a scorpio and @pisces4scorpio is 100% true. It is intimate to share things about yourself. Scorpios, water signs in general tend to be private people and not many people get to know certain things, so if I invite you into that space, it means you are special. Somethings aren't that deep to other people (like you I presume, no offense) so the intent is misinterpreted.

I´m a scorpio too girl.

And I was involved with a scorpio guy too, so...... What´s the problem?

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LOL theres a problem? Like i said…for some people its not that deep, for a some, things have more than a surface meaning. Case in point…this convo.

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Posted by Hare
He sounds interpersonally inept.

Yes he does, and insecure

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Ive had guys mention other women to me on dates, messages, conversations and its in bad taste.

Im too insecure for that. Whether it be test, openess, or just plain ol stupidity.

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Posted by pisces4scorpio
its actually about intimacy. Sharing on a more intimate level to bring you into an inner circle like a confidant.

When they talk about women theyre doing NOW it means you dont mean anything to them. If they only talk about the past experiences, they are sharing with you on an intimate level.

Dont be jealous. But, Scorpios like blunt straight forward addressment of feelings so if it does hurt just tell him or ask him.

I truly doubt this is something that´s meant to be that deep, it´s not sharing on an intimate level. You overrate scorpios way too much 😄 And guys. It´s just talk.

This topic is about how you want the scorpio to be thinking, not what´s actually really going on, which is in many cases: nothing.

Yea, but I'm a scorpio and @pisces4scorpio is 100% true. It is intimate to share things about yourself. Scorpios, water signs in general tend to be private people and not many people get to know certain things, so if I invite you into that space, it means you are special. Somethings aren't that deep to other people (like you I presume, no offense) so the intent is misinterpreted.

I´m a scorpio too girl.

And I was involved with a scorpio guy too, so...... What´s the problem?

LOL theres a problem? Like i said…for some people its not that deep, for a some, things have more than a surface meaning. Case in point…this convo.

Your post for sure came off a little high-horsed. "I´m a scorpio, I´m a water sign and everything I say and do is deep and meaningful, but you probably don´t understand you poor you not born a scorpio". I had to take the piss.

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omg you two. 😆



well I agree with notsosure.

if he can't be open with you, then he will HIDE shit from you. because OP, you are jealous and pissed off already and that isn't good based on a relationship.

edit - or he just might leave, and disappear.

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Posted by pisces4scorpio
its actually about intimacy. Sharing on a more intimate level to bring you into an inner circle like a confidant.

When they talk about women theyre doing NOW it means you dont mean anything to them. If they only talk about the past experiences, they are sharing with you on an intimate level.

Dont be jealous. But, Scorpios like blunt straight forward addressment of feelings so if it does hurt just tell him or ask him.

I truly doubt this is something that´s meant to be that deep, it´s not sharing on an intimate level. You overrate scorpios way too much 😄 And guys. It´s just talk.

This topic is about how you want the scorpio to be thinking, not what´s actually really going on, which is in many cases: nothing.

Yea, but I'm a scorpio and @pisces4scorpio is 100% true. It is intimate to share things about yourself. Scorpios, water signs in general tend to be private people and not many people get to know certain things, so if I invite you into that space, it means you are special. Somethings aren't that deep to other people (like you I presume, no offense) so the intent is misinterpreted.

I´m a scorpio too girl.

And I was involved with a scorpio guy too, so...... What´s the problem?

LOL theres a problem? Like i said…for some people its not that deep, for a some, things have more than a surface meaning. Case in point…this convo.

Your post for sure came off a little high-horsed. "I´m a scorpio, I´m a water sign and everything I say and do is deep and meaningful, but you probably don´t understand you poor you not born a scorpio". I had to take the piss.

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My bad—didn't realize it came off that way.

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Posted by al7isra
I was talking to a scorpio online (many planets in scorpio), and he didn't know what I looked like. He was very polite... then after I sent him my pic (which he liked? ) He was smitten, and then started writing me these messages, mentioning these women, and talking about his ex so I did the same back. Why? Why is he trying to piss me off? WHY?

I hate feeling jealousy and I am a fair person, so I will always do the same back to him, but I don't want to..

thanks yall

-If a guy I recently met, speaks to me of other women and exes... I immediately friend zone him and do the same - open up and tell him about other guys and my exes. And keep him as a good friend!

If he shows that he likes me and then starts talking to me of other women in the early stages of courtship, I find that rude and confusing. I won't do the same, instead, I will tell him that I don't appreciate that behavior. I don't play jealous games.

If we are in a committed relationship and he tells me about his exes, I am totally cool with it because I see it as him bonding and sharing his life with me. I also don't mind if he finds other females attractive (as long as it's respectful and he isn't gawking).



Having said that, I think you pissed yourself off. If you like him and you don't appreciate him talking about other girls, then your job was to communicate that clearly to him - instead of doing the same. Give him a chance to know YOU and your limits.

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☝️️100% correct.

Posted by leowww
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people who play these types of mind games happen to be very insecure.

I don't see him playing any games. to me it's incompatibility.

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Posted by pisces4scorpio
its actually about intimacy. Sharing on a more intimate level to bring you into an inner circle like a confidant.

When they talk about women theyre doing NOW it means you dont mean anything to them. If they only talk about the past experiences, they are sharing with you on an intimate level.

Dont be jealous. But, Scorpios like blunt straight forward addressment of feelings so if it does hurt just tell him or ask him.

I truly doubt this is something that´s meant to be that deep, it´s not sharing on an intimate level. You overrate scorpios way too much 😄 And guys. It´s just talk.

This topic is about how you want the scorpio to be thinking, not what´s actually really going on, which is in many cases: nothing.

Yea, but I'm a scorpio and @pisces4scorpio is 100% true. It is intimate to share things about yourself. Scorpios, water signs in general tend to be private people and not many people get to know certain things, so if I invite you into that space, it means you are special. Somethings aren't that deep to other people (like you I presume, no offense) so the intent is misinterpreted.

I´m a scorpio too girl.

And I was involved with a scorpio guy too, so...... What´s the problem?

LOL theres a problem? Like i said…for some people its not that deep, for a some, things have more than a surface meaning. Case in point…this convo.

Your post for sure came off a little high-horsed. "I´m a scorpio, I´m a water sign and everything I say and do is deep and meaningful, but you probably don´t understand you poor you not born a scorpio". I had to take the piss.

omg you two. 😆

well I agree with notsosure.

if he can't be open with you, then he will HIDE shit from you. because OP, you are jealous and pissed off already and that isn't good based on a relationship.

edit - or he just might leave, and disappear.

Yeah probably should have made a: 😄 in my other post, to not let the negativity go on.

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lol well even same sun signs see things differently and don't agree.

ladies, ladies, the OP and the guy are very incompatible. OP needs someone more of gentleman quality.

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Posted by al7isra
I was talking to a scorpio online (many planets in scorpio), and he didn't know what I looked like. He was very polite... then after I sent him my pic (which he liked? ) He was smitten, and then started writing me these messages, mentioning these women, and talking about his ex so I did the same back. Why? Why is he trying to piss me off? WHY?

I hate feeling jealousy and I am a fair person, so I will always do the same back to him, but I don't want to..

thanks yall

...I think you pissed yourself off. If you like him and you don't appreciate him talking about other girls, then your job was to communicate that clearly to him - instead of doing the same. Give him a chance to know YOU and your limits.

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This.

Posted by -elle-
"Many planets in scorpio"

Where is his sun though?

it sounds like, to me, through observation, the OP likes a gentlemanly type of guy and all the female who are disgusted by the OP's scorpio or scorpio stellium, have prominent Libra in their chart.

Libra's like a less crass, more polite gentleman type.

Posted by notsosure
It´s kind of weird how everyone´s getting all riled up here, when really we hardly know nothing about the situation. 😄

She writes they are chatting online.

She sends him a pic, so obviously they don´t know each other from before or from real life.

He thinks she´s cute/likes the pic.

Topic creator seems to think that is the same as he wants something with her and is now playing games to fuck with her and get her jealous, and that´s where I think she is getting just a teeny tiny bit carried away.

I think she didn´t talk to him about not talking about other women,, because she hardly knows him, their relationship is just that of an online, very very new thing. - But she has many emotions invested in it and can´t handle it already.

I mean how you can you be so emotionally invested in someone as to get super jealous, when you haven´t even met that person in real life or know each other well?

She is emotionally involved in an unrealistic way, from my point of view.

And yes, when she is already getting this jealous and accusing him of MAKING her angry, she really doesn´t seem to be compatible with him.

also I don't think a woman should have to tell a guy what to do, like lay down the law. he should be able to intuit, that she doesn't like that. If she has to tell him, then it's more likely he will feel like he's caged and he is not free to do what he feels what feels natural to him. that's true, incompatible.

Posted by al7isra
I was talking to a scorpio online (many planets in scorpio), and he didn't know what I looked like. He was very polite... then after I sent him my pic (which he liked? ) He was smitten, and then started writing me these messages, mentioning these women, and talking about his ex so I did the same back. Why? Why is he trying to piss me off? WHY?

I hate feeling jealousy and I am a fair person, so I will always do the same back to him, but I don't want to..

thanks yall

It doesn't sound like he was trying to piss u off. Sounds like he was being open..No need to feel jealousy

Thank you, everyone. I'ver read everything everyone of you wrote. Today, he pretty much told me that I'm his soulmate lol and gave me like a million compliments, so I'm thinking he was being too shy to ask me directly how he feels so he resorted to these stupid games, and after I did the same back, I think he got the point that I like him, and backed off, already hinting on relationship and forever lol.. scorpios. You are something else. But thanks everyone, even thanks for the rude ass comments heh

Posted by al7isra
Thank you, everyone. I'ver read everything everyone of you wrote. Today, he pretty much told me that I'm his soulmate lol and gave me like a million compliments, so I'm thinking he was being too shy to ask me directly how he feels so he resorted to these stupid games, and after I did the same back, I think he got the point that I like him, and backed off, already hinting on relationship and forever lol.. scorpios. You are something else. But thanks everyone, even thanks for the rude ass comments heh

no one was rude, they were very upfront.

well that's good for you, OP.

never heard a guy actually say you're my soulmate like that. lol but super cool!