Scorpio watching me, freaking me out! (Page 2)

Posted by Neurotoxin
***SMH***

Everyone has to over think this shit.

I know. I know.
Guess I'll just have to wait and see how things flow next week.

Posted by silentkiller
Didn't read all the post in this topic, but as a scorpio myself, I would say, that I only move, so one person can't see me, if I REALLY don't like them! But I would probably still look at them, like a scary movie you can't stop watching. If I really don't like you, but get the sence, that you??re looking at me, that completely grosses me out, if I don't like you, and so I will look at you to make sure. It will all pass, but can take some time.
OR I would position myself out of your way, if me and you had hooked up and I had gotten feelings for you, that weren't returned. When that happens, I feel like, you don't wish to know me or even acknowledge, that I'm alive (insane, I know), and I don't wish to have you in my eyesight (but will always glance, whether I want to our not).

If I keep on looking at someone, that I like, I would NEVER let them see, and I would position myself where they could see me, having fun, being very attractive (ha ha ha). Then MAYBE or eyes could meet accidentally, and I mean in fact accidentally, but I would just keep my eyes moving, like nothing ever happened. Don't know if any of this suits the scorp at your Work. I guess you have to look more into what kinda look "the look" is... If he acts happy after eyecontact, then there's something positive there, but if not, if he acts angry and anoid, then I kinda think it's the other way around...

Well, I'm the last person that would claim I can read a scorp or understand them. In general, they are one big mystery to me. LOL. But the ones I am close with, it took some doing and patience for them to eventually trust me enough. And the ones I am close to seem to appreciate my loyalty and understand where I'm coming from. But I've also had the opposite, scorps that seemed couldn't stand my a-- and just constantly had those stingers out! Those are the ones that scare me. They can be so freaking cold and rude and revengeful! But I am so glad for my Scorpio friends ( and those in my family) else I may have never known that sensitive and loving side of them! I will admit, I'm always on guard and hesitant when considering trying to befriend a scorp, because I'm not really sure what may be coming my way!

Posted by silentkiller
😄 I think, that that pretty much sums up many peoples feelings when meeting a scorp. But sometimes they/we don't care about how we come across and just be ourselves, and that's when we??re fun and lovely🙂 Sometimes for various reasons (GOSH, there can be SOOOOO many!) it's just more safe to be a Little intimidating and flaky. My best friend told me, that I used to be like a bomb ready to blow every secund. I never realised this. But good to know, and good to know, that I'm not like that all the time anymore. And very nice to hear, that you also have met some scorps, that you really like🙂

I think all signs have at least two sides:
- the side that they show (which basically protects the other side)

- the side that they protect (which makes them vulnerable)

Posted by Neurotoxin

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Posted by Neurotoxin
Hey handsome to a normal person:
Oh how sweet, she's being nice.

Hey handsome to a immature scorp: I knew it. She wants me. I bet she would want me more if I broke into her house and installed some cameras

Hey handsome to a mature scorp: hmmm...I realize she's simply being nice due to my observations of her past behavior. But still, she's showing some interest. I may need to intensify my intel gathering

:/

What?

Oh yeah...listening devices and GPS trackers too.

Forgot those.

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Y'all ain't right! Too funny..don't want to giggle but can't help it.

Posted by SunMoomLioness
I went from irritated when I first posted this...to feeling gentler toward him since it may have been a simple crush...to scared to death I'm gonna get stung and attack by him in the near future! Life. I tell ya.

Just be 100% honest with him at all times and in all encounters. He'll see if you're lying and think you're trying to manipulate him. If and when you're honest, he could just come to see you as someone whose moods change quickly (possibly abruptly?), and he won't be offended by that. I find that trait quirky in my friends who have it. Personally I like quirky but to each their own. If he ever asks you something you feel uncomfortable answering, don't make up some lame excuse. Just TELL HIM, "I feel uncomfortable talking about this right now." A good answer to the follow-up 'Why' is you don't know him well enough. Considering you'll always know less about him than you think you do, he can certainly understand this.

Since he likes you so far and thinks you like him back, he might pursue you. Same goes for any sign, btw. There's no reason so far for him to be mean about this (it'll probably be something harmless like giving you a compliment or helping you with something), and no reason for you to be mean back or scared in any way. It's just some guy with a crush. Mmmkay?

If he does ever compliment you or give you advice (the you-like-me-cuz-I'm-helpful alternative to compliments), you might notice it's quite genuine.

The thing that could get you in trouble is if you directly lead him on, very very directly (hey let's go on a date!), and he starts to let his guard down around you, then you blow him off or are otherwise suddenly very rude. Basically, you hurt him on purpose. If all you do is basic flirting, he'll get enough courage/curiosity to try to get to know you, and then he'll notice all on his own that you're just flirty with everyone. He's probably quite capable of that. And there's no reason for it to be personal. But it'll tell him that you treated him like you do your friends.

Nothing wrong with that!

Beyond this... ask your current scorp friends in person! They know you better.

Posted by Neurotoxin
Hey handsome to a normal person:
Oh how sweet, she's being nice.

Hey handsome to a immature scorp: I knew it. She wants me. I bet she would want me more if I broke into her house and installed some cameras

Hey handsome to a mature scorp: hmmm...I realize she's simply being nice due to my observations of her past behavior. But still, she's showing some interest. I may need to intensify my intel gathering

Posted by IrresistableScorp

Posted by SunMoomLioness

Posted by IrresistableScorp
Don't be so sure it was a crush. He may have picked up on something about you and is now in observation mode as an experiment to see if his powers are honed c

I highly doubt you should be scared. Wth? He's just looking. Please

I'm not sure what it is. But it really doesn't matter, cause I only want friendship (right now atleast _— )

I read your Cancer thread. I would not doubt if he is picking up some of your obvious emotions right now. Scorps aren't always scary, sometimes we can be quite sensitive to other people pain/drama. ... Sorry. I meant Scorp that is staring may have picked up on your pain and emotions. I reread what I wrote and that part was confusing.

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Awwwwww too true! If he liked you before, and now sees you as hurting, he's going to be doing a lot of calculating to see he can, and if he even should, help. Even strangers who seem to be good people, but are being unjustly treated... it feels right to help.

Well... I posted but they ain't showing...hmmmm

Strange that one did ...ok..try again

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Posted by SunMoomLioness
I went from irritated when I first posted this...to feeling gentler toward him since it may have been a simple crush...to scared to death I'm gonna get stung and attack by him in the near future! Life. I tell ya.

Beyond this... ask your current scorp friends in person! They know you better.

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I'll keep this in mind for the future. Thank you for the explanation and details.

I did discuss with big sis and Scorpio friends. They seemed to think that I am waaaay too emotional about current ex-bf and this is not the time for me to be developing a friendship with a new man.

They're suggesting status quo unless he initiates something and then be sure I'm consistent with the friend thing. They pointed out a pattern that I had with ex-hubby, ex-cancer...I drew closer to them emotionally when the current relationship I was in was ending or going bad...and I may not necessarily be doing it on a conscious level, but I could be drawing towards Scorpio and he's picking up on that. Which goes along the line of big sis question, "you weren't freaked out before all this, so what changed?"

They also suggest that since I opened up the "hey handsome" greeting, I shouldn't change that, but to restrain my curiosity when my atannae goes up and not look up all the time I sense it, just some so he doesn't think I'm playing some kind of game.

I think I will trust their advice as they do me and their kind _??

...as they do KNOW me and their kind _??

Posted by SunMoomLioness
A Scorpio at my work has been watching me for a few months now. The "watching" opportunities he's creating are increasing and its freaking me out! I only talk to him for work related stuff and currently have absolutely no interest in him. What does it mean and what should I expect in the coming weeks?

Un huh......so why the thread?

^^^^^

Posted by SunMoomLioness
Okay, it took all day, but Staring Scorpio was at it again. I had " planned" to say "hey dude, what's up"...but what actually came out of my mouth was "hey handsome"...a friendly greeting I tend to give my male friends when in an upbeat mood....along the lines of "hey beautiful" to my female friends...anywhoo

Well I'll be...I think I caught him off guard with that one and I swear I *think* he *almost* smiled! _—

Then it was *I* who casually went back to what I was doing! Didn't even give him a chance to respond...HaHa! Loved it!... That is until now...now I'm wondering...did I piss him off?

...and here we go. I understand the reason for the thread now. You like the man, I'm not sure the reason for the games. As you were.....

Posted by Nemesis

Posted by SunMoomLioness

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Posted by SunMoomLioness
Okay, it took all day, but Staring Scorpio was at it again. I had " planned" to say "hey dude, what's up"...but what actually came out of my mouth was "hey handsome"...a friendly greeting I tend to give my male friends when in an upbeat mood....along the lines of "hey beautiful" to my female friends...anywhoo

Well I'll be...I think I caught him off guard with that one and I swear I *think* he *almost* smiled! _—

Then it was *I* who casually went back to what I was doing! Didn't even give him a chance to respond...HaHa! Loved it!... That is until now...now I'm wondering...did I piss him off?

He got u hook line sinker

What? How? Where did I go wrong—

there is a huge difference in actually being naive or playing naive ......

from what i have read i gather you??re not really creeped out by the stare. in fact i think it may be blowing up you??re ego a bit.

also i??ve never heard or seen - in a professional surrounding - colleagues use such terms as "hey handsome" or "hey beautiful" -

something is off.

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+ 2013

Posted by Neurotoxin
Hey handsome to a normal person:
Oh how sweet, she's being nice.

Hey handsome to a immature scorp: I knew it. She wants me. I bet she would want me more if I broke into her house and installed some cameras

LOL!

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by SunMoomLioness
A Scorpio at my work has been watching me for a few months now. The "watching" opportunities he's creating are increasing and its freaking me out! I only talk to him for work related stuff and currently have absolutely no interest in him. What does it mean and what should I expect in the coming weeks?

Un huh......so why the thread?

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My big sis question too. LOL.

IF what my Scorpio friends said is true about my drawing towards someone when the current relationship is ending, then its something to be on alert for ..watch out for so to speak.

I think what I got most from all your input is that there is no reason for freaking out as it may not mean anything or be a simple crush and not to lead him on if I only want friendship.

Since I'm not trying to complicate my life anymore than it ready is, I think I'll play this one cool and be watchful of my own actions that might send the wrong message.

Thanks all.