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Is this weird or just me?
Understanding Scorpio Exes and Their Attachment to the Past
Scorpio individuals often hold onto the past and can be emotionally intense. Your ex may be subconsciously holding onto your belongings and memories, which explains the unchanged house and your jewelry appearing with his new girlfriend. This behavior reflects Scorpio's tendency for emotional fixation and attachment to significant people and memories.
You couldn't load up your fingers and neck before you left? Damn antique turquoise, that's tragic.
I left it on the sink! I asked him to mail it to me. He refused to send anything. I moved from Cincinnati back home to Providence :/ lonnngggg drive haha
Nevermind the retrograde, you're definitely a freak. This reminds me of a recent convo I had with a Scorp friend of mine. On his main IG he uses as profile pic a shot his ex girlfriend took of him. And I say to him "you keep bashing your ex to everyone within earshot yet you still use the pic SHE took". Then my Scorpio Pluto took over and I said "well just because she's a raging bitch doesn't mean she couldn't take nice pics".
Maybe he just appreciates your decore taste lol
Surely she couldn't lnow that is my ring— He must have gifted to her like he bought it. Haha
I bet he has a cancer ? or other strong placements. Clinging to the past is what they do best.
Posted by heliumfiascoPromise ring. Barf.
Surely she couldn't lnow that is my ring— He must have gifted to her like he bought it. Haha
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
This reminds me of a recent convo I had with a Scorp friend of mine. On his main IG he uses as profile pic a shot his ex girlfriend took of him. And I say to him "you keep bashing your ex to everyone within earshot yet you still use the pic SHE took". Then my Scorpio Pluto took over and I said "well just because she's a raging bitch doesn't mean she couldn't take nice pics".
Maybe he just appreciates your decore taste lol
I do have great taste. But do you really need to leave up my framed Melvins band poster I've had since high school?
Posted by LadyNeptuneHaha! Right? She seems like a nice girl, I'm glad she has it and not him. But damn I loved it 🙂Posted by heliumfiascoPromise ring. Barf.
Surely she couldn't lnow that is my ring— He must have gifted to her like he bought it. Hahaclick to expand
Go back and get your shit back, He's got the material to make a Voodoo doll.
There are two options here. He may miss you and the life that you two shared and is clinging to memories
Or
He's lazy. Really really lazy. Taking things down and replacing them takes effort
Or
He's lazy. Really really lazy. Taking things down and replacing them takes effort
Def lazy! haha Im going with that.
Posted by heliumfiascoThere's also the possibility she saw his place and complimented him on the decor and he felt like he couldn't change a thing ?
Def lazy! haha Im going with that.
I'd bank on laziness.
Any woman with a lick of GD sense would know he didnt pick out that Mid-Century Turquoise couch and Paisley curtains. haha
my scorp ex did the same thing..def lazy
What a dirt-bag ... lol - reminds me of the time I left one state and drove home to another - boy had another girl move in with him and I had to leave my kitty that I loved and I hated that so bad - but I went back for her - no key but I was able to cut the screen on the downstairs window that was open ... kitty was right in the window telling me she missed me ...we had a nice drive home! No more thoughts about that !
Posted by heliumfiascoYou left a ring? Like it was too heavy to take? Or even if your fingers swallen - there is a pocket! You weird indeed!
Surely she couldn't lnow that is my ring— He must have gifted to her like he bought it. Haha
Posted by heliumfiascoLet it go already!
Any woman with a lick of GD sense would know he didnt pick out that Mid-Century Turquoise couch and Paisley curtains. haha
Posted by heliumfiascoSorry, girl. I've never had to leave quick as a flash! I guess I've watched too much Judge Judy because, well, it's too late. I'm VERY possessive when it comes to my personal stuff that I've paid for, had been gifted, etc. I guess the anger took the best of you and now that you saw the ring on his new girlfriend it rubbed you the wrong way. Chalk it up to a lesson learned. Uh, next time this happens, count to 10, start packing your personal items and stuff your car to the core; making sure you've taken a second look at the apartment/house just to make sure you've taken everything that belongs to you.
So, tonight I lurked my toxic Scorpio ex. Probably because of Venus Retrograde or just me being a freak. But anyways, I left him in the middle of the night kind of thing. Left EVERYTHING I own there. Furniture, painting, records, curtains, clothes, jewelry. Took just what clothes fit in my trunk.
Anyways I just lurked his IG account and he has pictures just this week and the house is set up EXACTLY the same with all my stuff everywhere!!! I mean exactly how I decorated it and all. Looks like I never left!!!!! I've been gone a year and a half now. Then I see a picture of his new girlfriend holding a beer, and on her hand is my antique turquoise ring!!! Like WTF?!?!
Maybe I'm just bitter because I miss my stuff😢 but it seems weird he'd want to live in a time capsule like that. Nothing has been touched.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by heliumfiascoSorry, girl. I've never had to leave quick as a flash! I guess I've watched too much Judge Judy because, well, it's too late. I'm VERY possessive when it comes to my personal stuff that I've paid for, had been gifted, etc. I guess the anger took the best of you and now that you saw the ring on his new girlfriend it rubbed you the wrong way. Chalk it up to a lesson learned. Uh, next time this happens, count to 10, start packing your personal items and stuff your car to the core; making sure you've taken a second look at the apartment/house just to make sure you've taken everything that belongs to you.
So, tonight I lurked my toxic Scorpio ex. Probably because of Venus Retrograde or just me being a freak. But anyways, I left him in the middle of the night kind of thing. Left EVERYTHING I own there. Furniture, painting, records, curtains, clothes, jewelry. Took just what clothes fit in my trunk.
Anyways I just lurked his IG account and he has pictures just this week and the house is set up EXACTLY the same with all my stuff everywhere!!! I mean exactly how I decorated it and all. Looks like I never left!!!!! I've been gone a year and a half now. Then I see a picture of his new girlfriend holding a beer, and on her hand is my antique turquoise ring!!! Like WTF?!?!
Maybe I'm just bitter because I miss my stuff😢 but it seems weird he'd want to live in a time capsule like that. Nothing has been touched.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by heliumfiascoSorry, girl. I've never had to leave quick as a flash! I guess I've watched too much Judge Judy because, well, it's too late. I'm VERY possessive when it comes to my personal stuff that I've paid for, had been gifted, etc. I guess the anger took the best of you and now that you saw the ring on his new girlfriend it rubbed you the wrong way. Chalk it up to a lesson learned. Uh, next time this happens, count to 10, start packing your personal items and stuff your car to the core; making sure you've taken a second look at the apartment/house just to make sure you've taken everything that belongs to you.
So, tonight I lurked my toxic Scorpio ex. Probably because of Venus Retrograde or just me being a freak. But anyways, I left him in the middle of the night kind of thing. Left EVERYTHING I own there. Furniture, painting, records, curtains, clothes, jewelry. Took just what clothes fit in my trunk.
Anyways I just lurked his IG account and he has pictures just this week and the house is set up EXACTLY the same with all my stuff everywhere!!! I mean exactly how I decorated it and all. Looks like I never left!!!!! I've been gone a year and a half now. Then I see a picture of his new girlfriend holding a beer, and on her hand is my antique turquoise ring!!! Like WTF?!?!
Maybe I'm just bitter because I miss my stuff😢 but it seems weird he'd want to live in a time capsule like that. Nothing has been touched.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by heliumfiascoSorry, girl. I've never had to leave quick as a flash! I guess I've watched too much Judge Judy because, well, it's too late. I'm VERY possessive when it comes to my personal stuff that I've paid for, had been gifted, etc. I guess the anger took the best of you and now that you saw the ring on his new girlfriend it rubbed you the wrong way. Chalk it up to a lesson learned. Uh, next time this happens, count to 10, start packing your personal items and stuff your car to the core; making sure you've taken a second look at the apartment/house just to make sure you've taken everything that belongs to you.
So, tonight I lurked my toxic Scorpio ex. Probably because of Venus Retrograde or just me being a freak. But anyways, I left him in the middle of the night kind of thing. Left EVERYTHING I own there. Furniture, painting, records, curtains, clothes, jewelry. Took just what clothes fit in my trunk.
Anyways I just lurked his IG account and he has pictures just this week and the house is set up EXACTLY the same with all my stuff everywhere!!! I mean exactly how I decorated it and all. Looks like I never left!!!!! I've been gone a year and a half now. Then I see a picture of his new girlfriend holding a beer, and on her hand is my antique turquoise ring!!! Like WTF?!?!
Maybe I'm just bitter because I miss my stuff😢 but it seems weird he'd want to live in a time capsule like that. Nothing has been touched.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by GemitatiPosted by heliumfiascoYou left a ring? Like it was too heavy to take? Or even if your fingers swallen - there is a pocket! You weird indeed!
Surely she couldn't lnow that is my ring— He must have gifted to her like he bought it. Hahaclick to expand
It's called leaving something on accident. Heard of it?
Posted by tctaDamn! You go girl!
What a dirt-bag ... lol - reminds me of the time I left one state and drove home to another - boy had another girl move in with him and I had to leave my kitty that I loved and I hated that so bad - but I went back for her - no key but I was able to cut the screen on the downstairs window that was open ... kitty was right in the window telling me she missed me ...we had a nice drive home! No more thoughts about that !
Posted by Walkergrllol - hey I'm a Taurus and we don't part with our stuff - lol - if I was that girl, I would have stayed and/or have left that night and stayed in town and made arrangements in the am to get a truck and a hitch to pull my car and some help and when that man was at work, I would have taken my sh*T - all of it !Posted by tctaDamn! You go girl!
What a dirt-bag ... lol - reminds me of the time I left one state and drove home to another - boy had another girl move in with him and I had to leave my kitty that I loved and I hated that so bad - but I went back for her - no key but I was able to cut the screen on the downstairs window that was open ... kitty was right in the window telling me she missed me ...we had a nice drive home! No more thoughts about that !
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Posted by tctaI love my furbabies. I would NOT leave them behind. Good for you! I get it.Posted by Walkergrllol - hey I'm a Taurus and we don't part with our stuff - lol - if I was that girl, I would have stayed and/or have left that night and stayed in town and made arrangements in the am to get a truck and a hitch to pull my car and some help and when that man was at work, I would have taken my sh*T - all of it !Posted by tctaDamn! You go girl!
What a dirt-bag ... lol - reminds me of the time I left one state and drove home to another - boy had another girl move in with him and I had to leave my kitty that I loved and I hated that so bad - but I went back for her - no key but I was able to cut the screen on the downstairs window that was open ... kitty was right in the window telling me she missed me ...we had a nice drive home! No more thoughts about that !
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If I didnt leave right then I never would have. Love of my life, but we were too similar and toxic!!!! I left every item of my daughters and mine. For a year he didnt throw anything out but wouldnt let me come get it.
Posted by heliumfiascoThere would be no way I'd let him get away with keeping my sentimentals. I can very vengeful for the things/people I love BUT you had your reasons. You escaped whatever you ran from and have your life, so chalk it up as a life lesson.
If I didnt leave right then I never would have. Love of my life, but we were too similar and toxic!!!! I left every item of my daughters and mine. For a year he didnt throw anything out but wouldnt let me come get it.
If it was me however I'd be plotting how to get my shit back....
The fact that his new girl is wearing your ring is really strange ... extra strange that he left his place exactly how it was when u were living there —
Posted by heliumfiasco
I left it on the sink! I asked him to mail it to me. He refused to send anything. I moved from Cincinnati back home to Providence :/ lonnngggg drive haha
Why wouldn't you just take it with you?
Posted by MagicMonaFor real. I'd wipe away all traces of me ever being in their life. Soon they'd start to wonder if I ever was.
i'd get my shit back. i dont care if i was gone 10 years. my ring would be off her finger, i'd take everything.
The people asking why I didn't take the ring SMH... I obviously accidentally forgot it! Jesus. Haha I figured the social security cards, checkbooks and Birth Certificates and GTFO were most important. Haha. I do however miss that ring!!!! I bought a nicer one as consolation for my mistake.... but still ??♀️
He is DRAMA, no reasoning with him. He'd have a SWAT team kick that door down and tear gas him out, before he'd open the door and let me collect anything.
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