Scorpion advice please!

I need advice from you scorpios out there! Last year (November) I (I'm 21y.o Sagittarius) met this guy (27y.o scorpio male) through a friend, we began the relationship by contact through telephone, then after a month we met each other face to face. Everything seemed to be going really well, we had lots of things in common, and he was hinting towards us being serious (ie-marriage. A month later a few incidents led me to believe he was unfaithful/dishonest, like once I was talking to him on his home phone his cellphone rang- he was talking with a girl, then gets back to me on the phone and says it was one of his guy friends, he is also very flirtacious even with my friends. Next day after this incident we had lunch together, and he practically proposed marriage to me- telling me he wants his parents to meet mine, etc. I was stunned, because I could not get past his lieing to me the night before (with the girl on the phone) so i didn't give him a definite answer. The very next day I flew overseas on holidays for one month (this may also be the reason he proposed suddenly). While I was away he sent me a few emails, but I didn't reply. When I arrived back home- it took this guy one month later (after arrival) to contact me by phone, even though he knew the date I arrived back. We began seeing each other again until the beginning of April this year- I ended it by not answering his phone calls anymore (I know it's rude, but i was hurt and didn't know how to handle the situation). He continued to send me emails for a while, even till this day he sends me one or two at least once a month. What I want to know is- have I made the right decision? why does this guy continue to contact me via email? (not much) even though I have not bothered to return his call, and now his emails. I really need some advice guys, because I haven't stopped thinking about this guy for months now, and i'm worried that I may have made the wrong decision.

Maybe I'm not the one to give advice as I have only ever been involved with one scorpio male and I myself am a female cap. The scenario you describe is very familiar with me - even the age of the guy 27 although mine was turning 28 in Nov). My friend used to say things to me like we will have to start attending church (only after a few weeks together) and when I replied why are you religious his reply would be no but if we are going to name a day we would be better attending. He would say things like this all the time, he was always implying things like when he had to go away with his work to America he said we will have to go together when I come back etc etc. I know the guy I was involved with travelled quite a bit with his job (he's near London now) and maybe that was why he texted so much eg when he had nothing better to do at night would text or phone. I'm sorry this isnt really any type of advice but I just wanted you to know that scorpios seem to have this way of making you feel special although they are never going to do the things they actually say - or should I say mine didnt. Just be careful, think deeply before you make a decision here. Mine left last Nov and I contacted him a few weeks ago (sent a card) as I too couldnt get him out of my mind - but well I dont think he wants to get back. Point is I still think of him but have to move on - I ask you to think because if you are thinking of him now and it falls apart again its going to be even harder to get over the next time and I dont wish the pain I feel on anyone. I wish you the best of luck whatever you choose to do and I hope it works out.

Hey there,

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Here is my honest opinion (and i am sorry if this might seem unsupportive or rude at this moment!).

Firstly, if you thought this person was being dishonest i think the best thing for you would have been to confront him instead of leaving him in the lurch like u did.

Secondly, you did not reply to his emails when you were away on a holiday..even though he proposed to you before you left! And you expected him to call you as soon as you returned!
I think that is a bit unfair.

I think you need to make up your mind. Are you really in love with this man?
Relationships is about sharing your thoughts and anxities - so i belive if you have a problem with something in a relationship the best solution is to try to get a direct answer(or as close to a direct answer) as possible - both from yourself and the person who is involved with you in this relationship!
Hurt is also a part of this whole web called "relationship" - like they say nothing lost nothing gained!

I am sorry for airing my opinion this bluntly!!

Have a good one!

Thanks for the advice you guys!
145 you are so right when you said that scorps have a way of making u feel special, even though they're all talk & no action! The similarities between your ex & mine are freaky. So i've decided to try and put it in the past, and try to look at it as an experience to learn from- like being more cautious with guys.