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You put that Sag fire on him. Now he has a little stutter in his step.
Nice dvm!
Well I'm still seeing that scorp with a cap venus, pisces moon.
I got nervous asking him if he wanted to stay at my place the other night actually. I'm not sure why but I was stumbling on my words and stuff.
He thought I was trying to ask him to be my boyfriend! And thought I wanted him to ask me out inside of me saying it.
I had to try so hard not to die from laughter because he was totally serious.
I don't think you can assume what people are thinking! Lol
Well I'm still seeing that scorp with a cap venus, pisces moon.
I got nervous asking him if he wanted to stay at my place the other night actually. I'm not sure why but I was stumbling on my words and stuff.
He thought I was trying to ask him to be my boyfriend! And thought I wanted him to ask me out inside of me saying it.
I had to try so hard not to die from laughter because he was totally serious.
I don't think you can assume what people are thinking! Lol
Posted by Sagittarius89
Nice dvm!
Well I'm still seeing that scorp with a cap venus, pisces moon.
I got nervous asking him if he wanted to stay at my place the other night actually. I'm not sure why but I was stumbling on my words and stuff.
He thought I was trying to ask him to be my boyfriend! And thought I wanted him to ask me out inside of me saying it.
I had to try so hard not to die from laughter because he was totally serious.
I don't think you can assume what people are thinking! Lol
un huh. im really trying not to, which is why i asked u know. which is why, im going to not lead him, but let him think. i just thought it was tooo soon for all this.
how do u stop yourself from leading him?
Posted by DMVPosted by Sagittarius89
Nice dvm!
Well I'm still seeing that scorp with a cap venus, pisces moon.
I got nervous asking him if he wanted to stay at my place the other night actually. I'm not sure why but I was stumbling on my words and stuff.
He thought I was trying to ask him to be my boyfriend! And thought I wanted him to ask me out inside of me saying it.
I had to try so hard not to die from laughter because he was totally serious.
I don't think you can assume what people are thinking! Lol
un huh. im really trying not to, which is why i asked u know. which is why, im going to not lead him, but let him think. i just thought it was tooo soon for all this.
how do u stop yourself from leading him?click to expand
Leading him? What do you mean?
Posted by everevolvingepithet
"the tone is so "please love me, why dont you love me." i just want to make sure im not projecting."
Hehehe, and hmmmmmmm
🙂
elaborate
Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by DMVPosted by Sagittarius89
Nice dvm!
Well I'm still seeing that scorp with a cap venus, pisces moon.
I got nervous asking him if he wanted to stay at my place the other night actually. I'm not sure why but I was stumbling on my words and stuff.
He thought I was trying to ask him to be my boyfriend! And thought I wanted him to ask me out inside of me saying it.
I had to try so hard not to die from laughter because he was totally serious.
I don't think you can assume what people are thinking! Lol
un huh. im really trying not to, which is why i asked u know. which is why, im going to not lead him, but let him think. i just thought it was tooo soon for all this.
how do u stop yourself from leading him?
Leading him? What do you mean?click to expand
"And thought I wanted him to ask me out inside of me saying it."
sorry, i had assumed that this mean that you were leading him to do something.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
As in you said you were projecting heh 🙂 Nothing offensive DMV.
do u think i am? i seriously want to know. thats why im blogging.
with the previous scorp, i knew something was going on with him, but i ignored it instead of asking him. but i wasnt sure, so i kept quiet. turns out, what i had originally felt was indeed true.
i just dont want to fuck up another dude's head.
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by DMV
how do u stop yourself from leading him?
You: "This is just sex."
Me: "Awsome!"click to expand
ironically, i was going to ask him where THIS and HE was trying to go with all this, but he hung up quickly. he was actually supposed to come by, but he was a no call, no show.
geez louise, have the games already started OR am i trippin?
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by DMV
how do u stop yourself from leading him?
You: "This is just sex."
Me: "Awsome!"click to expand
LOL Oh yea like that accept not directly.
In directly. Like when he asks you to hang out with his friends. Say no.
When he asks you questions about yourself. Keep the answers short and sweet
Don't contact unless he contacts you.
Don't ask him to hang out in the day time
Don't shower with him
Just keep it as shallow as possible.
Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by DazedScorpPosted by DMV
how do u stop yourself from leading him?
You: "This is just sex."
Me: "Awsome!"
LOL Oh yea like that accept not directly.
In directly. Like when he asks you to hang out with his friends. Say no.
When he asks you questions about yourself. Keep the answers short and sweet
Don't contact unless he contacts you.
Don't ask him to hang out in the day time
Don't shower with him
Just keep it as shallow as possible.
click to expand
shut the front door! he did (ask) all those things.
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by DazedScorpPosted by DMV
how do u stop yourself from leading him?
You: "This is just sex."
Me: "Awsome!"
LOL Oh yea like that accept not directly.
I'd rather you just say...
"This is just sex"
If you want to get to know me, we can date...and get to know each other.
If you just want sex, say you just want sex.
Simple really.click to expand
good advice. i will do just that when he calls in a couple days.
Posted by DMVPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by DMVPosted by Sagittarius89
Nice dvm!
Well I'm still seeing that scorp with a cap venus, pisces moon.
I got nervous asking him if he wanted to stay at my place the other night actually. I'm not sure why but I was stumbling on my words and stuff.
He thought I was trying to ask him to be my boyfriend! And thought I wanted him to ask me out inside of me saying it.
I had to try so hard not to die from laughter because he was totally serious.
I don't think you can assume what people are thinking! Lol
un huh. im really trying not to, which is why i asked u know. which is why, im going to not lead him, but let him think. i just thought it was tooo soon for all this.
how do u stop yourself from leading him?
Leading him? What do you mean?
"And thought I wanted him to ask me out inside of me saying it."
sorry, i had assumed that this mean that you were leading him to do something.click to expand
Well that did lead to the "talk"
He said to me, I really like you, your not like other girls I know (line, line) Your the only person I'm sleeping with, I would like to know more about you.
How much do you like me?
Me: I Like you alot!
I just stopped right there.
Right? Okay but what you see is he didn't ask me if I was sleeping with other people. ( just assumed, I'm not )
Ya let me be whoever you want
this thread should have been named
"HOW TO CRUSH A MANS HEART"
"HOW TO CRUSH A MANS HEART"
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by DazedScorpPosted by DMV
how do u stop yourself from leading him?
You: "This is just sex."
Me: "Awsome!"
LOL Oh yea like that accept not directly.
I'd rather you just say...
"This is just sex"
If you want to get to know me, we can date...and get to know each other.
If you just want sex, say you just want sex.
Simple really.click to expand
If you say it like that I feel like guys will think your a bitch or a whore.
You almost have to "not say anything" but let your actions do the talking.
I think that way it sounds more I don't know, "nice" or something.
Posted by DazedScorp
Scorp males like to play the games, not have games played on them.
We fuck your mind. We don't want ours fucked.
I don't think anyones trying to play a game.
She is just trying to get a long term "buddy" . She likes his sex. Ain't nothing wrong with that!
Ya let me be whoever you want
**
do u see any danger in that?
**
do u see any danger in that?
Posted by westside
this thread should have been named
"HOW TO CRUSH A MANS HEART"
ugh...i feel bad. i know i talk alot of shit up on these blogs, but im sick of hurting men. i dont want to do it. ive seen what happens and im done having that kind of stuff on my conscience.
Posted by DazedScorp
Scorp males like to play the games, not have games played on them.
We fuck your mind. We don't want ours fucked.
secretly u do. u want to FEEL. i mean check out Elles blog about chasing feelins.
Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by DazedScorp
Scorp males like to play the games, not have games played on them.
We fuck your mind. We don't want ours fucked.
I don't think anyones trying to play a game.
She is just trying to get a long term "buddy" . She likes his sex. Ain't nothing wrong with that!click to expand
just not at the expense of his feelings or mine for that matter.
Posted by DMV
Ya let me be whoever you want
**
do u see any danger in that?
No he didn't ask me to be his girlfriend so there isn't any danger.
Unless someone is directly asking me for a commitment than should I act an different?
I'm not trying to get a boyfriend or obviously I'd be more authentic.
Posted by DMVPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by DazedScorp
Scorp males like to play the games, not have games played on them.
We fuck your mind. We don't want ours fucked.
I don't think anyones trying to play a game.
She is just trying to get a long term "buddy" . She likes his sex. Ain't nothing wrong with that!
just not at the expense of his feelings or mine for that matter.click to expand
Yea but I don't think you should walk around thinking people already like you and your hurting their feelings.
If they say it and ask from more than you than ya go ahead assume that. Otherwise I don't think you should worry.
yes i agree....
i am trippin and i need to calm down.
i am trippin and i need to calm down.
Posted by DMV
yes i agree....
i am trippin and i need to calm down.
It's all good!
Just feel free to be you!
Lmao! Scorp males say, "If there's any Mindfuckery to be done, it's being done by me! Ya got that?". Lol.
Posted by Mebs
Lmao! Scorp males say, "If there's any Mindfuckery to be done, it's being done by me! Ya got that?". Lol.
un huh. i just didnt expect the mindgames to start already. imo, mindgames to a scorpio arent really obvious to them. it either means their insecure, afraid, jealous, or upset.
i think he is starting with the mindgames but its related to whats going on in his head. i didnt think theyd start this quickly. we only had sex once. so he cant be upset or jealous. so it has to be relating to another feeling. the only thing i can think of is that he likes me, but hes unsure of himself and me being a vague scorpio mooner that i am, i dont give up information so readily.
plus were both scorpio mercurys. he speaks in a "fated" like way. like i do. something always relates to something else. he notices connections. i love that shit.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
So you're in lurrvee.
Aww
i wouldnt mind going down that road... he seems like he has his shit together.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
So you're talking about yourself as much as him here ?
honestly, id thought i would be the first to start with the head games. he beat me too it...or did he. dammit.
ok i figured this out.
he switched up after sex beceause i would do the same thing if i caught feelings over someone.
he switched up after sex beceause i would do the same thing if i caught feelings over someone.
If you are confident in your skills, whatever they may be, and you don't get a phone call or any confirmation that you've done a good job, then I'm sure that confidence takes a hit, especially to those that are a bit more sensitive in nature.
I'm not sure if it's much more or less than that, imo. Reassurance or confirmation equals ego boosts and confidence for many men. You just went on about your business like you were not phased at all lol, but that's interesting on your end you were able to not trip over a phone call and seemed to care less about how you were to him BUT you knew what it was in your mind(a booty call) from the get go. I now see that this is something people have to communicate before hand. He called you confused as heck I'm sure lol.
I'm not sure if it's much more or less than that, imo. Reassurance or confirmation equals ego boosts and confidence for many men. You just went on about your business like you were not phased at all lol, but that's interesting on your end you were able to not trip over a phone call and seemed to care less about how you were to him BUT you knew what it was in your mind(a booty call) from the get go. I now see that this is something people have to communicate before hand. He called you confused as heck I'm sure lol.
haha, i did ask him if he wanted to go again...
Posted by DMV
ok i figured this out.
he switched up after sex beceause i would do the same thing if i caught feelings over someone.
Good grief. You Scorp moons/ Scorp suns are soooo freaking complicated. *sigh*
Posted by lnana04
If you are confident in your skills, whatever they may be, and you don't get a phone call or any confirmation that you've done a good job, then I'm sure that confidence takes a hit, especially to those that are a bit more sensitive in nature.
.
do scorpios expect people to sweat them after sex?
Posted by MebsPosted by DMV
ok i figured this out.
he switched up after sex beceause i would do the same thing if i caught feelings over someone.
Good grief. You Scorp moons/ Scorp suns are soooo freaking complicated. *sigh*click to expand
constant thinking. assessment. self preservation
its almost like as much as i try to prevent crossing the line and getting my feelings hurt, i always do. by the time i sit down and think about it, i realized that ive already crossed the line.
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by DMV
do scorpios expect people to sweat them after sex?
Explain please?click to expand
scorpios are pretty confident people. youve got egos the size of the universe. maybe when you have sex with someone, you expect that person to fall for you. they usually do. weve seen it again and again on this blog. girl has sex with scorpio, she falls in love, she hounds him repeatedly. she becomes obsessed. so its like this is whats expected.
so when it doesnt happen...
case in point, the first scorpio.
i had sex with him and the next day when i saw him, i was chill and cool about it. i even danced with other guys. i believe that started the whole melee. its like he expected me to sweat him like all the other girls did and still do. its like he expected me to fall in love and do anything.
i had sex with him and the next day when i saw him, i was chill and cool about it. i even danced with other guys. i believe that started the whole melee. its like he expected me to sweat him like all the other girls did and still do. its like he expected me to fall in love and do anything.
i bet u dont lol
Posted by DMVPosted by DazedScorpPosted by DMV
do scorpios expect people to sweat them after sex?
Explain please?
scorpios are pretty confident people. youve got egos the size of the universe. maybe when you have sex with someone, you expect that person to fall for you. they usually do. weve seen it again and again on this blog. girl has sex with scorpio, she falls in love, she hounds him repeatedly. she becomes obsessed. so its like this is whats expected.
so when it doesnt happen...click to expand
Sex has nothing to do with love?
Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by DMVPosted by DazedScorpPosted by DMV
do scorpios expect people to sweat them after sex?
Explain please?
scorpios are pretty confident people. youve got egos the size of the universe. maybe when you have sex with someone, you expect that person to fall for you. they usually do. weve seen it again and again on this blog. girl has sex with scorpio, she falls in love, she hounds him repeatedly. she becomes obsessed. so its like this is whats expected.
so when it doesnt happen...
Sex has nothing to do with love?click to expand
i hear ya sister. tell that to the women who come onto this blog claiming to be in love after one night.
Posted by bluemoon9043834Posted by DMVPosted by DazedScorpPosted by DMV
do scorpios expect people to sweat them after sex?
Explain please?
scorpios are pretty confident people. youve got egos the size of the universe. maybe when you have sex with someone, you expect that person to fall for you. they usually do. weve seen it again and again on this blog. girl has sex with scorpio, she falls in love, she hounds him repeatedly. she becomes obsessed. so its like this is whats expected.
so when it doesnt happen...
Is it some sort of power game or power struggle?click to expand
do scorpios equate sex with power? do they use sex as a way of gaining control over someone?
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by DazedScorpPosted by DMV
do scorpios expect people to sweat them after sex?
Explain please?
scorpios are pretty confident people. youve got egos the size of the universe. maybe when you have sex with someone, you expect that person to fall for you. they usually do. weve seen it again and again on this blog. girl has sex with scorpio, she falls in love, she hounds him repeatedly. she becomes obsessed. so its like this is whats expected.
so when it doesnt happen...
You like doing the opposite ? 🙂click to expand
i dont get it. when i ask you to elaborate on something, you get tight lipped. but when i post something like this your quick with the devil's advocate one liner.
Posted by DMVPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by DMVPosted by DazedScorpPosted by DMV
do scorpios expect people to sweat them after sex?
Explain please?
scorpios are pretty confident people. youve got egos the size of the universe. maybe when you have sex with someone, you expect that person to fall for you. they usually do. weve seen it again and again on this blog. girl has sex with scorpio, she falls in love, she hounds him repeatedly. she becomes obsessed. so its like this is whats expected.
so when it doesnt happen...
Sex has nothing to do with love?
i hear ya sister. tell that to the women who come onto this blog claiming to be in love after one night.click to expand
Shows how shallow they are
Posted by bluemoon9043834Posted by DMVPosted by bluemoon9043834Posted by DMVPosted by DazedScorpPosted by DMV
do scorpios expect people to sweat them after sex?
Explain please?
scorpios are pretty confident people. youve got egos the size of the universe. maybe when you have sex with someone, you expect that person to fall for you. they usually do. weve seen it again and again on this blog. girl has sex with scorpio, she falls in love, she hounds him repeatedly. she becomes obsessed. so its like this is whats expected.
so when it doesnt happen...
Is it some sort of power game or power struggle?
do scorpios equate sex with power? do they use sex as a way of gaining control over someone?
Not sure. But some people can blue the lines with love/power and/or sex/power, so it's possible.
Do you have a Venus/Pluto aspect in your chart?click to expand
yes
@bling,
thanks! youve always given me good advice and the one liners dont really get me anywhere. your posts to me are one of the main reasons why i dont want to fuck over another guy. i may fight you on your advice, but i do think about your posts off of dxp.
so i need you to speak up 🙂
thanks! youve always given me good advice and the one liners dont really get me anywhere. your posts to me are one of the main reasons why i dont want to fuck over another guy. i may fight you on your advice, but i do think about your posts off of dxp.
so i need you to speak up 🙂
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Pecheresse
Dazed. I don't really like Scorp men tbh.
We're not all psychos you know...click to expand
until u sleep with them.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by DazedScorpPosted by DMV
do scorpios expect people to sweat them after sex?
Explain please?
scorpios are pretty confident people. youve got egos the size of the universe. maybe when you have sex with someone, you expect that person to fall for you. they usually do. weve seen it again and again on this blog. girl has sex with scorpio, she falls in love, she hounds him repeatedly. she becomes obsessed. so its like this is whats expected.
so when it doesnt happen...
You like doing the opposite ? 🙂
i dont get it. when i ask you to elaborate on something, you get tight lipped. but when i post something like this your quick with the devil's advocate one liner.
I missed that sweat comment.
I don't expect a person to fall for me tbh.
If you wanted me to elaborate I could say you seem consistent in giving people the run around, scorpios it seems moreso.
But why do you think it's expected of you after knocking boots with this guy ? you aren't these other chicks either fwiw.
🙂click to expand
i do try to keep players on the bench. i like to have a choice in who to have sex with and i would like to keep this scorpio in play but if its at the expense of his feelings, than i dont want that. i need more time outside of the bedroom to make an emotional connection with someone.
i have tried to be more upfront with what i want from a guy because i dont want to give them the run around. BUT i also dont want to lose a player.
casual sex just doesnt seem to work with scorpios. i need casual sex first before i can even consider a relationship with someone.
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by DMVPosted by DazedScorpPosted by Pecheresse
Dazed. I don't really like Scorp men tbh.
We're not all psychos you know...
until u sleep with them.
Not true.
It's only if you refuse to fall for us. That's when we get psycho.
click to expand
your right....
someone on here gets what im saying.
Posted by ellessquePosted by DMV
case in point, the first scorpio.
i had sex with him and the next day when i saw him, i was chill and cool about it. i even danced with other guys. i believe that started the whole melee. its like he expected me to sweat him like all the other girls did and still do. its like he expected me to fall in love and do anything.
actually, i think that happens with most men. if you don't go all gaga over them after sex they notice, they notice ALOT. their insecurities start protruding like large cysts.
so many women jump into that "i'm in love cuz i just got laid" bullshit and it almost seems to be expected from us these days. when it doesn't happen....they take a step back and analyze the situation.click to expand
someone else gets what im saying
Posted by ellessque
casual sex doesn't work for scorpios. at all. i've even FORCED myself to try it and it just doesn't work.
i hear that.
another question, i do see scorpio men sleeping with multiple women. maybe they have some saggo in them or gemini.
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