scorpios after sex (Page 4)

yup, venus in AIR thinks alot!

Posted by DMV
yup, venus in AIR thinks alot!

+1

Posted by DMV
yup, venus in AIR thinks alot!

Unfortunately so... 😢

Posted by ellessque

Posted by Sagittarius89
Elle no wonder you love/hated that venus in aqua. Kept you on your toes a bit 😄

a bit?

TRY A WHOLE LOT 😛

seems to me that this libra venus is a twisted version of the aqua venus. they are related, you know. 😛

click to expand

That they are 😛

My best is a libra with libra venus n gem moon. Her thoughts never stop!

Posted by Mebs

Posted by DMV
yup, venus in AIR thinks alot!

Unfortunately so... 😢

click to expand

?

Posted by DMV

Posted by Sagittarius89

Posted by Mebs

Posted by DMV

Posted by ellessque
@DMV

now you've got lots of info. seems dazed and i have some similarities but different. it will always have to do with the venus and then you put a twist on it with the scorp stuff. but i think the consensus will always be a hell of a lot of push/pull bullshit with us.

thanks elle.

he came over last night and i surprised him with dinner and dessert. he was thrilled, but he wasnt as talkative. i had to initiate conversations. he hardly opened his mouth. the first night, i couldnt get him to shut up. i called him "high strung/energy." and i said i liked it. i was bored out of my mind. usually, its the girl who gets tight lipped around a scorpio.

plus i made dinner while wearing lingerie!

anyways, after dinner i cuddled up to him for like 2 mins. he got a phone call and just left. he said he would be back in about 20 mins. he never came back, never called. this was the second time he did that. so i told myself i was over it, no more taking crap from dudes and accepting it for the sake of a nut.

he called this morning (total shocker) and i ignored the call.

That dude is a bird. Super insecure.

Who the hell acts like that? Lol

ive always posted to other people that if a scorpio liked you, they dont act like this. im taking my own advice.

click to expand

Yea, It sounds like maybe he has a girlfriend or someone else?

I mean he didn't even stay around to fuck you?

Thats so lame. I'd be pissed.

My ex aqua was like this. Accept he just wouldn't show up.

Yea, It sounds like maybe he has a girlfriend or someone else?

I mean he didn't even stay around to fuck you?

***i love my fellow saggis. you guys/gals get it!

Posted by DMV
Yea, It sounds like maybe he has a girlfriend or someone else?

I mean he didn't even stay around to fuck you?

***i love my fellow saggis. you guys/gals get it!

Cha hell ya! 🙂

i concur

Posted by DMV
Yea, It sounds like maybe he has a girlfriend or someone else?

I mean he didn't even stay around to fuck you?

***i love my fellow saggis. you guys/gals get it!

Lmao! You gotta love Sag89

Posted by Mebs

Posted by DMV
Yea, It sounds like maybe he has a girlfriend or someone else?

I mean he didn't even stay around to fuck you?

***i love my fellow saggis. you guys/gals get it!

Lmao! You gotta love Sag89

click to expand

😄 love you sags

Posted by DazedScorp

Posted by ellessque

insecure or in between relationships?

i'm thinking he hasn't cut ties with someone.

After the FIRST breakup with the aries, I was trying to bed a Gem. I guess since I didn't rip her clothes off the first night she came over, she thought that I wasn't over the aries yet. She flat out told me I wasn;t over her yet.

I could believe that.

Come to find out, she was working with the Aries, and told her that I was trying to fuck her....

But that's beside the point. I admit, I wasn't over the Aries yet. Prob why I was getting cold feet.

click to expand

if you want the word to get out, tell a gemini.

lol @ gas her up.


she wanted her tires rotated
she wanted a lube job
she wanted an engine flush

Posted by DazedScorp
No shit.

Like I said, even though I wasn't over the ex, I was considering fucking the Gem. The Gem is the one that crawled into my bed. She was trying to get her fill.

She was pissed because I didn't gas her up.

I feel like that with my gem friend now too.

Every time I talk to her she gets sexual with me now. Which is fine I guess. If she wants me to fuck her brains out all the time.

She is just kind of silly.

Like how she tried to only get me to kiss her that whole session I had with her and her friend. Lol

But people are always like this with me cause of my mars ;P

Posted by Sagittarius89

Posted by DazedScorp
No shit.

Like I said, even though I wasn't over the ex, I was considering fucking the Gem. The Gem is the one that crawled into my bed. She was trying to get her fill.

She was pissed because I didn't gas her up.

I feel like that with my gem friend now too.

Every time I talk to her she gets sexual with me now. Which is fine I guess. If she wants me to fuck her brains out all the time.

She is just kind of silly.

Like how she tried to only get me to kiss her that whole session I had with her and her friend. Lol

But people are always like this with me cause of my mars ;P

click to expand

is this lady really complaining that she has another girl basically BEGGING to be fucked?

Posted by westside

Posted by Sagittarius89

Posted by DazedScorp
No shit.

Like I said, even though I wasn't over the ex, I was considering fucking the Gem. The Gem is the one that crawled into my bed. She was trying to get her fill.

She was pissed because I didn't gas her up.

I feel like that with my gem friend now too.

Every time I talk to her she gets sexual with me now. Which is fine I guess. If she wants me to fuck her brains out all the time.

She is just kind of silly.

Like how she tried to only get me to kiss her that whole session I had with her and her friend. Lol

But people are always like this with me cause of my mars ;P

is this lady really complaining that she has another girl basically BEGGING to be fucked?

click to expand

What?

OKAY

Posted by DazedScorp
Damn you Saggy, quit taking down your sexy leg pictures

Haha!

Posted by westside
OKAY

Oh I get it.

Posted by DazedScorp

Posted by thxbutnothx
@elle,

Fake it until you make it. It worked for me. No need to force yourself to be emotionally somewhere. Just go with the flow and tell him you want to take it slow (stress free) so he can pace himself also. It's better to set the right expectation upfront (with him and yourself) than feeling stressed/guilty later.

Sorry, but that just doesn't work for Venus in Scorp.

They have to be the one to set the pace. And once they fall, they are stuck.

Right now, Elle is a pool of sticky donut glaze and he's stuck in it trying to win the PoV to her heart.

🙂 I'm such a nerd sometimes.

click to expand

ZING!

carry on Elle, im just sitting here learning.

Posted by ellessque
OK,

we know two things about scorps that are common among all (most)

1. we can only LOVE one person at a time
2. we can seperate love from sex

so, with that said. i can't wrap my head around loving someone else because i'm still IN love with mr cap. i don't see that love dissipating any time soon (forever). so i have to figure out how to develop love from the ground up in order for this to work.

and again, if a scorp is totally focused on you...you will FEEL loved. if they aren't....they are holding on to something else and haven't been able to figure out how to shake it. they might be interested in you, but know that they are struggling with something inside themselves that will make them bolt at a moments notice.

Eh I'm no scorp, but I feel exactly the same. It helps that the one I see is the same way too.

Posted by ellessque
OK,

let's say for sake of argument....that TYRESE showed up at my door with a full LV luggage set for me to pack my things in, while telling me that he saw me on DXP and has fell absolutely head over heels in love with me and wants to whisk me away and live happily ever after.

^^^^^^^^^reaching and exaggerated, i know. BUT.....

i wouldn't budge. seriously.

we know two things about scorps that are common among all (most)

1. we can only LOVE one person at a time
2. we can seperate love from sex

so, with that said. i can't wrap my head around loving someone else because i'm still IN love with mr cap. i don't see that love dissipating any time soon (forever). so i have to figure out how to develop love from the ground up in order for this to work.

and again, if a scorp is totally focused on you...you will FEEL loved. if they aren't....they are holding on to something else and haven't been able to figure out how to shake it. they might be interested in you, but know that they are struggling with something inside themselves that will make them bolt at a moments notice.

so right! this should be on ever website description for scorpios in love.


i think scorpios can only separate love from sex only when their love is attached to someone else. but someone could come along and change all of that.

Hes def into you. No scorp would ask any questions or even get like that for no reason!

This thread got so emotional

Aw 🙂

arent these scorps cute when they want to be.

Okay, I have a bit of a question about the casual sex thing.

So, I'm on the gossip blogs, and Evelyn Lozada(Saggitarius) from BBW is saying how she's deleting her twitter and wont be back for another season. Rumor is, her and Chad Ocho(Cap) broke up because the rumors of her and TO(Sag, and a good friend of Ocho) messing around are true. Ocho has been very accepting of her past and didn't seem to care as he seemed to want to move forward with her. I think her not mentioning TO is/was the last straw. This is all a rumor btw.

But I'm curious about the time when you decide you want to take things seriously with someone. How do you react when/if confronted with your past? And how would you view a guy that wants to end a relationship or engagement after more discoveries? How would you react if the shoe was on the other foot?

This question is not for any particular person, just for any that has casual sex.

Posted by lnana04
Okay, I have a bit of a question about the casual sex thing.

So, I'm on the gossip blogs, and Evelyn Lozada(Saggitarius) from BBW is saying how she's deleting her twitter and wont be back for another season. Rumor is, her and Chad Ocho(Cap) broke up because the rumors of her and TO(Sag, and a good friend of Ocho) messing around are true. Ocho has been very accepting of her past and didn't seem to care as he seemed to want to move forward with her. I think her not mentioning TO is/was the last straw. This is all a rumor btw.

But I'm curious about the time when you decide you want to take things seriously with someone. How do you react when/if confronted with your past? And how would you view a guy that wants to end a relationship or engagement after more discoveries? How would you react if the shoe was on the other foot?

This question is not for any particular person, just for any that has casual sex.

how bout you start a new blog.

i dont want anyone reading this one to even insinuate that i would think about doing something like that.

Posted by DMV

Posted by lnana04
Okay, I have a bit of a question about the casual sex thing.

So, I'm on the gossip blogs, and Evelyn Lozada(Saggitarius) from BBW is saying how she's deleting her twitter and wont be back for another season. Rumor is, her and Chad Ocho(Cap) broke up because the rumors of her and TO(Sag, and a good friend of Ocho) messing around are true. Ocho has been very accepting of her past and didn't seem to care as he seemed to want to move forward with her. I think her not mentioning TO is/was the last straw. This is all a rumor btw.

But I'm curious about the time when you decide you want to take things seriously with someone. How do you react when/if confronted with your past? And how would you view a guy that wants to end a relationship or engagement after more discoveries? How would you react if the shoe was on the other foot?

This question is not for any particular person, just for any that has casual sex.

how bout you start a new blog.

i dont want anyone reading this one to even insinuate that i would think about doing something like that.

click to expand

Something like what? All she did was not tell him as the rumor is her and TO's situation was prior to her and Chad. I could see if she was sneaking behind his back, but they simply decided not to mention it.

My whole question was how do one handle the past, in these situations, if it happens to catch up and is a threat to your future with someone else?

But hey, I'm not curious enough to start another thread lol..

Posted by ellessque

Posted by lnana04
Okay, I have a bit of a question about the casual sex thing.

So, I'm on the gossip blogs, and Evelyn Lozada(Saggitarius) from BBW is saying how she's deleting her twitter and wont be back for another season. Rumor is, her and Chad Ocho(Cap) broke up because the rumors of her and TO(Sag, and a good friend of Ocho) messing around are true. Ocho has been very accepting of her past and didn't seem to care as he seemed to want to move forward with her. I think her not mentioning TO is/was the last straw. This is all a rumor btw.

But I'm curious about the time when you decide you want to take things seriously with someone. How do you react when/if confronted with your past? And how would you view a guy that wants to end a relationship or engagement after more discoveries? How would you react if the shoe was on the other foot?

This question is not for any particular person, just for any that has casual sex.

I have no idea what's going on up there ^^^^^^^^^^^

But....caps have double standards, if you want my honest opinion, and i know by experience.

I could give a rats ass who someone has been with before me, speaking as a scorpio. a past is a past. period.

..but a cap male? not a chance. he could have been with everybody and their mother but if you have a past with someone he's close to, you might as well call it a day.

that's where i stand right now and it's not looking good that opinion will ever change. :/

click to expand

"But....caps have double standards"

Oh, most definitely lol. If it hits too close to home then a Capricorn will most likely NOT move forward. He can be head over heels but that heart will stop and split if he finds out something happened with someone close.

First, I think it's the look of it all, and secondly, Caps already have a hard time trusting. Plus we know how tricky emotions are, as people can be unaware they are not over or still in love with someone. Just don't want to be in a situation where you all of a sudden realize you may still have feelings for that other person, and if everyone is still in the same circle, definitely don't want to one day see that situation go down. Talk about a mental screw for a Cap, as it will always be on his mind.

Really though, I think it's interesting you say the past is th

UPDATE

he called the other day and i picked up. i had been ignoring his calls for about 2 weeks. but yesterday i felt empowered. he sounded confident again. like he was back in business. i felt more of the aries moon.

i told him straight up that i was treating him a certain kind of way because he was putting my in a foul mood. he bounced on me twice and i wasnt going to wait around for a 3rd time. the first time he did it, his excuse was he had gotten into a fight. now this excuse is, he had gotten arrested.

look, i dont date "suits". im attracted to bad boys. everybody needs love. lol.

so i told him "arressted, really?!" he had said that he made bail. ironically, while i was sitting up waiting for him, that thought had crossed my mind. but im still suspicous. he also has a merc in scorpio and getting to the bottom of things, will require some skill on my part.

so i told him that if i found out that he was lying, i was going to make his life a living hell. and if he even thinks about wanting to "play games," i play the better and he will lose.

he tried to rush me off my soapbox but i wouldnt let him. he told me that he missed me, and i told him to cut the shit or theres going to be war. i told him that im crazy, possessive, and jealous and i wont hesistate on anything.

he said "i got you."

i replied "un huh."

Haha you go DMV!

Posted by DMV
UPDATE

he called the other day and i picked up. i had been ignoring his calls for about 2 weeks. but yesterday i felt empowered. he sounded confident again. like he was back in business. i felt more of the aries moon.

i told him straight up that i was treating him a certain kind of way because he was putting my in a foul mood. he bounced on me twice and i wasnt going to wait around for a 3rd time. the first time he did it, his excuse was he had gotten into a fight. now this excuse is, he had gotten arrested.

look, i dont date "suits". im attracted to bad boys. everybody needs love. lol.

so i told him "arressted, really?!" he had said that he made bail. ironically, while i was sitting up waiting for him, that thought had crossed my mind. but im still suspicous. he also has a merc in scorpio and getting to the bottom of things, will require some skill on my part.

so i told him that if i found out that he was lying, i was going to make his life a living hell. and if he even thinks about wanting to "play games," i play the better and he will lose.

he tried to rush me off my soapbox but i wouldnt let him. he told me that he missed me, and i told him to cut the shit or theres going to be war. i told him that im crazy, possessive, and jealous and i wont hesistate on anything.

he said "i got you."

i replied "un huh."

That is where you sagg confuse me, why ignore a person that is my pet peeve
whenever I make the sagg mad usually over something simple he will ignore me I don't know but that ignoring will get you dismiss real quick he is lucky I have deep feelings for him but he said it out of his own mouth yesterday that when he is upset he will ignore me and with hold sex that some bullshit if you ask me. If you have a issue with me deal with it and lets get it on with our lives either you want to be with me or you don't now in your situation DMV if he stood u up then yes I would ignore ignore and then maybe talk to you and give you a few choice words after I hear your excuses.

^^^ Dont get me wrong we our cool right now and the relationship is going good with more communication on both ends, Also I guess I should expect these things from him with scorp in his mer and mars he can be very vengeful...

scorpdiva,

please feel free to give your 2 cents whenever possible. i see "the other side" from your POV.

i think the ignoring part is part sagg and part scorp. i will smug people (sag) and i will outright ignore (scorp) if i need to think. the smug is just me being a bitch. the scorp side is me thinking.

i can see how it would make the person getting ignored pissed off. especially a scorpio. im starting to learn how to speak up. i think it also has to do with my cancer rising a few other aspects. i internalize my feelings, hiding in my shell sotospeak. in the past i have been afraid to stand up for myself and ive allowed bad things to happen that i later regret.

baby steps u know.

withholding sex is something ive done and have done to me. i can relate.

Posted by DMV
scorpdiva,

please feel free to give your 2 cents whenever possible. i see "the other side" from your POV.

i think the ignoring part is part sagg and part scorp. i will smug people (sag) and i will outright ignore (scorp) if i need to think. the smug is just me being a bitch. the scorp side is me thinking.

i can see how it would make the person getting ignored pissed off. especially a scorpio. im starting to learn how to speak up. i think it also has to do with my cancer rising a few other aspects. i internalize my feelings, hiding in my shell sotospeak. in the past i have been afraid to stand up for myself and ive allowed bad things to happen that i later regret.

baby steps u know.

withholding sex is something ive done and have done to me. i can relate.

I see your point and he is also on the cusp Nov 23rd so there you have it, but the withholding sex I told him that has to stop I am the type I don't care if I am mad at my man or whatever we can still have sex then after that just get the away from me until I calm down and he is opposite he has to be over it first and that could be his pisces moon.

it could be the water moon!! i cant have sex if im mad. i have to get over it first...no way around it.

Elle/Lnana@, Agreed.