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case in point, the first scorpio.

i had sex with him and the next day when i saw him, i was chill and cool about it. i even danced with other guys. i believe that started the whole melee. its like he expected me to sweat him like all the other girls did and still do. its like he expected me to fall in love and do anything.



actually, i think that happens with most men. if you don't go all gaga over them after sex they notice, they notice ALOT. their insecurities start protruding like large cysts.

so many women jump into that "i'm in love cuz i just got laid" bullshit and it almost seems to be expected from us these days. when it doesn't happen....they take a step back and analyze the situation.
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Yep!
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@bling,

its not that i enjoy doing differently, thats not how i go into it situations like these.

maybe ive disenfranchised myself into believing that every guy is a booty call until he states differently. even if i wanted a relationship with a guy, im still going to sleep with him on the first date.

i just dont appreciate being manipulated into falling for someone. and thats what happened with the first scorp. i felt like his mindgames caused me to fall but not anything real. its like i couldnt make the decision for myself.

why would a guy want a girl who he tricked into falling for him?
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i do try to keep players on the bench. i like to have a choice in who to have sex with and i would like to keep this scorpio in play but if its at the expense of his feelings, than i dont want that. i need more time outside of the bedroom to make an emotional connection with someone.

i have tried to be more upfront with what i want from a guy because i dont want to give them the run around. BUT i also dont want to lose a player.

casual sex just doesnt seem to work with scorpios. i need casual sex first before i can even consider a relationship with someone.



I'd feel mortified if I was thought of as a playa lol.
I dunno about the casual sex thing, unless I'm the only one you'd be being casual with lol.
I think that outlook attracts the more douchey types you've had in the past though fwiw.
Although one of your situations still makes me lmfao.
Some ex playa who was trying to get your attention in some club.
I imagined him not really talking, pawing at your elbow to come talk in private (and kinda saying it in a *meepy* type voice or just mumbling, then trying to send sexy texts while staying at the bar (probably kinda putting the phone up to his mouth/teeth to appear all cutesy and shit).
You'll continue to attract dudes like this unless you give in to this new scorpio 🙂
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that was the first scorp.


i hear ya. i have been changing my outlook on life and making different decisions. im turning 30 soon and its showing.
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@bling,

its not that i enjoy doing differently, thats not how i go into it situations like these.

maybe ive disenfranchised myself into believing that every guy is a booty call until he states differently. even if i wanted a relationship with a guy, im still going to sleep with him on the first date.

i just dont appreciate being manipulated into falling for someone. and thats what happened with the first scorp. i felt like his mindgames caused me to fall but not anything real. its like i couldnt make the decision for myself.

why would a guy want a girl who he tricked into falling for him?


Why don't you state differently instead ? You seem to like traditional approach when it comes to the possibility of rejection, yet going all out on the 1st date otherwise 🙂
I don't think anyone appreciates being taken for a mug and I see those people are parasitic cunts, personally.
Plus they probably have abandonment issues or can't get over someone who did them wrong (always return to sender with the latter, the rest is just weak).
Funnily enough I don't entertain much b/s as I'm too quick to ask/put my foot in it lol. But at the same time I don't have that much baggage/issues or queefing about to deal with either lol
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let me say that my definition of dating is much different than the traditional definition.
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i do try to keep players on the bench. i like to have a choice in who to have sex with and i would like to keep this scorpio in play but if its at the expense of his feelings, than i dont want that. i need more time outside of the bedroom to make an emotional connection with someone.

i have tried to be more upfront with what i want from a guy because i dont want to give them the run around. BUT i also dont want to lose a player.

casual sex just doesnt seem to work with scorpios. i need casual sex first before i can even consider a relationship with someone.



I'd feel mortified if I was thought of as a playa lol.
I dunno about the casual sex thing, unless I'm the only one you'd be being casual with lol.
I think that outlook attracts the more douchey types you've had in the past though fwiw.
Although one of your situations still makes me lmfao.
Some ex playa who was trying to get your attention in some club.
I imagined him not really talking, pawing at your elbow to come talk in private (and kinda saying it in a *meepy* type voice or just mumbling, then trying to send sexy texts while staying at the bar (probably kinda putting the phone up to his mouth/teeth to appear all cutesy and shit).
You'll continue to attract dudes like this unless you give in to this new scorpio 🙂



that was the first scorp.


i hear ya. i have been changing my outlook on life and making different decisions. im turning 30 soon and its showing.


31 coming up. Can I have someone who doesn't hang on to an sms life style who doesn't act all cakey eaty please ?
You can make it my b/day treat for giving the best advice on DXP. Oct 23 fwiw.
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u got it 🙂
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casual sex just doesnt seem to work with scorpios. i need casual sex first before i can even consider a relationship with someone.



I jsut saw this...

And I may be backpeddling here, but this is the way every single one of my relationships have started out.

Fuck it, I'm confused now. 😢



whats ur venus?




Scorp...
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shit im confused 2. u got any saggo in you?
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Dazed can you elaborate on that.



Which part?



Sex having to deal with trust



Me having sex with you, shows that I have at least some bit of trust in you that you won't rip my heart wide the fuck open.

And after almost a month of being sober now, I just realized...Drunk sex doesn't count. That just means I'm drunk and horny. *sigh*
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I see.
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It seems as if the casual sex thing is an attempt at having control of the situation. I doubt that you have sex with just anybody, as I'm sure some connection is made before-hand, but it definitely seems as if you may have switched your disappointments in the past into calling or claiming it as casual sex. I take it that if the guy wants more, then you would be willing to give, but if he doesn't then you write it off as a booty call. I could be wrong, and I'm sure my point can come across better, but that's how it reads.
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It seems as if the casual sex thing is an attempt at having control of the situation. I doubt that you have sex with just anybody, as I'm sure some connection is made before-hand, but it definitely seems as if you may have switched your disappointments in the past into calling or claiming it as casual sex. I take it that if the guy wants more, then you would be willing to give, but if he doesn't then you write it off as a booty call. I could be wrong, and I'm sure my point can come across better, but that's how it reads.



🙂 no its casual sex alright. say i meet a guy at a party, he looks good...im taking him home. thats the MO. everything starts off as casual sex. just replace party with another place you might run into a guy.

with my ex leo, i smashed him the same day i met him, low and behold to me, we had a relationship for 3 years. so naw, its not a way to avoid rejection or disappointment. sex has always come first for me.



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Was just thinking about this while outside smoking.

Whoever said it, I think they may be right, or at least in my case.

I sleep with a woman to trick her. Show her the passion the first night to get her to fall for me because I lack confidence in maintaining that passion throughout the relationship. Or I lack the confidence to show the passion during the dating process before we have sex.

Wtf!? I've lost it.



Sounds about right. I haven't slept with anyone yet, but as a venus in Scorp, I KNOW I'd have more problems outside of the bedroom than in. I could see sex being used to trick and hook someone, because maintaining relationships seems to be the hardest part, especially if your more introverted(Sun sign) and secretive(venus).
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Was just thinking about this while outside smoking.

Whoever said it, I think they may be right, or at least in my case.

I sleep with a woman to trick her. Show her the passion the first night to get her to fall for me because I lack confidence in maintaining that passion throughout the relationship. Or I lack the confidence to show the passion during the dating process before we have sex.

Wtf!? I've lost it.



yes, im picking up what your putting down. so its like, you get her to fall Night One. i mean once a girl is hooked on a scorpio, hes as good as gold. the battle has already been won. but if that doesnt happen, then its like you will manipulate her into falling for the sake of your ego...im not saying "you" as in you dazedscorp. im saying "you" as in scorpio male.

do u believe youve done what you written above?
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It seems as if the casual sex thing is an attempt at having control of the situation. I doubt that you have sex with just anybody, as I'm sure some connection is made before-hand, but it definitely seems as if you may have switched your disappointments in the past into calling or claiming it as casual sex. I take it that if the guy wants more, then you would be willing to give, but if he doesn't then you write it off as a booty call. I could be wrong, and I'm sure my point can come across better, but that's how it reads.



🙂 no its casual sex alright. say i meet a guy at a party, he looks good...im taking him home. thats the MO. everything starts off as casual sex. just replace party with another place you might run into a guy.

with my ex leo, i smashed him the same day i met him, low and behold to me, we had a relationship for 3 years. so naw, its not a way to avoid rejection or disappointment. sex has always come first for me.



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Yeah, your traditional! I'm starting to notice that despite the stories or wild pasts, when you Sags settle down you seem to be in it for the long-haul and believe in being faithful. From what I see, Sags and even Geminis, take marriage vows and family more seriously than many would think. If I could get past surface differences, I would love to date and possibly marry a Sag or Gem.

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His confidences went down,because he thinks the sex was horrible..on his side..😉



yeah i sensed a bit of that. which is why he asked about the sex. he was excited to talk about it and gave me a pat on the back, but i wasnt as quick and did not give the same praise in return.

its not the i didnt think it wasnt good. im just discreet, plus im an undercover prude. i dont enjoy talking about sex, i enjoy having sex. i do find it in bad taste to discuss sex.
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It seems as if the casual sex thing is an attempt at having control of the situation. I doubt that you have sex with just anybody, as I'm sure some connection is made before-hand, but it definitely seems as if you may have switched your disappointments in the past into calling or claiming it as casual sex. I take it that if the guy wants more, then you would be willing to give, but if he doesn't then you write it off as a booty call. I could be wrong, and I'm sure my point can come across better, but that's how it reads.



🙂 no its casual sex alright. say i meet a guy at a party, he looks good...im taking him home. thats the MO. everything starts off as casual sex. just replace party with another place you might run into a guy.

with my ex leo, i smashed him the same day i met him, low and behold to me, we had a relationship for 3 years. so naw, its not a way to avoid rejection or disappointment. sex has always come first for me.





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Yeah, your traditional! I'm starting to notice that despite the stories or wild pasts, when you Sags settle down you seem to be in it for the long-haul and believe in being faithful. From what I see, Sags and even Geminis, take marriage vows and family more seriously than many would think. If I could get past surface differences, I would love to date and possibly marry a Sag or Gem.

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what cap? the cap i wrote about with the venus in aqua?


i told him from jump street that i didnt want a relationship. multiple times. i told him if he wanted sex, id be down, but i didnt want a relationship from him.

i also have a venus in capricorn, so sex does not make me fall in love. a reputable man with a stable job and bank account can me fall head over heels. stability is what keeps me, not sex.
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It seems as if the casual sex thing is an attempt at having control of the situation. I doubt that you have sex with just anybody, as I'm sure some connection is made before-hand, but it definitely seems as if you may have switched your disappointments in the past into calling or claiming it as casual sex. I take it that if the guy wants more, then you would be willing to give, but if he doesn't then you write it off as a booty call. I could be wrong, and I'm sure my point can come across better, but that's how it reads.



🙂 no its casual sex alright. say i meet a guy at a party, he looks good...im taking him home. thats the MO. everything starts off as casual sex. just replace party with another place you might run into a guy.

with my ex leo, i smashed him the same day i met him, low and behold to me, we had a relationship for 3 years. so naw, its not a way to avoid rejection or disappointment. sex has always come first for me.





But what about the Cap?
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Yeah, your traditional! I'm starting to notice that despite the stories or wild pasts, when you Sags settle down you seem to be in it for the long-haul and believe in being faithful. From what I see, Sags and even Geminis, take marriage vows and family more seriously than many would think. If I could get past surface differences, I would love to date and possibly marry a Sag or Gem.

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Yes that is true. I'm very serious about love. Thats why I don't go around pretending I'm in love with every guy or girl I fuck. Like other signs.
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Was just thinking about this while outside smoking.

Whoever said it, I think they may be right, or at least in my case.

I sleep with a woman to trick her. Show her the passion the first night to get her to fall for me because I lack confidence in maintaining that passion throughout the relationship. Or I lack the confidence to show the passion during the dating process before we have sex.

Wtf!? I've lost it.



hmmmm. i believe you told me that before. might have nothing to do with your sun.



I just don't like the idea of dating. It's very foreign to me.

I have all the confidence in the world to get laid, but none in order to keep a relationship healthy.
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i can relate. i do believe with the right person, it can be effortless making the transition from the bedroom to the dinner table.
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....

Was just thinking about this while outside smoking.

Whoever said it, I think they may be right, or at least in my case.

I sleep with a woman to trick her. Show her the passion the first night to get her to fall for me because I lack confidence in maintaining that passion throughout the relationship. Or I lack the confidence to show the passion during the dating process before we have sex.

Wtf!? I've lost it.



hmmmm. i believe you told me that before. might have nothing to do with your sun.



I just don't like the idea of dating. It's very foreign to me.

I have all the confidence in the world to get laid, but none in order to keep a relationship healthy.
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What's the longest you have ever dated someone?
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It seems as if the casual sex thing is an attempt at having control of the situation. I doubt that you have sex with just anybody, as I'm sure some connection is made before-hand, but it definitely seems as if you may have switched your disappointments in the past into calling or claiming it as casual sex. I take it that if the guy wants more, then you would be willing to give, but if he doesn't then you write it off as a booty call. I could be wrong, and I'm sure my point can come across better, but that's how it reads.



🙂 no its casual sex alright. say i meet a guy at a party, he looks good...im taking him home. thats the MO. everything starts off as casual sex. just replace party with another place you might run into a guy.

with my ex leo, i smashed him the same day i met him, low and behold to me, we had a relationship for 3 years. so naw, its not a way to avoid rejection or disappointment. sex has always come first for me.





But what about the Cap?
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Yeah, your traditional! I'm starting to notice that despite the stories or wild pasts, when you Sags settle down you seem to be in it for the long-haul and believe in being faithful. From what I see, Sags and even Geminis, take marriage vows and family more seriously than many would think. If I could get past surface differences, I would love to date and possibly marry a Sag or Gem.



what cap? the cap i wrote about with the venus in aqua?


i told him from jump street that i didnt want a relationship. multiple times. i told him if he wanted sex, id be down, but i didnt want a relationship from him.

i also have a venus in capricorn, so sex does not make me fall in love. a reputable man with a stable job and bank account can me fall head over heels. stability is what keeps me, not sex.
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Well the latter part of your post explains it. You said that you have to have casual sex before you consider a relationship, but I guess you didn't say good casual sex, as I felt you fell for him a little despite him not being good in bed, but you explained what keeps you lol.
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Was just thinking about this while outside smoking.

Whoever said it, I think they may be right, or at least in my case.

I sleep with a woman to trick her. Show her the passion the first night to get her to fall for me because I lack confidence in maintaining that passion throughout the relationship. Or I lack the confidence to show the passion during the dating process before we have sex.

Wtf!? I've lost it.



hmmmm. i believe you told me that before. might have nothing to do with your sun.



I just don't like the idea of dating. It's very foreign to me.

I have all the confidence in the world to get laid, but none in order to keep a relationship healthy.
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I can relate.
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It seems as if the casual sex thing is an attempt at having control of the situation. I doubt that you have sex with just anybody, as I'm sure some connection is made before-hand, but it definitely seems as if you may have switched your disappointments in the past into calling or claiming it as casual sex. I take it that if the guy wants more, then you would be willing to give, but if he doesn't then you write it off as a booty call. I could be wrong, and I'm sure my point can come across better, but that's how it reads.



🙂 no its casual sex alright. say i meet a guy at a party, he looks good...im taking him home. thats the MO. everything starts off as casual sex. just replace party with another place you might run into a guy.

with my ex leo, i smashed him the same day i met him, low and behold to me, we had a relationship for 3 years. so naw, its not a way to avoid rejection or disappointment. sex has always come first for me.





But what about the Cap?
-------------------------
Yeah, your traditional! I'm starting to notice that despite the stories or wild pasts, when you Sags settle down you seem to be in it for the long-haul and believe in being faithful. From what I see, Sags and even Geminis, take marriage vows and family more seriously than many would think. If I could get past surface differences, I would love to date and possibly marry a Sag or Gem.




Yes that is true. I'm very serious about love. Thats why I don't go around pretending I'm in love with every guy or girl I fuck. Like other signs.
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Makes sense.
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the secret's out. I actually think it's pretty cool that you're being honest, DS!



I always honest.

I'm just not very good at expressing my thoughts through words. And I'm not very good at evaluating my actions.

People always say they don't understand my ways of thinking or that I'm hard to figure out. My response? ...Try being me.
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mercury in scorpio?
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What's the longest you have ever dated someone?



I dated an Aqua for almost 2 1/2 years. Lived together for half of that. Almost married her.



Well ya there go



Huh?

It was a disaster. Hurricane force. Fight, sex, fight, sex, fight, sex
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So was mine with my scorp but at least you know you can try and learn from it? Give yourself some credit
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the secret's out. I actually think it's pretty cool that you're being honest, DS!



I always honest.

I'm just not very good at expressing my thoughts through words. And I'm not very good at evaluating my actions.

People always say they don't understand my ways of thinking or that I'm hard to figure out. My response? ...Try being me.



mercury in scorpio?



Damn it DMV.

Sun Scorpio 3.24
Moon Leo 16.46
Mercury Scorpio 26.55
Venus Scorpio 17.49 R
Mars Aquarius 10.33
Jupiter Pisces 13.14 R
Saturn Sagittarius 7.49
Uranus Sagittarius 19.51
Neptune Capricorn 3.32
Pluto Scorpio 7.09
Lilith Gemini 27.01
Asc node Aries 20.45

There 🙂
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ty ty. i saved it for later use.

i also have mercury in scorpio. putting my words to paper is a bit difficult
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i also have mercury in scorpio. putting my words to paper is a bit difficult




It's like trying to shit into a soda bottle. Messssy



Would a Scorpio Mercury type welcome a change of topic then, if you wanted to say something but couldn't get the words out? Or do you prefer collecting your thoughts and saying it while the listener waits patiently...
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my nickname is paige turner. i change the topic whenever i dont feel like talking about something.
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I don't think it's that hard it's more a case of what to put out there and what not to.
But then again why would you want to edit yourself too much if you're trying to be direct/open ?
If they freak, they freak..I'd take that rather than b/s and buttering up.
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That the thing though. Merc Scorp gets me so caught up in trying to word things, that I end up being super, super BLUNT.

It's not that they freak out, but rather they look at me and laugh.

Ex.

Coworker: "Why do you hate me?"
Me: "I don't hate you. You just annoy the fuck out of me."
Coworker: "......"
Coworker: *Laugh*
Me: "...."
Me: *turns back to computer screen*

I said it very seriously. She thought I was joking.
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lol @ turns back to computer screen
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i also have mercury in scorpio. putting my words to paper is a bit difficult




It's like trying to shit into a soda bottle. Messssy



Would a Scorpio Mercury type welcome a change of topic then, if you wanted to say something but couldn't get the words out? Or do you prefer collecting your thoughts and saying it while the listener waits patiently...



my nickname is paige turner. i change the topic whenever i dont feel like talking about something.




What if you want to say something, but you just can't seem to collect your thoughts? Would you prefer the listener move on?
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i think dazed nailed it. people will nag at me and nag at me. then when i finally give em the truth, im not taken seriously.
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I don't think it's that hard it's more a case of what to put out there and what not to.
But then again why would you want to edit yourself too much if you're trying to be direct/open ?
If they freak, they freak..I'd take that rather than b/s and buttering up.
(no profanity filter present here) 🙂



That the thing though. Merc Scorp gets me so caught up in trying to word things, that I end up being super, super BLUNT.

It's not that they freak out, but rather they look at me and laugh.

Ex.

Coworker: "Why do you hate me?"
Me: "I don't hate you. You just annoy the fuck out of me."
Coworker: "......"
Coworker: *Laugh*
Me: "...."
Me: *turns back to computer screen*

I said it very seriously. She thought I was joking.


HAhaha
But at least you aren't bullshitting. It beats asslicking, and I think the right people get it (even if it takes a while) and the ones that don't are looking for some form of worship on some level.
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preach.

one thing about a merc in scorp, i will figure out a way to get my point across to you if its worth the trouble. if u have a merc in sag, i will make a crude joke with some seriousness. if u have a merc in gemini, i will pull out my thesaurus and say something witty. merc in aqua, i have to be long winded. merc in pisces, (this requires some skill) i will talk around in circles while u talk around in circles and eventually we will hit each other.
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Posted by DazedScorp
Scorp males like to play the games, not have games played on them.

We fuck your mind. We don't want ours fucked.




I don't think anyones trying to play a game.

She is just trying to get a long term "buddy" . She likes his sex. Ain't nothing wrong with that!



I really like this mindset ..
gotta get me a sag w/ venus in scorpio
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Lol
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Posted by DazedScorp
I'm going off topic here...

But

Has anyone seen the episode of "How I met your mother" when Ted is dating the chick that never laughs, but instead says "That's so funny"?

We had some people over to the house the other night.

I was flirting with this rally cute chick that came over. But then...

Every time she was supposed to laugh, she would say "That's so funny" instead. 5 times in like 20 minutes I kid you not.

I couldn't stand it. I was like fuck this, I give up.



you shoulda said, its its soo funnny, why dont u laugh.