I met a scorpio male (first ever) and I need some help. I met this guy in work and he can of hunted me out - when I arrived in the morning he would be at the door waiting, when I went to the loo (door opposite his office) he would always pretend to be coming out of his office, at home time he would be hovering around my office waiting for me to leave so he could walk out with me. After a while we did really start to talk and before long we seemed to spend every spare moment together (still only talking mind). He would say things like theres a great film on at the pics at the moment maybe I'll ask you sometime to go - but never actually asked! We used to text each other and seemed to have the same sense of humour - his words "didnt think I would ever meet anyone who thought the same way as I do, infact I think your minds worse than mine". At night we used to text each other to 3-4 in the morning and I would be rolling around the bed laughing my head off. I found it easy to talk to him and he seemed to know my whole life. I think (after reading the posts here) that he was starting to open up to me. He told me little things about himself - told me that little secrets. He also said that he was hurt before and didnt want to be again said that he was soft underneath (described it like a boiled egg - hard shell but soft once you cracked it open. We got to the stage when we were standing talking that it was hard not to reach out and touch - he later said he felt like a magetic being drawn to me and I truly felt the same. Eventually we did hug and kiss and it was wonderful - when I had to go home it felt like I was being torn away from him - he actually put this in words saying he felt it hard to leave me liek we were magnetised together etc. To the point now - at present we are not together (reasons I prefer not to go into) but we thought at the time just to let things go no more contact. He did however try and contact me a few months ago but by using someone elses phone and I didnt know it was him. Do you think there is a chance for us still or have I left it to late. Do you think what we shared together (being friends first etc) and that feeling of not wanting to part means anything. I have read here that once a scorpio breaks off then it is totally over they never go back! Should I move on and try and forget him - deep down I know that we could have been so good together.
Scorpio's be truthful with me
Scorpios love is eternal. He didnt try to contact you four moths ago just to try out his friends phone now did he——??....... He told you a big secret about us with the egg analogy. Now Im going to tell you another one. Scorpio knows that wanting someone is noting unless that someone wants you to........ Once he knew you did, he was hooked, and I'll bet he still is. Go get him
Thank you for replying and yes it was 4 months ago. I suppose thats the problem it was so long ago and I know I (due to my problem) have grown up so much from then and I suppose he has moved on so much then.
Well I am glad you moved on honee.....if he really loved you, he would make his feelings clear and direct within the form of physical communication.
Its true that pure scorpionic love is eternal, and that we, especially the men, hold back our innermost feelings sometimes.
But keeping someone in the dark and/or letting them dangle on a string means the person is not capable of authentic love. In my opinion. Such a person is too egocentric to truly love another.
Its true that pure scorpionic love is eternal, and that we, especially the men, hold back our innermost feelings sometimes.
But keeping someone in the dark and/or letting them dangle on a string means the person is not capable of authentic love. In my opinion. Such a person is too egocentric to truly love another.
..that they never go back?hahahh who told yah that. Well ok it just may be my case..scorpios hang on to stuff with an iron grip, including old flames sometimes.
That is why an ex and I have been in such torment. I am closing the door, and yes, once a scorpio closes the door, it is forever. But may take awhile to get to that point. This man does not want to close the door and knows how final it is so he is fighting it like a demon.
But I guess not hard enough to leave his wife. sad huh
That is why an ex and I have been in such torment. I am closing the door, and yes, once a scorpio closes the door, it is forever. But may take awhile to get to that point. This man does not want to close the door and knows how final it is so he is fighting it like a demon.
But I guess not hard enough to leave his wife. sad huh
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