Scorpios, do you have this problem?

Wherein you drive people away from you unintentionally because they find you complex. Just recently, I confronted a friend of mine why she acts that way towards me. She said that I am too complex and that she didn't understand who and what I am.

How are you literally, for someone to even get that impression?

I definitely have that, however I think it depends on how you see it, are they just not understanding or are you really too complex? I find that most of the time, people just aren't understanding enough and that not being easy to read is okay.

On top of that, I hate physical touch and proximity, it makes me freak out and I always have to tell people that I don't actually hate them. If they're understanding, they'll respect my wishes and I'll be more comfortable around them but a lot of people try to push my boundaries and that's when I know they're not understanding and not worth my time. Someone brought me close to tears because they kept trying to get close to me and I felt violated because he didn't understand that it was an important part of my personality.

There's nothing wrong with being picky with who you trust, but if you really trust them and you think they won't take it badly then tell them and see how you can be more open and easier to understand.

If you want to work on it by yourself and feel like you could improve that, start by writing things down and analyse your own feelings and be your own judge.

yeah I'm kind of weird too sometimes.

my interpretation- the girl who said you were complex was probably a lazy or shallow person. Every person is unique, we don't always have to become the stereotype of what others want us to be. And that's what makes us human, our differences.

that girl need to read more books.

unless you upset her somehow or always give mysterious answers to her questions or you have a different goth style or something.

if i drive people away, the way i see it is im not for the weak or easily intimidated. nor am i here to change just so someone can like me. you either do or you dont.

leave, get out of my way,and stay out of my way.

Scorpios, do you have this problem?

Posted by meangirl0715
Wherein you drive people away from you unintentionally because they find you complex.

Nope..if I want someone away, I tell them straight up.