AlaniaB
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Scorpios....sex questions
I should have been more specific on that front, because I am perfectly capable of having a short term "uncommited" affair.
What I mean is that some people can think somene is physically hot, good in bed (technique, willingness) and can enjoy or see the sex as like a bodily function.
For me I completely can't do that. I mean, I have to find something really attractive about who the person is and if I don't I would rather forget sex altogether. I have to find the person sexy on all levels...intelligent, bit of confidence, the way they smell and move and look and thn they arouse the hot passion. Ha ha
I know some people are very diferrent and it can be so much more detached.
What I mean is that some people can think somene is physically hot, good in bed (technique, willingness) and can enjoy or see the sex as like a bodily function.
For me I completely can't do that. I mean, I have to find something really attractive about who the person is and if I don't I would rather forget sex altogether. I have to find the person sexy on all levels...intelligent, bit of confidence, the way they smell and move and look and thn they arouse the hot passion. Ha ha
I know some people are very diferrent and it can be so much more detached.
I am like that too
I even find it hard to find celebrities attractive or sexy...like even the most beautiful men in the world because they are beautiful to me like a vase or a painting.
I even find it hard to find celebrities attractive or sexy...like even the most beautiful men in the world because they are beautiful to me like a vase or a painting.
Yes I relate.
I don't have to be in love with someone to have sex with them. But there has to be a compelling rapport in many ways, and I won't be physically attracted enough to have sex if that's absent.
It's rare for me to fall in love. I don't run out of fingers when I count how many people I've fallen in love with. And falling in love isn't necessarily love, in my view, it's a transitory state that may or may not turn into deep lasting love.
Same with rarely finding celebrities appealing in a way that truly attracts me, I'll just notice that structurally the person can be called attractive, like art pieces as you summed up well @AlaniaB.
I don't have to be in love with someone to have sex with them. But there has to be a compelling rapport in many ways, and I won't be physically attracted enough to have sex if that's absent.
It's rare for me to fall in love. I don't run out of fingers when I count how many people I've fallen in love with. And falling in love isn't necessarily love, in my view, it's a transitory state that may or may not turn into deep lasting love.
Same with rarely finding celebrities appealing in a way that truly attracts me, I'll just notice that structurally the person can be called attractive, like art pieces as you summed up well @AlaniaB.
Posted by exoAh you summed up my feelings completely.
yes, casual sex is boring and unsatisfying for me.
i choose to have sex with those i am emotionally, intellectually, spiritually, and physically connected to.
Not all, people are like this! I wonder if it is a very Scorpio trait.
Posted by CopperDoveVery much like me then CopperDove.
Yes I relate.
I don't have to be in love with someone to have sex with them. But there has to be a compelling rapport in many ways, and I won't be physically attracted enough to have sex if that's absent.
It's rare for me to fall in love. I don't run out of fingers when I count how many people I've fallen in love with. And falling in love isn't necessarily love, in my view, it's a transitory state that may or may not turn into deep lasting love.
Same with rarely finding celebrities appealing in a way that truly attracts me, I'll just notice that structurally the person can be called attractive, like art pieces as you summed up well @AlaniaB.
I so rarely fall in love. I do "fixate" on the object of my desire, but really falling in love is rare. I also agree you can fall in love without it turning into deeper love, but at that time, when that person is "on my mind", it is 100% fixated on them and only them and they become so fascinating and attractive to me it's very intense!
Posted by AlaniaBI definitely relate! 🙂Posted by CopperDoveVery much like me then CopperDove.
Yes I relate.
I don't have to be in love with someone to have sex with them. But there has to be a compelling rapport in many ways, and I won't be physically attracted enough to have sex if that's absent.
It's rare for me to fall in love. I don't run out of fingers when I count how many people I've fallen in love with. And falling in love isn't necessarily love, in my view, it's a transitory state that may or may not turn into deep lasting love.
Same with rarely finding celebrities appealing in a way that truly attracts me, I'll just notice that structurally the person can be called attractive, like art pieces as you summed up well @AlaniaB.
I so rarely fall in love. I do "fixate" on the object of my desire, but really falling in love is rare. I also agree you can fall in love without it turning into deeper love, but at that time, when that person is "on my mind", it is 100% fixated on them and only them and they become so fascinating and attractive to me it's very intense!click to expand
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