Scorpios tell the Aquarius how to nab you!

So I was originally posted on a different thread called "Aquarius men what's up with them?"

If you read there you will find Im poor as shit at the moment lol... I'm a college student whose.... And the best part is I stay at home with my family to save money K now the good stuff

Anyways point is I've been talking to this Scorpio girl like practically..... all this fall semester. I noticed her the first day of class and sat relatively close to her.... She was very pretty but I don't necessarily always put a high value on that.... Honestly who does.... LoL I know I don't. Anyways, I noticed how after that first class people would always be in the way of her sitting next me on my row and she would look so frazzled and move to the next row LOOOOL! Then she finally one day almost sat directly behind me interrupted a conversation I was having with someone else on her row and decided to put own two cents in on the convo..... Which I might add this girl pretty much seemed to keep to herself and this was literally the first time I had ever heard her speak! Didn't stop there after Class was done a few classes later she confronted me about how the teacher tests because I presume she overheard me talking to some other people about it before class started..... I had had this teacher before and I knew he was tuff ... Was just wanting to give the heads up. Now stopping me to ask me about that might not mean anything on the suffice but she had this big she smile almost seemed like she was blushing and to she too look me in the eye! I mean had I known she was a scorp then that would have said it all really.... She even spoke up in class when I was about something when she never speaks up really lol!!! So...... I finally decided despite my intention to not really talk to any girls while in school I decided to sit next to her. Ultimately I know 90% are not going to like we're Im at I life and if they don't mind Im old enough now where Im gonna feel like the old creepy stalker guy! She was a lot more open with me about her life at least family and such than what scorpio women are typically.... But honestly she seems more the shy type anyways .... When I ask her what classes is she taking next semester so we can take them together lol she gets so excited like a little girl!! And gives me her phone number I never asked she actually suggested giving to me early but.... W/e point is I eventually sent her a text being very up front with what I thought of her

Lol stupid limit.... So I told her what I thought of her but that my financial situation is shit.... I mean its not like she makes loads of money either but she makes hella more than me she works at one hella high volume restaurant in downtown New Orleans and she made 17 to 20 dollars an hour sound like it was a waste of her time when it's ow there... Anyhow I got no response at first which I naturally expected but she did a few days later it was over thanksgiving holiday..... But she made no comment on saying what I said only that she was happy I had a good holiday and that she did too. I was like alright your just shy w/e no big deal to me. I mean in class or around school wow it's actually quite nice and refreshing to be around and while we are both very busy she has yet to bring this topic up either over the phone or in person. I'm hesitant to push the subject cause I don't wanna make her feel uncomfortable...... well honestly she wouldn't have to tell me a thing if I was able to see her everyday you can tell in the way she acts towards me..... I can tell she's into me I'd have to be a blind fool.... Just I don't see her everyday and she is so busy she is basically impossible to get on the phone I spoke to her once on the phone briefly lol she was half awake hahaha So I just text but I dunno she rarely asks anything about me just where I work and occasionally what grade I got on a test. I mean could be in me being so upfront she does need much more information about me right now but she's kinda been like that all semester.

I asked to see of she wanted to do something this one Monday night cause I was actually free and I knew she was off from work but suddenly shit smithy she had to work randomly? She did say she was free to something next Sunday however I work 16hours all day long on Sunday it is't all clear to me if she was aware of that at the time or not. She rarely excepts things from me and.... lol after our class on Wednesday I offered to give her a ride to her car cause she parks far away off campus but she says 'that's okay I'll walk thank you though..... As she's leaving says guess I'll see you next week laugh... Not interested infesting or talking on the phone then??

My dilemma is I've texted her twice since then with no response which is fine they weren't necessarily intended I guess..... I just don't know if I should back off or give her more attention....

im not a scorp, but i'd say back off. i'd wager to say the scorps here would agree.

she's not being very responsive. scorps do like a little mystery and question.

another thing re. your living/financial situation... try playing it off. you're in school. it's completely understandable.

Yeah I presume so. I did not lead with that like first conversation "I'm poor intersted?"

Just she's been trying to talk to me and she sent first text .... Haha she makes sure it is always related to school ^.^ w/e

Do the same thing she does mirror her actions. Don't go overboard. But, be confident and talk with a smile on your face. Keep the convo school related most of the time. She will open up to you over time. When she does open up about her weekend or th party she went to feel free to ask her questions about it. Listen to what she says, her likes and dislikes. It will help you a ton later. You have to be consistently normal in her eyes for a while. She prolly gets all kinds of creepers and guys hitting on her. So she knows the signs of fake ass dudes. So be the normal chill guy for a while then you can start being yourself a little more. Boy I miss college. Easily the best years of my life!!

Good Luck.

Well that kinda was what I was doing.... quite well I might add! But after this one day between classes where she started to tell me about a boyfriend she moved down here with who she since has broken up with for the past 2 years or w/e.... I dunno seems like I doubt respond properly to an emotional que of hers. I asked if she had to go to class and she scurried off I didn't see her next day in the class we have together (she does that) ...actually since the tuesday she was opening up I didn't see her again until I caught her studying with some other dude in the computer lab! Which I knew she really is not into this guy but... for some reason I was a little jealous and I"M NEVER JEALOUS lol so... I figured you know she is pretty and is not going to be single for forever.... I better at least make it known what I think of her.... She has not changed how she treats me in class since but somehow I feel I made the wrong move maybe with that... I dunno I hate mind games I never play mind games I'm straight and to the point period. Although I do like to give every detail as you can see haha GOD I know it's not mind games ... she just don't know what to think I guess but how is it going to get better exactly... I swear I wish I could rip her memory out of my mind for the next week till finals are OVER.

Guess your right... I just don't like being toyed with. But for this one Scorpio if she treats me right she can do w/e she wants I guess ^.^ I'm in such a good this morning!

I guess a good question for me to ask is... mind games or caging up or being annoyed all aside... what makes Scorpio people feel most loved even if it might not really be love. I mean honestly I could just continue to do things how I feel which I'm thinking might not really steer me wrong to be honest... but I figure other people should have good ideas too I guess. I just would hate to unintentionally hurt her... haha for all I know I already have. I'm such a clutz when it comes to romance sometimes. I suppose if she really wants me she'll let me know

However, many Scorps retreat after we've been a little too open because we fear being seen as a whiner, or being judged or misinterpreted. So she may go back to observing for a bit just to feel completely comfortable with your position in this matter.




When you say "Your position in this matter". You referring to my financial position, or her/my feelings toward one another?

Also, I have the acute phobia of being misinterpreted too.... I find that if I don't fully explain every detail of what I say for some reason people will have a tendency to misunderstand what I'm saying.... I feel like I have to PERFECT lol and not uu unintentionally contradict myself by what I say.... I usually have this problem when I get to excited about a conversation or about something I what to say or talk about and speak up before I have fully processed what it is I'm going to say. Ya'll are so cautious lol.... You know it would be easier to get to know someone the more contact you have with them not the less but what do I know.

Question: what exactly do you want from this girl? Be honest. Just Sex? A Relationship? Study buddy?

Posted by PP
Question: what exactly do you want from this girl? Be honest. Just Sex? A Relationship? Study buddy?

I wan't her... LIKE she is seriously a reality I thought did not exist so to speak?

I don't want her just for sex LOOOL I have never really been that way... I've never had a one night stand in my life.

I'd love to study with her haha... I'd love to do anything she would let me do with her.

I want a relationship period. I want a connection. I appreciate the time I spend with her immensely... when I'm around her it is never been bad... only things you could say that are remotely not so great is sometimes I get the feeling I missed something lol by the way she will react to stuff sometimes or how she suddenly just has to go... I really feel bad when I get the feeling I misread something 😢 Like I let her down or w/e She's been so sweet to me at least in person... I mean not answering me back all the time is fine... not like it is new when I see her again it is generally still pretty awesome ^.^ I haven't enjoyed a females company this much in a very long long time... honestly I don't know if I have ever enjoyed another females company as much as I do hers...

Do I come across as not being forthwright PP... I'm like saying everything here that maybe I guess I should just be telling her I just don't want to smother her in it... I get the vibe either something about how I've gone about something or w/e has caused her to be cautious... could just be trying to be to clingy I guess not for sure man .... all I do is text maybe once a day or not at all... always upbeat and positive and confident in class and around her in general... Have never had a sower attitude towards her... I asked her if she wanted a ride twice to her car once to avoid the rain the other just cause she parks hella far away off campus all I can come up with is either .... she spooked like maybe I'm some creepy rapist haha ...or there is something else