Scorps are a mystery..... always—??

Hi...
Im a cap. I met this scorp man around the end of last year. We were on a long distance ...i wouldnt call it relationship....but it was like a personal chat session!
We spoke for a month almost regularly. Being a cap i am inherently very shy about my feelings. I found that in him too! He never asked me how i felt about life or what plans i had for the future...nor did he ever want to know a great deal about anything in particular...so i thought naturally that he wasnt interested....but the strange part about him was he was not forthright about it and would not even as much as hint as to what was up! i had a feeling that he did not know what he wanted! I was cluless.....i had no idea where i stood in the soo called relationship! I was soo lost by the end...cause i did not want to spend time or efforts on something that had no meaning. I did not want to hurt myself or him for something that was not to be! so i finally took courage and ended it ...no questions asked!
Anyways...the question here is that are all scorps this confusing to comprehend?

Thats because sometimes its nice to get perspective from ..ok lets face it....nuts too! I have your perspective now and thank you very much for that!

i am a cap girl who happens to have a simular thing going with a scorp guy... except that you couldn't say it is a relationship of any type, more of a " i want you to want me, but don't think i'm interested" type thing... we ALL want to be wanted i guess.... good luck to you, though, i haVen't had much myself!

I'm a cap I'm going through the same thing girls with a scorpio. It's like he comes on soo strong when we are together and I feel like the queen that I am. but he only wants to see me once or twice a week... he works a lot and I can understand that, but when I want to see him I can't sometimes and instead of him saying no, he lies. I can even sleep at night trying to solve this puzzle. Any Scorpio men out there that can tell me when a scorpio love you. One are two good signs. Hang in there girls anything worth having is worth working for and waiting for.

well scorpios are very secretive people and they like to observe they may like you alot and never show are express feelings you have be astrong person to deal with a scorpio male or female

I guess Scorpio men are a great deal different than Scorpio women (as I am a female Scorp). Actually I have the reverse of this going on...I am quite expressive with my feelings toward a Capricorn male; getting him to express his feelings is akin to pulling teeth. Though I do enjoy a challenge! What do you all think of this?