serious questions---- Aquarius and Scorpios

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I'm assuming that you want a guy's perspective, sorry, I'm a chic... :p lol... But they say that Aquarians and Scorpio's aren't to get along at all, but I personally think Aquarians are really cool. Can't think of any other astro sign that is more fun to conversate with... 🙂 I admire your cool exterior even if your screaming inside. My bestest friend is an Aquarian, I've known her for 7years and I'm still learning things about her. Maybe it's a two way street when it comes to scorps and Aquarians... :p
But as far as your feeling like you never really knew him, well, I'm sure the other Scorp's will correct me if I'm wrong, but we spend a lot of time in introspection because we don't really know ourselves either. We're constantly shifting, molding, changing and rebirthing ourselves, moment to moment, day to day. So you shouldn't feel bad if you do. Take care!!
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Hey aquarian girl. I've always been attracted to aquarians for their cool-headedness, independence, originality, intelligence, and refined eclecticism. They're, in my opinion, the most amazing sign of the zodiac. I attract aquarians (leo rising) but I can't keep em (scorpio sun/cancer moon). I'm very shy.

Anyways, as a scorpio, I can tell you that there's always going to be a part of me that I keep to myself no matter how close I've become to my significant other. It's not that I don't trust her. Think about it this way. You know Edgar Allan Poe? He's the 19th century literary equivalent of a goth. Well, if in the furthest recesses of your soul, you by your very nature saw the world through the cynical, morbid eyes of a goth, you also wouldn't want to wear your heart on your sleeves. In my opinion, this secrecy is only a result of our self-directed criticism, practiced over and over again; not of any sort of shortcoming on the sig. other. We get so used to hiding the darker, cynical side of ourselves that we forget to let it all out even when we meet someone we feel comfortable with.

So I'd venture to guess that in your relationship w/ the scorpio, you were expecting him to give back at least what you gave in return. The fact that he didn't reciprocate made you feel alienated and distant. And perhaps, unfortunately for you, he was one of those exceptionally aloof scorpions. Well, just to let you know, not all of us are that standoffish. Me for instance, I dated a libra for 8 years and was very open to her. We grew into best friends. I am one of those scorpios that's standoffish at first, if only because of my damned shyness. And once you earn my love, I share myself wholeheartedly - well, almost. 😉