sexual tension between me and scorpio roommate

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Cupidsbow on Friday, July 20, 2012 and has 4 replies.

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@Cupidsbow
14 Years

I don't know what to do? we have a great connection but I don't know if I should mess with this because we're going to be living together (only for one month though?)

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Let me see here ....

Your brain tells you that this is not wise due to having to live together for a bit .....

Then you come in here to ask us what you should do? Eventhough, you've already reasoned this out?

Are people really that weak, that once they get a ping of attraction to another that all sensibility disappears from their brains?

People often get pissed about horrendous sexual acts like pedo, or extreme kinks, priests, or any deviance .... and yet, if people really thought about it, they would see that a person cannot even handle a simple attraction from afar without losing all capability of using their brain cells.

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@ArticleL
14 Years5,000+ Posts

I thought this had already been established P most people dont have certain brain cells. When they bring the emotion we bring the logic being confused that these people are smart, mature, grown, advanced in adding 2+2 is hopefully not the case. Scolding them is boring, the right direction is hard, the future is hazy. Not saying people cant change but rare and change go hand in hand in most cases. It's like the kid who the glare didn't work but when he "accidentally" shot his leg off he awoke.

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@Cupidsbow
14 Years

Hey guys, sorry for the confusion. This Scorpio is a different guy, not the one I was talking about on the Virgo board. (can't a girl have a few interests at once?)

This guy I went to high school with, who's moving with me and 4 friends together. Virgo is moving to the same city, but with different people. We all are pursuing careers in the entertainment industry.

Ok so now that that's settled, my question was I guess mis-worded, and I apologize. So to clarify: in a circumstance where I would be living with someone for a 6-12 month lease, I would definitely NOT try anything with them because there is potential for long term awkwardness in that living situation. In my case, however, were only going to be living together for a month while all of us seek employment and more permanent places to live, so having said "awkwardness" for one month wouldn't be so bad compared to a year if things went awry. So my question is, should I use this time we have together to get closer to him and flirt back and stuff, or do you still think its a bad idea?

As for the Scorpio dude, I'm pretty convinced he's a sleezeball now, but he is sure pretty to look at :-P. a girl can look but no touch, amiright? Even if I were to hook up with him or something, I'd never date him.