Shacking Up

How long should you date a person before you shack up.

I have shacked up 3 times in my life all within a year of dating each one. I was in my early 20's, 30's and late 30's when I did it.

I think shacking up is ok because you get the feel of how a person lives, i.e., clean, messy, dirty, triflin etc.

They say you really don't know a person until you live with them, I find that to be true also. The 3 guys that I shacked up with were all clean except for my sons father, who is a Pisces he was just triflin.

The next time I shack up I will be shacking with the man I am going to marry after dating for about 2 or 3 years.

I've waited 2.5 years, and I've also waited 2 weeks. Every case is different. I know I'm not going to follow no fukkin rules with love or passion or hot sex on an impulse moment. 😛

TG

you shacked up in 2 weeks of dating? What prompt that?

Seeing the guy everyday being mentally & physically HOT for each other & inseparable.

Oh, I think we were both h0rny, too. lol

what do u mean shack up? move in with them? My advise..don't do it too quickly, you'll get bored!..I say after 2.5 - 3 years...

I've NEVER lived with a bf. Never plan too. I gotta save at least one thing for marriage!

Crashing at each others place on the weekend the odd time I can figure out if we're compatible to live together or not.