@6Existential_Pisces6
4 Years
Scorpio baby daddy.
Understanding Scorpio Baby Dads and Relationship Dynamics
Scorpio men are often intense and passionate, which can lead to deep emotional connections but also conflicts. Their tendency toward manipulation and jealousy may cause frequent fights. Recognizing these traits can help in managing the relationship and setting healthy boundaries for better stability.
Fighting when you have a child in the home is very damaging
Damn girl, you've got my placements except for the moon. Maybe some anger management classes? Not everything is worth fighting for. Besides, stress makes you age quickly.
What do you fight over. Go to couples therapy
Posted by MyStarsShine
Fighting when you have a child in the home is very damaging
This I am very aware of. He's just over a month old now and I try to just stay in the room most of the time so his father's yelling doesn't scare him, but I always end up having to go out and get something. I'm aware a decision needs to be made quickly before he is irripairably affected...
Posted by Undine
Damn girl, you've got my placements except for the moon. Maybe some anger management classes? Not everything is worth fighting for. Besides, stress makes you age quickly.
It's just the buildup of every mistake for example: taking off with my car without letting me know for the 50th time when I have the baby with me. He doesn't think about if an emergency were to occur and doesn't have a working phone? And he took off with my debit card the 3rd day at the hospital after a C-section and spent all of my money getting "stuck" in the city... And for some reason I didn't call the cops... The more I talk about this the more evidently clear the answer becomes so I really don't know why I'm asking... Maybe for validation on how bad his offenses really are? So I can go in peace because living with him and his family has seriously desensitized me.
Posted by peachy06
How many times do we have to say this, Scorpio and Pisces is a bad match. Scorpio men are trash also.
Do yourself a favor and care only about your child, leave the boi.
Not disputing your claim, just curious 🧐, why you feel Scorp ♏️ men are trash 🗑 , especially coming from a female Scorp.
It’s actually a sign I purposely don’t date, but a part of me feels wrong for it😂🤷🏽♀️
Posted by 6Existential_Pisces6
Posted by MyStarsShine
Fighting when you have a child in the home is very damaging
This I am very aware of. He's just over a month old now and I try to just stay in the room most of the time so his father's yelling doesn't scare him, but I always end up having to go out and get something. I'm aware a decision needs to be made quickly before he is irripairably affected...
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Your child deserves to live in a peaceful environment, not a volatile one
“It is better to come from a
broken home than live in one”
~Doctor Phil
Posted by 6Existential_Pisces6
So I'm a pisces with a Venus in aquarius, moon in Scorpio and a Mars in Aries for starters. I've been with my Scorpio baby daddy for over a year and a half now(I don't know his time of birth), and we have a perfect little man together but that's about the only perfect or positive thing that seems to be going on... We fight on the daily, I say I'm going to leave and then for some reason I let him guilt me into coming back and everything's fine in the morning? I know Scorpio's being partly ruled by Pluto are supposedly really good at manipulation but my empathy has been appealed to so many times in the same way you'd think I'd catch on...? I guess I just want opinions on my mess... Beautiful mess that is.
It sounds like you want peace and if I'm on to you... You got to SAY it
I'm a scorpio with a pisces baby daddy our son was life changing and sooooo bonding for us. I have not seen him in I think four years but though I will always lovvvvve him and have his back, in my own way... We couldnt do it.
Do you see where I am going?
Always be open so that you dont become enemies
Think about it
We have verrrry similar situations you are a pisces and share a kid with a scorpio. Me too. I am a scorpio and share a kid with a pisces. And we both agree that no words can describe the exhiliration and thankfulness of what our groins created... But why cant we as parents get it right... Let it go...
....as long as you allow your Child to see their Dad and have a relationship with him it will be okay (As long as your child is safe with his dad) then with patience and cooperation, things could work out
And as long as you put your child first, always, of course
Posted by 6Existential_Pisces6
So I'm a pisces with a Venus in aquarius, moon in Scorpio and a Mars in Aries for starters. I've been with my Scorpio baby daddy for over a year and a half now(I don't know his time of birth), and we have a perfect little man together but that's about the only perfect or positive thing that seems to be going on... We fight on the daily, I say I'm going to leave and then for some reason I let him guilt me into coming back and everything's fine in the morning? I know Scorpio's being partly ruled by Pluto are supposedly really good at manipulation but my empathy has been appealed to so many times in the same way you'd think I'd catch on...? I guess I just want opinions on my mess... Beautiful mess that is.
Opinions about what exactly?
Do you want to stay and need advice on how to manage his behaviour?
Do you want to leave and need advice on how to stand firm when he tries to manipulate you?
Do you want feedback on how to stand up to him?
If you just want random "opinions" on your life, you'll get them in droves soon enough.... You already know its not a healthy environment for you and your little one, so I am guessing you would like that to change. However, the mere fact that you created this thread with no real focus identified speaks to why this may be so messy.
Posted by 6Existential_Pisces6
... I really don't know why I'm asking... Maybe for validation on how bad his offenses really are? So I can go in peace...
I think you should figure out why your own sense of what is right for you isn't good enough to have you walking out the door already.
Why do you need validation from a bunch of strangers that will not have to deal with the (positive or negative) consequences of your decision? That may be why you keep letting him "guilt" you into staying.
Posted by peachy06
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Posted by peachy06
How many times do we have to say this, Scorpio and Pisces is a bad match. Scorpio men are trash also.
Do yourself a favor and care only about your child, leave the boi.
Not disputing your claim, just curious 🧐, why you feel Scorp ♏️ men are trash 🗑 , especially coming from a female Scorp.
It’s actually a sign I purposely don’t date, but a part of me feels wrong for it😂🤷🏽♀️
Argumentative, womanizers, manipulative, narcistics, lunatics, do I have to go on ?
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😂😂😂 No! I think that spells out perfectly how you feel about them! 😂
Posted by peachy06
How many times do we have to say this, Scorpio and Pisces is a bad match.
I think if the Fish has a Cap Venus, and a Scorp or Bull Moon and a Fixed Mars they would do a bit better with a Scorp. The inability to make a firm decision and stand behind it come hell or high water, pun intended, is what does a Fish in with this pairing.
He’s on drugs and doesn’t need to be around the child until he’s clean. That kind of reckless behavior has no place in a child’s life. Put your foot down or you are allowing it. Do it now before it gets worse. Maybe he will change and you’ll work it out, maybe he doesn’t and you don’t—but for the sake of the child, put your foot down.
Posted by 6Existential_Pisces6
Posted by Undine
Damn girl, you've got my placements except for the moon. Maybe some anger management classes? Not everything is worth fighting for. Besides, stress makes you age quickly.
It's just the buildup of every mistake for example: taking off with my car without letting me know for the 50th time when I have the baby with me. He doesn't think about if an emergency were to occur and doesn't have a working phone? And he took off with my debit card the 3rd day at the hospital after a C-section and spent all of my money getting "stuck" in the city... And for some reason I didn't call the cops... The more I talk about this the more evidently clear the answer becomes so I really don't know why I'm asking... Maybe for validation on how bad his offenses really are? So I can go in peace because living with him and his family has seriously desensitized me.
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Why does he even have access to your debit card and your car, so he can use them without your permission?? And is he raging because you complain about being....mugged by him? What's next....beating you up because you refuse to fund his drug habit...? Involving your car in an accident and blaming you?
Always think in advance about what shit may happen in the future, because bad things tend to get worse, not better! This works for me each time when I try to detach from someone who doesn't treat me right.
Posted by nanobotz
This guy sounds completely worthless. Why is it always Pisces women who are victims of these losers?
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Highest threshold of tolerance. We can't lower it, but learn to use our imagination to reach it earlier.
Posted by Hypnotoad
Posted by peachy06
How many times do we have to say this, Scorpio and Pisces is a bad match. Scorpio men are trash also.
Do yourself a favor and care only about your child, leave the boi.
U wot m8
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Red flag… you call him your baby daddy
Not your boyfriend
Not your man
Not fiancée
Not husband
You call him baby daddy.
Activate that moon in Scorpio and give him the boot.
No bubbles no troubles cause he ain’t nuthin more than a baby daddy
Posted by ImperfectStorm
Pisces sun with Scorpio moon can be equally manipulative which is probably why you guys bump heads lol can’t manipulate a master manipulator 😂😂
Edited to add I have not read the entire thread and was halfway joking. I have no doubt he is toxic/manipulative i can’t date Scorpio men
No edit necessary. You called that right
If he is open to couples therapy ya'll should give that a go. You need to be able to communicate in a calmer more productive manner. This is true whether you stay together in a romantic relationship or not.
Communication is not just for your relationship but in order to coparent successfully.
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So I'm a pisces with a Venus in aquarius, moon in Scorpio and a Mars in Aries for starters. I've been with my Scorpio baby daddy for over a year and a half now(I don't know his time of birth), and we have a perfect little man together but that's about the only perfect or positive thing that seems to be going on... We fight on the daily, I say I'm going to leave and then for some reason I let him guilt me into coming back and everything's fine in the morning? I know Scorpio's being partly ruled by Pluto are supposedly really good at manipulation but my empathy has been appealed to so many times in the same way you'd think I'd catch on...? I guess I just want opinions on my mess... Beautiful mess that is.