SO what to actually do when Scorpio is playing mind games?

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irena
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how do i react to this bellend behavior

we started of nicely, i was the one "playing" in the begging but that was just in a playful like fun way but now the karma has gotten to my arse, he's the one in control and the one who's left me hanging

doesn't text me but talks to our friends, it's been an effing week and it feels real muggy

i have disappeared before for like 4 days but i let him know that i'll be busy beforehand

first month the geezer would text me every day and then it all came down to me, if i text him first he'll text first after that and then expect me to text first again, not to mention his hot then cold treatment

should i drop it, should i send him a message first or wait till he makes the move

should i the game back

this makes me look proper pathetic lmao but yeah today i have too much time on my hands so it's getting to my head a lil bit

he's also scorpio moon, i'm scorpio sun and mars and even i'm not this full of bollocks
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Posted by EnochtheWise
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Good luck winning any sort of power oriented struggle or game with a Scorp Moon....

that's why i'm asking for advice what to do, my question wasn't about me winning, me taking time to even think about this means he's already winning, that's not the point of this thread


Best bet is to run....lol

Otherwise just be as genuine as you can moving forward. Be clear about how you feel/where you stand, and see if you can build trust over time.....it can be a slow painful process....there are no magic words or quick fix.....

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thanks gal, i won't run yet until it actually gets to my feelings
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Posted by Teena
Why should it be like who texts who first? I think you should be able to text each other whenever you feel like it n be comfortable with that. Maybe just don't give too much thought about this whole power struggle thing. It'd be easier.

because i never know how the geezer feels, as said above he's occasionally hot and cold and with this situation i just don't know if i should text him after this week of break or wait for him to do his thing
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Why should it be like who texts who first? I think you should be able to text each other whenever you feel like it n be comfortable with that. Maybe just don't give too much thought about this whole power struggle thing. It'd be easier.

because i never know how the geezer feels, as said above he's occasionally hot and cold and with this situation i just don't know if i should text him after this week of break or wait for him to do his thing

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Lol! Sorry about that. So he took a break n it's been a week? What was it like? I mean you tried talking n he didn't respond? Either way, maybe just wait for a little more while. Maybe he wants this break.
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Why should it be like who texts who first? I think you should be able to text each other whenever you feel like it n be comfortable with that. Maybe just don't give too much thought about this whole power struggle thing. It'd be easier.

because i never know how the geezer feels, as said above he's occasionally hot and cold and with this situation i just don't know if i should text him after this week of break or wait for him to do his thing


Lol! Sorry about that. So he took a break n it's been a week? What was it like? I mean you tried talking n he didn't respond? Either way, maybe just wait for a little more while. Maybe he wants this break.
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we were just having a casual chat and he went cold like answering as if he's not into it so i hit him with seen on his last message (there wasn't much to say on it anyways), i knew he was moody because he had a stomachache but idgaf lol i didn't reach out after that
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Why should it be like who texts who first? I think you should be able to text each other whenever you feel like it n be comfortable with that. Maybe just don't give too much thought about this whole power struggle thing. It'd be easier.

because i never know how the geezer feels, as said above he's occasionally hot and cold and with this situation i just don't know if i should text him after this week of break or wait for him to do his thing


Lol! Sorry about that. So he took a break n it's been a week? What was it like? I mean you tried talking n he didn't respond? Either way, maybe just wait for a little more while. Maybe he wants this break.

we were just having a casual chat and he went cold like answering as if he's not into it so i hit him with seen on his last message (there wasn't much to say on it anyways), i knew he was moody because he had a stomachache but idgaf lol i didn't reach out after that
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"There wasn't much to say" is too important to be in the brackets lol. If there's nothing much you can say about where you guys left it at, it's the end of the conversation. Don't need to bother about that.

Umm..maybe text him asking if he's feeling better? I mean it's so out of this whole "games" thing. I think it'd be courteous to do that much.

Also stomachache is a pain ? I didn't respond to/text closest of my friends when I had it?
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how do i react to this bellend behavior

we started of nicely, i was the one "playing" in the begging but that was just in a playful like fun way but now the karma has gotten to my arse, he's the one in control and the one who's left me hanging

doesn't text me but talks to our friends, it's been an effing week and it feels real muggy

i have disappeared before for like 4 days but i let him know that i'll be busy beforehand

first month the geezer would text me every day and then it all came down to me, if i text him first he'll text first after that and then expect me to text first again, not to mention his hot then cold treatment

should i drop it, should i send him a message first or wait till he makes the move

should i the game back

this makes me look proper pathetic lmao but yeah today i have too much time on my hands so it's getting to my head a lil bit

he's also scorpio moon, i'm scorpio sun and mars and even i'm not this full of bollocks


Where u from?
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essex, uk
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irena
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Why should it be like who texts who first? I think you should be able to text each other whenever you feel like it n be comfortable with that. Maybe just don't give too much thought about this whole power struggle thing. It'd be easier.

because i never know how the geezer feels, as said above he's occasionally hot and cold and with this situation i just don't know if i should text him after this week of break or wait for him to do his thing


Might I suggest asking him instead of strangers who believe in an archaic pseudoscience bro? Feel like you are texting too much? Ask him....Not sure how he feels about something? Ask....Its not that hard.

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lol

i know how that'll go, like he'll admit in playing games, i'm a scorpio too i think being direct is not always the best way with us for whatever reason

plus a lot of time to kill today so why not bore you guys with my teenage-like issues
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how do i react to this bellend behavior

we started of nicely, i was the one "playing" in the begging but that was just in a playful like fun way but now the karma has gotten to my arse, he's the one in control and the one who's left me hanging

doesn't text me but talks to our friends, it's been an effing week and it feels real muggy

i have disappeared before for like 4 days but i let him know that i'll be busy beforehand

first month the geezer would text me every day and then it all came down to me, if i text him first he'll text first after that and then expect me to text first again, not to mention his hot then cold treatment

should i drop it, should i send him a message first or wait till he makes the move

should i the game back

this makes me look proper pathetic lmao but yeah today i have too much time on my hands so it's getting to my head a lil bit

he's also scorpio moon, i'm scorpio sun and mars and even i'm not this full of bollocks


Where u from?
lol. under a bridge

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stop bullying me omgggggggg
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Seriously I'd get busy and not worry about it... back off and don't text. Do your thing and get busy and wait for HIM.

Give yourself a time date when you'll have enough if he doesn't contact within your time frame (the one you set in your mind) then move on. Sometimes we have to brace ourselves for the worst.

Doesn't mean you did anything. Good luck.
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Irene, it just sounds like you are complaining because you are losing at a game you started.

He's not dumb. If we catch on and don't even know you, I'm sure he saw that in you a mile away.

Your behavior is obviously not loving... you were just playing chess with him and he won ??โ€โ™€๏ธ
not really, if that was a month ago i would've agreed but now i do actually like him and just going through on how to this silence
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Posted by EnochtheWise
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you americans proper hostile for no reason ๐Ÿ˜† i love it
You love it because its you. You've created that environment in the thread. More of the game playing that you deny, bc you're fake as fuck. Stay on this power trip if you like, though experience is teaching you you aren't very good at it. Hope you enjoy your final destination....

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lol why the bitterness hun
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you americans proper hostile for no reason ๐Ÿ˜† i love it
You love it because its you. You've created that environment in the thread. More of the game playing that you deny, bc you're fake as fuck. Stay on this power trip if you like, though experience is teaching you you aren't very good at it. Hope you enjoy your final destination....


lol why the bitterness hun


more questions a Scorpio should know the answer to....you are hopeless bro....
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honey, you just don't make sense now lol ๐Ÿ˜†

chill, don't take stuff so seriously, it's the internet ya know ๐Ÿ™‚
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Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisone
This forum is just hostile, has nothing to do with being from US

As for your post, you are playing a game imho, especially when you said "you won't run away until it gets to your feelings" I mean come on



i meant until his games don't get to my feelings, i'm not playing with him but our relationship is not that serious yet, it's only been 2 months, i don't love him yet for me to be completely heartbroken or something i just want to figure out how to react when he's testing me because he's mad confusing lmao so eventually we can get to something more serious
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This forum is just hostile, has nothing to do with being from US

As for your post, you are playing a game imho, especially when you said "you won't run away until it gets to your feelings" I mean come on



i meant until his games don't get to my feelings, i'm not playing with him but our relationship is not that serious yet, it's only been 2 months, i don't love him yet for me to be completely heartbroken or something i just want to figure out how to react when he's testing me because he's mad confusing lmao so eventually we can get to something more serious

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Well then wait a few days more, figure it out and see. If you're actually dating and haven't talked for a whole week that doesn't sound like a good relationship tbh. Maybe leave before you get to that serious stage where you're definitely gonna get your heart broken.
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This forum is just hostile, has nothing to do with being from US

As for your post, you are playing a game imho, especially when you said "you won't run away until it gets to your feelings" I mean come on



i meant until his games don't get to my feelings, i'm not playing with him but our relationship is not that serious yet, it's only been 2 months, i don't love him yet for me to be completely heartbroken or something i just want to figure out how to react when he's testing me because he's mad confusing lmao so eventually we can get to something more serious



Well then wait a few days more, figure it out and see. If you're actually dating and haven't talked for a whole week that doesn't sound like a good relationship tbh. Maybe leave before you get to that serious stage where you're definitely gonna get your heart broken.

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i thought about breaking it off but he just draws me in every time lol
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Posted by irena
Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisone
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This forum is just hostile, has nothing to do with being from US

As for your post, you are playing a game imho, especially when you said "you won't run away until it gets to your feelings" I mean come on



i meant until his games don't get to my feelings, i'm not playing with him but our relationship is not that serious yet, it's only been 2 months, i don't love him yet for me to be completely heartbroken or something i just want to figure out how to react when he's testing me because he's mad confusing lmao so eventually we can get to something more serious



Well then wait a few days more, figure it out and see. If you're actually dating and haven't talked for a whole week that doesn't sound like a good relationship tbh. Maybe leave before you get to that serious stage where you're definitely gonna get your heart broken.


i thought about breaking it off but he just draws me in every time lol
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Well he is a Scorpio lol, they have that "it" and once you find it it's hard letting go