@HopefullyIrememberthisone
9 Years
Scorpio's inability to move past small talk?
Open up to him and see how it goes
Might just need that extra push
This thread is missing something about staring and intensity. We can't answer it without it.
A Scorpio is not going to delve deeply after only two months, he doesn't know or trust you yet. Be patient.
Posted by GonS
have you tried to open an in depth convo yourself?small talk with scorpio and nothing more is never an encouraging thing
It's really hard to do because he's so jokes, like all the time, so I just feel like even if I started anything too deep he would just take it lightly idk he's really complicated with communicating lol
Posted by lesenfantterribles
do you know his chart info?sounds like he is self absorbed and just basking in your attention
Nope I don't
Yeah like I've mentioned it, it is online communication which makes the connection already fragile and he's really introvent irl, just hangs out with his small inner circle so idk maybe I'm just flattering his ego and that's how he likes me and wouldn't want to take it further
Posted by nikkistar
This thread is missing something about staring and intensity. We can't answer it without it.
Don't forget dark and mysterious
Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisone
My second thread in a row lol but I thought I might as well ask everything I want to know while I'm here.So I've been chatting to this guy for about 2 months, he's a Scorpio so obviously I've read that he has this
depth to his personality but I haven't had a chance to actually see that.
For these 2 months we've never actually spoken about anything meaningful apart for once when he opened up about feeling sad and low and that's about it. He rarely asks about any private things about me, everything's just so basic, and as I've mentioned in my previous thread even when I'm obviously not in the mood he doesn't bother to ask why, while I do when he seems to be stressed. It makes me think he doesn't actually have interest in me but he's only there because he doesn't have female attention of this kind irl. (This is online kind of communication)
So my question is, could it be that he just not that into me or he doesn't know how to get deeper with topics, maybe he doesn't want to be nosy or he just doesn't care about me to that extent to try and get to know me on another level.
I know this might have nothing to do with his star sign but just his way of communicating but I'm bored and I kind of just got into depths of astrology so it doesn't kill to ask lol
Do you feel satisfied when you "speak" with him? If not, who cares why he isn't engaged. Move on.
Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisone
My second thread in a row lol but I thought I might as well ask everything I want to know while I'm here.So I've been chatting to this guy for about 2 months, he's a Scorpio so obviously I've read that he has this
depth to his personality but I haven't had a chance to actually see that.
For these 2 months we've never actually spoken about anything meaningful apart for once when he opened up about feeling sad and low and that's about it. He rarely asks about any private things about me, everything's just so basic, and as I've mentioned in my previous thread even when I'm obviously not in the mood he doesn't bother to ask why, while I do when he seems to be stressed. It makes me think he doesn't actually have interest in me but he's only there because he doesn't have female attention of this kind irl. (This is online kind of communication)
So my question is, could it be that he just not that into me or he doesn't know how to get deeper with topics, maybe he doesn't want to be nosy or he just doesn't care about me to that extent to try and get to know me on another level.
I know this might have nothing to do with his star sign but just his way of communicating but I'm bored and I kind of just got into depths of astrology so it doesn't kill to ask lol
Do you feel satisfied when you "speak" with him? If not, who cares why he isn't engaged. Move on.
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That's a good question lol,on occasions yes but then there's moments where he just bores me and I just make the conversation short
My Pisces is like this. You have to be SUPER PATIENT.
Do you ever spend real time together? If not, I suggest you do
Posted by nikkistar
This thread is missing something about staring and intensity. We can't answer it without it.Don't forget dark and mysterious
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😆
and wears dark suits. (they usually do) lol
Zinedine Zidane, Cancer male, but Scorpio moon.
Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisone
Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisone
My second thread in a row lol but I thought I might as well ask everything I want to know while I'm here.So I've been chatting to this guy for about 2 months, he's a Scorpio so obviously I've read that he has this
depth to his personality but I haven't had a chance to actually see that.
For these 2 months we've never actually spoken about anything meaningful apart for once when he opened up about feeling sad and low and that's about it. He rarely asks about any private things about me, everything's just so basic, and as I've mentioned in my previous thread even when I'm obviously not in the mood he doesn't bother to ask why, while I do when he seems to be stressed. It makes me think he doesn't actually have interest in me but he's only there because he doesn't have female attention of this kind irl. (This is online kind of communication)
So my question is, could it be that he just not that into me or he doesn't know how to get deeper with topics, maybe he doesn't want to be nosy or he just doesn't care about me to that extent to try and get to know me on another level.
I know this might have nothing to do with his star sign but just his way of communicating but I'm bored and I kind of just got into depths of astrology so it doesn't kill to ask lol
Do you feel satisfied when you "speak" with him? If not, who cares why he isn't engaged. Move on.
That's a good question lol,on occasions yes but then there's moments where he just bores me and I just make the conversation short
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Meh, take if off social media. Talk. Meet. If he's not willing to do that, move on. The fact that he hasn't suggested it already suggest a lack of genuine interest, but there ins't enough info here to really say.
Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisone
Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisone
My second thread in a row lol but I thought I might as well ask everything I want to know while I'm here.So I've been chatting to this guy for about 2 months, he's a Scorpio so obviously I've read that he has this
depth to his personality but I haven't had a chance to actually see that.
For these 2 months we've never actually spoken about anything meaningful apart for once when he opened up about feeling sad and low and that's about it. He rarely asks about any private things about me, everything's just so basic, and as I've mentioned in my previous thread even when I'm obviously not in the mood he doesn't bother to ask why, while I do when he seems to be stressed. It makes me think he doesn't actually have interest in me but he's only there because he doesn't have female attention of this kind irl. (This is online kind of communication)
So my question is, could it be that he just not that into me or he doesn't know how to get deeper with topics, maybe he doesn't want to be nosy or he just doesn't care about me to that extent to try and get to know me on another level.
I know this might have nothing to do with his star sign but just his way of communicating but I'm bored and I kind of just got into depths of astrology so it doesn't kill to ask lol
Do you feel satisfied when you "speak" with him? If not, who cares why he isn't engaged. Move on.
That's a good question lol,on occasions yes but then there's moments where he just bores me and I just make the conversation short
Meh, take if off social media. Talk. Meet. If he's not willing to do that, move on. The fact that he hasn't suggested it already suggest a lack of genuine interest, but there ins't enough info here to really say.
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He has,but I've been very busy and now that I'm not he lost interest lol guess it's just not a good combo after all
Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisone
Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisone
Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisone
My second thread in a row lol but I thought I might as well ask everything I want to know while I'm here.So I've been chatting to this guy for about 2 months, he's a Scorpio so obviously I've read that he has this
depth to his personality but I haven't had a chance to actually see that.
For these 2 months we've never actually spoken about anything meaningful apart for once when he opened up about feeling sad and low and that's about it. He rarely asks about any private things about me, everything's just so basic, and as I've mentioned in my previous thread even when I'm obviously not in the mood he doesn't bother to ask why, while I do when he seems to be stressed. It makes me think he doesn't actually have interest in me but he's only there because he doesn't have female attention of this kind irl. (This is online kind of communication)
So my question is, could it be that he just not that into me or he doesn't know how to get deeper with topics, maybe he doesn't want to be nosy or he just doesn't care about me to that extent to try and get to know me on another level.
I know this might have nothing to do with his star sign but just his way of communicating but I'm bored and I kind of just got into depths of astrology so it doesn't kill to ask lol
Do you feel satisfied when you "speak" with him? If not, who cares why he isn't engaged. Move on.
That's a good question lol,on occasions yes but then there's moments where he just bores me and I just make the conversation short
Meh, take if off social media. Talk. Meet. If he's not willing to do that, move on. The fact that he hasn't suggested it already suggest a lack of genuine interest, but there ins't enough info here to really say.
He has,but I've been very busy and now that I'm not he lost interest lol guess it's just not a good combo after all
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Like I state, there wasn't enough to say. You just provided another piece to the puzzle. He lost interest when you couldn't make time for him. Anything else missing from your interactions?
Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisone
Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisone
Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisone
My second thread in a row lol but I thought I might as well ask everything I want to know while I'm here.So I've been chatting to this guy for about 2 months, he's a Scorpio so obviously I've read that he has this
depth to his personality but I haven't had a chance to actually see that.
For these 2 months we've never actually spoken about anything meaningful apart for once when he opened up about feeling sad and low and that's about it. He rarely asks about any private things about me, everything's just so basic, and as I've mentioned in my previous thread even when I'm obviously not in the mood he doesn't bother to ask why, while I do when he seems to be stressed. It makes me think he doesn't actually have interest in me but he's only there because he doesn't have female attention of this kind irl. (This is online kind of communication)
So my question is, could it be that he just not that into me or he doesn't know how to get deeper with topics, maybe he doesn't want to be nosy or he just doesn't care about me to that extent to try and get to know me on another level.
I know this might have nothing to do with his star sign but just his way of communicating but I'm bored and I kind of just got into depths of astrology so it doesn't kill to ask lol
Do you feel satisfied when you "speak" with him? If not, who cares why he isn't engaged. Move on.
That's a good question lol,on occasions yes but then there's moments where he just bores me and I just make the conversation short
Meh, take if off social media. Talk. Meet. If he's not willing to do that, move on. The fact that he hasn't suggested it already suggest a lack of genuine interest, but there ins't enough info here to really say.
He has,but I've been very busy and now that I'm not he lost interest lol guess it's just not a good combo after all
Like I state, there wasn't enough to say. You just provided another piece to the puzzle. He lost interest when you couldn't make time for him. Anything else missing from your interactions?
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Well that's mostly it, but it's like he doesn't understand that I have social life outiside of the internet and that I too get moody sometimes, those are the moments he goes cold but I can't change that, I can't pretend I'm in a good mood if I'm not just to prevent his grumpiness, I like him but not that much lol
Okay well at this point you can either take the lead and invite him out to meet each other in person or move on. More than likely he feels he put in the effort in the beginning and no longer wants to put himself out there. In other words he wants you to prove you're serious about him.
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My second thread in a row lol but I thought I might as well ask everything I want to know while I'm here.
So I've been chatting to this guy for about 2 months, he's a Scorpio so obviously I've read that he has this
depth to his personality but I haven't had a chance to actually see that.
For these 2 months we've never actually spoken about anything meaningful apart for once when he opened up about feeling sad and low and that's about it. He rarely asks about any private things about me, everything's just so basic, and as I've mentioned in my previous thread even when I'm obviously not in the mood he doesn't bother to ask why, while I do when he seems to be stressed. It makes me think he doesn't actually have interest in me but he's only there because he doesn't have female attention of this kind irl. (This is online kind of communication)
So my question is, could it be that he just not that into me or he doesn't know how to get deeper with topics, maybe he doesn't want to be nosy or he just doesn't care about me to that extent to try and get to know me on another level.
I know this might have nothing to do with his star sign but just his way of communicating but I'm bored and I kind of just got into depths of astrology so it doesn't kill to ask lol