lonelyscorpio
@lonelyscorpio
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Some sagittarius women are rude
Could there be a reason why she rolled her eyes at you? Any prior conflicts may i ask?
Yep @bliss is right. Plus if they are being blunt aka Rude to you for no reason, you tell their azz to calm down. Don't let them disrespect you. Also sometimes, you gotta just walk away & ignore people like that. That hurts them more than anything 😉. Continue being your sweet self K.
Posted by Fox
Why is it I don't find sags = blunt/rude? lmao. Just passionate.
They're human beings and they'll have moments where they do not want to pretend they've got a rainbow shining out of their arses.
hahah +1
Posted by lonelyscorpio
I don' want to judge an entire group from just a few bad apples, but IME, they are rude. We were at work and I said hello, how are you, and then she rolled her eyes at me, and said something I
couldn't make out. Just too hot and cold, and extremely moody. One minute she can be very pleasant, and the life of the party, but then later become very distant and MEAN. The libra in my chart just wants everyone to get along, and I hate to feel that I've upset anyone. I just don't think they are my cup of tea. This coming from a scorpio sun, leo moon.
im mutable and watery. i can be nice one day and closed off the next. depends where my moods are. I mean scorpios are just as moody.
its interesting that you say that you hate feeling like youve upset anyone. did you upset her or her convictions? if ya did, thats her high horse, not trying to be fake, but i dont fick wit cha hello.
I'm a Sag woman and I can say that there are times I can be blunt and 'to the point' and actually, you'd be right in saying we don't pause to reflect on how that may hurt someone, because we don't. Sometimes we are equally as surprised about what comes out of our mouths as everyone else around us.
As far as your situation where she had a crappy attitude, maybe she was having a bad day? I'm generally very happy-go-lucky and as many other Sadge women are, so to be the way she was, perhaps she had something going on?
Saggy's aren't afraid of conflict, call her out! Whenever someone calls me out, it completely changes to tone, usually... Sometimes I'm just not aware of what I'm putting out there. 😛
As far as your situation where she had a crappy attitude, maybe she was having a bad day? I'm generally very happy-go-lucky and as many other Sadge women are, so to be the way she was, perhaps she had something going on?
Saggy's aren't afraid of conflict, call her out! Whenever someone calls me out, it completely changes to tone, usually... Sometimes I'm just not aware of what I'm putting out there. 😛
Posted by 2BlackIndian3
Yep @bliss is right. Plus if they are being blunt aka Rude to you for no reason, you tell their azz to calm down. Don't let them disrespect you. Also sometimes, you gotta just walk away & ignore people like that. That hurts them more than anything 😉. Continue being your sweet self K.
+1000....agreed!Why would you allow someone to snap at you and not check their azz! I'm a Libra too and there's nothing about my personality that would even come close to allowing someone to treat me like that. Sorry....that's not a Libra thing. that's a personal thing. You should have checked her azz....PERIOD!
Some people are rude. And there are days when each and every one of us falls under that category. x)
I used to confuse fire signs "passion" for rudeness, but I soon realized that it's just how they react, on impulse. In the moment. However you wanna call it. I'd advise not taking it to heart, they forget about it in five minutes, from my experience at least. I've always found fire similar to water when it comes to reactions.
I used to confuse fire signs "passion" for rudeness, but I soon realized that it's just how they react, on impulse. In the moment. However you wanna call it. I'd advise not taking it to heart, they forget about it in five minutes, from my experience at least. I've always found fire similar to water when it comes to reactions.
Posted by DMVPosted by Fox
Why is it I don't find sags = blunt/rude? lmao. Just passionate.
They're human beings and they'll have moments where they do not want to pretend they've got a rainbow shining out of their arses.
hahah +1click to expand
ha ha my azz..common courtesy is due to a dog...it's funny how rude azz people always using the umbrella "that just the way I am"..I'm not always in a good mood or as you said "don't want to pretend they've got a rainbow shining out of their arses" However, when you flip the script on their azz and become as rude and moody to them, then all of a sudden, just like an Aries, they want to catch the hurt feeling syndrome. Bullshiggity!! I blame the poster for allowing someone to talk smack to her and not rectify the situation right then and there..It's real simple....treat people like you want to be treated, but if you expect the same kinda treatment, which most normal folks don't, then do you and expect whatever comes your way.
No, someone told me they didn't think she was feeling good, because she left work early. I could sense something was troubling her, and as a friend I thought I was doing the right thing by asking. I just don't think I will say anything to her anymore(just can't deal with the hot/cold treatment). Thanks for the advice.
Posted by LIb4LifePosted by DMVPosted by Fox
Why is it I don't find sags = blunt/rude? lmao. Just passionate.
They're human beings and they'll have moments where they do not want to pretend they've got a rainbow shining out of their arses.
hahah +1
ha ha my azz..common courtesy is due to a dog...it's funny how rude azz people always using the umbrella "that just the way I am"..I'm not always in a good mood or as you said "don't want to pretend they've got a rainbow shining out of their arses" However, when you flip the script on their azz and become as rude and moody to them, then all of a sudden, just like an Aries, they want to catch the hurt feeling syndrome. Bullshiggity!! I blame the poster for allowing someone to talk smack to her and not rectify the situation right then and there..It's real simple....treat people like you want to be treated, but if you expect the same kinda treatment, which most normal folks don't, then do you and expect whatever comes your way.click to expand
no one talked smack. the OP just didnt get the hello she wanted.
Posted by IrresistableScorp
Maybe she rolled her eyes because she was thinking: No its NOT a good morning. This morning SUCKS! And it has nothing to do with hurting you or making fun of you. Seriously--that might be what it is.
FTW
i wouldnt take it personally. its not you, its her.
Exactly @Gobshite & @Lib4life lol. Man im a pretty chill dude myself, but my dad & grandma always tell me to fire back if someone trys to act bitchy towards me for no reason. Next time that Sag does that crab, you let her azz have it full force. Plus my Aries Mars will sometimes take over & ill have to say something eventually. So show her & anyone else that you can play with fire & dish it out if necessary 😉
Posted by lonelyscorpio
No, someone told me they didn't think she was feeling good, because she left work early. I could sense something was troubling her, and as a friend I thought I was doing the right thing by asking. I just don't think I will say anything to her anymore(just can't deal with the hot/cold treatment). Thanks for the advice.
i know your trying to a be a friend. but not everyone likes to be coddled or asked "are you okay." you can actually make a situation worse by asking.
Well lonelyscorpio just leave her alone for now & focus on your job ok. At least next time if this happens, you'll know what to do. Maybe she'll apologize If you two are friends. But just focus on you & let it go
To give you a different perspective; i have a female scorpio cowroker. Shes just as moody and can kill you with her smug look. One minute she can be laughing and joking. the next, proceed with caution. i could react and do this or that. but then what? what has been accomplished?
i dont take it personal. everyone has a life outside of work and sometimes the moods are not always left at the front door.
i dont take it personal. everyone has a life outside of work and sometimes the moods are not always left at the front door.
@DMV you can't really blame lonelyscorpio for feeling bad or wondering whats wrong you know. She wasn't expecting this out that lady. So she's probably just shocked that it happened
Posted by 2BlackIndian3
@DMV you can't really blame lonelyscorpio for feeling bad or wondering whats wrong you know. She wasn't expecting this out that lady. So she's probably just shocked that it happened
where did i lay blame?
I actually had a Capricorn friend do this to me one time lol. Believe me it hurted because she's always nice to me. One day she was just soo rude & it was because her & her friend was late to go out eating Lol. So she took it out on me. I was just like D*mn ok. But she did apologize although we don't talk now. So with people who like that, just let them know its kool how they acted towards you & let them be. You know its not your fault Scorpio Lady
@DMV I never said you laid blame lol.I said you can't blame her for being sad about her friend or co worker. Not saying you did anything bad here ok
I meant to say its not kool how certain people act mean for no reason. D*mn touch screen phones lol. I understand you @Gobshite. Also this is not to say all Sags are mean. My mom is a Sagittarius by the way. Some are blunt, & some are just plain rude.
you know who's rude? Its the people in the registrars office! too unfriendly and not willing to help , >_
Posted by crabberries
you know who's rude? Its the people in the registrars office! too unfriendly and not willing to help , >_
+1 haha
Doesn't surprise me a male scorpio thinks that. The scorpio women seem to get it 🙂
Sag women/men imo are the bomb and waaaaaaay better than Leo/Aries. They are straight forward, blunt easily forgive and most important ARE FUN! Leo/Aries drama..game players boring.
Posted by 2BlackIndian3
Yep @bliss is right. Plus if they are being blunt aka Rude to you for no reason, you tell their azz to calm down. Don't let them disrespect you. Also sometimes, you gotta just walk away & ignore people like that. That hurts
them more than anything 😉. Continue being your sweet self K.
Yep... I had one get rude for no reason. She was arguing about something that happened a hour before. I pissed her off because as she was arguing, I was playing with her ponytail and acting like I didn't give a damn about what she was saying. She kept repeating the same thing over and over again. I just ignored her and walked off...
Posted by FrostAndBite
I used to not like sags because when I was a kid they'd always hurt my feelz. Now that I've grown up a little I fucking love them. They pick up on my verbal sadist/masochist vibe and dig my humor, which is not to popular with everyone else lol. I have grown to just 'get' them too the more I'm around them the past couple years.
Posted by crabberries
you know who's rude? Its the people in the registrars office! too unfriendly and not willing to help ,
Screw them! I think they drink that icky bottom shelf coffee substitute crap in the mornings on purpose, just so they'll be in a bad mood before they open their mouths.click to expand
Lol
Posted by LetltB
Sag women/men imo are the bomb and waaaaaaay better than Leo/Aries. They are straight forward, blunt easily forgive and most important ARE FUN! Leo/Aries drama..game players boring.
I like leo/aries.... They're more outspoken to me. More direct and they're very funny. I agree... Some of them are game players.... But I usually see through their bullshit...
Posted by lonelyscorpio
We were at work and I said hello, how are you, and then she rolled her eyes at me, and said something I
couldn't make out.
Oh dear, I do that a lot 😢😄
I want to give them an honest answer but when i arrive I'm usually hot and not too thrilled to be there so instead I'll throw out some sarcastic words and gestures.
@DMV...All I am saying is this: It doesn't matter whether she wanted the perfect hello or not. All she said was good morning, and I don't care what kind of mood you're in, if I say good morning to you, then a simple azz good morning back is all that's due. After all, I didn't get out of bed with you, and I damn sure didn't do anything to you, so don't take your frustrations out on me. Common courtesy is universal not conditional. Too many people use piss poor excuses for rudeness. I wake up in bad moods plenty of mornings, but when I leave my home, I leave my bad attitude right there! I'm the same with you today as I was yesterday and the day before, but it's okay for you to walk in today with your azz on your shoulder, tomorrow you walk in hehe hahaing, the next day your azz is back on your shoulders, and tomorrow you want to chit chat and be friendly. No Fucqin Thank You! I prefer you just not ever say anything else too me. You don't get to dictate with me when you want to be friendly and when you don't. The Burger King slogan "have it your way" doesn't work with me period...End of story!
Posted by Fox
Why is it I don't find sags = blunt/rude? lmao. Just passionate.
They're human beings and they'll have moments where they do not want to pretend they've got a rainbow shining out of their arses.
+1 !!!!! I'm Sag Rising and I definitely hear that I'm blunt / rude. There's not rude about reality or telling the truth. Sag are realists.
But they should be considerate of peoples feelings. Especially the ones who care about them. You don't always have to be blunt or whatever. But yeah sometimes you gotta put them in there place if they are being mean or blunt or whatever word lol. No one deserves to be talked to any kinda way. So OP, Don't be afraid to let your friend know you got feelings too.
I have had varying experiences with Sag women. My former best friend is a Sag and her selfish nature is deplorable. I can't deal with her??_ However, I have met other Sag women who are fun, loving, and a blast to be around??_.
Sag women aren't going to take anyone's shxt. The ones I know are super nice until you get on their bad side. With me... I put people on my bad side (or on thin ice) and make them work to get on my good side so they can see the nice side of me. lol backwards, I know. But I find that this method works perfectly. If people work hard for something, they'll appreciate the sweet reward. So when they receive the sweet reward, they know how hellacious the process was, and would NEVER want to go back to the bad side.
Now, one of my best friend's is a Sag, but she has Water all throughout her charts. She's Pisces rising, so she whines, cries and complains a lot. Takes offense to EVERY FXCKIN THING! She's definitely fun to party and hang out with though. She has a big heart.
Now, one of my best friend's is a Sag, but she has Water all throughout her charts. She's Pisces rising, so she whines, cries and complains a lot. Takes offense to EVERY FXCKIN THING! She's definitely fun to party and hang out with though. She has a big heart.
lmaooo YESS, Tyra told that bxtch to go back to her place ! I can't stand a snitch. And Tyra was correct, she was wrong for telling on that girl.
Ugh, I couldn't even watch that crap. Tyra is one smart chick with a big fat head and that bitchy diva routine has always been her bread and butter. The producers give her free rein and Sag's gonna ham it up to the hilt.
Give some Sagis an inch, and they'll take a mile.
Give some Sagis an inch, and they'll take a mile.
Posted by Mscorp
Naa all the sags I know IRL are neither blunt nor honest, they just have mouth diarrhoea and are loud mouthed. So frequently they forget to lie.They don't understand boundaries and so you have to confront them time and again.
in short they just don't know their asses from a hole in the ground.
Lmao +1
They never think before they talk, & I understand why the OP would feel that way because in my experience with my sag roommate she wasn't nice the first day she moved in. Imagine chilling on your bed then a person comes in & gives you a nasty look then says "what's wrong with you" , I was sooo shocked at the attitude I didn't even know how to respond to her & she had just met me & didn't even know me. Everyone can be rude & we all have bad days but there's really no excuse for such behaviour. Rolling your eyes at someone after they greet you is just rude. Normally if someone is just being nasty for no reason I just ignore them
Posted by PrettyQueenBee
Sag women aren't going to take anyone's shxt. The ones I know are super nice until you get on their bad side. With me... I put people on my bad side (or on thin ice) and make them work to get on my good side so they can see the nice side of me. lol backwards, I know. But I find that this method works perfectly. If people work hard for something, they'll appreciate the sweet reward. So when they receive the sweet reward, they know how hellacious the process was, and would NEVER want to go back to the bad side.
Now, one of my best friend's is a Sag, but she has Water all throughout her charts. She's Pisces rising, so she whines, cries and complains a lot. Takes offense to EVERY FXCKIN THING! She's definitely fun to party and hang out with though. She has a big heart.
I don't take shyt off anyone either, but I still treat people like I want to be treated and that's with kindness and courtesy and yet, I can still speak my mind without being fake. I've never kissed anyone's azz to get along with them or be their friend. Either you like me or you don't ...no games needed. If you have to do all that to get someone to see your nice side, then that's too much damn work for a stranger, and on that note, I wouldn't have ever gotten to know you because the minute you thought it woulda been cool for you to run off at the mouth, that would have been a sign that our relationship wouldn't have made it...LOL. Friendship is not that serious. I have several Sagg women in my family, three cousin and two nieces., and yes, one of my nieces thought it was cool to be blunt and nasty when she was younger, but when she realized no one else took bullshiggity either, she calmed her azz right on down. Especially when the same people she tried to trample on, dissed her azz when she genuinely needed them. In her case, karma was a biatch!
You can still be blunt and direct with tact...just direct nastiness toward the people that are nasty with you.
However, if that's who you truly are, then by all means do you. Just when the script is flipped and you're treated the same way, don't start whining like a fuqin toddler.
Posted by IrresistableScorp
Maybe she rolled her eyes because she was thinking: No its NOT a good morning. This morning SUCKS! And it has nothing to do with hurting you or making fun of you. Seriously--that might be what it is.
Well, the way I see it, if your azz can wake up in the morning and go to your job, then it's a damn good morning because your head is above ground and your blessed to even be able to get the fuq out of your bed and go to a job! Some folks are too sick or disabled to get out of bed and some folks don't have a job to go too, so why in the hell is your ungrateful azz in a bad mood? And again,what the fuq does that have to do with saying good morning to a co-worker? Like I said, she should have checked her azz immediately. That would have ended any further misunderstandings.
Posted by lonelyscorpio
I don' want to judge an entire group from just a few bad apples, but IME, they are rude. We were at work and I said hello, how are you, and then she rolled her eyes at me, and said something I
couldn't make out. Just too hot and cold, and extremely moody. One minute she can be very pleasant, and the life of the party, but then later become very distant and MEAN. The libra in my chart just wants everyone to get along, and I hate to feel that I've upset anyone. I just don't think they are my cup of tea. This coming from a scorpio sun, leo moon.
Just slap her and laugh.
works for me.
Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by lonelyscorpio
I don' want to judge an entire group from just a few bad apples, but IME, they are rude. We were at work and I said hello, how are you, and then she rolled her eyes at me, and said something I
couldn't make out. Just too hot and cold, and extremely moody. One minute she can be very pleasant, and the life of the party, but then later become very distant and MEAN. The libra in my chart just wants everyone to get along, and I hate to feel that I've upset anyone. I just don't think they are my cup of tea. This coming from a scorpio sun, leo moon.
Just slap her and laugh.
works for me.click to expand
true
I'm not going to read all the rest of the posts, I'll just say that the title of this post is % 100 true! Period. I have never encountered a group of loud and annoying group of women in all my life. Yeah, they belong in the Fire category! Their mouths are ALWAYS open(for all the wrong reasons). And what comes out of it is the selfish me, me, me crap and if there was ever a personification of a cookiemonster, it's them! Or Aries women, but not all of them are bad. Loud, annoying, and obnoxious!!! Yeah, they're definitely at the bottom of the twelve for me.
Posted by FrostAndBite
Scorpio be like 'so rude! So classless! So Sagittarius!'
Sagittarius be like, ''
Because their out doing their own thing instead of whining about other signs on the internet because their pride got a paper cut.
Pfft!!! Better than going out and sleeping with every guy they can and being as loud and annoying to anyone who will hear their screech sound of a voice! Oh yeah, but then again, I guess that's "going out there and doing their own thing"...
Posted by FrostAndBitePosted by SilverScorpioPosted by FrostAndBite
Scorpio be like 'so rude! So classless! So Sagittarius!'
Sagittarius be like, ''
Because their out doing their own thing instead of whining about other signs on the internet because their pride got a paper cut.
Pfft!!! Better than going out and sleeping with every guy they can and being as loud and annoying to anyone who will hear their screech sound of a voice! Oh yeah, but then again, I guess that's "going out there and doing their own thing"...
Moaning about an emotional paper cut is better than having some damn good sex?
Glad I don't live in your world.click to expand
damn good sex? No. Whoring out? Yes. Sad that simple insinuations are lost on you. Sag?
Posted by FrostAndBite
Scorpio be like 'so rude! So classless! So Sagittarius!'
Sagittarius be like, ''
Because their out doing their own thing instead of whining about other signs on the internet because their pride got a paper cut.
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Her rolling her eyes was uncalled for.
But I'm a Libra and even I can be borderline feral in the morning. I wouldn't roll my eyes at a coworker, but I'd probably monotonously drone out "morning", and if they're oblivious enough to start chattering about non-work essential things, just give them one-word responses until they bugger off.
There's never an excuse to be rude. But everyone I know knows that until 11am, I have the enthusiasm of a toilet seat.
But I'm a Libra and even I can be borderline feral in the morning. I wouldn't roll my eyes at a coworker, but I'd probably monotonously drone out "morning", and if they're oblivious enough to start chattering about non-work essential things, just give them one-word responses until they bugger off.
There's never an excuse to be rude. But everyone I know knows that until 11am, I have the enthusiasm of a toilet seat.
Posted by FrostAndBite
Scorpio be like 'so rude! So classless! So Sagittarius!'
Sagittarius be like, ''
Because their out doing their own thing instead of whining about other signs on the internet because their pride got a paper cut.
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