Trying to fall out of love w/Scorp man

Were in love with each other but he just isnt showing signs of letting go of his other situation. He's really making plans to live a double life. I really need want and deserve something to call my own. I have my first date with this Cap guy today and Im really excited. Ive been super busy, so Ive been on the dreaded dating site, thats how I met this Cap. We've been talking and video chatting for about a month, I really kind of like this guy. Hopefully all goes well 🙂 trying hard to move on and fall out of love and what better way then in the arms of another. lol Wish things could be different between my Scorp and I but he's in pure selfish mode. 😢

Other situation is always a problem LoL

Nothing can compare to the bond between a Cancer female and Scorpio male! Many scorpios won't commit to a relationship until things are in order in their life. So, that's probably why he is in selfish mode because he needs to put himself 1st right now so he can straighten things out. Continue to support him and be there for him, if the love you have for him is genuine. And caps and cancers are opposites so you probably won't have the same magnetic attraction with the Scorp but they say opposites attract! Best of luck to you!

Posted by Whatu
Wait, So now you are doing EXACTLY the same thing he did to you to the Cap guy. Nice one girl, You say the Scorpio is in love with you? Why would you not end your relationship with him before moving on to the Cap?

The Scorp lied to me, I found out he is engaged to someone else that he's been with for 7+ yrs thats why Im on a dating site. I tried to leave him but its hard when youre in love and the only thing thats making me unhappy is the fact he's in love with her and I. Im unwillingly sharing because he makes me happy in so many other ways but not at the capacity he is fully capable of because of the situation.

You should end it with him because he's a two-timing

piece of shit with no regard for anyone but himself.

I bet he even has you feeling sorry for him and his

dilemma!

Do your best to move on, and cut ties sooner rather

than later-- here's hoping your not trying to simply

make him jealous.

Good luck.

The lying on that magnitude would be it. He'd be done and dead to me. I'd probably let his fiance know I exist, too. Fuck the whole "beware making scorpio mad" stuff. When I'm pissed I take the whole ship down in flames.

Posted by Montgomery
You should end it with him because he's a two-timing

piece of shit with no regard for anyone but himself.

I bet he even has you feeling sorry for him and his

dilemma!

Do your best to move on, and cut ties sooner rather

than later-- here's hoping your not trying to simply

make him jealous.

Good luck.

Im definitely not trying to make him jealous. Thank you for the support. I did end it but I went right back 😢 Im usually good at walking away from undeserving lying cheating men but this one is so hard for me. i dont understand why, I really need to start praying for strength to leave.

The date was really nice and he's very affectionate (holding hands plenty of hugs and kisses) and ambitious, loved our conversation. 🙂

Posted by Arielle83
How's cap going to feel bout your scorpion love?

Ive told him about the situation, so far he's understanding. Him and I are just taking it slow and getting to know one another. He has things going on too, in a couple of weeks he will be going on a cruise with another woman for his birthday. It was pre planned, what Im trying to say is we're both walking in with similar baggage.