@QuiitePlausible
11 YearsSagittarius
Dark Knight; The scorpio man.
What Does a Scorpio Man's Behavior Signify in Relationships
A Scorpio man often values deep emotional connections and loyalty. His interactions may include close ex-partnerships or intense conversations, reflecting his passionate nature. Understanding his behavior involves recognizing his need for trust and emotional depth, which can influence how he engages with others and expresses his feelings.
Posted by peritwinkle
Are you quite plausibly a catfish?
I don't think fishes can type.
Posted by exoskeleton
a scorp "still close" to their ex might as well still be together with their ex.personally i would fade knowing someone else was in the picture.
figure out if you want a friendship or more with him, and take it from there with him.
I want his friendship. I am not pursing anything as I've said. What happened will happen.
Posted by peritwinkle
Are you quite plausibly a catfish?I don't think fishes can type.
Then who's on the Pisces board? 😉
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Ha Ha.. lirious.
Posted by Reincarnation
He is not interested.
Yeah, not now, but he was previously. 😢 Sucks. Oh well.
Posted by exoskeleton
hopefully you can handle being friends without indirectly trying to weasel into his heart, lol.
Lol, there is always that.
Posted by LadyOfRebirth
I thought this thread was going to be about the batman film..*exits disappointed*
I can do better.
I though a catfish was a sea food reference, I am completely lost.
Posted by QuiitePlausible
I though a catfish was a sea food reference, I am completely lost.What is your Sun and Moon sign?
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Sun; Gemini
Moon; Taurus
There is some conflict about my actual birthday though, I was adopted. I could be a Gemini or a Cancer.
Posted by QuiitePlausible
I want his friendship. I am not pursing anything as I've said....
Yet:
Posted by QuiitePlausible
Let's call him "Scorpio" as you help me wrap my head around this.After knowing this man from past to present. I am VERY interested...
...Before I was "Mi Amigo." I was the "HomeGirl." Did I upgrade to a fancier version of friend?
Posted by Reincarnation
He is not interested.Yeah, not now, but he was previously. 😢 Sucks. Oh well.
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Un huh....why the pretense?
Anyway, to answer the OP something happened between "Mi Amigo." and "My Lady"...the interest isn't there.
He is always keeping you at arms reach because of the ex. He is still invested in them, you will always be shut out until he moves on. Excuse me... IF he moves on. This means, stay friends, time will tell if you two are going to end up together.
It always sucks when someone else is in the picture, but that is life, we don't always get what we want...
Find another one 😉
Posted by Rabbit
Congrats on being the back burner girl.
Tears.
Posted by Impulsv
You wrote it like u wanted more than Freindship.
Reanalyse what u want. Who cares if u step up more on the friendship scale. A Freind is a Freind for a scorp.
In my experience with male scorps, 1 bad 1 good.... For the bad, a friend is an opportunity to screw or screw over.
Posted by QuiitePlausible
I want his friendship. I am not pursing anything as I've said....Yet:
Posted by QuiitePlausible
Let's call him "Scorpio" as you help me wrap my head around this.After knowing this man from past to present. I am VERY interested...
...Before I was "Mi Amigo." I was the "HomeGirl." Did I upgrade to a fancier version of friend?
Posted by Reincarnation
He is not interested.Yeah, not now, but he was previously. 😢 Sucks. Oh well.
Un huh....why the pretense?
Anyway, to answer the OP something happened between "Mi Amigo." and "My Lady"...the interest isn't there.
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Pretense because he showed interest, he said, "We complete each other so well." About a month ago.
Posted by tiziani
Have you two actually met in person?
Known him since high school.
Posted by Impulsv
You wrote it like u wanted more than Freindship.
Reanalyse what u want. Who cares if u step up more on the friendship scale. A Freind is a Freind for a scorp.In my experience with male scorps, 1 bad 1 good.... For the bad, a friend is an opportunity to screw or screw over.
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He is the good one
@Starlover
Thank you, but that is a singer, and Scorpio is actually very humorous, fun loving even.
Opps! she took the bait!
Posted by Astrobyn
Opps! she took the bait!
Are we talking about catfish
I thought this was about a scorpio?
Posted by Astrobyn
I thought this was about a scorpio?
It tis..but you mentioned seafood. lol
Posted by QuiitePlausible
@StarloverThank you, but that is a singer, and Scorpio is actually very humorous, fun loving even.
Singer?
Yes we are fun loving but very moody too at times
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Tinesha. I've seen him moody, I don't mind it particularly
Posted by QuiitePlausible
I though a catfish was a sea food reference, I am completely lost.What is your Sun and Moon sign?
Sun; Gemini
Moon; TaurusAre you the introverted Gemini type or the Gemini who chatters excessively?
That Moon sign is good for a Scorp. There could be chemistry.
Frankly - you should just tell him how you feel about him. He won't be shocked, since he's already two steps ahead of you. He intuitively already knows how you feel about him.
Women have frankly told me how they felt about me in the past and I wasn't offended. I gave them an honest answer.
Or maybe you just want to be a friend. Not sure why you want a Scorp as your friend that badly. Scorp men are lone wolves and it takes forever to get into their small circle. They prefer it that way.
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I don't see the purpose in telling him how I feel. Why? Would this be to settle my mind? What if he is feeling some type of way. Then what. I am all for me right now, and not anyone else.
I don't BADLY need his friendship, but I have known him for many moons, and he's always been there. He has always shown/had interest in me, as I have him. Things just never exploded into more. Life is what happened.
And he definitely is a lone wolf with many admirers🙂
I'm introverted.
@Rein
Thank you.
Posted by Reincarnation
He is not interested.
ditto
Update;
....Is he blatantly ignoring me.
I haven't spoken to Scorpio since Monday. Wednesday (5:00pm] I sent him a screenshot of his "Daily Horoscope." he asked where I'd gotten it from. I told him where. That was that. Later that day(11:30pm) I texted him saying,"Bored" No response.
SAME DAY at 12midnight.
On Instagram I posted a picture of me from earlier. It was borderline sexy, showing my face, and a little bit of boobage. He likes it commenting. "take this shit down." I text his phone asking "why?" He says "To much chest." I say "Really?"
(Any other time I text him ..silence..now he feels obligated to I guess..)
I black my chest out, and re-post it. "Better?" as the caption and tag him too... End result I take it down anyway because my phone deleted the original picture lol. Upon taking it down I send another text "Thank you for looking out for me"
He said "We're good. You're cool"
He can like all the pictures I post, comment on them, BUT won't utter a word to me directly.. -.- A while ago he did tell me he'd rather talk over the phone then text, but I've tried that. Last week I asked,' "Would you like to talk."
He said yes, but give me a second.. I'm still waiting -.- This irks me soo badly. Especially when one day he texts me, "How are you?" I say "Fine, and you?"
Still waiting to see how he is.... a week later..-.-
*Clearly Irritated.*
You are really pushing WAY too hard... give the man some space! Jeez.
@Hotbeefy
I'm not literally waiting. I'm being sarcastic...
@HeartLocket
I dont see how, I barely talk to him, nor do I say anything. I've talked him twice, and once was not talk.. Pushing him to do what. I cant make him do shit. lol. He's definitely changed my mind about who he is as an end result.
Posted by QuiitePlausible
both of my posts are fake. I just wanted a reaction. I'm doing a research paper 😉-Cassie
Just wanted to make sure this got around, and everyone got a chance to see it.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/astrology-is-an-opinon-5121306/#5121352
Posted by QuiitePlausible
@HotbeefyI'm not literally waiting. I'm being sarcastic...
@HeartLocket
I dont see how, I barely talk to him, nor do I say anything. I've talked him twice, and once was not talk.. Pushing him to do what. I cant make him do shit. lol. He's definitely changed my mind about who he is as an end result.
im gonna have to agree with heartlocket, you are doing a lot.. with no response from him
I would say to just back up from texting him. If hes interested he will text back.. at some point. Maybe he feels like you are coming on too strong and hence his no answer.
also, i think you taking your IG picture down bc he made the comment was a bad move. do what you want, you are not his girlfriend.. this may make him feel like he has some control. do you, and just leave him be for a bit.. if hes interested he will contact you
random: this title reminds me very much of a fictional story I wrote (novel size, more than 100,000 words) of Dark Knight and the main male character is very much a scorpio (even the way the dark romantized version of scorpio man is displayed in astrology!! SOOOO cool!) this was wayyyyyy before i got into astrology. I already knew before!! ^___^
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Let's call him "Scorpio" as you help me wrap my head around this.
After knowing this man from past to present. I am VERY interested,but in no way am I trying to pursue anything with him.
Scorpio and I talk here, and there. Some topics are rather intimate (I mean this in a non-sexual way) others are in depth. He is single, but he and an ex as of (May 2014) are still close. The ex posts recent pictures of them on her FB. He does not.
He does refer to her as "My Lady" when sharing video's of her dancing, but through a mutual friend who posts them.
Our conversing had gotten mighty bleak, and I was that "initiate it all" person for a few days, but I've backed up to let the natural flow of things take place. Especially after seeing "My Lady"
I make a GRAND post on FB about keeping up with who you care about, and he shares it; "Listen to Mi Amiga Chassidy." then after that he sends me a video message.
I send two back. One I was admittedly nervous, the second I cleaned up my fumbling, he watched both. No response to either.
Before I was "Mi Amigo." I was the "HomeGirl." Did I upgrade to a fancier version of friend?
I am mostly posting this because of a ridiculous dream I had about him. It tripped me into my feelings 😢 I feel silly.