Stung and Spun Out by Scorpio Man

Hahaha I appreciate the gifs and the reality checks, even the scorn. I've never had someone so softly, stealthily, turn me inside out. That's normally my MO. It's a great power, which I don't think he knows he can control. If he learns, he will be utterly devastating.

Posted by arietteheart2
Masturbating and crying blahaha

Lol. You're not right...

You're dodged a bullet. Be happy that he's gone. Shit, celebrate! I was in a relationship with a scorpio man. This is what it's like... Him: "fuck you!!! You dumb stupid bitch! Kiss my ass." Me: *yawns* after an hour later... Him: "I love you baby." Me: "you're a fucking nutcase." So, fuck him. Let him go.

@PhoenixRising

14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by thrownaway

I just needed to vent to some sympathetic (hopefully) strangers, a small break from masturbating...

😆!!! Venting here is better than masturbating?

Maybe she needed to switch it up and 'double click' a different mouse for awhile

@intheair

12 Years

OP, I like your style ...you are sprung & hooked.

@StarMooney

12 Years

Scorpios tend to trick people into believing they are the shit with their overconfidence and mind games. Once you tie them down and open them up, you realize why they had to play so many mind games in the first place-there's no real mystery or specialness to them. The sex? After consistent sex with them you realize that their sex gets stale and move on to the next best thing. This goes for the immature scorps. In the beginning stages my ex would peak all of my interests, but once I truly got to know him and spent QT with him, everything seemed so forced and scripted (like they were trying hard to fit into a certain mold) and it was then that I realized his overall image was all that was interesting about him. He tried way too hard and in this process, lost himself. I see similarities in unevolved scorps. It's like the smoke and mirrors the Wizard of Oz put up. Good luck to you.

Sex with a scorpio gets stale? Never heard of that.

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by thrownaway

I just needed to vent to some sympathetic (hopefully) strangers, a small break from masturbating...

😆!!! Venting here is better than masturbating?
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She ain't doing it right. ~shakes head in sadness~

@M143

12 Years1,000+ Posts

Aqua,

Lol. You don't entertain married men but you reply.

The best way to handle a Scorpio man... Don't reply.. positive or negative. NOTHING.

It will talk a lot than replying any words.

Why would you bother yourself if ain't get to your nerves.

Posted by MoonArtist

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by thrownaway

I just needed to vent to some sympathetic (hopefully) strangers, a small break from masturbating...

😆!!! Venting here is better than masturbating?

She ain't doing it right. ~shakes head in sadness~
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Lol

Posted by M143
Aqua,

Lol. You don't entertain married men but you reply.

The best way to handle a Scorpio man... Don't reply.. positive or negative. NOTHING.

It will talk a lot than replying any words.

Why would you bother yourself if ain't get to your nerves.

Not replying is the best way to handle anybody

@StarMooney

12 Years

Stale.

@PhoenixRising

14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by MoonArtist

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by thrownaway

I just needed to vent to some sympathetic (hopefully) strangers, a small break from masturbating...

😆!!! Venting here is better than masturbating?

She ain't doing it right. ~shakes head in sadness~
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This. I thought that was the saddest part of this gut wrenching soliloquy.

Posted by thrownaway
Did not believe in the myth of the Scorpio man until now.

I doubt he wants to be with me, especially because I'm in a relationship with someone else, but he threw those eyes at me and ruined me. Now he's gone, and didn't even give me the opportunity to taste, and I'm completely devastated.

I'm a strong, hyper-rational, not easily impressed woman, but he managed to strike me at my core, made me question everything with one look, made me contemplate what it would take to actually be with him (complete sublimation of my self, patient acceptance of behavior I would never put up with from my man), and then walked away.

I don't think he did this intentionally. I don't think he knows what's inside me. I feel like I've temporarily lost my mind. I never would have imagined something like this happening.

I just needed to vent to some sympathetic (hopefully) strangers, a small break from masturbating and crying.

I'm stuck at YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE. I feel sorry for the bastard too. smh
(no sympathy AT ALL)

Posted by Impulsv
Wait wait one look n he's being crucified lol

...and she has been thrownaway 😢

Posted by LetltB

Posted by thrownaway
Did not believe in the myth of the Scorpio man until now.

I doubt he wants to be with me, especially because I'm in a relationship with someone else, but he threw those eyes at me and ruined me. Now he's gone, and didn't even give me the opportunity to taste, and I'm completely devastated.

I'm a strong, hyper-rational, not easily impressed woman, but he managed to strike me at my core, made me question everything with one look, made me contemplate what it would take to actually be with him (complete sublimation of my self, patient acceptance of behavior I would never put up with from my man), and then walked away.

I don't think he did this intentionally. I don't think he knows what's inside me. I feel like I've temporarily lost my mind. I never would have imagined something like this happening.

I just needed to vent to some sympathetic (hopefully) strangers, a small break from masturbating and crying.

I'm stuck at YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE. I feel sorry for the bastard too. smh
(no sympathy AT ALL)
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Oh wow...lol smh

@nov13thscorp

14 Years

Posted by Noreallynow
You're dodged a bullet. Be happy that he's gone. Shit, celebrate! I was in a relationship with a scorpio man. This is what it's like... Him: "fuck you!!! You dumb stupid bitch! Kiss my ass." Me: *yawns* after an hour later... Him: "I love you baby." Me: "you're a fucking nutcase." So, fuck him. Let him go.

To clarify, I'm not looking for sympathy for what I'm about, since your scorn is justified, but from others who've experienced how suddenly a Scorpio can get inside your head.

All I was looking for was a one night stand. I didn't realize that sometimes these men don't offer that option.

Noreallynow and StarMooney, you're both probably right. How I know this is a sickness is that I know he's unsuitable, but I still can't stop imagining an alternative life, despite all the warning signs.

All this could have been prevented if he had followed through on his f me eyes.

Posted by thrownaway
...All I was looking for was a one night stand. I didn't realize that sometimes these men don't offer that option...

...All this could have been prevented if he had followed through on his f me eyes.

This is insulting to so many people on so many levels.

Posted by Andalusia

Posted by thrownaway
...All I was looking for was a one night stand. I didn't realize that sometimes these men don't offer that option...

...All this could have been prevented if he had followed through on his f me eyes.

This is insulting to so many people on so many levels.
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Explain please. Asking honestly.

Posted by thrownaway

All this could have been prevented if he had followed through on his f me eyes.

Honey, trust me, those eyes of his pierced through your soul and saw that black cold heart of yours.
What you perceive as "his f me eyes" was in reality f you player!! (bitch)

Maybe. If that were true though, I wouldn't be writing this. I would be comfortable with that, and it would be easy to move on.

I think there's something here, but I think he wants all or nothing, and I can't offer that.

Yah..ok troll, ya had me there for moment

Posted by thrownaway
Maybe. If that were true though, I wouldn't be writing this. I would be comfortable with that, and it would be easy to move on.

I think there's something here, but I think he wants all or nothing, and I can't offer that.

You saw that with one glance? Frick, now the 20 year old at the gas station probably thinks I want him all or nothing cause I was tired the other day and apparently gave him the look (So he tells Me anyway) Maybe I should go explain I don't want him all, I just wanted him to put my shit in a bag but was too tired to say... LMAO
Your a funny girl.

I am leaving a lot out here. This is not a random person I met once. This is an ongoing situation that I thought would come to a physical resolution after he gave me some clear indicators, but didn't.

Leaving a lot out only gives us here an opportunity to exercise our detective skills and analyze a situation. It would be my guess that anyone of us that have read this post so far have already analyzed and drawn conclusions.

I always wonder how close we all are in thought. Lol

That's true, I guess I meant it more like, I got hooked.

I was not aware of any Scorpio stereotype until this all started happening. I did not pursue him based on his sign, or any ideas of an easy lay. I was not aware of the Scorpio look or choosiness until after I landed on this forum a while back, looking for answers after the fact.

The night this happened, I thought he was giving me the green light, but I must have been wrong. That was not last night. I posted last night out of pure grief, because I missed him.

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by MoonArtist

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by thrownaway

I just needed to vent to some sympathetic (hopefully) strangers, a small break from masturbating...

😆!!! Venting here is better than masturbating?

She ain't doing it right. ~shakes head in sadness~

This. I thought that was the saddest part of this gut wrenching soliloquy.
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I know! Wasting that kind of intensity to hoard to oneself? tsk tsk tsk. Different strokes for different folks, I guess.

Posted by nov13thscorp

Posted by Noreallynow
You're dodged a bullet. Be happy that he's gone. Shit, celebrate! I was in a relationship with a scorpio man. This is what it's like... Him: "fuck you!!! You dumb stupid bitch! Kiss my ass." Me: *yawns* after an hour later... Him: "I love you baby." Me: "you're a fucking nutcase." So, fuck him. Let him go.

Posted by thrownaway
I am leaving a lot out here. This is not a random person I met once. This is an ongoing situation that I thought would come to a physical resolution after he gave me some clear indicators, but didn't.

What's your sign?

I think you WANT it to happen and you're projecting your sexual desire onto him. The reality is he didn't take the bait and now you're bent about it.

GEMINI!!!

...(?)

LIBRA!!!

....(?)

Yep, grandstanding.

Lol... it was pretty funny TS 😄

I think it has it's pro's and con's, doesn't it IS?

Posted by FrostAndBite

Can't decide if there's really this much delusion or just trolling.

I'm going with trolling...I can't imagine anyone being this dense, I just can't.

Posted by MoonArtist

Posted by thrownaway
I am leaving a lot out here. This is not a random person I met once. This is an ongoing situation that I thought would come to a physical resolution after he gave me some clear indicators, but didn't.

What's your sign?

I think you WANT it to happen and you're projecting your sexual desire onto him. The reality is he didn't take the bait and now you're bent about it.
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This is my worst fear. As I mentioned before, there are some things that make me think there's something actually here, but assuming you're right, that means that 1) I suddenly can't read men anymore, and 2) I'm letting my ego run the show over my logic, both of which are bad. I am going to try to focus on the idea that I'm projecting onto him. As much as it hurts, it's probably the smart choice.

As for my sign, I'm tempted to have you guys keep guessing. I'm atypical, I think.

CANCER!!!

...(?)

Posted by Andalusia
CANCER!!!

...(?)

Winner, winner, chicken dinner.

I guess not that atypical then.

@LunarMaiden

14 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by thrownaway
Did not believe in the myth of the Scorpio man until now.

I doubt he wants to be with me, especially because I'm in a relationship with someone else, but he threw those eyes at me and ruined me. Now he's gone, and didn't even give me the opportunity to taste, and I'm completely devastated.

I'm a strong, hyper-rational, not easily impressed woman, but he managed to strike me at my core, made me question everything with one look, made me contemplate what it would take to actually be with him (complete sublimation of my self, patient acceptance of behavior I would never put up with from my man), and then walked away.

I don't think he did this intentionally. I don't think he knows what's inside me. I feel like I've temporarily lost my mind. I never would have imagined something like this happening.

I just needed to vent to some sympathetic (hopefully) strangers, a small break from masturbating and crying.

Nope!
Every now and then the Universe will send an agent to test our character or push us on the right path.
Either you are a cheater or perhaps you are ready to move on from this relationship?

TBH, I wanted to say Cancer first.

I bet your chart looks like a mixture of Don's and bananananaonion's.

Shit....Well, you're going to feel a connection with him just because you're both water. I do think you've projected your wants and desires onto him and he's not reciprocating. It's not that he might not feel a sexual pull, but that he's not going to touch you with a 10 ft. pole because you're taken and he's not into cheap flings. Leave him alone, redirect your focus, shrug off the obsession.

Leo moon?

~snicker~

LM has a great point. What the experience does seem to show by action is that you are not totally committed to the one you are with. It may be the Universe's way to get you to wake up and smell the coffee, so to speak. I also got a sense of Low Self-Esteem or Self-Worth from you. Have you struggles with this in the past? Is there something in your current relationship that is causing this maybe?

Posted by LetltB
Leo moon?

~snicker~

~googles Leo moon~

Posted by MoonArtist
Shit....Well, you're going to feel a connection with him just because you're both water. I do think you've projected your wants and desires onto him and he's not reciprocating. It's not that he might not feel a sexual pull, but that he's not going to touch you with a 10 ft. pole because you're taken and he's not into cheap flings. Leave him alone, redirect your focus, shrug off the obsession.

Thank you for this. I think you're 100% right. I'm sure I'll be referring to this post repeatedly in the future, thank you for your compassion. At least the crying has stopped. The ...other stuff should wear off soon enough. 😉

With regards to issues with my relationship or self esteem, the best answer I can give is maybe. I know this is unpopular, but as I mentioned earlier, I am open to a one time thing. It's not something I'm actively chasing, and I have options that I'm not pursuing and don't intend to pursue.

I do not want to dissolve my relationship, and I don't think serial monogamy is any more virtuous, but I can say with certainty that I cannot and will not be _sexually_ faithful to one man for the rest of my life.

Posted by thrownaway
With regards to issues with my relationship or self esteem, the best answer I can give is maybe. I know this is unpopular, but as I mentioned earlier, I am open to a one time thing. It's not something I'm actively chasing, and I have options that I'm not pursuing and don't intend to pursue.

I do not want to dissolve my relationship, and I don't think serial monogamy is any more virtuous, but I can say with certainty that I cannot and will not be _sexually_ faithful to one man for the rest of my life.

Then have the RESPECT to tell the man you are with now ^^^^^and those in the future so THEY can make a choice to be with someone like you and your unpredictable behavior.