ur too damn expensive!!!!

broke ANOTHER freakin phone of mine!!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh $ 400 camera phone, 2 months old, 3 year contract, because, huh? Why?

jealous scorp, omg... "who's calling you, must be a guy that wants to ffff you!"

I can't afford you scorpios. U eat my $ $ $ up, and me, taurus, works hard & loyaly for it. Sure, we both are indulgent, & have tempers, but you will NEVER see a taurus break a pricy object.

k, ignore that rant, just me looking like a fool that i am still in this scene. just really needed to rant. Maybe other people relate?

This looks more and more unhealthy everytime you report...

time to break up with him and sue his ass

your mom's a tranny he was jealous of

harsh, bling. very harsh.

TG you must be a total hottie🙂

He breaks your cell phone...does he replace it? I would tell him he has to get you another one. That will make him think twice about breaking your phone. (PS, they do have cell phone insurance, ask your provider, and make him pay for that too)
If his issues are costing you, and he doesn't have the decency to understand that, he has no repect for you or your things, or your time and money. NG (no good) dump him immediately, he's not a keeper.

Er Taurusgoddess....

Hate to rain on your parade, but....

Someone who breaks your personal objects is being abusive.

There are checklists on the signs of the abusive partner, and this is one of them.

I don't care what sign the creep is...you don't deserve this.

Eaglegirl

It doesn't look good does it..really..

Hey TG,

Surely all what people say here makes sense. But what is the most important, what YOU want to do about that? Maybe then we can have a better answers.

Whether anyones blunt or not is beside the point, the decision lies with her..I am sure she can see signs of a destructive relationship. In the end she will do what SHE wants..regardless of what is said on the boards..as is the case with most situations..

I wrote more or less the same as Notso07 whilst she was typing it and JD wrote what I wrote whilst I was typing it!..rock on..

Its true..every day theres a new drama..It seems like you thrive on it..next time you report, he'll probably have whacked you around the head with a frying pan!..what then?..jesus..he sounds like a plonker..

Moving together is such a big step and not one to be taken lightly regardless of how much one loves each other..Aqua is right in saying that dating and living together is a totally different ball game..Whoever said "you don't know them till you live with them" had it bang on...YOU DON'T...I was with my guy for 3 year before I decided to take that step..and even when I did it wasn't what it was cut out to be..

Notso: "I can understand your perspective, but I'm not sure this works to the benefit of the couple if they are looking to get married."

I agree to some extent..on the one hand, couples living together sometimes delay marriage for as long as possible..as co-habiting is seen as the same thing. Living apart can increase the desire to get married and move in together..But living together does have some advantages..you suddenly have more money to spend at the end of the month...

LOL @ Notso...again I didn't see what you wrote..

So TG,

The real question is; What do YOU want to do now about this?

J😱 "but someones nature doesn't change with their living situation,"

I agree with this to an extent..as I believe at times it can do. However, If the guy has abusive tendencies, you would have seen the signs before moving in..if something as small as a phone call can trigger a violent reaction, that should flash a lightbulb over your head at some stage..Jealousy is sweet up to a point..if somebody faffs around like a headless chicken everytime a stressful situation arises, you should know what your getting yourself into..

Having done it once, I wouldn't ever dream of doing it again..until I am married..Then lay down the MM law and live happily ever after

In my opinion, I think it was waaaaaaaaaaay too soon to move across seven seas to be with a guy you've barely known...

🙂

Mmmmmm sounds like fun lol ... wait, he better pay for that!

Maybe if I was on your end I might walk away. In all honesty, I kinda like that destructive element a little... I had a libra who acted like that, super jealous, simmering yummy yummmm I LOVED it! It was like a rush to see his infuriated, simmering, piercing stare! Ooooooh phewwwwwwwww lol ... course, then again, it would never go anywhere... I'm sure that type of behavior can turn abusive...

You know, I'm not sure what exactly changed with me and my bf but I used to act that way too. Breaking material things was the least of it. Jealousy is sickening. I say you work it out asap or walk away because it is dangerous.
I hate relating to possessive and jealous bfs and gfs... every time one of my friends complains about it I feel like they're complaining about ME!
I'm not that way anymore. It's not that I've changed but rather that my partner has gained my trust, we've been together for a long time and he doesn't retort with 'i'm not a baby to have to...' anymore, whenever I want to know where he's at or something of the like. He understood that I'm not trying to restrict his freedom but ya I dunno... I'm not psycho... I've matured.

I don't know if it could really work between two stubborn people... I sense control issues.

well tg, you sure do have patience.... lol but i think you should do whatever makes you happy...and if he really isn't and you cant take it anymore...dont complain about it, fix it or leave it. (I know easier said then done, but at least you'll have you're life back)

because the way it seems...is you cant have friends at all...male forget about it and now even the females who like females, then again everyone can sit here and blame him, but also a little has a bit to do with how much you let him take of you and get away with. PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN GIRL