Violence

Have you ever known a person that simply made you crazy? Even though you may have just met this person they make you angry or make you want to dominate them. Now you dont know why they have this affect on you, but they just make you wanna beat them, i.e act aggresively to them? You hate them for making you feel this way and yet you cant stay away from them. The violence factor isnt because your like a bad person. Its just something about this particular person that just sets you off. Have you ever shared mars square pluto in synastry with a scorp?

Do you think this is just an excuse for a domestically violent person? Do you think this person is just violent to begin with?

Nevermind. I think its just my affect on men.

Ohhh goodness. Yes I am safe. I am touched by you asking. Its just...well you ever heard the expression..."the world isnt big enough?"

Its soo hard to explain the connection. Good friends but I dont know if I should take him seriously. A few weeks ago, he got sooo angry at me. I didnt think that I was ignoring him, but he got soooo mad. Now I know scorps can be jealous and extreme but we are friends. He cussed me out, told me shut the fuck up, he should be done with my ass, etc....I was shocked. Hes never talked that way to me before. I just think we are way too close. I mean Ive never had such a connection with a man before.

Its not that you dont like the person...its just like they cause these intense feelings in you. Its not like you want to hurt them, but you just wanna dominate and ...urghhh I guess its hard to explain.

As strange as it may sound it wasnt what he said. Weve been friends for a long time and we have a relationship where we just keep it real. We say whatever to each other. Its just the passion behind the words more so. Thats what caught me off guard.

Well, I was taking too long responding to him. I was taking like too many minutes to answer him back. I guess it built up over a couple of days because I picked up more work hours. Anyways, I asked him to hold on and he just snapped. I know he hates being ignored. He ignores me though as often as as long as he likes. He will even stop talking mid sentence and just go do something else. Then if I ignore him, he cant handle it.

This was on the phone. We are good friends. Ive known him for years. Weve always had a deep connection I cannot measure in words. We can finish each other sentences. We know each other so well on a spiritual level. If I think about him really hard he will contact me. I know if hes hurt. We are just way tooo close. We are only friends, nothing intimate, but just connected by a deep bond. He just engulfs me. I cannot describe it. Sometimes if I need him I can just tell him I need him and he will say..."I am here." We do not talk, we just know that the other one is one the other end of the phone. And then every now and then I will say...are u still here...and he will say ...yes.

He does not live with me. I have a bf....He is my good friend ive known for years. My bf and I both have all kinds of friends. We were honest about our friends that we had before our relationship. We have certain boundaries that we set that we are comfy with.

Adults ought to know how to use their words assertively to resolve conflict. Violent behavior is never an acceptable response.