wildflower
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Posted by thesimplemanyea actually, it is like that 😄 hahahaha like ok you're testing me, you must like me lolol loser
I feel like two Scorpios would appreciate each others mind games.
Like "Oh you're trying to fuck with my head??"
"I appreciate the gesture but please allow me to fuck with yours first 😇"


Posted by Brittnie*hugs*
Lmao you’re funny *hugs*
Posted by Emhendolmao dance away the pain, whats your sign?
My fuckin Scorpio told me I can't sing today.. Like, fuck outta her.. I got SOUL.
I just danced off the pain lmao
Love that bitch
Posted by NelsonSacramentowith all that Scorpio in your chart? You are MOST definitely complicated hahaha
Lol funny cause im not complicated at all
though I'm not open or going to chase anyone.

Posted by wildflowerPosted by Emhendolmao dance away the pain, whats your sign?
My fuckin Scorpio told me I can't sing today.. Like, fuck outta her.. I got SOUL.
I just danced off the pain lmao
Love that bitch
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Posted by wildflowerMaybe he got her to stalk your page. A scorpio literally told me that he told his friend to follow my account even though he himself wasn't following it before
PETTTTYYY AFFFFF
omg he's sooooo petty. We get into the pettiest discussions.
but I kinda like it.
ANYWAY
check this... some girl he follows just popped up that was creeping on my IG page. Fishy or nah?
LOL GFTOOOOO scorpio men

Posted by Emhendolmaooo I mean... Frank Ocean though... hahaPosted by wildflowerPosted by Emhendolmao dance away the pain, whats your sign?
My fuckin Scorpio told me I can't sing today.. Like, fuck outta her.. I got SOUL.
I just danced off the pain lmao
Love that bitch
Cancer..
I can sing though .. She just been listening to too much Frank Ocean or someshit.. I ain't on that nigga level but I*snap*Got*snap*It
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Posted by themilkyway36I would presume this but he follows me too and stalks the hell out of me lol (he lets it out here and there to where I know he is haha) so I don't see the point.Posted by wildflowerMaybe he got her to stalk your page. A scorpio literally told me that he told his friend to follow my account even though he himself wasn't following it before
PETTTTYYY AFFFFF
omg he's sooooo petty. We get into the pettiest discussions.
but I kinda like it.
ANYWAY
check this... some girl he follows just popped up that was creeping on my IG page. Fishy or nah?
LOL GFTOOOOO scorpio menclick to expand
Posted by SeleukosYa... I think we are able to envision people at their greatest and try to push them there. Well I do anyway. But I realized that I can't change anyone and my hopes for you aren't anything if they aren't hopes for yourself
The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.
Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
Posted by NelsonSacramentolmao I'll test youPosted by wildflower
As a Scorpio.. dating a Scorpio... I finally see the light. Holy shit, we are so complicated for no reason.
I see why we get so much hate now lmao *eyeroll*
Test me first 😂click to expand
Posted by LentoBull91We get better, I promise!!!!!!
I’ve said it before that Scorpios are always complicating things for no reason, especially when things are going well, sigh.


Posted by Seleukosthe few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.
Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.

Posted by Seleukosthey both made me sick to my stomach in different ways but this was pretty much the base of the problem ... for me, as I grew up under a very emotionally turbulent and dysfunctional mother I have very little tolerance for what I feel is a bunch of bsPosted by tctaoYeah, it's their fatal flaw.Posted by Seleukosthe few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.
Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.click to expand

Posted by Seleukosso true - I know the first type - not the second - lol - I guess it keeps things interesting in lifePosted by tctaoThere are gaga people for every sign out there.Posted by Seleukosthey both made me sick to my stomach in different ways but this was pretty much the base of the problem ... for me, as I grew up under a very emotionally turbulent and dysfunctional mother I have very little tolerance for what I feel is a bunch of bsPosted by tctaoYeah, it's their fatal flaw.Posted by Seleukosthe few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.
Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
that being said - I have only every known 2 - so I'm not totally biased - and plus my guard is always up with these types of people - never had a problem with a female Scorpio at all - guess it's just not in the cards for me
I currently have two Scorp friends in my circle of friends.
One always things he knows better and want's to explain how I should do things which lead to a couple of absurd situations like the one time I told him I solved a problem we had been talking about before and he went on 40 minutes monologue about how this problem should be solved, how weak I'm etc.
The other is so chill that he doesn't have problem with the fact that the women he is interested in is sleeping with other people while they were dating.click to expand
Posted by Seleukoswoah, he's like mePosted by tctaoI may have a brocrush on the second. 😄Posted by Seleukosso true - I know the first type - not the second - lol - I guess it keeps things interesting in lifePosted by tctaoThere are gaga people for every sign out there.Posted by Seleukosthey both made me sick to my stomach in different ways but this was pretty much the base of the problem ... for me, as I grew up under a very emotionally turbulent and dysfunctional mother I have very little tolerance for what I feel is a bunch of bsPosted by tctaoYeah, it's their fatal flaw.Posted by Seleukosthe few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.
Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
that being said - I have only every known 2 - so I'm not totally biased - and plus my guard is always up with these types of people - never had a problem with a female Scorpio at all - guess it's just not in the cards for me
I currently have two Scorp friends in my circle of friends.
One always things he knows better and want's to explain how I should do things which lead to a couple of absurd situations like the one time I told him I solved a problem we had been talking about before and he went on 40 minutes monologue about how this problem should be solved, how weak I'm etc.
The other is so chill that he doesn't have problem with the fact that the women he is interested in is sleeping with other people while they were dating.
He has a Libra moon and a triple conjunction of Mars/Venus/Jupiter in Sagittarius if you want to watch out for someone similiar. 😛click to expand
Posted by peachy06lol tru hahahaPosted by LentoBull91But a life without drama would suck though, we need that adrenaline and chaos to feel alive.
I’ve said it before that Scorpios are always complicating things for no reason, especially when things are going well, sigh.click to expand
Posted by DwellingOnMoveLibra and Sag. A lot of Libra, a lot of Sag lol
Taurus + Sag influences? pisces mooner?
i mean how come you notice it, come here and write about it? must be your chart.
Posted by tctaoboundaries? how? can you elaborate?Posted by Seleukosthe few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.
Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.click to expand

Posted by wildflowerHe would go off about things that were not so relevant to me and I told him after the first time that I didn't like that and he knew what he did because he was the one that admitted knowing that he was out of bounds and started to back off - but after several months and doing this several times he admitted that his first wife "had to get used to that" - meaning his outbursts.Posted by tctaoboundaries? how? can you elaborate?Posted by Seleukosthe few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.
Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
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Posted by tctaoOh I see... seems like you guys spoke different languages. He sounds temperamental though, aint nobody got time for that, gbye! Im glad you cut the guy off tbh. He sounds a bit nuts. Because even if you speak a different language, one must approach with the objective to understand and meet the person half way, not blow up.Posted by wildflowerHe would go off about things that were not so relevant to me and I told him after the first time that I didn't like that and he knew what he did because he was the one that admitted knowing that he was out of bounds and started to back off - but after several months and doing this several times he admitted that his first wife "had to get used to that" - meaning his outbursts.Posted by tctaoboundaries? how? can you elaborate?Posted by Seleukosthe few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.
Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
just curious
I can surely understand where someone was coming from whether it be a place of concern and/or caring - but the delivery is what I could not handle at all - he would be shouting at me and saying things like "do you know who I am" "who do you think you are" "what is wrong with you" .... etc.
I'm not sure what he would have done if I would have gone off on him at that point with my aries mercury mouth - telling him to get the fuck out of my face and don't let the door slam you on your big ass on the way out lol I just told him "this isn't working for me so I'm saying goodbye".
Hope that clarifys. Just in case, I am now heading out for the weekend to unplug. I will return on Monday to see if you have a response. Caoi~
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Posted by wildflower
PETTTTYYY AFFFFF
omg he's sooooo petty. We get into the pettiest discussions.
but I kinda like it.
ANYWAY
check this... some girl he follows just popped up that was creeping on my IG page. Fishy or nah?
LOL GFTOOOOO scorpio men
Posted by Seleukoslol.... wellll.....Posted by wildflowerHow do you handle that flaw if I may ask?Posted by Seleukoswoah, he's like mePosted by tctaoI may have a brocrush on the second. 😄Posted by Seleukosso true - I know the first type - not the second - lol - I guess it keeps things interesting in lifePosted by tctaoThere are gaga people for every sign out there.Posted by Seleukosthey both made me sick to my stomach in different ways but this was pretty much the base of the problem ... for me, as I grew up under a very emotionally turbulent and dysfunctional mother I have very little tolerance for what I feel is a bunch of bsPosted by tctaoYeah, it's their fatal flaw.Posted by Seleukosthe few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.
Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
that being said - I have only every known 2 - so I'm not totally biased - and plus my guard is always up with these types of people - never had a problem with a female Scorpio at all - guess it's just not in the cards for me
I currently have two Scorp friends in my circle of friends.
One always things he knows better and want's to explain how I should do things which lead to a couple of absurd situations like the one time I told him I solved a problem we had been talking about before and he went on 40 minutes monologue about how this problem should be solved, how weak I'm etc.
The other is so chill that he doesn't have problem with the fact that the women he is interested in is sleeping with other people while they were dating.
He has a Libra moon and a triple conjunction of Mars/Venus/Jupiter in Sagittarius if you want to watch out for someone similiar. 😛
Libra moon
Sag rising
Sag venus
Mars in libra though
Jupiter in cancer
I do care though... possessive, my fatal flaw.click to expand
Posted by peachy06I agree with you. I see all you see and struggle with trust. However, I'm learning that sometimes its easier to really go with the flow and hope for the best. Life is too lovely to miss out because you are over-protecting yourself and self-sabotaging. Trust that if not the person, at least something good will come out of it. A lesson, a transformation, something 🙂 its hard though.. I know.Posted by wildflowerHow do you all expect us to "respect boundaries" exactly ? Because we're well aware that as soon as we loose grip of that one person, they will cheat on us or something. You've got to understand that Scorps will never trust anybody, not even their own family, no matter what. We're full aware that we live in a world full of cheaters, liars and backstabbers. Even if we like someone, we will never trust them, ne-ver.Posted by tctaoboundaries? how? can you elaborate?Posted by Seleukosthe few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.
Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
just curiousclick to expand
Posted by SeleukosYou're right unfortunately.Posted by peachy06Understandable but the problem is how should the other person ever prove they areN't like they if the Scorp never gives them a chance by letting them go a bit?Posted by wildflowerHow do you all expect us to "respect boundaries" exactly ? Because we're well aware that as soon as we loose grip of that one person, they will cheat on us or something. You've got to understand that Scorps will never trust anybody, not even their own family, no matter what. We're full aware that we live in a world full of cheaters, liars and backstabbers. Even if we like someone, we will never trust them, ne-ver.Posted by tctaoboundaries? how? can you elaborate?Posted by Seleukosthe few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.
Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
just curious
It's a bit of self-fulfilling prophecy.click to expand
Posted by peachy06Yea, I know... I was thinking of that this morning.Posted by wildflowerYes, I've been for the past few years trying to "go with the flow", but I still can't completely let go of that habit. However, you've got to understand that for us trust is a huge deal because if broken, it would just fuck us up, and we will never trust anyone again. This is why we just can't. It's just too hard.Posted by peachy06I agree with you. I see all you see and struggle with trust. However, I'm learning that sometimes its easier to really go with the flow and hope for the best. Life is too lovely to miss out because you are over-protecting yourself and self-sabotaging. Trust that if not the person, at least something good will come out of it. A lesson, a transformation, something 🙂 its hard though.. I know.Posted by wildflowerHow do you all expect us to "respect boundaries" exactly ? Because we're well aware that as soon as we loose grip of that one person, they will cheat on us or something. You've got to understand that Scorps will never trust anybody, not even their own family, no matter what. We're full aware that we live in a world full of cheaters, liars and backstabbers. Even if we like someone, we will never trust them, ne-ver.Posted by tctaoboundaries? how? can you elaborate?Posted by Seleukosthe few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.
Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
just curiousclick to expand
Posted by SeleukosWhats your sign? Where do you have scorp placed? I have zero Cap placements lolPosted by wildflowerI think this is where my smaller Scorpio placements come into play because I agree completly.Posted by SeleukosYou're right unfortunately.Posted by peachy06Understandable but the problem is how should the other person ever prove they areN't like they if the Scorp never gives them a chance by letting them go a bit?Posted by wildflowerHow do you all expect us to "respect boundaries" exactly ? Because we're well aware that as soon as we loose grip of that one person, they will cheat on us or something. You've got to understand that Scorps will never trust anybody, not even their own family, no matter what. We're full aware that we live in a world full of cheaters, liars and backstabbers. Even if we like someone, we will never trust them, ne-ver.Posted by tctaoboundaries? how? can you elaborate?Posted by Seleukosthe few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.
Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
just curious
It's a bit of self-fulfilling prophecy.
Its a constant battle of the heart and mind.
I think the best approach is to stay positive and when Scorp gets confusing, just be positive and do nothing lol just wait and see what happens. If things are left on a good note, then it is not you but the Scorpio.
Unfortunately, we do play mind games.
I don't intentionally or with malicious intent but I am realizing that I do it too. I always want to gauge where the person is with me before I give more. I think it comes from a place that I know how much I can give, which is more than most people combined. Its to self protect but its also not fair to the person I'm getting to know. Sorry about that. For some reason, deep in my mind, I feel people just want to hurt me... because they have. I've been through the worst of the worst. Its hard to come out that and be so open and trusting that next time will be ok... so self-sabotaging happens. What I like from other people is just patience, time and understanding. As my trust for you grows, my need to gauge you dramatically minimizes as well. Because you have been honest, loyal and respectful of me. Its pretty simple really
I think people meet you and expect that you will love them and trust them right off the bat, based on first impressions. But how I see it is, how can you "love" me if you don't even know me? You've seen the good but not the bad, how can I know you will stick through it all? Before I give my all I need to know you, at the end of the day, will be there.
Its funny because a friend and i were talking about this same thing, and she was like I love you girl!!! and I was like lol thanks. But then I also told her how I feel about people telling me that and she first thought it came from a place of insecurity. Like people can't love me, I don't love myself. I was like Oh I love myself. No doubt. Of course, I can improve but I believe that in order for someone to love me, they must know me, fully. If they still feel that way for me after it all, then my walls come down and my loyalty is intact for you. It takes time. The people who have loved me through it all, I hold near and dear to my heart.
Or it's just that (r)Cap Venus.
Did you ever read Machiavelli?click to expand
Posted by Arkansassyyasss queeen
I'm perfect

Posted by wildflowerthat is true and that is why you have to wait to get to know someone - that didn't start until about a month and half into dating and talking daily - he was all up in the koolaid and sweet early on - but I was cautious and held back for a reason I didn't understand until that happened then a few times and then he went "poof" lolPosted by tctaoOh I see... seems like you guys spoke different languages. He sounds temperamental though, aint nobody got time for that, gbye! Im glad you cut the guy off tbh. He sounds a bit nuts. Because even if you speak a different language, one must approach with the objective to understand and meet the person half way, not blow up.Posted by wildflowerHe would go off about things that were not so relevant to me and I told him after the first time that I didn't like that and he knew what he did because he was the one that admitted knowing that he was out of bounds and started to back off - but after several months and doing this several times he admitted that his first wife "had to get used to that" - meaning his outbursts.Posted by tctaoboundaries? how? can you elaborate?Posted by Seleukosthe few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.
Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
just curious
I can surely understand where someone was coming from whether it be a place of concern and/or caring - but the delivery is what I could not handle at all - he would be shouting at me and saying things like "do you know who I am" "who do you think you are" "what is wrong with you" .... etc.
I'm not sure what he would have done if I would have gone off on him at that point with my aries mercury mouth - telling him to get the fuck out of my face and don't let the door slam you on your big ass on the way out lol I just told him "this isn't working for me so I'm saying goodbye".
Hope that clarifys. Just in case, I am now heading out for the weekend to unplug. I will return on Monday to see if you have a response. Caoi~
Although, I do blow up from time to time. My buttons must be pressed.click to expand

Posted by wildflowerLove this! Thanks for this quote, much needed and appreciated!Posted by peachy06I agree with you. I see all you see and struggle with trust. However, I'm learning that sometimes its easier to really go with the flow and hope for the best. Life is too lovely to miss out because you are over-protecting yourself and self-sabotaging. Trust that if not the person, at least something good will come out of it. A lesson, a transformation, something 🙂 its hard though.. I know.Posted by wildflowerHow do you all expect us to "respect boundaries" exactly ? Because we're well aware that as soon as we loose grip of that one person, they will cheat on us or something. You've got to understand that Scorps will never trust anybody, not even their own family, no matter what. We're full aware that we live in a world full of cheaters, liars and backstabbers. Even if we like someone, we will never trust them, ne-ver.Posted by tctaoboundaries? how? can you elaborate?Posted by Seleukosthe few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.
Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
just curiousclick to expand
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I see why we get so much hate now lmao *eyeroll*