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My fuckin Scorpio told me I can't sing today.. Like, fuck outta her.. I got SOUL.

I just danced off the pain lmao

Love that bitch
lmao dance away the pain, whats your sign?

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Cancer..

I can sing though .. She just been listening to too much Frank Ocean or someshit.. I ain't on that nigga level but I*snap*Got*snap*It
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PETTTTYYY AFFFFF

omg he's sooooo petty. We get into the pettiest discussions.

but I kinda like it.

ANYWAY

check this... some girl he follows just popped up that was creeping on my IG page. Fishy or nah?

LOL GFTOOOOO scorpio men
Maybe he got her to stalk your page. A scorpio literally told me that he told his friend to follow my account even though he himself wasn't following it before
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My fuckin Scorpio told me I can't sing today.. Like, fuck outta her.. I got SOUL.

I just danced off the pain lmao

Love that bitch
lmao dance away the pain, whats your sign?



Cancer..

I can sing though .. She just been listening to too much Frank Ocean or someshit.. I ain't on that nigga level but I*snap*Got*snap*It

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lmaooo I mean... Frank Ocean though... haha
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PETTTTYYY AFFFFF

omg he's sooooo petty. We get into the pettiest discussions.

but I kinda like it.

ANYWAY

check this... some girl he follows just popped up that was creeping on my IG page. Fishy or nah?

LOL GFTOOOOO scorpio men
Maybe he got her to stalk your page. A scorpio literally told me that he told his friend to follow my account even though he himself wasn't following it before
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I would presume this but he follows me too and stalks the hell out of me lol (he lets it out here and there to where I know he is haha) so I don't see the point.

I figure I won't make her relevant until or unless she pops up again. Then I'll just ask. He's been really solid overall so it could be some jealous hoe :-P
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The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.

Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
Ya... I think we are able to envision people at their greatest and try to push them there. Well I do anyway. But I realized that I can't change anyone and my hopes for you aren't anything if they aren't hopes for yourself
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I’ve said it before that Scorpios are always complicating things for no reason, especially when things are going well, sigh.
We get better, I promise!!!!!!

But yes, we are so difficult. So weird to see myself in a mirror with this Scorp.

I roll my eyes a lot now lol

Also---- I think if Taurus just once in a while caved in a reassured Scorp, things wouldn't over-complicate. Complicated - always. Over-complicated - not necessary haha
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The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.

Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
the few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
Yeah, it's their fatal flaw.
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they both made me sick to my stomach in different ways but this was pretty much the base of the problem ... for me, as I grew up under a very emotionally turbulent and dysfunctional mother I have very little tolerance for what I feel is a bunch of bs

that being said - I have only every known 2 - so I'm not totally biased - and plus my guard is always up with these types of people - never had a problem with a female Scorpio at all - guess it's just not in the cards for me
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The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.

Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
the few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
Yeah, it's their fatal flaw.
they both made me sick to my stomach in different ways but this was pretty much the base of the problem ... for me, as I grew up under a very emotionally turbulent and dysfunctional mother I have very little tolerance for what I feel is a bunch of bs

that being said - I have only every known 2 - so I'm not totally biased - and plus my guard is always up with these types of people - never had a problem with a female Scorpio at all - guess it's just not in the cards for me
There are gaga people for every sign out there.

I currently have two Scorp friends in my circle of friends.

One always things he knows better and want's to explain how I should do things which lead to a couple of absurd situations like the one time I told him I solved a problem we had been talking about before and he went on 40 minutes monologue about how this problem should be solved, how weak I'm etc.

The other is so chill that he doesn't have problem with the fact that the women he is interested in is sleeping with other people while they were dating.
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so true - I know the first type - not the second - lol - I guess it keeps things interesting in life
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The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.

Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
the few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
Yeah, it's their fatal flaw.
they both made me sick to my stomach in different ways but this was pretty much the base of the problem ... for me, as I grew up under a very emotionally turbulent and dysfunctional mother I have very little tolerance for what I feel is a bunch of bs

that being said - I have only every known 2 - so I'm not totally biased - and plus my guard is always up with these types of people - never had a problem with a female Scorpio at all - guess it's just not in the cards for me
There are gaga people for every sign out there.

I currently have two Scorp friends in my circle of friends.

One always things he knows better and want's to explain how I should do things which lead to a couple of absurd situations like the one time I told him I solved a problem we had been talking about before and he went on 40 minutes monologue about how this problem should be solved, how weak I'm etc.

The other is so chill that he doesn't have problem with the fact that the women he is interested in is sleeping with other people while they were dating.
so true - I know the first type - not the second - lol - I guess it keeps things interesting in life


I may have a brocrush on the second. 😄

He has a Libra moon and a triple conjunction of Mars/Venus/Jupiter in Sagittarius if you want to watch out for someone similiar. 😛
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woah, he's like me

Libra moon

Sag rising

Sag venus

Mars in libra though

Jupiter in cancer

I do care though... possessive, my fatal flaw.
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The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.

Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
the few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
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boundaries? how? can you elaborate?

just curious
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The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.

Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
the few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
boundaries? how? can you elaborate?

just curious
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He would go off about things that were not so relevant to me and I told him after the first time that I didn't like that and he knew what he did because he was the one that admitted knowing that he was out of bounds and started to back off - but after several months and doing this several times he admitted that his first wife "had to get used to that" - meaning his outbursts.

I can surely understand where someone was coming from whether it be a place of concern and/or caring - but the delivery is what I could not handle at all - he would be shouting at me and saying things like "do you know who I am" "who do you think you are" "what is wrong with you" .... etc.

I'm not sure what he would have done if I would have gone off on him at that point with my aries mercury mouth - telling him to get the fuck out of my face and don't let the door slam you on your big ass on the way out lol I just told him "this isn't working for me so I'm saying goodbye".

Hope that clarifys. Just in case, I am now heading out for the weekend to unplug. I will return on Monday to see if you have a response. Caoi~

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The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.

Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
the few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
boundaries? how? can you elaborate?

just curious
He would go off about things that were not so relevant to me and I told him after the first time that I didn't like that and he knew what he did because he was the one that admitted knowing that he was out of bounds and started to back off - but after several months and doing this several times he admitted that his first wife "had to get used to that" - meaning his outbursts.

I can surely understand where someone was coming from whether it be a place of concern and/or caring - but the delivery is what I could not handle at all - he would be shouting at me and saying things like "do you know who I am" "who do you think you are" "what is wrong with you" .... etc.

I'm not sure what he would have done if I would have gone off on him at that point with my aries mercury mouth - telling him to get the fuck out of my face and don't let the door slam you on your big ass on the way out lol I just told him "this isn't working for me so I'm saying goodbye".

Hope that clarifys. Just in case, I am now heading out for the weekend to unplug. I will return on Monday to see if you have a response. Caoi~

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Oh I see... seems like you guys spoke different languages. He sounds temperamental though, aint nobody got time for that, gbye! Im glad you cut the guy off tbh. He sounds a bit nuts. Because even if you speak a different language, one must approach with the objective to understand and meet the person half way, not blow up.

Although, I do blow up from time to time. My buttons must be pressed.
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PETTTTYYY AFFFFF

omg he's sooooo petty. We get into the pettiest discussions.

but I kinda like it.

ANYWAY

check this... some girl he follows just popped up that was creeping on my IG page. Fishy or nah?

LOL GFTOOOOO scorpio men


WAIT PEOPLE CAN SEE WHEN U STALK THEIR INSTAGRAM

OMFG WHERE HAVE I BEEN?

IM FUCKED. I DO THIS ALL THE TIME LOWKEY BC I THOUGHT I WAS SAFE
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The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.

Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
the few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
Yeah, it's their fatal flaw.
they both made me sick to my stomach in different ways but this was pretty much the base of the problem ... for me, as I grew up under a very emotionally turbulent and dysfunctional mother I have very little tolerance for what I feel is a bunch of bs

that being said - I have only every known 2 - so I'm not totally biased - and plus my guard is always up with these types of people - never had a problem with a female Scorpio at all - guess it's just not in the cards for me
There are gaga people for every sign out there.

I currently have two Scorp friends in my circle of friends.

One always things he knows better and want's to explain how I should do things which lead to a couple of absurd situations like the one time I told him I solved a problem we had been talking about before and he went on 40 minutes monologue about how this problem should be solved, how weak I'm etc.

The other is so chill that he doesn't have problem with the fact that the women he is interested in is sleeping with other people while they were dating.
so true - I know the first type - not the second - lol - I guess it keeps things interesting in life


I may have a brocrush on the second. 😄

He has a Libra moon and a triple conjunction of Mars/Venus/Jupiter in Sagittarius if you want to watch out for someone similiar. 😛
woah, he's like me

Libra moon

Sag rising

Sag venus

Mars in libra though

Jupiter in cancer

I do care though... possessive, my fatal flaw.
How do you handle that flaw if I may ask?
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lol.... wellll.....

I don't.

Either I want you 100 or not. If I don't want you 100, then I don't see myself wanting you 100, so whats the point?

I feel the relationships, that are too open leave room for freedom (which I love) but when I want someone, when they are my all and I theirs, I don't want that freedom anymore. I am devoted but I also look for that same devotion in return. I won't judge you if your way of love is different than mine, most important is loyalty and respect.

I feel like most want to be possessed tbh

They want to feel they are my entire world

Because when they think they're not, they spazz out. I've been in a lot of crazy relationships

I will also add that a have alot of libra and sag in m charts, I'm not crazy/obsessive/possessive, I would never be vindictive or revengeful (even though a thought could cross my mind, I would never take action) To me, it would devalue my own worth to myself. To stoop that low.... nah. My dignity and integrity is above all. I am able to be level headed and think outside of my egos and desires. My heart speaks loud though.
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The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.

Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
the few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
boundaries? how? can you elaborate?

just curious
How do you all expect us to "respect boundaries" exactly ? Because we're well aware that as soon as we loose grip of that one person, they will cheat on us or something. You've got to understand that Scorps will never trust anybody, not even their own family, no matter what. We're full aware that we live in a world full of cheaters, liars and backstabbers. Even if we like someone, we will never trust them, ne-ver.
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I agree with you. I see all you see and struggle with trust. However, I'm learning that sometimes its easier to really go with the flow and hope for the best. Life is too lovely to miss out because you are over-protecting yourself and self-sabotaging. Trust that if not the person, at least something good will come out of it. A lesson, a transformation, something 🙂 its hard though.. I know.
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The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.

Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
the few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
boundaries? how? can you elaborate?

just curious
How do you all expect us to "respect boundaries" exactly ? Because we're well aware that as soon as we loose grip of that one person, they will cheat on us or something. You've got to understand that Scorps will never trust anybody, not even their own family, no matter what. We're full aware that we live in a world full of cheaters, liars and backstabbers. Even if we like someone, we will never trust them, ne-ver.
Understandable but the problem is how should the other person ever prove they areN't like they if the Scorp never gives them a chance by letting them go a bit?

It's a bit of self-fulfilling prophecy.
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You're right unfortunately.

Its a constant battle of the heart and mind.

I think the best approach is to stay positive and when Scorp gets confusing, just be positive and do nothing lol just wait and see what happens. If things are left on a good note, then it is not you but the Scorpio.

Unfortunately, we do play mind games.

I don't intentionally or with malicious intent but I am realizing that I do it too. I always want to gauge where the person is with me before I give more. I think it comes from a place that I know how much I can give, which is more than most people combined. Its to self protect but its also not fair to the person I'm getting to know. Sorry about that. For some reason, deep in my mind, I feel people just want to hurt me... because they have. I've been through the worst of the worst. Its hard to come out that and be so open and trusting that next time will be ok... so self-sabotaging happens. What I like from other people is just patience, time and understanding. As my trust for you grows, my need to gauge you dramatically minimizes as well. Because you have been honest, loyal and respectful of me. Its pretty simple really

I think people meet you and expect that you will love them and trust them right off the bat, based on first impressions. But how I see it is, how can you "love" me if you don't even know me? You've seen the good but not the bad, how can I know you will stick through it all? Before I give my all I need to know you, at the end of the day, will be there.

Its funny because a friend and i were talking about this same thing, and she was like I love you girl!!! and I was like lol thanks. But then I also told her how I feel about people telling me that and she first thought it came from a place of insecurity. Like people can't love me, I don't love myself. I was like Oh I love myself. No doubt. Of course, I can improve but I believe that in order for someone to love me, they must know me, fully. If they still feel that way for me after it all, then my walls come down and my loyalty is intact for you. It takes time. The people who have loved me through it all, I hold near and dear to my heart.
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The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.

Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
the few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
boundaries? how? can you elaborate?

just curious
How do you all expect us to "respect boundaries" exactly ? Because we're well aware that as soon as we loose grip of that one person, they will cheat on us or something. You've got to understand that Scorps will never trust anybody, not even their own family, no matter what. We're full aware that we live in a world full of cheaters, liars and backstabbers. Even if we like someone, we will never trust them, ne-ver.
I agree with you. I see all you see and struggle with trust. However, I'm learning that sometimes its easier to really go with the flow and hope for the best. Life is too lovely to miss out because you are over-protecting yourself and self-sabotaging. Trust that if not the person, at least something good will come out of it. A lesson, a transformation, something 🙂 its hard though.. I know.
Yes, I've been for the past few years trying to "go with the flow", but I still can't completely let go of that habit. However, you've got to understand that for us trust is a huge deal because if broken, it would just fuck us up, and we will never trust anyone again. This is why we just can't. It's just too hard.
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Yea, I know... I was thinking of that this morning.

To be completely vulnerable, I was thinking how fragile I am right now and how I truly cannot handle another heartbreak and some of the pettiness Im experiencing with this Scorpio, although I do like him and all is pointing in a good direction, sometimes I'd rather just end it and avoid it all.

I don't even know how to fix that lol

At this point its definitely me with the problem.
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The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.

Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
the few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
boundaries? how? can you elaborate?

just curious
How do you all expect us to "respect boundaries" exactly ? Because we're well aware that as soon as we loose grip of that one person, they will cheat on us or something. You've got to understand that Scorps will never trust anybody, not even their own family, no matter what. We're full aware that we live in a world full of cheaters, liars and backstabbers. Even if we like someone, we will never trust them, ne-ver.
Understandable but the problem is how should the other person ever prove they areN't like they if the Scorp never gives them a chance by letting them go a bit?

It's a bit of self-fulfilling prophecy.
You're right unfortunately.

Its a constant battle of the heart and mind.

I think the best approach is to stay positive and when Scorp gets confusing, just be positive and do nothing lol just wait and see what happens. If things are left on a good note, then it is not you but the Scorpio.

Unfortunately, we do play mind games.

I don't intentionally or with malicious intent but I am realizing that I do it too. I always want to gauge where the person is with me before I give more. I think it comes from a place that I know how much I can give, which is more than most people combined. Its to self protect but its also not fair to the person I'm getting to know. Sorry about that. For some reason, deep in my mind, I feel people just want to hurt me... because they have. I've been through the worst of the worst. Its hard to come out that and be so open and trusting that next time will be ok... so self-sabotaging happens. What I like from other people is just patience, time and understanding. As my trust for you grows, my need to gauge you dramatically minimizes as well. Because you have been honest, loyal and respectful of me. Its pretty simple really

I think people meet you and expect that you will love them and trust them right off the bat, based on first impressions. But how I see it is, how can you "love" me if you don't even know me? You've seen the good but not the bad, how can I know you will stick through it all? Before I give my all I need to know you, at the end of the day, will be there.

Its funny because a friend and i were talking about this same thing, and she was like I love you girl!!! and I was like lol thanks. But then I also told her how I feel about people telling me that and she first thought it came from a place of insecurity. Like people can't love me, I don't love myself. I was like Oh I love myself. No doubt. Of course, I can improve but I believe that in order for someone to love me, they must know me, fully. If they still feel that way for me after it all, then my walls come down and my loyalty is intact for you. It takes time. The people who have loved me through it all, I hold near and dear to my heart.
I think this is where my smaller Scorpio placements come into play because I agree completly.

Or it's just that (r)Cap Venus.

Did you ever read Machiavelli?
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Whats your sign? Where do you have scorp placed? I have zero Cap placements lol

I haven't read Machiavelli but would love to, its on my list. Why the reference?
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The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.

Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
the few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
boundaries? how? can you elaborate?

just curious
He would go off about things that were not so relevant to me and I told him after the first time that I didn't like that and he knew what he did because he was the one that admitted knowing that he was out of bounds and started to back off - but after several months and doing this several times he admitted that his first wife "had to get used to that" - meaning his outbursts.

I can surely understand where someone was coming from whether it be a place of concern and/or caring - but the delivery is what I could not handle at all - he would be shouting at me and saying things like "do you know who I am" "who do you think you are" "what is wrong with you" .... etc.

I'm not sure what he would have done if I would have gone off on him at that point with my aries mercury mouth - telling him to get the fuck out of my face and don't let the door slam you on your big ass on the way out lol I just told him "this isn't working for me so I'm saying goodbye".

Hope that clarifys. Just in case, I am now heading out for the weekend to unplug. I will return on Monday to see if you have a response. Caoi~


Oh I see... seems like you guys spoke different languages. He sounds temperamental though, aint nobody got time for that, gbye! Im glad you cut the guy off tbh. He sounds a bit nuts. Because even if you speak a different language, one must approach with the objective to understand and meet the person half way, not blow up.

Although, I do blow up from time to time. My buttons must be pressed.
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that is true and that is why you have to wait to get to know someone - that didn't start until about a month and half into dating and talking daily - he was all up in the koolaid and sweet early on - but I was cautious and held back for a reason I didn't understand until that happened then a few times and then he went "poof" lol
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The only big negative aspects of Scorpio I can see is the need to control other persons.

Once they have learned to respect boundaries they are pretty chill and easy going.
the few Scorpio men I have know known had no interest in learning to respect boundaries - so I had to tell them I had no interest in continuing with them
boundaries? how? can you elaborate?

just curious
How do you all expect us to "respect boundaries" exactly ? Because we're well aware that as soon as we loose grip of that one person, they will cheat on us or something. You've got to understand that Scorps will never trust anybody, not even their own family, no matter what. We're full aware that we live in a world full of cheaters, liars and backstabbers. Even if we like someone, we will never trust them, ne-ver.
I agree with you. I see all you see and struggle with trust. However, I'm learning that sometimes its easier to really go with the flow and hope for the best. Life is too lovely to miss out because you are over-protecting yourself and self-sabotaging. Trust that if not the person, at least something good will come out of it. A lesson, a transformation, something 🙂 its hard though.. I know.
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Love this! Thanks for this quote, much needed and appreciated!
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Wildflower, how long have you and your scorp been dating? I’m a Scorpio F and have been dating a Scorpio M for about a year, and I have to agree we are so complicated. Lol I even get on my own nerves at this point bc I see how truly petty and game playing we can be. On the flip side, I love the shit out of him. He hates that I’m just as good (or even better which I’ll never hear him say aloud) at arguments and games which can cause for some nasty show downs with equally passionate make ups. He’s extremely bothered by my emotional stature and my say it like it is word vomit yet he’s the same way. Lol how do you find to keep the peace and make him feel less like youre trying to compete with him?
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7 Years

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Yes. You guys put your feelings hidden and then you bring it out on your loved ones. Sometimes your temper is what anyone cant handle. Also you bring up past allllllot. I dont think I can handle you. But I am with one scorpio who is a great women but also at the same time I hate :p

I just want to leave house sometimes but my love for her is sooooo deep I am not gonna meet a woman like her. She is caring and great advisor. My mother. I love her so much. :')