What does she mean?

Hello,

I don’t want to give specifics but in short I’ve reconnected with an ex who is a Scorpio. We’re not in a relationship, nothing physical has happened. We just talked and enjoyed each other’s company.

Sometimes I’m busy and Scorpio gets paranoid and suggests I avoid her but we always resolve the misunderstanding - until recently. She asked me a question that I didn’t answer, she asked if I avoided the question and I said yes and not to ask me why.

I just received a blunt message saying she can’t can’t play the game, didn’t want to cause disrespect but wished me the very best. Not heard from her since. What did I do? Is that the end? I’ve not replied, should I just leave it? I’m just perplexed by her reaction.

I’m a Libra.

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The thing about scorpios is we don't like being ignored and we don't like people hiding things from us.

Ignoring gives us to much time to think, and avoiding questions just makes our red flag radars start screaming.

Depending on the question it may have been better for you to just state straight out you didn't feel comfortable answering it, rather then ignoring her.

I'd just message her back apologizing and tell her it wasn't a game, just not something you were comfortable with.

Right, ok - thanks for the reply scorpio1108.

I said don’t ask me why, so I didn’t completely ignore her and then she sends that blunt message. I’m not sure if she wants me to contact her. Plus I thought she was rude for just cutting me off!

What was the question she asked that you didn't want to answer?

Posted by nikkistar
What was the question she asked that you didn't want to answer?

Yes! Fess up!

Posted by nikkistar
What was the question she asked that you didn't want to answer?

+1

I don’t want to give details, all I can say it was about taking the friendship somewhere else.

Can anyone give me some insight to what she might be thinking about the situation? Is she testing me to see if I retaliate or should I just respect her and walk away?

Posted by Lxbxa
I don’t want to give details, all I can say it was about taking the friendship somewhere else.

Can anyone give me some insight to what she might be thinking about the situation? Is she testing me to see if I retaliate or should I just respect her and walk away?

Not unless you tell us the question ...

Posted by Lxbxa
I don’t want to give details, all I can say it was about taking the friendship somewhere else.

Can anyone give me some insight to what she might be thinking about the situation? Is she testing me to see if I retaliate or should I just respect her and walk away?

Here is the problem. Without knowing the question to its full extent, we can't give us a better understanding of the level of severity the question was. Your response to a serious question, or not a serious question will give us more understanding to answer you.



However, from how you have responding in this thread thus far, it sounds like you have an inability to answer questions directly, and are passive aggressive about it. If this is how you normally communicate, vague or an inability to answer a direct question, than I wouldn't want to deal with you either.

I’m not meaning to be passive aggressive. Why do you think this? Maybe she thinks the same, is not my intention.

The reason I didn’t give specifics is because it’s very private. I have a hint, no? We were ex’s and now friends who can’t deny the chemistry anymore. We sometimes exchange pics and she asked if I only liked visual. Does that make it clear?!

*gave a hint - not have

Sounds like u gave her the wrong answer. Not what she wanted to hear. Next.

Sounds like she was wanting sex and you rejected her.... or a video... pic?

Something along those lines....

Lol. Scorpios and rejection.

Posted by Lxbxa
Hello,

I don’t want to give specifics but in short I’ve reconnected with an ex who is a Scorpio. We’re not in a relationship, nothing physical has happened. We just talked and enjoyed each other’s company.

Sometimes I’m busy and Scorpio gets paranoid and suggests I avoid her but we always resolve the misunderstanding - until recently. She asked me a question that I didn’t answer, she asked if I avoided the question and I said yes and not to ask me why.

I just received a blunt message saying she can’t can’t play the game, didn’t want to cause disrespect but wished me the very best. Not heard from her since. What did I do? Is that the end? I’ve not replied, should I just leave it? I’m just perplexed by her reaction.

I’m a Libra.

Why do Libras think it's an acceptable form of communication to ignore or avoid?

I'll give you a hint us other 11 signs do not agree! LOL If you don't want to talk about a topic then say that and if you care then state why you don't want to talk about it.

There's no way ignoring someone is a healthy way to deal with issues.

It's funny to me that you're so clueless and innocent in the equation. Like, "Guys, I just ignored her and now i don't understand why she doesn't want to talk to me."

Well because you ignored her and because you don't give her the consideration to answer her question or at least give her a reasonable explanation as to why you don't want to discuss it. WHen you ignore a topic then people think you're playing games because they think you're intentionally being vague. Which you kind of are.

Lol. I remember how I was internally panicking like this over a Scorpio 3 years ago when I joined dxp.

Posted by Lxbxa
I’m not meaning to be passive aggressive. Why do you think this? Maybe she thinks the same, is not my intention.

The reason I didn’t give specifics is because it’s very private. I have a hint, no? We were ex’s and now friends who can’t deny the chemistry anymore. We sometimes exchange pics and she asked if I only liked visual. Does that make it clear?!

This is more information then you have divulged thus far.

Either way, you still won't answer questions directly. It is either avoidance, or it seems you like to ghost her questions. You probably talk around questions, and don't answer the questions directly.

Wouldn't want to deal with you.

Dolluxxe - Can you share more on the scorpion and libra union? I like her but not gonna chase

You don’t need to know the question to give some insight on a Scorpio woman. I don’t feel to share explicit details as it’s unnecessary and some people had the intelligence to understand what the topic was.

Everything was good with us, we got along so well and brightens each other’s day. I’m not sure if I wanted to take the friendship somewhere physical. We’ve been going softly, gently for a while so I understand why she may have grown tired but to send a blunt message wishing me the best was harsh!

Oh well, I’ll miss her.