What does this Scorpio want?

I’ll try to make it as short as possible lol

I met a Scorpio man 4 years ago and he was my ex’s friend. We got close because we’d all hang out every weekend. But he always goes MIA. Even after my ex and I broke up we always kept in touch.

Fast forward to August of this year, I see him at a party after not seeing him for almost a year, it’s super casual. Then later on, he kisses me randomly and expresses how much he’s always liked me, and always wanted to be with me, and says he was jealous of my ex blah blah blah.

Next day, I ask him what he wants and if he really meant all that. He says yes, he says he wants to be together. We take it slow and talk everyday. I invite him out, he flakes. No call, no text to say he’s flaking, he just flaked. I get pissed but I forgive him, but now I’m iffy and I feel like he’s playing games.

I run into him at a bar, and he kisses me as soon as he sees me not caring that all my ex’s friends are there watching us. He tells me he wants to be with me and misses me and really likes me, but I’m hesitant cuz he started acting distant.

Weeks pass, he acts super distant and so I do the same. We’ll talk here and there but it’s back to casual friendly convos.

I invite him out again as my last attempt to show him I’m making an effort, and he flakes once again. So I stop talking to him.

3 weeks ago He invited me to his bday at a bar. I go, and say hi and talk to him for a bit and that’s all. I don’t try to get into deep convo. He keeps trying to be around me, and keep my distance because at this point Im trying to lose all my feelings for him.

A week later, we’re at a bar for another friends bday, and I say hi to him and that’s it. I keep my distance again, but my friend notices that he just keeps staring at me. I notice too but act like I don’t see him. He keeps trying to get close to me, or stand in the vicinity of where I’m at, but I just ignore him. That’s that.

Then suddenly, last night he texts me and asks “what are your thoughts of me currently, and be honest...” I answered “random. Honestly, I miss you, I still have feelings for you, and I wish what we had worked out, but at the same time, I’m not trying to fuck with you in that way anymore because I feel like you were playing games.” Of course he reads the message, but doesn’t respond. I asked him what he feels too, but no answer.

What’s up with this? Is this just a mind game he’s playing? Why would he just suddenly ask me this out of the blue? You think he still has feelings for me? Or is he just trying to make me not forget about him?

He’s a scorp sun and mercury, cap moon, Venus sag, and mars libra

When a post is created talking about that scorpio disappears or mental game is 100% insecurity. I admit it, I act in the same way. And the solution is to ignore scorpio (it does not always work, because Scorpio does not hurt to disappear or miss, nor does it worry about time, on the contrary it motivates it because in our heads is the enjoyment and the security that people come back to find us and if that does not happen, we forget)

Then there are scorpios that if they do not have another option they contact the woman again, as long as there are 2 options Scorpio is undecided and plays with the two people, if an option collapses, it will die with the one that remains.

sorry for my bad english

Posted by Gobby

Posted by 7s

Sag Venus.

Actually, his moon (emotionally distant or prudent) and Mars (indecisive) too...

This guy is a headfuck and, even after the relationship has been consummated, will continue being a headfuck. For a Taurus, you're not going to like it one bit. Hell, if you're that pissed off and confused, before getting sexual with him, think of how you'll feel after you finally do.

What to do next? Don't bother giving him anymore attention and move on. Believe me, I dated a Scorpio with these placements (but with a Libra Venus instead) and it was the same shit. They always want you to be around (on their terms, of course), but they won't take the plunge and always avoid simple, direct questions about the relationship...

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Oh gosh 🤦🏻‍♀️ Definitely moving on.

Posted by 7s

Sag Venus.

Not to be rude but it looks like youre homie hopping. Maybe your ex is reading his texts too.

Lol my ex stalks his IG 👀