What Drives Men ... by Steve Harvey (Page 2)

"what the hell does steve harvey know?"

He would have an opinion on what drives men, being one himself.

"Getting advice doesn't mean that a person doesn't have the ability to think for themselves (of course not), it means that they want to factor in other opinions insread of relentlessly relying on JUST what they think.

Your opinion is yours alone, but its good to be open to whats around you. "

I agree ... well said

"not at all. he balances affections and giving space very well. i find myself annoying to be honest 😐 i can be all lovey-dovey saying sweet nothings when i'm in the mood but when i feel restricted or even anticipate a potential restriction i would back down 10 steps. it's my problem not his. working on it lol."

I think that's more of a female Cappy reaction though

"his Juno is in pisces like you JD there is a reason he is still around. i think i behave very much pisces like nothing else exist but the person i'm covering with affection when i'm in lovey-lovey mood but the other side of me is independent aqua side so it's like a split personality. as to my cappy side, i think it does good more than bads."

Juno in Pisces? Cool. I just learned about that yesterday actually (See DXP is not all bad lol). It makes sense. I know the people closest to me all have moon in Pisces, no matter their sign. I now think it's not a coincidence.

"I've never heard of Juno sign, but it says mine is in Aquarius. Interesting. "

Here is what it says about Juno in Aqua ...

Juno in Aquarius:

You require a relationship that honors your need for personal freedom and individuality. You may experiment with unconventional forms of relating, such as open marriage or role reversals. Or you may choose to remain unattached, making friendship the basis for your close relationships, even if they include a sexual dimension.

"yep JD i read that Juno in aqua. but the pisces and scopios elements in my chart NEED to merge with another's soul to fulfil my existence so i'm tryint to work with my aqua side to understand the whole picture better lol."

Well that's the right attitude, I think. It's all about understanding in attempt to come term with yourself, then you'll know what works for you and want doesn't.

As for your Scorp I think he "Likes" as in really really "Adore" you ... could this be Luuuurve? lol ... All jokes aside Scorpios are not naturally the giving space type, however they can become like that when understanding, trust and love sets in.

A relationship is not impossible with strong aqua placements. Just like any other placements, you have to understand it to the best you can and see how you can arrange to get where you need to go in this life.

@USCTaurusGal

18 Years1,000+ Posts

Putting your emotional burden onto someone else is not fair to them nor will you find that completness you are searching for through them which is what will lead to the deceite/disapointment that you actually not knowingly created yourself by putting expectations on someone who did not agree to living up to them. The you feel decieved and resentful towards them when it really isn't there fault. They shouldn't have never been giving that emotional duty in the first place. Its no ones job to create your happiness and self worth."

WORD.

@ariesgirl402

18 Years1,000+ Posts

RH- "All jokes aside Scorpios are not naturally the giving space type, however they can become like that when understanding, trust and love sets in."- my scorp bf is not controlling at all and gives me way too much space to the point that sometimes i think he should ask me what i do during the day. if i'd so choose i could do anything and anyone i want. also, he isn't sex obsessed as everybody says scorps are. i have a friend who's libra with venus in scorp and she's very controlling and possesive and oversexed. maybe, it's a venus thing

"They shouldn't have never been giving that emotional duty in the first place."

I found that there is a direct connection between deception and expectation

"my scorp bf is not controlling at all and gives me way too much space to the point that sometimes i think he should ask me what i do during the day."

I wouldn't say that I'm controlling, I don't feel the need to own someone. However I like a dedicated woman and if you show dedication I'm good. If you're the flighty type, I may appear as possessive to you but at the end, if you're not there, I'll just stop the relationship. It's simply not my thing.

"i was not in love with them and with such aqua and water placements in my chart i just cannot stay without feeing in love."

That's the right thing to do. A partner deserves your best and if you feel that you can't give your all, not being in love with them, then leaving is certainly the right thing to do.

I agree ... well said

thank you ^_^.

A relationship is not impossible with strong aqua placements.

... 🙂

I don't think so either. Well, I hope not anyway lol

That's the right thing to do. A partner deserves your best and if you feel that you can't give your all, not being in love with them, then leaving is certainly the right thing to do.

*nods rapidly*