What's his deal?

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jesuiscait
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8 Years

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So, I've known this Scorpio guy for years. We went to high school together. I am a Virgo girl. He's always shown keen interest to me ever since then. Teasing me and such, but we were never really friends. Our social groups were just too different. Fast forward to 2015. He started to hit me up on a daily basis, manifested every single sign of a Scorpio guy trying to woo a girl. But I was too timid, I guess? No, I'd say that I was a little alarmed by how strongly he was coming on to me, and also very confused, because he never seemed to be able to say what he wanted to say directly. His initial approach had been very... sexually charged? That kind of made me wary of him, plus he was in a relationship. I confronted him about his relationship, and suddenly, I receive news that he's broken up with the girl a day after. That's when he truly started to pursue me. I really felt like a prey being hunted, and I was... I don't know, my instinct was to run from him. I didn't really want to, but his style was just too strong, too forceful, too demanding. This went on for months. By the end of the year, while I was on a vacation trip abroad, he hooked up with someone else, and I thought that was it. But it soon became obvious that it was a ploy to force me to get jealous and such. Because he's still chasing after me, despite my best efforts to avoid him. I don't even talk to him, but he's always watching out for me, trying to calm my anger towards him, trying to win me back? It's been 23 months. I'm not very happy about it, because it's exhausting and utterly confusing. He keeps saying that he wants me, that he loves me, but will only be with me behind closed doors? That's not really love, is it?

Last week, I removed all of my playlists on Spotify, which served as a channel for communication for almost a year, and I never expected that he'd get super upset. He was very, very sad about me cutting off our musical communication, then very angry. Like, he left me, so why can't he just stay gone? Why can't he let me move on with my life? =_=

I really don't know how to deal with my Scorpio guy anymore.