when a scorpio doesn't want to commit. Is it time to walk away?

I've been 'seeing' this scorpio for about 4 months now. I was leaving the country at the end of the year but now my plans have changed and I'm staying for the forseable future. We've talked about 'us' before and decided not to put a label on it, but then a few days later asks whats going on and that we are basically seeing each other so call it that. We've been away and have planned another trip with my friends (all his idea) We i asked what was going to happen now with us and he just replied with 'i don't want to be in a relationship' This he was told me from the beginning which I'm fine with only thing is we basically are, only difference is we'd meet each other families, which, to be honest, I'm in the rush to do, my family are crazy! We had a big fight about it because i said i at least wanted this is be going somewhere, we ended up in a fight and i made him leave.

We haven't spoken yet and I'm going to leave it about a week or two before i contact him but I'm so scared i've lost him. He says we wouldn't work because we fight so much but that he does;t want anyone else to have me. We do fight yes, I'm a gemini he's a scorpio, but we get on so well, the fights to me aren't as big to him.

Like i said I'm a gemini so i've probably already lost him for that reason alone, but if there is anything i can do, tell me please, how i play this next part is important, also silly to ask at the end of him not wanting a relationship, is it just me or is it really just because he got pretty brunt in the past.

I just don''t want to get used,be his 'thing' until he finds the girl he wants to be in a relationship with.

Any advice would be amazing, I'm a broken gemini, and it doesn't happen much!

What are his other placements like moon, Venus etc? I'm sorry that this happened but most scorpios stand in their truth and he said no relationship which means he most likely meant it. Some people like the fighting and drama that goes with it but my ex was so (Scorpio sun/Taurus moon)emotional that I walked on egg shells around him to keep him calm. If he's just pissed, he maybe back but if life caught up to him then it maybe time to but him in the rear view.

Posted by starlover
I feel for you 😢



You cannot change anyone....just be strong and talk to him. Tell him because you want different things, you will move on

It is good to read you don't want to be his *thing* until he finds someone else

I sense if you stay around any longer, you may get hurt



Good luck

xxx

I agree. It's hard for you, I understand. Astrology aside, men can be like this and it's all part of becoming mature about it. You deserve someone who loves you devotedly. I hope you find that person.