When in a situation like...

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Sc0rpyking89 on Sunday, November 4, 2012 and has 7 replies.

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@Sc0rpyking89
13 Years

Hi guys im a scorpio born oct 31st 😄, i was in a relationship for too long and i think i forgot what it was like to be a scorpio.. just a few questions.. And a problem..
what do you guys do when your hurt?
When you like someone, how does it feel?
Do you hand over trust easily?
When your inlove do you chase with all your might?

So my problem is im into a leo with a scorp moon.. I like her but somethings holding me back from asking and doing so.. Am i really that into her? or is it because i know its an answer i dont want to hear it that's why im holding back? Do you still ask even if the its rejection? What do you do when you receive mixed signals?..what do you scorps do if a even like this happens?

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16 Years1,000+ Posts

LOL I think I know what you mean by 'being in a relationship for too long'. As much as it sounds it is a faulty trait of ours, I think we can tell (as Scorpio) that we truly gave our most to make things work. In the end we realize... this is going NOwhere!

In terms of your feelings to the LEO lady... hm... doesn't look very promising.

I love Leos as my friends. I have absolutely no spark with them. I think you already know that you are not greatly attracted to her.

Also, don't rush. Take a breather and try to experience life as a single person for a while. You may have a clearer picture what you may wish in your next partner.

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@Sc0rpyking89
13 Years

Yea i dated a gemini for 4 year recently got out for a month and a half... It was not going anywhere.. I like the leo lol.. And i know when im attracted i pounce and sting.. But this time something is holding me back.. Maybe too much mixed signals or i really need a time off from relationships

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@Aramei
14 YearsScorpio

FUM...interesting perspective on the Leos. I have a Leo male friend who I was friends with for over a year. We both gave it a try at dating...like you said no spark. We are still great friends :-)

I was in an 11 year relationship and just recently met a Libra man who I fell hard for. Forgot to rein in my feelings and now I got hurt over it.

Just try to take things slow with the Leo.

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Posted by Sc0rpyking89
Hi guys im a scorpio born oct 31st 😄, i was in a relationship for too long and i think i forgot what it was like to be a scorpio.. just a few questions.. And a problem..
what do you guys do when your hurt?
When you like someone, how does it feel?
Do you hand over trust easily?
When your inlove do you chase with all your might?

So my problem is im into a leo with a scorp moon.. I like her but somethings holding me back from asking and doing so.. Am i really that into her? or is it because i know its an answer i dont want to hear it that's why im holding back? Do you still ask even if the its rejection? What do you do when you receive mixed signals?..what do you scorps do if a even like this happens?

I'm trying to understand how to answer your question(s)...and I am not being sarcastic at all when I type this. Here's why: You say you forget what it means to be a Scorpio as it relates to how you should be feeling, responding and acting about a situation that is uniquely yours. No one can tell you how you should be feeling, and better yet, if we did indulge you and tell you how we would feel (based on vague details) would that *snap* suddenly change how you actually feel? Let me indulge anyway....

what do you guys do when your hurt? Pout, scream, shout all by myself....
When you like someone, how does it feel? Amazing, exciting....
Do you hand over trust easily? No.
When your in love do you chase with all your might? No.

I'm wondering, has this help you get any closer to solving your dilemma?

I read your other thread on the Leo board and I think you ended it on a really good note--taking the time and space you need to get in touch with you and figure out what YOU want.

Perhaps you should be asking yourself these questions you posted and not here, but alone. Use the answers you find through that time alone to make better choices, grow up (not meant in a mean way) and (if you so choose) take you cuddly kitten in your arms and make this sh*t work already. Good luck!

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@MrFirebird
14 Years10,000+ Posts

"I think the name of this thread should be "I'm driving my leo nuts".

Seriously, based on your chart, *You* may be causing unecessary grief and she's just a bit tired of your butter.

I would suggest you check yourself. Make a promise to yourself that you'll stop the mindtreetrunkery and she may come back around and actually trust you again."

Ellesque has already suggested that you have yourself committed in your thread on the Leo forum.
I think that she would be very complacent about where you have yourself committed, but that's beside the point.
Who are you... REALLY—??