when scorpio likes someone they get shy?

and very nervous? i'm still on that same scorpio i spoke about a few months back, and still it's the same. i still can't figure her out. when i approached and talked to her finally, nothing's change. she's still nervous and when she would approach me about a project, same. yet from afar, she has no problem staring and letting me know. she doesn't even bother hiding it anymore that she's been staring at me. she would be talking to someone, and instead of looking at the person she's talking to, she's looking at me. and when someone asks her a question that she just talked after a few minutes, she couldn't give the answer because she's totally lost. other thing i notice is that when she talks to others, she's very confident, sometimes she'll be loud, don't know if she's trying to make me hear it. totally different when we are face to face.

is this how a scorpio acts when they like someone or this is how they act when they are just plainly uncomfortable with someone who they don't have feelings for?

another thing she would do is go around me and see what i'm doing. she's done this so many times.

I'm the same way...I can be very bold and confident, but as soon as I develope a liking for someone, or I get wind they like me...I am so stupidly shy...and I can't stand it.

Posted by ellessque
lol!

I remember you. She still being coy?

Talk to her silly girl!!! 😄 Ask her to lunch.

I don't know her but that is how I act if I like someone and am unsure if the feeling is mutual. If I don't like you, you pretty much know it without any guessing.

Hi Elle! I know you'd remember with all my questions! Lol

Yes, she still is unsure. There are days she's very confident, and there are days she gets nervous to the point she's shaking. I avoid looking when that happens because I don't want her to be embarrassed, but I notice it a lot.

Also we've been apart for months, and I was hoping that coming back to that same workplace, she'd already gotten passed her shyness and maybe I wont matter to her so she'll just open up to me like she is with the others.


How do you act when you don't like someone? Are you direct, do you tell them even when they are nice? Do you ignore them? Or do you still stare at them?

Posted by Prince_Pisces
Well in my experience, they are aggressive when they like you 🙂 LOL!

It seems they get aggresive once they know they have you LOL.

But my scorp was shy for awhile.. he was always unsure but he later hinted it was cause he couldn't believe I was talking to him and interested as much as he was. Than the testing began!

The men I know are very aggressive. They don't hold back. But this Scorpio woman, what she does is circle around me, and observe. Doesn't speak at all. She does engage and hold eye contact first for the longest time. It's so rare. She's not shy when it comes to that.

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Posted by Prince_Pisces
Well in my experience, they are aggressive when they like you 🙂 LOL!

It seems they get aggresive once they know they have you LOL.

But my scorp was shy for awhile.. he was always unsure but he later hinted it was cause he couldn't believe I was talking to him and interested as much as he was. Than the testing began!

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Awwwww . Thats the cutest thing ive read all day!

I'm that scorp girl to..I appear to be calm,cool, confident & collective and in most cases I am but when I'm around that special someone, around the one that just does it for me I become this shy,timid girl like if we are meeting for the first time all over again...I've been told its cute & refreshing cause it truly is genuine...I feel silly at times....I'm a grown woman but its something in that instance I can't help but be....

I'm a scorpio guy, for the first time i REALLY fell in love with 17 years, thats how much i got now... I'm confident when speaking with friends but when I'm around that girl i get so nervous and so shy that I almost explode, the feeling in stomach is almost unbearable. When i finally got to talk to girl there were a lot of awkward moments 😄, but the strongest weapon of scorpios are eyes, that stare that you call it, so by flerting i knew she likes me.

The scorpio guy that I am dating has his venus in scorpio and moon in cap / mars in sag .

I find him to be quite reserved around me , he does not really try physical contacts like touching my hands , or trying to kiss me . Although he has done this before (alcohol was involved) . He was not super flirty with me , although he would sometimes stare at me with a sly smile . I would always look away , it kinds of make me uncomfortable and I find it awkward when it lasts too long .

I end up taking initiatives when it comes to " where to eat " / " where to go " . To be honest , if I say that I definitely want to go to this restaurant he will say yes in a second . I have the feeling that he will really want to please me .I could even say jump and he will say "how high" ...

I like guys that are very kind but I also want him to take charge sometimes .. I don't want to have to do all the effort .

I just wish he would show or make it very clear that he likes me if he does .

In comparison I find mars in scorpio more aggressive , in the way you will KNOW if they like you . They will have no shame in admitting they want to have sex with you . I often feel they need physical contacts / being close to you a lot .

I have mercury in virgo , so I pay attention to detail a lot but sometimes , I just don't know , I need it to be obvious , rather than " read between the lines " . I don't want to assume things .

Or maybe he is just not that into me .

what's your experience ?

virgo sun fem

Mercury in virgo

Venus in leo

He did say that I seemed not "sentimental" or "emotional" , told him that I don't tend to miss my friends or family back home , even if I haven't seen them in a very long time.

Not the first time a scorpio has told me that , last one even told me I was cold and that I had no emotions .. which is quite the opposite . Especially when venus in leo takes over but it takes time for me.

However he did :

Walked me home in the rain / cold / wind - 25mn walk when he could just take the sub and get home faster. He even sent me a text 1h before this date to make sure I was still ok and still on for the date .

He got a bit upset when I didn't respond fast enough to that text , told me I was slow to answer .

Our date lasted 3 hours though and it was nice . But I need more otherwise I might get bored and just get detached .

When I'm really not interested in someone, I DGAF what I say/do around them. I'm super calculating around someone I like. So yeah, I could be described as quiet or shy at those times.

Posted by mooncancer
and very nervous? i'm still on that same scorpio i spoke about a few months back, and still it's the same. i still can't figure her out. when i approached and talked to her finally, nothing's change. she's still nervous and when she would approach me about a project, same. yet from afar, she has no problem staring and letting me know. she doesn't even bother hiding it anymore that she's been staring at me. she would be talking to someone, and instead of looking at the person she's talking to, she's looking at me. and when someone asks her a question that she just talked after a few minutes, she couldn't give the answer because she's totally lost. other thing i notice is that when she talks to others, she's very confident, sometimes she'll be loud, don't know if she's trying to make me hear it. totally different when we are face to face.

is this how a scorpio acts when they like someone or this is how they act when they are just plainly uncomfortable with someone who they don't have feelings for?

As a Scorpio woman ''YES'' we tend to hide, get shy and just keep it to ourselves; but i know it will be very obvious to that person if we like him/her. We tend to avoid people that we like because we don't want to look desperate to that person. I am confident when I'm around people that i know of- i tend to be loud not for attention/ to get someone attention. NO. it because we're comfortable to people who we hang out with but If I like the person then yes we're very uncomfortable in a good way 😉

give her time and just act cool.

I’m a Scorpio girl and when I like someone/sorta obsessed , I get very shy but I will stare . I shake and get nervous . If I have their # , I will text them after seeing them. But probably won’t have the courage to say anything when they are in front of me. But I will talk about everything to anyone else that’s there. I hate how we do that!! Can’t help it.

It really depends. I may be complete bashful and avoid them, or be truly vulnerable and shamelessly conquer them. No in-between!