When you get "tested" by a Scorpio

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How can you make them stop, if they know you love them? I went out with this Scorpio gal for awhile. Things started great, then out of nowhere she went quiet for a few days. Didn't think anything of it and gave her space. Few days later she messaged me that she needed time to "figure things out" like herself and needed to be by herself and said please don't be upset. I was disappointed but told her I respected her decision. Two weeks go by and all this time I just worked on myself. Lost a few lbs actually, trying to get my self confidence back. Been so stressed lately with work. I messaged her up, asking if we can meet in person. To my surprise, she agreed to meet for awhile. I told her my feelings, opened up and was honest that I wanted her. She said she wasn't ready for a relationship, that she's only looking for a fling?! She doesn't seem the type, she's very kind-hearted. I can tell she has trust issues. So because of that, I have a hard time believing she would sleep with someone she just met. We haven't slept together for the record. Wish we would. I told her I wasn't looking for a fling, I was looking for a relationship. She then brings up that because of her work, she might move! However she just signed a lease for a new apartment.

Ok from here I would think, shes not interested and trying to let me down gently! And that's what I believed for this past two weeks. But she keeps checking my social media. Yes there is one way you can check who views your stuff and I know she's doing it. But now she's stopped as of yesterday, it's like she's trying to ignore me now to get a reaction. Unfortunately it's working but I haven't said anything to her. What can I do please?
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Forgot to mention that she said she was going to be busy for awhile too. But most of the time, I see her chilling at home and walking her dog on her social media. So I don't get it. My friends are even puzzled that she agreed to meet that one day. She was afraid I was going to cut all contact with her, and told her I would never do that. She could possibly be seeing someone else but I don't get that vibe either. i really want this scorpio and will fight very hard for her if I have to. But don't want to come across creepy.
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Cancer2448
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On SC. if you create a story, it'll show later on who viewed your pictures. And I always see she's one of the first ones viewing the pictures. No offense as a Cancer, if I reject someone and I'm not into you, I won't feel tempted to look at any of your stuff. There was another Scorpio I dated two months ago. We both just stopped talking because we felt there was no spark. We're still friends on SC, insta, and FB but don't talk.
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Posted by Scorpio123
I'm getting a weird vibe that maybe she hasn't been too honest with you about some issues, that's why she's changing on everything she's said and saying and flaking out of the blue. Do you think there could be another guy in the picture?

Scorpios don't play the game if you've been open about your feelings with them, they'd open about theirs too.

I would cut all contact with her, she knows how to reach you right? If she wants more she will. I don't think she's testing you.


I have been cutting contact with her. We're still friends on FB and stuff. She was afraid I would cut her out completely but haven't. Haven't said anything to her since we last saw each other either and hugged instead of kiss.

@Epi what do you mean?
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Posted by Cancer2448
I would say I'm more attractive than her honestly, would normally not ever say that.She's very skinny and tall. Like no muscle or fat. I'm about 12 lbs heavier than what websites recommend but I've also lost 15 lbs the past month, been trying to get in better shape. But have a somewhat of a 4 pack showing.
OMG! You are MORE attractive then her?

She feels your crap and forget about her'

Stoopid animal!
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She's not interested.
I didn't know you are a woman!

Shut ta hell up girl...😉
Lol ?
Missed your crappy stupid emoricons!

Lol

Got some lately?

HAVE you read my post about that guy I saw who is my Scorps bday?

I am still wondering...

Wtf! Lol
Lol no I haven't seen the post lol
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Darn! That was classic! Will try to get you there
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Posted by EnochtheWise
Consider that:

1. She is probably just not that into you, and may just want friendship.

2. Checking social media does not mean she is testing you.

Your ego took a blow realizing the possibility of 1. You probably googled some astrology in desperation, or drew on the common stock of Scorpio lore, and now its not so bad because 'Aha! This is all just a test! Scorpios often do this!', cuz that hurts less and offers some hope. But most check social media for frivolous reasons all the time, just out of curiosity, for entertainment etc.

Other fish in the sea, many looking for the same thing you are. Dont waste your time.



This.
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She's not interested, unfortunately.

The only time I act that way you're describing is if there is someone else in the picture that I like a little more.

I don't think it's anything against you, but she doesn't want to hurt you so she's letting you down the easiest way she can..

Keep your head up.. Don't reach out.. If she see's you're not putting any effort she may wonder about you and reach out herself..



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She's not interested, unfortunately.

The only time I act that way you're describing is if there is someone else in the picture that I like a little more.

I don't think it's anything against you, but she doesn't want to hurt you so she's letting you down the easiest way she can..

Keep your head up.. Don't reach out.. If she see's you're not putting any effort she may wonder about you and reach out herself..





lol I thought that was obvious.
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lol I agree.. We are clingy af when we like someone.. and if they're putting in the work to "win" us also.. It's no stopping a scorp.. I act like her when I'm not interested... But I'm not mean so I let the other person down as nice as possible..
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She's not interested, unfortunately.

The only time I act that way you're describing is if there is someone else in the picture that I like a little more.

I don't think it's anything against you, but she doesn't want to hurt you so she's letting you down the easiest way she can..

Keep your head up.. Don't reach out.. If she see's you're not putting any effort she may wonder about you and reach out herself..





lol I thought that was obvious.
lol I agree.. We are clingy af when we like someone.. and if they're putting in the work to "win" us also.. It's no stopping a scorp.. I act like her when I'm not interested... But I'm not mean so I let the other person down as nice as possible..


Op should focus on another girl and slowly cut communication And attention to girl number one and see what happens. Lol
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I agree!!! Lol This girl may not be pleased when the attention is on another.. she may pop up, but not get back.. just to see if she still "got it" smh.. lol
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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by poison_ivy
She's not interested, unfortunately.

The only time I act that way you're describing is if there is someone else in the picture that I like a little more.

I don't think it's anything against you, but she doesn't want to hurt you so she's letting you down the easiest way she can..

Keep your head up.. Don't reach out.. If she see's you're not putting any effort she may wonder about you and reach out herself..





lol I thought that was obvious.
lol I agree.. We are clingy af when we like someone.. and if they're putting in the work to "win" us also.. It's no stopping a scorp.. I act like her when I'm not interested... But I'm not mean so I let the other person down as nice as possible..


Op should focus on another girl and slowly cut communication And attention to girl number one and see what happens. Lol
I agree!!! Lol This girl may not be pleased when the attention is on another.. she may pop up, but not get back.. just to see if she still "got it" smh.. lol
lol you know the saying.

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PREACH brothaaaa! 😄
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She's not interested, unfortunately.

The only time I act that way you're describing is if there is someone else in the picture that I like a little more.

I don't think it's anything against you, but she doesn't want to hurt you so she's letting you down the easiest way she can..

Keep your head up.. Don't reach out.. If she see's you're not putting any effort she may wonder about you and reach out herself..





lol I thought that was obvious.
lol I agree.. We are clingy af when we like someone.. and if they're putting in the work to "win" us also.. It's no stopping a scorp.. I act like her when I'm not interested... But I'm not mean so I let the other person down as nice as possible..


Op should focus on another girl and slowly cut communication And attention to girl number one and see what happens. Lol
I agree!!! Lol This girl may not be pleased when the attention is on another.. she may pop up, but not get back.. just to see if she still "got it" smh.. lol
lol you know the saying.

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PREACH brothaaaa! 😄
Lol it works
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It really does.. Which is why I move on with ease.. I know my worth is x's a trillion and most of my interest/exes ALWAYS pop back up whether it's days, months or years from the time we ended.. Never fails.. LOL!
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She's not interested, unfortunately.

The only time I act that way you're describing is if there is someone else in the picture that I like a little more.

I don't think it's anything against you, but she doesn't want to hurt you so she's letting you down the easiest way she can..

Keep your head up.. Don't reach out.. If she see's you're not putting any effort she may wonder about you and reach out herself..





lol I thought that was obvious.
lol I agree.. We are clingy af when we like someone.. and if they're putting in the work to "win" us also.. It's no stopping a scorp.. I act like her when I'm not interested... But I'm not mean so I let the other person down as nice as possible..


Op should focus on another girl and slowly cut communication And attention to girl number one and see what happens. Lol
I agree!!! Lol This girl may not be pleased when the attention is on another.. she may pop up, but not get back.. just to see if she still "got it" smh.. lol
lol you know the saying.

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PREACH brothaaaa! 😄
Lol it works
It really does.. Which is why I move on with ease.. I know my worth is x's a trillion and most of my interest/exes ALWAYS pop back up whether it's days, months or years from the time we ended.. Never fails.. LOL!
lol yep know your worth.

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