Why do Scorp men have trouble with I love You?

Why do Scorpio men have trouble with verbalizing how they feel? I have been involved with a scorp (off/on) for almost 5 years, the passion is very intense and the mental connection is outta the world but emotionally we have trouble communicating. When we do talk about feelings he always says he can't describe what it is we have together or if i make an assumption to how he feels he will say you're so right in so many ways. He has a very hard time with the 3 words "I love you" he says why would it matter to hear some words when i'm still around or he will say that he expects people to know how he feels after so long. I am an aqua and i too have a problem with being emotional but sometimes i need to hear the words to be reassured. We have been getting really close lately and he has said that he does trust me but my question is why is it so hard for him to verbalize his feelings? Any thoughts?

have you told him recently that you loved him?
If his actions tell you he loves you then maybe its not so important verbalizing it. I think men in general have problems saying those 3 words.

My Scorpio tells everyone he loves them. I wish he didn't use the words so much because the meaning of the words lose value when said all the time (in my opinion). I think this is not a Scorpio thing but moreso his Sag moon conj venus in 3rd house.

Whatis your guy's rising sign, moon, mars and venus sign? What houses are they in?

I think it is out of fear that they don't like revealing their innermost, deepest feelings. Fear that they will expose their vulnerability and give you power over them.

Or it could be upbringing. Or an afflicted moon sign.

"the passion is very intense and the mental connection is outta the world"
"When we do talk about feelings he always says he can't describe what it is we have together or if i make an assumption to how he feels he will say you're so right in so many ways."

"he says why would it matter to hear some words when i'm still around or he will say that he expects people to know how he feels after so long."
"why is it so hard for him to verbalize his feelings?"

He's male ... you are expecting him to be female. If his actions and the love he gives to you in passion, mental stimulation and intensity after 5 years is loving, nurturing, caring ... then accept that he's not going to be emotionally driven like a female, and cherish each moment.

What difference does it make if he says the words?

Actions speak louder than words, don't they?

My first husband used to beat the holy living fuck out of me, and then turn around tell me he loves me ... you figure that one out !!!!

Thank you, P_Pride ... he was a sick puppy, indeed.

Any man who has to beat a woman is a coward, for it proves they aren't man enough to stand up to another and so has to feel superiour because they think it makes them strong to be able to defeat a woman physically.

Equals = pussy

A scorp male can tell a scorp female "I love you" pretty easily... It actually might take the scorp female longer.

There is never an excuse for abuse....

## Why do Scorp men have trouble with " I love You"? ##

Scorp men? How about men of all signs.

Verbal communication of emotions is difficult for most men in general. You can't undo decades of male socialization at the pace you want.

Maybe he has trouble saying "I love you" because he doesn't love you yet!

Dur

Good point Scorpius... Good point...

Although they may not come straight out and say "I love you" They might say " I found myself almost telling you I love you" I got scared." But ofcourse this will probably only happen if the other person isn't on the same page... 😢

Sometimes people read too much into things. I'm guilty of that as well so I understand. But once in a while, the answer is just as simple as it looks. As a whole, Scorpios and most men are cautious with love. When you say that you love someone you are open for rejection and that can be hard to face when you invest time into someone. I'm not going to give you a cop out like "only time will tell" because, ultimately, you know how he is by now.

Consider the positive alternative. He may be one of those people who doesn't believe that saying something means something. He may prove his love to you by his actions. You'll have to look for those subtle clues he gives. We can joke all we want but sometimes men are just as deep or complex as women. I can tell you that it wouldn't be wise to force it or bring it up abruptly though. That wont give him the feeling of security and men need to be secure when they say they love you.

Well knowing you, I would be very afraid of saying that I didn't love you in his shoes.